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[Don Mespelt]The budget shows up the leaks from thy
[Don Mespelt]purse and enables thee to stop them and
[Don Mespelt]control the expenditures for definite and gratifying purposes.
[ken ouellette]Oh, beautiful. Yep.
[Don Mespelt]Yeah. It shows thy leaks.
[ken ouellette]Wow. Shows thy leaks.
[Don Mespelt]I mean, that guy.
[ken ouellette]Yep. I've seen lots of budgets that are
[ken ouellette]leaking.
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[Don Mespelt]on to the show.
[ken ouellette]Well, good morning, Don. Good morning, Ken. Yes.
[ken ouellette]So we just had you know, we always
[ken ouellette]start with a little weather segment. Right?
[Don Mespelt]Because it's just kinda
[ken ouellette]segues. Pertinent. Yeah. It's pertinent. We've had we've
[ken ouellette]had six to eight inches of snow here
[ken ouellette]on the coast of of North Carolina.
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[Don Mespelt]Wow.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. Yeah. The kids kids kids got three
[ken ouellette]snow days.
[Don Mespelt]Does that happen often?
[ken ouellette]Basically never. So, like, once a decade.
[Don Mespelt]Yeah. Yeah. Well and on the flip side,
[Don Mespelt]we've had no rain in Oregon on the
[Don Mespelt]coast.
[ken ouellette]Well, it's coming.
[Don Mespelt]Well, yeah. That is. But I'm just saying
[Don Mespelt]it's kind of amazing how the the nature
[Don Mespelt]is nature is fickle.
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[ken ouellette]It is. It is. And today, we've got,
[ken ouellette]we got something new. We're gonna do a,
[ken ouellette]little book review. And for the listener that,
[ken ouellette]has not been allowing for every podcast, Don
[ken ouellette]is on his retirement journey. It's about to
[ken ouellette]wrap up in a year or two. And
[ken ouellette]so I gave Don a homework assignment of
[ken ouellette]a book to read. And that book is
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[ken ouellette]Don?
[Don Mespelt]That book is The Richest Man in Babylon
[Don Mespelt]by George s Clayson.
[ken ouellette]Yes. The for the listener that may not
[ken ouellette]have seen that in, on the Amazon top
[ken ouellette]ten list because it was written, what, nineteen
[ken ouellette]twenty six?
[Don Mespelt]Yeah. Yeah.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. It's a classic. It's a classic. But,
[ken ouellette]as we're gonna as we go into it,
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[ken ouellette]we dive into it, we're gonna see that
[ken ouellette]these principles have not changed.
[Don Mespelt]So I'm just gonna say it from a
[Don Mespelt]start point. He mentioned Ken mentioned that he
[Don Mespelt]Ken mentioned this book to me, and I'm
[Don Mespelt]like, I've never heard of it. I mean,
[Don Mespelt]you know, I was all in engineering junk
[Don Mespelt]in college, and and, you know, this is
[Don Mespelt]a money book. But it's not really a
[Don Mespelt]money book. It's actually kind of a life
[Don Mespelt]but it could be in two sections, like
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[Don Mespelt]the finance section, but also in the self
[Don Mespelt]help. Yeah. Yeah. Because, really, there's a lot
[Don Mespelt]of things I think that this could go
[Don Mespelt]into self help as well. But just to
[Don Mespelt]read off the back real quick, George s
[Don Mespelt]Clason wrote the collection of parables set in
[Don Mespelt]Babylon, ancient Babylon, and provided guidance to one's
[Don Mespelt]financial well-being. And one thing I didn't know
[Don Mespelt]as well is these guys at the US
[Don Mespelt]banks and insurance customers, they they created pamphlets
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[Don Mespelt]out of these because they they wanted to
[Don Mespelt]help people. And and so they actually had
[Don Mespelt]them in their air stores and stuff and
[Don Mespelt]his parables. And so they combined them all
[Don Mespelt]together to make this book. Yeah. And it
[Don Mespelt]was also during the Great Depression, which I
[Don Mespelt]found interesting. And people were trying to find
[Don Mespelt]anything to save and help and then try
[Don Mespelt]to better themselves during the Depression. And this
[Don Mespelt]is one of the books that, actually came
[Don Mespelt]through the whole thing as a success.
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[ken ouellette]Yeah. Yeah. I think, you know, the reason
[ken ouellette]I how I came across this book was
[ken ouellette]somebody slid it across my desk when I
[ken ouellette]first started. Said, listen. This is a this
[ken ouellette]book is what a it's not very many
[ken ouellette]pages. How many pages is it?
[Don Mespelt]Well, I was gonna say, though, they slid
[Don Mespelt]the clay tablet across because you started, like,
[Don Mespelt]that long ago. But, it's like a hundred
[Don Mespelt]and sixteen pages.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's like a hundred page
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[ken ouellette]book. It's a real simple read. You read
[ken ouellette]it in one evening. But it's got some
[ken ouellette]profound, timeless, little nuggets in there. And like
[ken ouellette]you said, you know, a lot of a
[ken ouellette]lot of finance crosses over into life. And
[ken ouellette]so that's why I think, this book is
[ken ouellette]really, really interesting for the listener to to
[ken ouellette]give it a chance.
[Don Mespelt]For the foreword, the very first line of
[Don Mespelt]the whole freaking book, I was like, well,
[Don Mespelt]that sets it up. And here's the line.
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[Don Mespelt]Our prosperity as a nation depends upon the
[Don Mespelt]personal financial prosperity of each of us as
[Don Mespelt]individuals. Wow. Doesn't that just sum it up?
[ken ouellette]Yeah. That sums up today, doesn't it?
