May 7, 2023 • 66 mins
What’s a pod without a little love for the homies? In this feel-good episode, the crew dives deep into the real meaning of friendship — how they met, how their bond evolved, and the unforgettable (and hilarious) moments that brought them closer. From loyalty and laughter to the lessons learned along the way, it's a raw, relatable convo that’ll have you thinking about your own ride-or-dies.
💬 Real talk. 💥 Real chemistry. 💖 Real friendships.
If you’ve ever had a friend who feels like family, this one’s for you.
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That's right. We're back.
Welcome back to a pot about nothing and I'm your main host.
Mark, the havoc and Ashley, and welcome to episode 2.
This is God's favorite part, guys.
Make sure you pay attention and listen and we're happy to be
back and we're excited for this.We sure are.
It's just a Pisces twins today. Yeah, as in Eric are on a
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business trip actually just? Yes.
Yeah. We're we're riding solo today.
It's just me and David. It's awesome.
It's all good though. Yeah.
Actually have a special guest today, Ashley one of my
producers, one of my producers and then and then sound
engineer. Our sound engineer Kevin's here
with us. As always.
Thank you guys for having me. Our supporters, our supporters.
And we just want to thank you guys for all the listens on
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Spotify, apple and all that Manuel did y'all did wonders
man? Y'all run at the numbers for
sure. Yeah, I was a little surprised
me to not gonna not gonna lie. It was cooler.
I liked it. Oh, shout out to the people in
UK listening. Oh yes, we will write.
We will write. We are Wide else, that's it.
Oh man, he's gonna Mexico and I mean telling me, he Co love you.
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Guys, I love this.
This episode has been long coming.
Well, we waited too long. Yeah, we sure did y'all were
acting like divas? I'm like, no, for real bro.
Now and then now forget all you guys that like my intro last
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time. Y'all come do this.
I was nervous now so we do listen to the people, we do
listen to our fans so we heard y'all that didn't like marks
intro but he's working on. I'm gonna snow today was I think
today was better. He changed it up.
Side is 0, then I don't know what I'm gonna do.
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We're gonna replace you with Crystal now.
What does the intro yeah, because we're born the same day,
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born on the same day and but don't take it serious, you know,
it's just a joke but every time we The girls probably give us
has to give us ugly faces. Yeah.
Well, as soon as we say, we havethe same birthday, they just
give us an ugly face and then we're like, oh, you guys are
Pisces. I'm just like, okay, like, I
don't know, I don't know, I don't know what the type of man,
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I don't know. The type of people that they
hang out with, but they must have bad experiences with
Pisces. Pisces men.
I see. We're different.
We're different. That's for sure.
Yeah. Yeah that for sure like last
week, Week in the conference. Yeah, conference I said that you
and I were Pisces Twins were talking about the pot with their
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friends and then some girl just turned around and looked at me
like really judging me for saying, Pisces Twins.
And then I was like, I'm a Pisces to there a problem.
And there's just like a Pisces men are toxic and I'm like, wow,
interesting. Well but then like the next day
she apologized who was now, but she she apologized and then she
looked at David like I'm waitingfor my apology.
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Yeah. So she says, So so she was being
a little petty, you know, imagine being 16 and being.
Yeah. And we were all out with eating
and we'll see us and she was just being petty like I have no
idea why and And that was Petit back.
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I'm just like a little kid. How much she's good?
She's good people and I just want to apologize.
It was so funny and then she turned and then she just kept
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staring at. Okay, your turn to apologize.
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Too many shoutouts. Yeah people what I mean we're
good people. Yeah, aside from that it's like
we rather show love and give people their flowers while we're
still alive, you know? Yeah.
Especially now like with everything that's going on.
Yes I'm haters are gonna hate bro.
We don't hate you guys exert. God's love ha ha.
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Hey bro, people are gonna hate people are gonna hate but the
Lucy the listen speak volume bro.
Hopefully the yeah. I know but this one we're gonna
whoa will go. We won't take as long next time.
Yeah. And hopefully everyone's here.
Yeah, everybody. Yeah.
As went to Nashville for a Taylor Swift concert.
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Thanks. Yes.
Thanks for ditching. Us and Erik.
Erik is studying. That's a good excuse.
He has a midterm he's probably sleeping problem bro.
He time talking to another girl.Yeah.
Is that is 13, but I don't out of all five girls who started
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but we're gonna make it sound like he's a real player.
Is a good guy, I guess I just but they'll be here.
They are missed. Yeah, it's nothing.
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Maybe, we'll see. Hopefully my soul mate.
Doesn't listen to us. Oh yeah, I mean, I don't know
but it doesn't matter. She'll accept you no matter
what, that's the kind of passion, no matter who you are
now and I think if you're going to start a relationship, he they
have to know your past. Yeah, that's true.
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Yeah, I would want to know her past.
Yeah, yeah. Yeah.
That's part of Of being in love being accepting of.
Hey, that's coming through. That's coming from married
woman. Yeah, that's true.
Because what happened before? Yeah, because you can't be with
somebody. You can't trust.
Yeah, that's true. Then you get like anxious and
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you get all that like, start overthinking.
Everything is the worst. It really is overthinking is the
worst. If you guys are overthinking
things and like you guys are getting anxious over things and
I think you need to step away from that.
Yeah step back that's like the best thing to step back and
Bleep sometimes. Yeah, rethink everything or
communicate and be like a, you know, I'm feeling this way but
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it also depends where you are ina relationship.
That's true. Like, if you guys are talking
but it's like, well I think if you guys just initiated like,
yeah, I've talking stage, I don't think you should say them,
but but like, how far into say that them?
Like, three months, two months, like maybe a month.
I would say. Yeah.
You think, what do you think, baby?
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Yeah, I mean, if both are in agreement like this is Yeah.
Like maybe there's no title yet because y'all still do your
other, don't friends. But you're more than for the
joint dating. Your more than friends are like
in that in-between stage? Yeah, yeah, sure.
