Living Out Loud: Wendy Cole on Gender, Truth, and Creating Real Connection

What does it take to live fully as yourself—after decades of hiding who you really are?

In this moving episode of A Life Worth Being, Sue Willoughby sits down with Wendy Cole, a transgender woman who began her transition at age 67, after more than 45 years of trying to survive a life that never fit.

Wendy’s story is one of pain, resilience, and ultimately liberation. From her early childhood awareness of her gender identity, to the medical and societal gaslighting that kept her silent for decades, to finding the courage to step into her truth—this conversation offers deep insight into what it means to live authentically.

💬 In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why gender identity is hardwired—and misunderstood by most of society
• How decades of suppression shaped Wendy’s mental health and relationships
• What finally sparked her transition and self-acceptance
• The impact of therapy, spiritual growth, and community
• How Wendy is now helping others by educating, speaking, and co-hosting the “Demystifying Transgender” podcast

This episode isn’t just for people within the LGBTQIA+ community—it’s for anyone who wants to better understand identity, inclusion, and what it means to meet someone with empathy instead of assumptions.

🎧 Listen now and be part of a conversation that’s long overdue.

🔗 Learn more about Wendy’s work: https://www.meetwendycole.com

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Chapters

[00:00:00] - Introduction and Anniversary [00:01:02] - Wendy Cole's Early Life [00:06:29] - Societal Challenges and Struggles [00:10:39] - Transition Journey and Self-Discovery [00:15:35] - Transition Process and Reflections [00:18:57] - Gender Incongruence and Society [00:20:39] - Anniversary, Pride Month, and Ongoing Conversations [00:21:30] - Horses, Coaching, and Authenticity [00:24:36] - Project Collaborations and Mastermind Group [00:34:15] - Advocacy, Misinformation, and Awareness [00:39:07] - Community Support and Safety [00:43:34] - Importance of Open Conversation [00:46:10] - Connecting with Wendy and Closing Remarks [00:50:08] - Closing Credits and Next Episode Preview

 

Thanks to my amazing Producer and editor Jess Grace Garcia (they/them) of Springwood Productions. https://www.springwoodproductions.com/

If you are curious about starting your own podcast feel free to reach out to us. Jess and I would love to help you on your journey to sharing your story and passion.

 

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