[Don Mespelt]I mean, it is. It's like, wow. This
[Don Mespelt]is nineteen twenty seven. I just thought that
[Don Mespelt]was amazing.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. You you know, things things, history doesn't
[ken ouellette]repeat itself. It rhymes. And, and this book
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[ken ouellette]is really so let let's get into the
[ken ouellette]meat of the book.
[Don Mespelt]Well, he starts out, and he and he
[Don Mespelt]gives you a little, like, you know, seven
[Don Mespelt]pages of here's Babylon. It's great. It's beautiful.
[Don Mespelt]It's, you know, big walls, all that stuff.
[Don Mespelt]And then he starts out the very first
[Don Mespelt]one of his first one. And the thing
[Don Mespelt]is he talks in parables, which I thought,
[Don Mespelt]you know, a lot. You know, if you
[Don Mespelt]wanna help get your story across, people will
[Don Mespelt]take it more meaningful with parables. That's, you
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[Don Mespelt]know, Jesus. Yeah. Talked in parables too.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. So a parable just takes a a
[ken ouellette]complex subject and puts it into layman's terms
[ken ouellette]in a short little story that
[Don Mespelt]that Easy to understand.
[ken ouellette]That parallels the actual concept.
[Don Mespelt]So here, he starts it off with Banzir,
[Don Mespelt]the chariot builder of Babylon, and his friend.
[Don Mespelt]And he's sitting well, Banzir is sitting there
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[Don Mespelt]going, you know, I make a lot of
[Don Mespelt]money, but why am I still poor? I
[Don Mespelt]mean, I have to work every day. And
[Don Mespelt]then he comes up to his buddy who
[Don Mespelt]says, you know, I can't loan you any
[Don Mespelt]money because I don't got any myself. So
[Don Mespelt]they start talking about it, but and they
[Don Mespelt]say, well, let's go talk to Frankie over
[Don Mespelt]here, who's the well, it's actually Alcazar. He's
[Don Mespelt]the richest man in Babylon. So then they
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[Don Mespelt]go over and they start talking to him.
[ken ouellette]Okay. And he gets the wisdom. Right?
[Don Mespelt]Oh, yeah. He starts talking about, you know,
[Don Mespelt]how great it is that people wanna learn
[Don Mespelt]and and learn from him. And one of
[Don Mespelt]the biggest things he goes off of right
[Don Mespelt]then is just talking about well, out of
[Don Mespelt]every ten what's the word? Ten coins or
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[Don Mespelt]ten chuckles or Shuckles. What? Shuckles? Yeah. Yeah.
[Don Mespelt]You you know, you could spend nine, but
[Don Mespelt]put that tenth away. Don't touch.
[ken ouellette]Yes. And I think, you know, what we'll
[ken ouellette]try to do is take the principles of
[ken ouellette]the book and kinda put them in today's
[ken ouellette]terms. So what we like to deem that
[ken ouellette]is ten percent of your earnings, you should
[ken ouellette]pay yourself first. So just like you have
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[ken ouellette]an electric bill, just like you have a
[ken ouellette]mortgage payment, we try to get particularly younger
[ken ouellette]people to think of their retirement as a
[ken ouellette]bill that's gonna come due because it does.
[ken ouellette]And so you need to pay yourself that
[ken ouellette]first ten percent or that first shekel. At
[ken ouellette]one shekel out of ten, you need to
[ken ouellette]pay yourself.
[Don Mespelt]And and it Vance here goes, I I
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[Don Mespelt]wish an income that will keep flowing into
[Don Mespelt]my purse whether I sit upon the wall
[Don Mespelt]or travel to far lands.
[ken ouellette]Wow.
[Don Mespelt]That's a that's a dream for all of
[Don Mespelt]us.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. I would think.
[Don Mespelt]And that's when, the the, the man, Artzir
[Don Mespelt]and I'm I'm killing his name. That's why
[Don Mespelt]he says you should always keep a part
[Don Mespelt]of what you earn. You should always keep
[Don Mespelt]it yourself. And he coined the phrase, pay
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[Don Mespelt]yourself first.
[ken ouellette]There you go. See, it stuck. I read
[ken ouellette]that book thirty years ago, and here it
[ken ouellette]is. It said, just pay yourself first.
[Don Mespelt]But, I mean, I've heard that other places.
[Don Mespelt]It's just it's never been coined back to
[Don Mespelt]him, or I thought that's kinda impressive too.
[Don Mespelt]And then wealth grows whenever men exert energy.
[Don Mespelt]Wow. Arc Arcad.
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[ken ouellette]Alright. So
[Don Mespelt]These are just my highlights as I go
[Don Mespelt]through. I thought it was kinda fun. But
[Don Mespelt]pay yourself first, and that was one of
[Don Mespelt]the next quotes I really love. Wealth grows
[Don Mespelt]grows wherever men exert energy. Okay. And that's
[Don Mespelt]the truth. So I mean but it takes
[Don Mespelt]effort to put away that one shekel.
[ken ouellette]Yes. I would yeah. That's okay. It takes
[ken ouellette]energy.
[Don Mespelt]That's my thought. And then he goes off
[Don Mespelt]and says, okay. When he was young, he
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[Don Mespelt]actually paid, that well, this all changed around
[Don Mespelt]to Joey, the, brick builder. He gave him
[Don Mespelt]some money to go over to the next
[Don Mespelt]town and buy some diamonds.
[ken ouellette]Okay.
[Don Mespelt]Unfortunately, Joey, the brick builder, didn't know what
[Don Mespelt]he was doing. And so he, he came
[Don Mespelt]back with some glass, and he got he
[Don Mespelt]got frauded. So he lost all of his
[Don Mespelt]shackles that he saved.
[ken ouellette]So the the parable there is telling you
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[ken ouellette]be very mindful of the ten percent that
[ken ouellette]you provide and who you provide it to.