Maybe. I don't know, maybe if I would
have done that in the past relationship, it would have
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helped. But yeah maybe but just saw,
y'all know this episode is aboutrelationship.
Yeah, we said we would continue for you last week.
It will get into our personal experiences and then we'll
answer you guys questions a little bit later on.
Yo y'all came in with a lot of questions?
Yeah I'll keep going. Follow us on Instagram or part
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about nothing. It's a pot that about nothing
and then follow our separate Instagram accounts through
varying are ya the first episodeduring the first episode?
Yeah and listen to this one. Maybe you're in question my
goodness. Oh yes we're going to answer it.
We're going to try our best and problem.
Yeah just a little bit now we are.
Yeah. But and also check out our sin
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Sound Engineers Instagram to, hehas music and stuff out.
Go check him out. Yeah, yeah, it's really good.
I listen to it too me too. Yeah, I was like I'm more to
come more to come. Yeah, we don't show.
Love goes to love like you showed us.
Yeah, there's two in the barrel so yeah.
So I mean I really let's get into it.
I mean, what we say we're going to talk about our experiences.
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So we're gonna keep on Saturday Sunday.
We went to church I'm, I'm wearing my Express dress shirts.
What color is it? It's like a, it's like a pine
green emerald, green. I'm okay.
I'm okay. And we're going.
I got a brown belt, beige pants,and brown shoes.
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Yeah. And I had a jacket on because it
was cold in the morning. What kind of jacket?
It's nice though. I think like a charcoal.
I'm wearing a floral dress, a bird.
Candy with purple and white flowers from The Loft and some
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free band is not free. Brand new Adidas Slides.
Yeah. Actually was kind of that
church. Yeah.
They're asking Kevin. Were kind enough to let us do
the pot at their house or their Studio?
Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah and I'm wearing a black hoodie from H&M, a gray Carhartt
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shirt, some blue pants and the Nike Tom Sachs.
Yeah. Tom Sachs GPS although we're not
supporting him because a little I'll all those allegations in
those are funny too but Mi I said he was walking, he would
walk around the office naked just to get inspired.
That's crazy. I mean I guess he's an artist
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but that's what these are. These were made for girls.
These were made for girls. Oh, no way.
Yeah. If you made them for girls, I
don't mean, I don't know why like, it's his own shoe that
Nike made with him. But yeah, he's a little psycho
right now. I mean, here's an artist, so
that's no excuse me. Yeah.
There's like, there's literally women in the office.
Yeah. No, no, yeah.
There's no justification by like, artists are tend to be a
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little off. Yeah.
That's, that's a common way in these allegations.
Well, they just came out. They just came out last week.
Or his like workers. I got mean he didn't rape no
wear anything. He was walking around the
office. Naked.
That's how he brainstorms apparently.
Well, that that is sexual harassment.
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Yeah, I don't want no one to seeall that.
Yeah. And here like a swat sticker
over the refrigerator or something.
And then but yeah, these shoes were bought way before that.
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So we're now supporting him, which is crazy today.
But next time, maybe pretty soon.
It depends how we feel, pretty simple and show today.
Yeah. But and Eric in his pj's at home
and yes, is wearing a cowboy hatand cowboy cowboy boots on the
plane. Anywhere in any situation that
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you're in there, you're just creating scenarios in your head
and anxiety. Yeah, and I didn't really like I
was going through that like you don't realize it because like
you want things to go. Well so do you like oh I'm good.
I could get through this. Yeah and maybe I should have
communicated but I mean I think the chant the outcome.
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Would it still be the same at the end of the day for a guy?
You forgot to tell that to grow.I feel like it's a little bitty
toxic or know. Like it's like you come off as
like week really. Yeah, I think so.
Yeah, I think it also depends onthe girl, but like most girls
are like that. Well, That they overthink.
No, no. Got like what if a guy
overthinks things in there? Like, oh, like, I don't know
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what you're doing tonight and they're complaining.
The like you're overthinking things again anxious.
I feel like the girls heiko Likeyour guy, why don't ya?
But you should be like the man, you shouldn't.
Yeah. No.
Not like that. That just like oh Like, you're
like like that. I don't know how to explain it
but I think if somebody's like oh I'm overthinking and I don't
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really trust, you had been like,whoa, what, what?
No, no no I've been like, well, what is it?
That makes you not trust me. Or what it takes?
What actions do I do? That makes you open think, you
know, I think I would probably respond that way, right?
Yeah. That's a good answer.
So like if a girl's, well, that's a good communicator.
Yeah. You know, like you're
communicating but I feel like that's like a no offense to him
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but I feel like that too. Like We're thinking in my thing.
Like I feel like that's a feminine trait.
I think Chris and I am I wrong for that.
All right. I think girls in general are
over thinkers. Yeah, I think guys to they just
don't yank, you know, they just and also we don't say anymore
because that worked like Societyhas this not communicating my
feelings and stuff like that. Like, that's how it is.
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Like, we're supposed to be the man of the house.
We're supposed to, like, be the boss is like, according to
society. Yeah.
And it's like, Boys, Don't Cry. I men don't cry.
And then that's how. Things are perceived.
So like if I can guys like anxious over thinking, like
you're like, oh he's weak. And then the the girls, like,
oh, I'm the one that has the pants in the relationship.
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Yeah. And then for a guy to get the
pants back when he loses. Like what this particular person
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or in this? Like, I think because I think it
was like, From my last relationship.
From your previous my previous relationship.
You know, I was with her for sixyears, right?
So that was fine. Yeah, so that was my Like what?
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It's like here later I actually like oh I'm asked this girl out.
Oh so after so you were dating. So you were with her for six
years and then broke up and thenyou didn't date anybody for a
year. Wow.
Wow, a year that's a long time, guys.
Usually is like three months in?No, I think it's more of like, I
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froze at least with me. It's just like you needed.
That guy need that reset. Yeah, I need a reset.
I don't know. And also like six years like
being a relationship for six years.
