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August 13, 2025 29 mins

This one’s for the self-aware baddies who can admit… yeah, I was the red flag at least once. We’re not blaming Mercury retrograde for our toxic relationships…. this time! Just owning the petty fights we started for fun, the situationships we stirred up, and the ex-boyfriend drama we may or may not have caused on purpose 😆


We’re talking dating disasters, cheating stories, and our official Red Flag Draft (yep, we literally drafted our worst traits like a fantasy football team). Plus, those “I healed 80% and said good enough” moments that never make it into relationship advice threads 🤷‍♀️


In this episode:

• The pettiest, most toxic things we’ve done… and owned

• Times we got called out and actually sat with it

• Starting arguments just to feel something

• Sending mixed signals on purpose

• The Red Flag Draft (drafting toxic traits, and yes, it’s as bad as it sounds lol) 🚩


If you’re here for messy stories, girl talk, and unfiltered conversations where we’re the villains in our own dating stories… press play.


Follow for more red flags in dating, bad decisions, and the healing we keep rescheduling 😘


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Timestamps:


2:46 – What’s the pettiest or most toxic thing you’ve done that you knew was wrong but did anyway?

12:53 – When did someone call you out and you actually had to sit with it?

20:03 – Have you ever started an argument just to feel something?

23:17 – Do you give off mixed signals? On purpose?

25:11 – Red Flag Draft 🚩

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