[ken ouellette]Vet that person to make sure that they
[ken ouellette]are going to do well by the monies
[ken ouellette]that you save.
[Don Mespelt]Yeah. And and then the coins, how he
[Don Mespelt]has it in his little book too is
[Don Mespelt]guide your treasures.
[ken ouellette]Guide your treasures.
[Don Mespelt]Guard your treasures.
[ken ouellette]Guard your treasures. Excellent. So don't be maybe
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[ken ouellette]in today's terms, don't try to hit home
[ken ouellette]runs. Don't try to be too speculative. Don't
[ken ouellette]try to catch the latest fad or or
[ken ouellette]investing craze, but guard your treasure. I like
[ken ouellette]that.
[Don Mespelt]Yeah. And and then he goes off, and
[Don Mespelt]I I jumped ahead that one because I
[Don Mespelt]was kinda excited because I thought that was
[Don Mespelt]pretty funny how we paid some dude to
[Don Mespelt]that doesn't know anything about diamonds to go
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[Don Mespelt]get diamonds. And that's a true story in
[Don Mespelt]today's world with all the people clumps. Say,
[Don Mespelt]hey. Do I have a deal for you?
[ken ouellette]Yes.
[Don Mespelt]Yeah. So one of the next ones
[ken ouellette]good. Yeah.
[Don Mespelt]How's it going? I'm sorry.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. You have to do this now, or
[ken ouellette]you're gonna miss out on this opportunity. That's
[ken ouellette]usually
[Don Mespelt]the reason.
[ken ouellette]Yes. The fear of missing out. Excellent. Yeah.
[Don Mespelt]Yeah. So, and then he goes off the
[Don Mespelt]second one he really says after he says
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[Don Mespelt]you pay yourself. He says, get a budget.
[Don Mespelt]Nice. So and he says, control your expenses,
[Don Mespelt]and do not confuse the necessary expenses with
[Don Mespelt]thy desires.
[ken ouellette]Oh my goodness. That's a good one in
[ken ouellette]today's society, isn't it?
[Don Mespelt]Yeah. Well, isn't that the truth, though? I
[Don Mespelt]mean, it's just yeah. It it's crazy how
[Don Mespelt]this is nineteen twenty. Well, it's money. Right.
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[Don Mespelt]And even as they pointed out, this is,
[Don Mespelt]because this is what he said Babylon was,
[Don Mespelt]like, you know, two thousand years before this
[Don Mespelt]and everything else. And even in Babylon, two
[Don Mespelt]thousand years ago, money is money. And you
[Don Mespelt]have to know how to control it and
[Don Mespelt]make your little your dollars work for you.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. And it it the budget thing is
[ken ouellette]important because if you don't have the if
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[ken ouellette]you don't start with the budget, it becomes
[ken ouellette]difficult to pay yourself the ten percent first
[ken ouellette]because you don't know where all of your
[ken ouellette]money is going. So So a lot of
[ken ouellette]people will have the conversation with, particularly younger
[ken ouellette]people. Well, things are very expensive now. I
[ken ouellette]just don't have money to put away from
[ken ouellette]myself, or I can't I hear that one.
[ken ouellette]X out my four zero one k, or
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[ken ouellette]I can't even do the company match if
[ken ouellette]it's five percent. I I can only do
[ken ouellette]two or three percent. Well, if you start
[ken ouellette]with a budget, there's gonna be places in
[ken ouellette]that budget where you're gonna be able to
[ken ouellette]find an additional two or three or four
[ken ouellette]percent. Now it may be may be something
[ken ouellette]that you're used to doing. You know, it
[ken ouellette]might be making your own coffee versus buying
[ken ouellette]coffee.
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[Don Mespelt]It might
[ken ouellette]be, you know, cooking dinner more often than
[ken ouellette]going out. It might be there might be
[ken ouellette]some forms of, discipline that you're gonna have
[ken ouellette]to do, but in the end, your that
[ken ouellette]that bill's coming, so we need to carve
[ken ouellette]out a space for that ten percent.
[Don Mespelt]His bow his, quote is, the budget shows
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[Don Mespelt]up the leaks from thy purse and enables
[Don Mespelt]thee to stop them and control the expenditures
[Don Mespelt]for definite and gratifying purposes.
[ken ouellette]Oh, beautiful. Yep.
[Don Mespelt]Yeah. It shows thy leaks.
[ken ouellette]Wow. Shows thy leaks.
[Don Mespelt]I mean, that guy.
[ken ouellette]Yep. I've seen lots of budgets that are
[ken ouellette]leaking.
[Don Mespelt]So when I was talking about, giving it
[Don Mespelt]to, Jimmy Joan, the, these are just fictional
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[Don Mespelt]names I'm throwing out, of course, not to
[Don Mespelt]offend anyone. But Jimmy, the, the brickmaker, that's
[Don Mespelt]what this one is. The next one is
[Don Mespelt]this. He says, make thy gold multiply.
[ken ouellette]Make thy gold multiply. And that's a good
[ken ouellette]one too. So we have seen throughout history,
[ken ouellette]sometimes people confuse, safety with with lack you
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[ken ouellette]know, or or not getting purchasing power. So
[ken ouellette]they're trying to they're trying to be very
[ken ouellette]safe and conservative with their money, but it
[ken ouellette]doesn't grow, keep pace with inflation. You have
[ken ouellette]to have some form of multiplier in there.
[Don Mespelt]So he, he talks about this whole section
[Don Mespelt]is about having a lean purse, which is
[Don Mespelt]a great way of saying that I'm broke.
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[Don Mespelt]Yeah. Yeah. So his his his lean purse,
[Don Mespelt]he says, for a lean purse to a
[Don Mespelt]man no longer able to earn or to
[Don Mespelt]a family without its head is a sore
[Don Mespelt]tragedy. It's just like, wow. This guy. Man.