That's a long time bro. That's a big chunk of your life.
That's a bit. Yeah.
Yeah. Good thing.
Like, crap. That is another, I think about
it, like, in your mom mentioned it before, like either I would
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have been married or and out of church and not at a church.
But away from God, right away from God, yeah, like away from
God and trying to get back to him.
But, or either that or have a kid because that's how like that
would like. Wedlock?
Yeah, have a junior having. She knew he would be a menu.
How you would be a man? No, he would be a quiet kid.
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It'll be a quiet kid. Yeah.
Because who my kid's gonna be a man?
It's probably. Yeah, I think your kids would
probably hit my kids. I'm gonna be proud of all the
things you throw, do those wild?Y'all catch me at church on the
roof, killing throwing lemons, good.
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I was just having fun. I was just exploring.
I was like, I'm bored. I'm gonna go explore.
You catch me on the roof. So, yeah, that's why I just like
a year in and I was like finallyhave the guts to ask this girl
and I didn't know. We would just go out and stuff.
And then like later on towards the end of the year we got a
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little bit more serious and stuff.
Yeah, that's cool. Yeah.
But obviously it didn't work out.
No. Could you speak right now?
Which is good. You were just dating just to
date, right? Yeah.
I was doing just today. I was me and me for a long time.
Yeah, but I think when you're younger, it's okay, it's not
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okay. But it's like well yeah you're
young, you're studying having fun.
I was just having fun. Yeah.
Well, Marty still young. Yeah, I mean if the opportunity
comes up But I would tell you like, in your parents eyes, 30
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is kind of old. Yeah, I think so.
Like I don't think it's because they're used to
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I was a jerk for calling you as a dork, but that's just how it
is. That's just how we mess around
with each other watches me just made fun of Eric and called them
penguin enemy. And this is like how didn't
nobody catch that bro? It's because they were
apparently I'm almost all focused on my intro like it was
whacking this. You guys come do this man.
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No Mikey Yeah but I it was, I mean, it was cool because like I
went to concerts and like the girl you live, you live, you
live that like yeah, we saw trachea booed off stage so it
was cool. But like, let's go back to the
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back to the age thing, like, ourparents.
They all day. Most of them got married when
they're like, 28 1819 like do you remember what my mom got
married at 21. Yeah.
And and then the year later, my sister came and then a year
after that I came back. It was everything was fast.
That's why They see everything nowadays, right?
And they're taking forever. What y'all went too fast?
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I mean, if I would I mean I wouldn't mind either but like up
to see where I am but it's just like everything like and if a
kid pops out it happens like theworld.
You don't mean the kid pops out.Well, you're right.
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I have no kids. And then somebody told somebody
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like, why is David up? There isn't engaged rain and
then both probably something minor Brody and then at David's
wedding might okay. Oh yeah.
Because in time for my birthday party, that that was going to be
my wedding. / Iya ya? Yeah.
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He's like, you're getting married.
I was like, he's like, you're getting Maybe next week I was
like, yeah, yeah, yeah. That I got married.
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When they were young and like, ayear later, their divorce, man,
like everything like everything,and they have a kid, everything
happened within the ear, that's crazy.
Well, that's when you don't havethe love of God, I sure as a
sinner. Oh yeah, I did just rush the
pages, fresh thinking too fast. But yeah, that's all the times.
The times are a lot harder than before.
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I think I like I'm sure there are hard like back together hard
because like oh wait our parentscame from.
Yeah. Yeah, but it's all of our
parents are from Mexico. Like it's, it's hard to even get
a house here. Do it until expensive latian is
going up and not wage, you know.So how am I going to get a house
with? You know.
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Barely barely getting. Well, not me.
But just saying in general, any more than a job.
I didn't have a job. Yeah, so sad.
I mean you need to do have fun, bro.
You just chill, bro. Like no, I want to do something,
man. I want to do something, but I
You know, like from going from not having a job to having a job
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and it's hard. It's hard because you got used
to the lifestyle, being at home.Yeah.
Being at home and being accessible to church.
Yeah, you know, just like, you know, like, all we need to do
this all types. I was just being be there or
just being there are just being free to do anything.
Yeah, but like, that's the most important thing you have so much
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money. Yeah.
Fighting go out. You're not progressing life or
anything like that. I mean you shouldn't.
Yeah. Cuz I was like, yeah.
Unless they're gonna pay I mean after like dating like girls
like career job girls and stuff.Oh yeah.
Why the hey, nah, nah. I like, for my birthday.
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Oh, yeah. And who wait, wait.
Hold up. Yeah, I know lie.
Like that was cool. No wonder girls, go out with and
let the guy pay, and who should pay on the first date?
Typical class. My, my opinion.
It's whoever asked whoever asked, if the girl asks the guy
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then there's the grocer pay because it was her idea Jews.
Obviously, obviously, I would offer, I would offer and I would
insist, but if she keeps tellingme know them, nah, I think you
should. Yeah.
No, no. I insist like three times but if
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she keeps telling me no like, what am I gonna do?
What am I to do? All right.
Wait, but I have I've always paid in on the first date.
This has one carat weight. Yeah, yeah, I'm yeah.
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Has anybody ever asked you guys out?
Oh wait. What's your, what?
What had a girl asked me to be her boyfriend.
Well, that's awkward like, right.
Right then. And there, or were you guys
talking we weren't even talking weird.
It was like we knew each other already.
Okay. Okay.
Oh, so you guys want? Friends for a while.
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Yeah, I was just like, you know, girl, I mean accident,
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I'm going to sleep. I just didn't respond baby
responsibilities. Like she would text me through
like doing work and I wouldn't respond all the time you know,
because I can't be on my phone and then I said like I'm at work
all what time you get off 2:30 right are between 30 on the dot.
Hey what's up? That is that's too much girls,
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don't do that. Give when you guys are talking
guys to give each other some space.
Oh yeah. You know how much space but you
don't have to be talking 24/7 all day?