[Don Mespelt]But he he puts it straightforward. It's it's
[Don Mespelt]such a great way of doing it, I
[Don Mespelt]think. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, and then, another
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[Don Mespelt]one that he talks about with investments was
[Don Mespelt]talking about, the sheep dude. This guy comes
[Don Mespelt]up with a bunch of sheep, middle of
[Don Mespelt]the night. Said, oh, I can't. I gotta
[Don Mespelt]get rid of these. I don't have time.
[Don Mespelt]My wife's sick. I gotta go back home.
[Don Mespelt]I can't show him right now. But if
[Don Mespelt]you wanna buy them, you can. I'll give
[Don Mespelt]you this great price. And the guy's like,
[Don Mespelt]I don't know. Anyway, turns out he it
[Don Mespelt]was a good deal, but he lost money
[Don Mespelt]on it because he didn't take advantage of
[Don Mespelt]it. So, I mean, he shows you both
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[Don Mespelt]sides.
[ken ouellette]Right. So then you're talking about opportunity cost.
[ken ouellette]You know, if you have an an opportunity
[ken ouellette]to invest in something that's got a nice
[ken ouellette]track record, you have to have some faith
[ken ouellette]that it's gonna work out and be able
[ken ouellette]to take advantage of those opportunities. So have
[ken ouellette]a growth mindset. I think that that is
[ken ouellette]what he's getting out there.
[Don Mespelt]That works. I didn't quite get that same
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[Don Mespelt]well, I got the same take, but you
[Don Mespelt]you say it much nicer in today's world.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. Yeah. So what what is your take?
[Don Mespelt]You know, the opportunities are around, but you
[Don Mespelt]have to use your smarts and figure out
[Don Mespelt]what's actually good.
[ken ouellette]Yes. You have to be you have to
[ken ouellette]have a discerning eye. No doubt about it.
[Don Mespelt]You're making me sound here really bad.
[ken ouellette]Well, you you're you're you're doing the nineteen
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[ken ouellette]twenty six version. I'm doing the two thousand
[ken ouellette]and twenty five update.
[Don Mespelt]Well, I'm trying to actually do the middle
[Don Mespelt]version to bring it in a little bit.
[Don Mespelt]I'm doing the abridged
[ken ouellette]I'm doing the abridged version of of richest
[ken ouellette]man in Babylon for the listener.
[Don Mespelt]Well and then when he was talking about,
[Don Mespelt]the the brickmaker, he one of the things
[Don Mespelt]he says is to get expert advice. That
[Don Mespelt]was one other another one of his cures
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[Don Mespelt]for a lean purse. And you've gotten into
[Don Mespelt]that.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. So use a financial adviser. Yeah.
[Don Mespelt]Men of action are favored by the goddess
[Don Mespelt]of good luck. Wow. You could take that
[Don Mespelt]one a lot of different ways. But, I
[Don Mespelt]mean, if you don't try something, you you're
[Don Mespelt]never gonna
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[ken ouellette]Yeah. My view on that is, once again,
[ken ouellette]do what I found throughout my career is
[ken ouellette]there's really two types of people. There's the
[ken ouellette]half half full, the glass is half full
[ken ouellette]people, and then there's the half empty people.
[ken ouellette]The people that have an optimistic attitude make
[ken ouellette]very, very good investors because they're patient. They're
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[ken ouellette]willing to to have their their investments do
[ken ouellette]bear fruit. Whereas the people that are pessimistic,
[ken ouellette]they tend to not have faith in the
[ken ouellette]process and the markets. They're just so critical
[ken ouellette]that they have that makes them react. And
[ken ouellette]so I think what he's trying to say
[ken ouellette]there is is that you have to have
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[ken ouellette]patience and and have faith in after you
[ken ouellette]vetted the the investment process you're gonna use
[ken ouellette]and the adviser that things are gonna work
[ken ouellette]out.
[Don Mespelt]Is that right? He was big on that
[Don Mespelt]one. He talked about, don't just talk to,
[Don Mespelt]you know Right. Silly willy down the corner
[Don Mespelt]and stuff or, you know, get advice from
[Don Mespelt]TikTok. Well, I said it.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. Exactly. Right. Yeah. Yeah. You wanna be
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[ken ouellette]able to because your financial plan should be
[ken ouellette]specific to you, and the financial adviser should
[ken ouellette]have a history of dealing with good, bad
[ken ouellette]markets, and you should be able to put
[ken ouellette]your faith in in that individual who you
[ken ouellette]so desire to hire.
[Don Mespelt]And one thing that, in going and I
[Don Mespelt]left this book, it kinda it's all it's
[Don Mespelt]all the same idea with different stories, and
[Don Mespelt]it kinda goes around a little bit. But
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[Don Mespelt]one thing he did talk about is, is
[Don Mespelt]just in the beginning, he talked to Akbar,
[Don Mespelt]the richest man in Babylon. He he himself
[Don Mespelt]learned from someone else.
[ken ouellette]Right.
[Don Mespelt]And this dude came in, and he's like,
[Don Mespelt]well, hey. You gotta do that. Pull one
[Don Mespelt]aside and and do it. And he did
[Don Mespelt]that. That's when he told the story about,
[Don Mespelt]you know, giving it to and buying some
[Don Mespelt]glass and not gold diamonds. And the other
[Don Mespelt]one is after he learned to live on
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[Don Mespelt]less, which I thought was interesting too. And
[Don Mespelt]he liked it in the long run because
[Don Mespelt]he could actually see his shackles growing.