No yeah no but also don't, don'tleave someone on don't wait to
respond like 23 hours later by the way the rule is if Whoever
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doesn't text back last is one has to start to end the
conversation again. Oh, dang.
So like if that's right. Good morning.
Have a good day and then you're like, oh, thank you you too.
So they have to text you back oryeah.
So, what if you say? Good morning, right.
Your guy, I'm and then the girlsI would hope your girl.
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The guy says, good morning have a great day and then she's like,
oh yeah, you two things, whatever she has to initiate.
No, no, he already anything. I knew she as she responds and I
don't respond back at their Nation.
You're a jerk if you don't respond.
Okay, cool. So I finish it again.
Yeah. So like if you're texting and
well if he's if he says good night night before he's not
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gonna initiate. She is.
That's what it means. Yeah.
So she's going to say good morning, not him.
Yeah, really. I think guys should initiate
always. Good morning.
Always. I have heard that.
Yes, I like I like Yeah. I've been like I like good night
and good morning Texoma sir. Yeah and a girl told me that one
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like a girl that I did. Oh yeah.
I mean it worked. It worked out for him.
Yeah, me too. Sorry I fell asleep.
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Yeah, she does that. Okay.
But if she doesn't then it's like yeah.
But if you're not gonna respond for a long time you could be
like I'm gonna be busy. I'll talk to you when I can like
that's like polite. You know.
That's who. Yeah.
That way. Yeah.
That's just put like I think I agree.
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Yeah. And then like in a different
relationship was like she never responded.
You don't like one whole day. Like oh, that's annoying.
And I was just like, are you okay?
Just like, yeah. Why.
Should I be wearing was, what would be wrong?
What you doing beep? Like that.
Look it. She's like, well, how did you
know? I was just resting.
I was with my family and I don'twant to text and I'm like, oh,
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I'm sorry. I know that they make you seem
like the bad guy, but like, advice for everyone out there if
she, if they want, if they want to talk to you, if they want
initiate something, they would. If they don't, they don't.
So don't stress out about it. Don't overthink it.
If they want to, they will Yeah,that's true.
And Mike I mean yeah. Yeah, that they're 101.
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Shout out to you and Josh, just kidding.
Josh, I love you. I love you.
Both you to jail. Yeah.
Deal finally bought his own cowboy boots.
I saw his idea boots, dude. I'm guys gonna be
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That's what I'm finished. Proverbs only ours is good.
You know, which one you know it's versatility and the
Proverbs woman is supposed to sound like proverbs 31 and I was
just like, you know, well beforehow I would answer like, oh I
mean your mom knows the type of girl I like and stuff like that.
He's been easy baddies. Tara better.
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You know, and my record shows. You feel about filled out my
record. Oh no, we're not.
But we don't care about that, nomore like In terms of it
matters. Yeah, but yeah but looks and
personality. Only go a certain way like so
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far the only go so far. It goes both ways.
Yeah, you're not attracted and then you're not going to be.
They're not gonna want to be with them.
If you don't like the personality, then you're not
going to work with them, it's just common sense.
Well, in my opinion, that's true, but I mean a lot of people
but I people don't know that. What that what that looks in
personalities. Don't go a long way.
Yeah, so yeah, yeah. Very true.
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Yeah, it's crazy. What have you ever met?
Like a really, like beautiful girl.
Like yeah. And and it's like talking to a
wall, like and sometimes like even sometimes I'm like, girl,
what did you just say? Like that was so dumb.
Like you're the only one talkingthe whole time, you say, or they
say dumb stuff. Like it's like or they're boring
and unattractive. So I mean do you wanna
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conversation? Yeah, do it but you're the only
one talking. That's right.
Yeah. That's what I'm saying.
Like that's boring. It's like talking to a wall once
you do that. No.
So looks what was your day look looks and personality.
Only go so far. Okay.
Hey remember that talk and markswords.
That's my opinion. That's what I think.
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Yeah. Yeah I agree.
I mean but now it's like that's changed like a lot like before
like she knows that she needs toknow like Like I used to say,
well she has to be a baddie, shehas to know how to dress.
Yeah, dresses get 20 like that. And also like if they accept
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like that, I can like press someyeah trust unless that's what
whatever is to me. I mean, that's because you're
not into that. Like, it depends.
Yeah. That's what you just like, the
girls that I've dated like, Yeah.
Yeah, that's different. I think it was like, oh no.
I would do that too. But like, I'm not gonna pick out
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a whole outfit. Oh, I could.
And I say, why can't you understand?
Why? Me too, I could.
And I have before. Oh wow.
Okay, our next like one girl that I did date and I was a
little shocked that we wanted tosee that together, unless the
whole like the it and was it awkward at all?
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It's natural and then why shouldit sounds like, oh yeah, your
taste I do trust like You know, David keeps telling me he's
gonna, you know, take me to a store and he's gonna make an
outfit for me. He hasn't done it it's because
it's harder like oh no, no, no. Like to you like, it's hard.
Why? Because I don't know, like, I
don't want to look like a bomb and I'll put something dumb on,
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you know, I appreciate it. Let's stretch much, you're
tough. So that's why it's hard, you
know. Yeah, I forgot easier because
just like these pants are cute. This color is this?
Would you? Excuse me?
You let a girl pick out an outfit for you.
Yeah, save me some time. First, I was just like, why do
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you want to dress me? Yeah, just let them do ya.
Like why change? Just go along with it, you know,
but like if it like like, that'swhy I said like career girls
like, you know, for my birthday like somebody, she got me like
some Tommy, denim jacket, like, it seems like people wanted it
at work and then I know what else you bought me.
(35:42):
Okay. So that's why I said like if
they know how to dress and they could trust and it's not hard to
find a girl that could dress nowadays.
Everything's different now. No.
But like, I don't want to like, if they go to like, Like what
those fashion Q stores? Just get like get off.
(36:29):
20:19 around, 20 1920, 18 and she she had a flannels like why
are you in a flannel or anyways like 2015 anymore?
Like the guys, she called me came to the realization.
(36:50):
Yes, kind of lean or like the guys that work sweaters and like
100 degree weather. Yeah, I don't know whether my
bad words are hard. And yeah, so if they could dress
without having to just like Got a fashion Cube.
Thank you. Yeah.
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And then it's like cheap and it's never been to one yellow
shirt and it's like the horak. Yeah but it's called
differently. Either online shopping Shopping.
But also like, once I got careerjob like I said, it's my bad.
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What else he's showing off rightnow?
Guys are impressed and, and stuff like that, you know?
Yeah. A little bit more upscale
Brands. Yeah.
And I'm like, but I mean, I don't care about that stuff
anymore, but a lot of people do.This artwork are hurt.
A lot of people are materialistic.
Oh yeah, I can't date a girl, that's me cheerless like my
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cousin. Yeah, you know who you are.
Are you don't like shout out to Terry Burke?
Oh yeah. And then I only like bags that
are Tory Burch like it's I don'tthink it's a problem.
I know that part is not but you like you don't you know you
don't you don't tell Kevin if you love me you gonna buy me
something. I expect somebody to buy you
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this right? You know or like when the girls
like I only go to fancy restaurants on a date.
These acceptable. It's like you go to like a
Dodger game or something. And then after it's a test, it's
a test. But like, a tennis court.
I don't know. Bigger all this girl Nobu right
(38:46):
after college. I think if you're in college,
you're like, hey, let's go grab some coffee.
I think that's okay. Yeah, that's fine.
But like, we need to be able to go to McDonald's for a date like
40, but like no, not the first. Yeah.
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No, but just Chick-fil-A slow solely like now.
Oh no. I was just like fast.
Okay, I just mentioned she couldlike, ya know.
(39:36):
Smart. No, I mean, because then you'll
get confused. No, not really play the
different. Hey, not if you play your cards,
right, don't you remember, we went to this placing your order,
this and yeti on Annoying, know that was all.
That was my friend. She told me the story.
Do your friends will hear? That's crazy.
Hey, I got a question, what go for it?
(39:58):
How many times can you dedicate a song to the person that you're
dating huh-ugh? I've never done it before.
I've never did. Wait, wait like one song to
multiple women or multiple. Like I said, they're not gonna
know. I think if the song like
resonates to your feelings and it's like, well, I know you've
been feeling that if you have for every single girl,
(40:42):
Do girls like cheesy Stuff. Yes or no idea all like the the
dad jokes. The ghost Jen, all that stuff to
all that cheesy Stuff. I was cheesy pickup lines and
everything, I own. I don't know.
I think they're fun pickup lines.
I don't know about that, but I think of your child.
I don't joking. I don't use pickup lines but I'm
just saying in general, I think there, That's me.
(41:04):
Yeah, they're funny like you're joking around like if you come
off as if you do I feel like if you do it right, you come off
confident, you just like make itcasual like, you know, they
know, you're just the same joke to this to multiple when they're
not gonna know from experience really marked don't post it as I
don't do, I don't do that. I'm just kidding.
(41:36):
Like I said, earlier, we don't from art were speaking from our
experience. Yeah.
Don't like, this isn't like setting sprayer not there, but
some of them are common sense. Not gonna lie, I'm sorry.
Yes, I'm more common sense. And then like, the more we are
in touch with God and some of them are like super personal.
Not gonna, yeah, that probably requires a therapist but not all
(41:58):
the way. The Lord is our prayer prayer
requires but we will pray for you folks.
We will just put it on my Instagram.
Yeah. In a message to a good one.
A good one. What's the worst date story?
You guys have had? I got to the day and she didn't
look like how she looks after round 1.
(42:18):
I'm just like, yeah, we're talking on Instagram and I was
like, all right. Cool cool, right?
Everything's going good like we have stuff in common, I like
okay. Let's go meet up.
And I was and I see her and I was like, we're sealing, did she
(42:40):
just not look good or was she not dressed up or like you were
just like, oh no. This she had too many filters
but I think so. I don't know.
I was just like, dang, I put It was so sad.
I was what you do. I might cut the detour or what I
tried my best to and I did banana in a nice way.
(43:00):
Okay, I was like oh my dad called me, I had to go do some
emergency family. Emergency.
They don't know, I'm just now but like yeah, I mean like I was
just like okay. Go David.
(43:24):
I'm trying to think I should. You got one?
I don't think I do. But what about Kevin?
I just yeah but I haven't anyoneabout Kevin but it was it was we
went I went to Ohio and Ohio school.
Yeah. And then he was like, what are
we gonna do? And then he said that, we were
(43:45):
going to go to like this Castle,right?
That they, this guy built this Castle So from like the ground
up or something and it looked like really beautiful with like
flowers but this was Winter. Okay.
So like we go anyway and it was like this like rundown castle
and there was no flowers becauseit was Winter and over there,
(44:07):
what's not spring. So it's not like California
where he tried to do, he tried? That's what matters.
Yeah, it is. So it's not like he tried, Kevin
Got all red right now. For me, at least.
(44:42):
I don't know. I don't know.
I'm trying to think, but I wouldsay this when I went to Camp
along now. So Tyler is Tyler.
The Creator? I was his past life.
Yeah, this is like four years ago.
I won't my college Crush. You know what's funny is I put
up in Diego's Lexus. They you let me borrow his
(45:04):
Lexus. That's a good friend.
We traded cars. Because I got you, bro.
Had to do. Yeah, for a Lexus,
(45:28):
she took her kid. That's what you think.
That there was kids know. Yeah, like that.
There was kids. And like she just kept
(45:49):
complaining the whole just kept complaining.
It's annoying. Like maybe she didn't like kids,
don't think so. Yeah, I mean, we were in the 21
and over section section but like, kids kids like little
yeah, we're like teens teens? Yeah, teenagers could be.
(46:09):
Yeah, so what's your complaininglike it was like over it.