[ken ouellette]Exactly. Yeah. I mean, there's there is definitely
[ken ouellette]a you grow in confidence through experience in
[ken ouellette]the investing market. And sometimes the the investment
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[ken ouellette]process, you know, teaches you to become more
[ken ouellette]patient or or it teach or it kinda
[ken ouellette]we we have a saying that people that
[ken ouellette]use speculative measures, it kinda spits you out
[ken ouellette]at the bottom. If you use margin, if
[ken ouellette]you use here in the recent news, you
[ken ouellette]know, there were a lot of people that
[ken ouellette]were using exchange traded funds that were two
[ken ouellette]times the leverage of the individual item. So
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[ken ouellette]a stock that's all over the news had
[ken ouellette]a real bad day yesterday, was down seventeen
[ken ouellette]or eighteen percent, and there were individuals that
[ken ouellette]were trying to gain a little bit more
[ken ouellette]advantage on the upside of that by two
[ken ouellette]times. So it would move two times up
[ken ouellette]or two times down. So if that's down
[ken ouellette]seventeen percent, they're down thirty three percent a
[ken ouellette]day. Uh-huh. So that through that process, either
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[ken ouellette]you learn from that and you see your
[ken ouellette]shackles deteriorate quickly, and you learn from that
[ken ouellette]process and never do it again. But when
[ken ouellette]you do learn from it and you don't
[ken ouellette]do it and you see your shackles grow
[ken ouellette]over a period of time, and shackles were
[ken ouellette]meaning dollars, you grow in confidence, I think.
[ken ouellette]I think is that is that what he's
[ken ouellette]gonna try to say there in the book?
[Don Mespelt]Well, I think that's how I got it.
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[Don Mespelt]I mean, you you develop you develop this
[Don Mespelt]sounds I'm sound like a motivational speaker, which
[Don Mespelt]I might add, do you know this was
[Don Mespelt]one of Jim Rohn's favorite books?
[ken ouellette]Oh, really?
[Don Mespelt]For those I mean, for those of you
[Don Mespelt]that don't know Jim, I mean, he's a
[Don Mespelt]motivational speaker from nineteen seventies, I wanna say.
[Don Mespelt]Well, no. And yeah. Oh, he is the
[Don Mespelt]man. But, yeah, it was one of his
[Don Mespelt]favorite ones, and he would actually, talk about
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[Don Mespelt]it in some of the speeches just about
[Don Mespelt]how because it's so positive and it has
[Don Mespelt]there's nothing wrong. There's no bad advice in
[Don Mespelt]this book. Right. I mean, it doesn't say,
[Don Mespelt]like, you know, go out there, and and
[Don Mespelt]if you sleep upside down for five days
[Don Mespelt]in a row, you're gonna make money. It's
[Don Mespelt]like yeah. It's straightforward.
[ken ouellette]Very, very straightforward and very, very, principled advice.
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[Don Mespelt]Yeah. So, I mean, you develop, as you're
[Don Mespelt]saying, that that that that I the the
[Don Mespelt]idea is kinda like when you start working
[Don Mespelt]out. At first, it sucks, but after a
[Don Mespelt]while, you get used to it, and you
[Don Mespelt]start building a little you feel them better,
[Don Mespelt]you feel them better, and it builds on
[Don Mespelt]it. And then you you actually feel like,
[Don Mespelt]oh, I'm gonna go do that again. You
[Don Mespelt]can't it motivates you to keep going forward.
[Don Mespelt]Yeah. And that's what he's talking about. Akbar
[Don Mespelt]is trying to build them up, and he
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[Don Mespelt]learns
[ken ouellette]that from the first guy. Yeah. And I
[ken ouellette]think, you know, Charlie Munger, who was, Warren
[ken ouellette]Buffett's partner for decades, who recently passed away
[ken ouellette]last year, he used to always say that
[ken ouellette]the the most difficult, process of investing is
[ken ouellette]getting to your first hundred thousand. Once you
[ken ouellette]get to your first hundred thousand, it it's
[ken ouellette]like you get momentum. You get confidence, and
[ken ouellette]you see the process. And so, he was
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[ken ouellette]he was famous for saying that.
[Don Mespelt]What I find interesting about that is I
[Don Mespelt]don't even remember when that happened. I mean,
[Don Mespelt]because that's, like, you know, early early on.
[Don Mespelt]Yeah. And it just kinda you know, I
[Don Mespelt]mean, for me, at least, I don't I
[Don Mespelt]never looked at it early on. It's only
[Don Mespelt]been as of late as I start actually
[Don Mespelt]thinking, can I actually retire when I start
[Don Mespelt]looking at it?
[ken ouellette]Well, you started to put these principles in
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[ken ouellette]into effect without even really without knowing they
[ken ouellette]were principles. You were just doing it. And
[ken ouellette]all of that
[Don Mespelt]made me.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. Yeah. That that's part of it. But
[ken ouellette]then also, you know, once when you're working,
[ken ouellette]your head's kinda down. As long as you
[ken ouellette]get the budgetary process down, you're just putting
[ken ouellette]the money in, and then all of a
[ken ouellette]sudden you're seeing it growing, and you're getting
[ken ouellette]confidence that this is gonna work out over
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[ken ouellette]a thirty, forty year retirement. And then those
[ken ouellette]those kind of those those bellwether marks, the
[ken ouellette]hundred thousands, the million, they kind of fade.
[ken ouellette]Whereas if you're not if you if you're
[ken ouellette]not as experienced and you're trying to you'd
[ken ouellette]kinda hang on to those benchmarks.
[Don Mespelt]So I'm gonna lead into the the five
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[Don Mespelt]laws of gold Okay. Which this is straightforward.