Yeah, I get to know him like youwere enjoying the day.
Know once a complainer. Yeah.
Like we're in a music festival. Like have fun.
Just watched. Yeah.
Yeah. Alright.
So that was one question. So that was where States, I
(46:31):
don't know about this one because I don't pay attention
that much. I would just ask.
What are the red flags? You guys.
Stay away from there. Has to be some.
Yeah. Obviously I mean obviously is
the typical ones. You gotta stay away from the
hose, you know the answer about the normal one.
(46:58):
We're just looking at each otherand laugh or like too many
boyfriends you mean. No, you know what?
A red flag is right now. I think about it just right now
if she still friends with your ex.
Oh oh yeah, that's a red flag. I got another one.
Nope don't but no best friends. No.
(47:19):
Best friends like Guy best friend.
All right, girl that's yeah. So like opposite sex.
Yeah. That's right.
They have a guy or girl best friend like the girl or a guy.
Now that is a wrap I'm not playing with that because I
always say it like if you know they're best friends but I don't
know if one of them, one of themhad to feel something.
Yeah. Coach.
Someone always has feelings. And there was gonna bag on you
(47:41):
and stuff. When you like the girls
complaining about you, I think if it's like a child who's a
jerk. Yeah, childhood friends.
Like, it's fine but like if they're just friends, fine.
But no best friends like this. I'm not dealing with that.
Ya know if they're friends with your ex.
Nope. Nope.
I mean that's that was kind of Common Sense.
Yeah. And like to her like she said,
(48:02):
she didn't see no big deal but like I knew After lifestyle.
That's why. Yeah.
Like, yeah, that's her life. Yes.
She'll just go back to him and that's it.
Whenever a novice. That's a red flag for me.
No best friends. Also, she's not Christian.
Well, yeah, because well that's a red flag if you're a
Christian, right? But if you're not but yeah, like
(48:22):
no no like oh she's not following God and stuff.
Yeah, I mean that's just know your lifestyle difference is, it
doesn't go? Well, I think somebody who's
like, always you can't be serious like, well, I know,
yeah. If you like Begging someone to
(48:44):
hang out and stuff like that. Like, you can't be serious.
What if they return a not enoughto say?
Say say is this a specific person?
Oh no. I think you know if like they
(49:07):
treat like service is a service workers like like we are here at
the restaurant. That's very like they're cool
with everybody but if they treatlike wretched workers are
waitresses or anybody at that point, they're still childish,
you know, that's a red flag. I mean everyone has their
(49:31):
childish moments. Yeah, immature moment but I
think that just shows that's just yeah, that's just shows how
you were raised. Next question.
How to know if it is a real relationship?
I mean we kind of went over thatalready.
Yeah I mean you answer the question if you don't know if
(49:52):
it's a real relation, it's not areal relationship.
Be like what is it? Like step back yourself.
Look at it from the outside in and then but like even doing
that that's a loser and ask thembecause if you really like that
person you just you're gonna keep making excuses for it, you
know. So so that's hard.
(50:13):
Go another one. Another one, what relationships
are worth the effort. When went to Nation, what were
they are worth the effort? When both of you are putting in
the work. Yeah.
Exactly. I think if you feel like very
(50:34):
safe. Yeah.
Very like fine figure out your friends.
Yeah, I'm sorry. I mean yeah.
That completes you because the only person that could complete
you is God. Yeah.
For sure. Or somebody who like wants to
(50:55):
make you grow. Yes.
That brings you calm and peace, that doesn't wear you down.
Yeah, but then the groins are friends went in there guys.
That's, that's all. Yeah.
That's also a problem. That's, that's a big problem.
Anything. Nice guys.
Finish last tracks. Yeah, but Jake's Never See.
The Finish Line. Supposedly supposedly.
(51:15):
But I haven't seen enough to fit.
They do see the finish line but Way Lady.
Yeah we really yeah. and okay before yeah, years past
(51:57):
Nobody was giving it back tension.
Yeah. And I'm like, no.
And I'm just, let me try something different.
Like, oh, she asked me for something or do something like
but it's crazy. How that works.
Yeah. It's because they're like, or
like, or like that, or like, when you call her out, like on
her insecurities stuff. Like, why do you have a scar on
(52:18):
your face? You know, dang, but I never did
that. No, but I would like, I would
like make fun of him and stuff. Yeah, yeah.
But like, you know, women are sensitive will hurt, not that
much but and then I would get numbers out.
What the heck? It was only a month.
(52:59):
Was there ever a relationship? You regret?
No. Because those are learning
lessons. I think you grow from release
those past incident. I think if it's like very
extreme, like abuse. Oh, yeah, I've been, yeah.
But you still, you still learn from You see the shirt?
(53:23):
No, no, no. I was kidding.
Just kidding. I would never solid joke.
I would never put my hands. Yeah, I think you liked him for
a reason right there. If you I think just like
traumatic stuff, like I can feellike it's something really bad
that affected your minute like mental state then really?
(53:45):
Yeah, like cheating. Would you like if somebody
cheated? Why don't know if I know, I
never been to know. Yeah, no one me.
I found out later that I was just like, no, I don't either
(54:11):
no. And I know like in the last part
I said money and stuff but like it doesn't mean matter like it's
who I am. Yeah, yeah.
Yeah. So you regret them.
Money but not the experience or not the don't waste a lot of
money. Yeah, I know.
Like yeah, I mean it just goes back to like well you think I'm
I'm with this person can be withthis person or dating this
(54:32):
person for a long-ass time like,sorry.
Not because I was like, he got frustrated for a minute.
(54:53):
And don't tell me dating multiple women at the same time.
Same time. Multiple guys.
Same time, guys. That's messed up.
What you want that to happen to you just think about that
furrows, seriously. And just be honest, like I'm
already talking to somebody and just be like, you know, I'm
dating around. Yeah.
Because you'll never find a serious relationship like that.
(55:15):
And if you have commitment, that's commitment issues.
Right there. Yeah.
If you a lot of people have thatcommitment issues.
Yeah. With all friendships.
Like yeah. Can't even commit.
That's next part. But if you have community's
commitment issues you need use. Yeah, you do.
(55:36):
Yeah. I mean you need you Jesus period
or a therapist? Well yeah, you can't even commit
to Jesus. He offers you free salvation.
Action can commit to that then then you probably won't have
commitment in other areas of your life.
I know a lot of people communityissues.
David. Just like comments and I'll bury
(56:25):
you in. Got your first kiss down?
Next question. No, the wrestler we kind of
answered because it's like, Wesley apparently.
Yeah. If your parents don't like your
relationship or what was? No, I don't know.
If it doesn't matter if like your friends and your parents
(56:45):
don't like him. Don't like the person.
Yeah, I think, I think that's wrong.
Then you'll never be able to hang out with your friends and
your parents like with your girl.
All right? You know what I learned?
From friends was that you had that experience?
Sorry. No, no, no.
Okay. Okay.
No. But from Friends, the show.
Yeah. Oh and she was a filth or
(57:14):
something and like she didn't like his friends.
Oh yeah. Oh yeah.
Oh so that's also a red flag. Yeah, that's what she doesn't
like my friends. Oh yeah, my friends can't like
her because the way I see it, they want the best.
Best for me. Yeah.
And if they don't like it, they don't like it for some reason,
right? They have a reason, and but
that's cool. That's okay.
But the girl that I'm dating? Yeah, she's gonna have to like
(57:37):
my friends. I gonna live.
Yes, I do family pens like because if you hang out with
your family a lot. Yeah.
Are you guy? I mean that one they're going to
deal with it. Immediate family should matter.
You're like your mom or dad because Bro, your parents are
(57:58):
going to be there forever for you, that's true, but but I want
them to get along. They're not it's not going to be
like they're going to criticize.Well, that's why I like because
that goes back to that Friends, Friends episode, no, no, listen
to a married woman, you know, like they're, they're always
going to say, like, Kevin alwayssaid that nobody's going to be a
never enough because he has a sister, right?
(58:18):
Like know, his parents never thought that anybody was enough
for his sister. So it's the same like, nobody's
gonna Be enough for your daughter.
Right? So, they didn't criticize Kevin
but it's not like, oh, he's likeperfect.
And I'm in, but they would. They had like a Kanye are
moments when I stopped friends? No, not perfect.
But then they see that he liked her.
(58:58):
And I wouldn't expect any less from you my friends.
That's because yeah, because like if they see me happy, then
like, okay, so we do try but I'mbreaks it off with her because
she does she becomes like this jerk and starts talking smack
about his friends. Hmm.
You know and it goes back to thesame thing but we'll save that
for the next part. Yeah, that's like friendship
(59:20):
friendship but it is it's sort of been a room in a romantic
relationship. Hopefully Eric and yeas are back
for that. I think Eric might be back.
Yeah, I know. All right.
Well, I think one more question and then I'm going to call it
(59:41):
because call it a day. Yeah, our call it an episode.
Yeah. It's been fun, though.
Thank you again guys for the feedback and the listens.
It's been awesome. This is fun.
It's getting more and more fun. Every time we do this.
Yeah. 0 and 100 followers were going to do a giveaway.
Oh wait, I do know this guy's, Ididn't know this.
(01:00:05):
Wait, the hundred followers on Instagram.
Once we hit on Instagram, you guys heard that go follow the,
hey, I don't care. Follow.
Go for it. Follow our individual accounts.
To, I mean, I guess this is goodone.
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Now, pick a good how to deal with a non communicator?
I don't know. That's a red flag and yeah,
that's a red flag. You don't Camille with them.
You'd be like Bible. You know your worth.
Yeah, exactly. A communication.
Communication is key in a relationship.
Yeah, mr. Ignoring you or act like you're
(01:00:47):
not alive or that's nice in the same area and like didn't even
acknowledge you. Mmm.
In the same area that did seem like they're not putting any
effort like, oh, like they know that you're there but they don't
acknowledge you. Yeah.
Have you ever had like when you're like texting somebody?
And when you see them in person they're like, whatever, like I
haven't experienced that but yeah, sometimes that question
(01:01:10):
their social media. They are like all chatty and
everything but in person they'rejust like well maybe there's
well maybe they're socially awkward.
Yeah. All right, pretty and stuff.
I forget the things to talk about like you're like, yeah I
know he's like, damn I should have talked about this that and
(01:01:31):
the other, but I get nervous because like they're pretty and
like, you know, but you just gotto keep trying keep talking I
guess that's how you sure. And I think that's what happens
when my college Crush to thank you.
We why mistook you stomach arsenic is keep bringing her up.
Yeah, just kidding. No, she's bad.
She's really pretty but like butYeah, I would forget things to
(01:01:56):
talk about and stuff and you're like, dang, I should like pretty
girls and stuff, you know. So answering that question,
maybe had been like maybe that person if you've experienced
that, maybe that person was nervous or yeah.
Are you were just very pretty like these?
(01:02:16):
Exactly. Exactly.
Because, or maybe just straight-up asking me, you good?
Yeah. Is everything okay?
Yeah. And also you, I don't want to
ruin that cofactor, like the perception.
Yeah. Yeah.
That's going to be pushy either.Yeah.
First annoying, but you should say.
Hi. Oh no.
(01:02:37):
Yeah, yeah. But like yeah.
Some people are just socially are great.
Yeah, I don't people like that. There's a lot of people like
that. Yeah.
Socially awkward to some extent.We are yeah, yeah, yeah.
When I don't want to talk to knowin, ya, I'll just say hi and
I'll leave. So everybody knows, it might
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want to talk to you soon. I forgot to say this is last
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thing before we end the Pod, I got a temporary shift schedule
change over from 6 a.m. to 2:30 now that 245 our no traffic, you
got like the whole day because that's the way I had to wake up
early. Yeah that's fine.