[Don Mespelt]And I'm gonna delete a little hit header
[Don Mespelt]on each. Gold cometh gladly and increasing quantity
[Don Mespelt]to any man who will put not less
[Don Mespelt]than one tenth of his earnings to to,
[Don Mespelt]create an estate for his future and that
[Don Mespelt]of his family. Jack. That's the one we
[Don Mespelt]just talked about. That was a beautiful one.
[Don Mespelt]The second law of gold. Gold laboreth diligently
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[Don Mespelt]and contently for the wise owner who finds
[Don Mespelt]it for a profitable and joint employment, multiplying
[Don Mespelt]even as the flocks of the field.
[ken ouellette]Compounding? Yes. Yeah. Jack.
[Don Mespelt]Third law. Gold clingeth to the protection of
[Don Mespelt]the cautious owner who invested under the advice
[Don Mespelt]of men wise in its handling.
[ken ouellette]So be consistent in your investment process. Know
[ken ouellette]what you're doing. Buy good solid things that
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[ken ouellette]are gonna just grow over time, and you're
[ken ouellette]not having to worry about bankruptcies, bad markets,
[ken ouellette]things of that nature making your gold or
[ken ouellette]your investment portfolio go away.
[Don Mespelt]The fourth law of gold. Gold slippeth away
[Don Mespelt]from the man who invested in the businesses
[Don Mespelt]or purposes for what she is not familiar
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[Don Mespelt]or what she is not approved by those
[Don Mespelt]skilled in its keep.
[ken ouellette]Excellent. Stay in your lane, I call that.
[ken ouellette]So if you have and and, you know,
[ken ouellette]I can I can speak to myself? I
[ken ouellette]know dividend stocks and dividend investing. That's my
[ken ouellette]lane, and that's what I stay in. That's
[ken ouellette]what I know. And I tell my clients
[ken ouellette]if they wanna speculate, I'm not against that.
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[ken ouellette]You know, there there's a certain portion of
[ken ouellette]money, but you'd have to either find somebody
[ken ouellette]that knows that area of technology stocks or,
[ken ouellette]commodities or things of that nature, which I
[ken ouellette]cannot speak wisely about.
[Don Mespelt]Uh-huh. The fifth law of gold. Gold flees
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[Don Mespelt]the man who would force it it to
[Don Mespelt]impossible earnings or who fall with the alluring
[Don Mespelt]advice of tricksters or schemers or who trust
[Don Mespelt]it in his own inexperience and romantic desires
[Don Mespelt]in investment.
[ken ouellette]Boy, do I see this all the time.
[ken ouellette]I mean, I could go we could spend
[ken ouellette]an hour and a half of me counseling
[ken ouellette]clients that have come to me after chasing
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[ken ouellette]some fad securities, or investment scheme that didn't
[ken ouellette]work out. And every single cycle has new
[ken ouellette]schemes. Every single one. It's repetitive. It's going
[ken ouellette]to go on forever. And, whether it be
[ken ouellette]in two thousand and eight when everybody was
[ken ouellette]buying homes, you know, on margin, on leverage,
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[ken ouellette]assuming that the house values were gonna go
[ken ouellette]up forever, and they would have workshops about
[ken ouellette]real estate. It just goes on and on
[ken ouellette]and on, and the the dot coms of
[ken ouellette]the two thousand and two thousand, nineteen ninety
[ken ouellette]nineties. Yeah. You know, so what do we
[ken ouellette]have now? We've got we've got, you know,
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[ken ouellette]gold is getting up there in in the
[ken ouellette]speculative area. You've got a lot of these
[ken ouellette]tech stocks that AI, you know, may has
[ken ouellette]that kind of that that Allure. Allure to
[ken ouellette]it. You know, easy, quick money. I'm going
[ken ouellette]to be able to make twenty percent a
[ken ouellette]year. As soon as you you start to
[ken ouellette]think that I can make that there was
[ken ouellette]an old saying we had. When you think
[ken ouellette]you've got the key to Wall Street figured
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[ken ouellette]out, they always change the lock. I've
[Don Mespelt]seen that with an orangutan on the poster.
[ken ouellette]I thought I had all the questions, and
[ken ouellette]then they changed all the answers.
[Don Mespelt]I mean Yeah.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. That Yeah. You kinda feel like an
[ken ouellette]orangutan after that. Something like that happens. So
[ken ouellette]we wanna avoid that for sure. That's that's
[ken ouellette]good advice.
[Don Mespelt]One of the, second to last chapter of
[Don Mespelt]it is, the gold lender of Babylon, and
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[Don Mespelt]I think this is kinda it's it's kinda
[Don Mespelt]awesome. Again, some guy makes a lot of
[Don Mespelt]money, and he goes over to this guy
[Don Mespelt]and says, hey. I see that you have
[Don Mespelt]a lot of money, and you're rich and
[Don Mespelt]stuff. And I just got this. What do
[Don Mespelt]I do with it? And, of course, he
[Don Mespelt]goes on the same things. How do he
[Don Mespelt]wants you to make your, you know, make
[Don Mespelt]your dollars, make your shekels bro, and will
[Don Mespelt]work for you kind of thing. Mhmm. And,
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[Don Mespelt]he's like and he's like, woah. Does that
[Don Mespelt]mean I should help my, you know, my
[Don Mespelt]brother-in-law who needs this and stuff? And his
[Don Mespelt]quote for helping out family, which I shouldn't
[Don Mespelt]say family, family and friends. And in general,
[Don Mespelt]it's always, you know, do what you it's
[Don Mespelt]whatever. But, if you desire to help thy
[Don Mespelt]friend, do it in a way that will
[Don Mespelt]not bring the friend's burden upon thyself.
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[ken ouellette]Oh, boy. That's a classic.
[Don Mespelt]Yeah. That way, that I think you could
[Don Mespelt]do a book on that alone, can't you?
[ken ouellette]Yes. Yeah. And then so I think in
[ken ouellette]the last podcast, we talked about the client
[ken ouellette]who did the second wedding for forty five
[ken ouellette]thousand dollars. And I said, well, that's fine.
[ken ouellette]You can do that, but it it blows
[ken ouellette]up your plan a little bit of what
[ken ouellette]you've worked so hard for. So the daughter,
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[ken ouellette]at some point when you're eighty, is going
[ken ouellette]to have to give that money back to
[ken ouellette]you. So I think that's the prudence that
[ken ouellette]he's talking about there. And we see this
[ken ouellette]too, like professional athletes. Right? They wanna buy
[ken ouellette]cars. They wanna buy their they've got a
[ken ouellette]lot of friends that they wanna try to
[ken ouellette]take care of, that they grew up with
[ken ouellette]or what have you, and they've come into
[ken ouellette]money quickly. They wanna buy their parents a
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[ken ouellette]house, but then their career is relatively short,
[ken ouellette]and then all of that money is gone.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. Yeah.
[Don Mespelt]You just have to do it in a
[Don Mespelt]way where it's not gonna hurt you in
[Don Mespelt]the long run.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. I always I always say exactly. So
[ken ouellette]whenever whenever somebody wants something like that, it's
[ken ouellette]gotta be something that won't affect the plan.
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[ken ouellette]And then if they never pay you back,
[ken ouellette]it's it's not going to it's it's gonna
[ken ouellette]have zero emphasis on your long term strategy.
[Don Mespelt]So and and this is why the gold
[Don Mespelt]lender of Babylon is a very rich man
[Don Mespelt]because if he does loan something out to
[Don Mespelt]people, he says, I want something in return.
[Don Mespelt]Right. And that has to be something of
[Don Mespelt]value to the person. Otherwise, they're not gonna
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[Don Mespelt]bother with it. Right. And so, he he
[Don Mespelt]goes off here and it's and he says
[Don Mespelt]this one person gave him a scarlet cloth,
[Don Mespelt]and he learned that one is, the bitter
[Don Mespelt]remorse, she threw herself into the Euphrates and
[Don Mespelt]killed herself, and the loans will never be
[Don Mespelt]repaid. And so everything he borrows from people,
[Don Mespelt]he puts into a chest, and he says,
[Don Mespelt]the chest tells you, Rodin, that was the
[Don Mespelt]name of the guy who came to him
[Don Mespelt]with a lot of money, that human in
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[Don Mespelt]the throes of great emotions are not safe
[Don Mespelt]risks for the gold lender.
[ken ouellette]Wow. That's pretty profound. Human.
[Don Mespelt]I know it's nineteen twenty seven, this dude.
[Don Mespelt]Humans in the throes of great emotions are
[Don Mespelt]not a safe risk for the gold lender.
[Don Mespelt]That's true. Yeah. That's straightforward. I mean, it's
[Don Mespelt]just right up there. Yeah. So so he
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[Don Mespelt]gives you a few other examples of, you
[Don Mespelt]know, how you shouldn't just loan to this
[Don Mespelt]from various people and stuff without having something
[Don Mespelt]that's meaningful that makes them gonna come back.
[Don Mespelt]And he also talks about this dude that
[Don Mespelt]he's grown to really like and the not
[Don Mespelt]like, but they've done a lot of work
[Don Mespelt]together, and he trusts them. And he doesn't
[Don Mespelt]even require him to give him anything in
[Don Mespelt]the in the future or for future loans
[Don Mespelt]because he shows a habit. He always repays
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[Don Mespelt]them on time and early.
[ken ouellette]So, basically, I guess, he's speaking to prudence
[ken ouellette]there. Who's she? No. Prudence. I'm joking. Oh,
[ken ouellette]okay. Yeah. So be prudent in who you
[ken ouellette]you lend money out to. If it you
[ken ouellette]know, we we so I have historically, regardless
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[ken ouellette]of if it's if it's friends or family,
[ken ouellette]I like to use an amortization chart, and
[ken ouellette]provide that just so there is a written
[ken ouellette]principal and interest payment that is done. We
[ken ouellette]recommend that to our clients, just because it
[ken ouellette]makes it official, and then there's no questions.
[ken ouellette]But, you know, that that is how we
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[ken ouellette]we we attack that prudence.
[Don Mespelt]And the final chapter of the book, Ken,
[Don Mespelt]and it talks about how the, they find
[Don Mespelt]these clay tablets, and they start talking about
[Don Mespelt]them in in in college, not in college,
[Don Mespelt]but in the, in a archaeology kind of
[Don Mespelt]profession.
[ken ouellette]Mhmm.
[Don Mespelt]And, it's kinda hokey, but it just reiterates
[Don Mespelt]everything not hokey. It just reiterates everything that
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[Don Mespelt]they've gone through in the book and and
[Don Mespelt]how they're transcribing and figuring it out. And
[Don Mespelt]the guy can't believe that this is actually
[Don Mespelt]written that many years ago. And he goes,
[Don Mespelt]I must live upon this portion and never
[Don Mespelt]use more nor buy what I may not
[Don Mespelt]pay for out of this portion. And it
[Don Mespelt]just it just talks about the pretty much
[Don Mespelt]the same thing we just talked about everything
[Don Mespelt]we've had here. One tenth I have set
[Don Mespelt]aside to keep my own. Seven tenths have
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[Don Mespelt]I divided with my good wife to pay
[Don Mespelt]for our living, and two tenths have I
[Don Mespelt]divided among my creditors. It it's just kind
[Don Mespelt]of funny. He just kinda surmises the whole
[Don Mespelt]thing, and then it goes on to say
[Don Mespelt]the luckiest man in Babylon, talks about how
[Don Mespelt]he was once a slave to money and
[Don Mespelt]everything else and owed everyone in the world.
[Don Mespelt]And and then he goes off, and he
[Don Mespelt]actually becomes a slave because he he he
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[Don Mespelt]does a bad deal with, some other guy
[Don Mespelt]doing running cattle. And Chris is not cattle,
[Don Mespelt]but he got me. Yeah. And, yeah. So
[Don Mespelt]he gets picked up as a slave and
[Don Mespelt]everything. And then finally, this person says, oh,
[Don Mespelt]you're good enough. You you know, go back.
[Don Mespelt]So he goes back to the town where
[Don Mespelt]he was there, and he pays back all
[Don Mespelt]of his creditors, builds up his whole his
[Don Mespelt]wife gets his wife back, everything. Great story.
[Don Mespelt]And it's kind of like the moral story
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[Don Mespelt]is, you know, I mean, he is the
[Don Mespelt]luckiest man in Babylon because he was given
[Don Mespelt]a second chance to rebuild and pay, and
[Don Mespelt]and he became a person that everyone wanted
[Don Mespelt]him to be.
[ken ouellette]Right. And and he learned these principles, which
[ken ouellette]he can apply in his life, even though
[ken ouellette]he had that setback.
[Don Mespelt]Yeah. Yeah. So I just this is the
[Don Mespelt]richest man at Babylon. Like you said, it's
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[Don Mespelt]a hundred and sixteen or so pages. You
[Don Mespelt]know? And then I I highlighted it, so
[Don Mespelt]it probably took me an hour and a
[Don Mespelt]half. But the principles are here. And this
[Don Mespelt]is kinda one of those books that you
[Don Mespelt]can almost give to, you know, I mean,
[Don Mespelt]people that I love, younger kids, and just
[Don Mespelt]say, read this.
[ken ouellette]Right. And that's what somebody did for me.
[ken ouellette]And I think that's kind of a pass
[ken ouellette]down type of thing. And it can makes
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[ken ouellette]these sometimes when you're when you talk about
[ken ouellette]financial things, you know, investments and, the process
[ken ouellette]and what you need to do, it because
[ken ouellette]it's got its own acronyms and its own
[ken ouellette]language, people tend to get a little overwhelmed
[ken ouellette]initially on it. And I think that this
[ken ouellette]book, because it puts it into these the
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[ken ouellette]the parable type language, people can understand it,
[ken ouellette]and then they can apply it. And the
[ken ouellette]it really applies across the board to everybody,
[ken ouellette]and everybody should utilize these type of parables
[ken ouellette]and principles.
[Don Mespelt]Well, like I said, he was, wrote this
[Don Mespelt]right before the depression, And everyone, during depression,
[Don Mespelt]of course, was trying to figure out look
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[Don Mespelt]for ways to they could help themselves to
[Don Mespelt]get out of this depression and get through
[Don Mespelt]it. And that was one of the things
[Don Mespelt]that actually made him famous because he actually
[Don Mespelt]survived it unlike his business. He, and another
[Don Mespelt]interesting point, he started a map company, and
[Don Mespelt]he was the first one to publish a
[Don Mespelt]road atlas, the United States and Canada.
[ken ouellette]Oh, that's true. Yeah.
[Don Mespelt]Yeah. So he's and then, and like I
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[Don Mespelt]said, his businesses didn't survive. But that but
[Don Mespelt]this parable book and everything else, of course,
[Don Mespelt]through history, and and we're reading it right
[Don Mespelt]now. And he has the phrase, pay yourself
[Don Mespelt]first.
[ken ouellette]Yeah. Yeah. So, I mean, for the listener
[ken ouellette]out there, this is a nice addendum to
[ken ouellette]to well, these podcasts, I think we we
[ken ouellette]try to cover almost every one of these
[ken ouellette]subjects, every time we there's a there's a
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[ken ouellette]sprinkling of the richest man in Babylon, I
[ken ouellette]think, in every one of our podcasts that
[ken ouellette]we do because they're timeless. And so, you
[ken ouellette]know, we encourage anybody to pick up a
[ken ouellette]copy of this. I mean, you could buy
[ken ouellette]it on Amazon. I think it might even
[ken ouellette]be a free Kindle download. I don't know.
[ken ouellette]It's it's been around for so long, but,
[ken ouellette]you know, you could pick this thing up
[ken ouellette]for three bucks, I think, anywhere, and it'll.
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[ken ouellette]It see? He's still working even since nineteen
[ken ouellette]twenty six.
[Don Mespelt]Yep.
[ken ouellette]That's awesome.
[Don Mespelt]Alright, Ken. Thank you for an enjoyable read,
[Don Mespelt]and thank you for recommending this. And taking
[Don Mespelt]your knowledge and spreading the wealth, thank you
[Don Mespelt]again. How do I get a hold of
[Don Mespelt]you?
[ken ouellette]Orca Wealth, o r c a w e
[ken ouellette]a l t h dot com. And as
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[ken ouellette]one six zero seven seven. Orca Wealth Management,
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[ken ouellette]And then, you know, grab a copy of
[ken ouellette]this book, and, let's have a conversation about
[ken ouellette]it.
[Don Mespelt]Yep. Akbar is awaiting you. Akbar. I didn't
[Don Mespelt]think I don't know if that's his name.
[Don Mespelt]But, Ahmed Akbar, it it was a a
[Don Mespelt]Babylonian ish type name.
[ken ouellette]Awesome. Yeah. Well, thanks for the day, Don.
[ken ouellette]I enjoyed it.
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[Don Mespelt]I had a great time. Thank you, Ken,
[Don Mespelt]for bringing this book to my attention.
[ken ouellette]Alright. Till next time.
[Don Mespelt]Cheers. Bye.
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