Yeah. But I said going Jim now because
they got that. Yeah.
Oh and there's nobody at 2:30. Huh, so.
(01:03:48):
Yeah. Everyone's working at this
hopefully you know got a really nice thick.
They let me let me keep it. So that's cool.
Just tell him I want to stay. Yeah.
We I'm going to bug them. Yeah.
Oh yeah. That's pretty cool.
So now we've got answered your prayers.
Yeah, that's cool. We're gonna have my time for
stuff like this. Yeah, we won't take long neck,
(01:04:10):
so sorry. Yeah.
But 100 followers, give him intoa giveaway.
Yeah, guys. So follow it up.
Blow it up. What's the pot, a pot?
The follow us on Instagram againagain, because I thought about
nothing. Yeah, on Instagram.
And then the rest of our socialsare on there too.
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Yeah for us. All right.
Well that's the end of episode to thank you.
Guys. Always on Spotify and apple
music. No, apple podcast.
I apologize and soon YouTube. Yeah, we're going to we're
working on it. We have a lot of stuff going on
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Thank you guys. Thank you for the love.
Shout out to the haters and the arena guests are going to start
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College. Soccer player O War veteran or I
just remember, I'm Gonna Save that.
Who is it? No, dude, I'm on the, I'm on the
(01:05:19):
pot and I don't even know. Yeah, like I said there's a
bright future. David David's the manager.
So, yeah. I'm the I'm the face of the
whole thing, you know? He's here.
I didn't, I didn't know that he liked.
He really liked to be talking tothem like, and whom I didn't do
the intro, you me? Oh yeah.
This is fun. Yeah.
All right. We're going to end this over.
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We're sorry. We went a little bit too late.
Now deserve the long run becausewe take.
All right. Well, romantic relationships is
a long time. Yeah, it might be a two-parter.
Ya later on. If you guys want a two-parter,
let us know on Instagram. Yeah.
And again we're not relationship.
Experts your marriage counselor.This is just sorry.
Thank you guys for listening andwe'll see you about will see.
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You will see you when we see you.
All right. Bye.
Hi guys. Hi guys.
That's right. We're back.
Welcome back to a pot about nothing and I'm your main host.
Mark, the havoc and Ashley, and welcome to episode 2.
This is God's favorite part, guys.
Make sure you pay attention and listen and we're happy to be
back and we're excited for this.We sure are.
It's just a Pisces twins today. Yeah, as in Eric are on a
(00:23):
business trip actually just? Yes.
Yeah. We're we're riding solo today.
It's just me and David. It's awesome.
It's all good though. Yeah.
Actually have a special guest today, Ashley one of my
producers, one of my producers and then and then sound
engineer. Our sound engineer Kevin's here
with us. As always.
Thank you guys for having me. Our supporters, our supporters.
And we just want to thank you guys for all the listens on
(00:44):
Spotify, apple and all that Manuel did y'all did wonders
man? Y'all run at the numbers for
sure. Yeah, I was a little surprised
me to not gonna not gonna lie. It was cooler.
I liked it. Oh, shout out to the people in
UK listening. Oh yes, we will write.
We will write. We are Wide else, that's it.
Oh man, he's gonna Mexico and I mean telling me, he Co love you.
(01:07):
Guys, I love this.
This episode has been long coming.
Well, we waited too long. Yeah, we sure did y'all were
acting like divas? I'm like, no, for real bro.
Now and then now forget all you guys that like my intro last
(01:29):
time. Y'all come do this.
I was nervous now so we do listen to the people, we do
listen to our fans so we heard y'all that didn't like marks
intro but he's working on. I'm gonna snow today was I think
today was better. He changed it up.
Side is 0, then I don't know what I'm gonna do.
(01:53):
We're gonna replace you with Crystal now.
What does the intro yeah, because we're born the same day,
(02:22):
born on the same day and but don't take it serious, you know,
it's just a joke but every time we The girls probably give us
has to give us ugly faces. Yeah.
Well, as soon as we say, we havethe same birthday, they just
give us an ugly face and then we're like, oh, you guys are
Pisces. I'm just like, okay, like, I
don't know, I don't know, I don't know what the type of man,
(02:45):
I don't know. The type of people that they
hang out with, but they must have bad experiences with
Pisces. Pisces men.
I see. We're different.
We're different. That's for sure.
Yeah. Yeah that for sure like last
week, Week in the conference. Yeah, conference I said that you
and I were Pisces Twins were talking about the pot with their
(03:06):
friends and then some girl just turned around and looked at me
like really judging me for saying, Pisces Twins.
And then I was like, I'm a Pisces to there a problem.
And there's just like a Pisces men are toxic and I'm like, wow,
interesting. Well but then like the next day
she apologized who was now, but she she apologized and then she
looked at David like I'm waitingfor my apology.
(03:28):
Yeah. So she says, So so she was being
a little petty, you know, imagine being 16 and being.
Yeah. And we were all out with eating
and we'll see us and she was just being petty like I have no
idea why and And that was Petit back.
(03:51):
I'm just like a little kid. How much she's good?
She's good people and I just want to apologize.
It was so funny and then she turned and then she just kept
(04:11):
staring at. Okay, your turn to apologize.
(04:49):
Too many shoutouts. Yeah people what I mean we're
good people. Yeah, aside from that it's like
we rather show love and give people their flowers while we're
still alive, you know? Yeah.
Especially now like with everything that's going on.
Yes I'm haters are gonna hate bro.
We don't hate you guys exert. God's love ha ha.
(05:10):
Hey bro, people are gonna hate people are gonna hate but the
Lucy the listen speak volume bro.
Hopefully the yeah. I know but this one we're gonna
whoa will go. We won't take as long next time.
Yeah. And hopefully everyone's here.
Yeah, everybody. Yeah.
As went to Nashville for a Taylor Swift concert.
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Thanks. Yes.
Thanks for ditching. Us and Erik.
Erik is studying. That's a good excuse.
He has a midterm he's probably sleeping problem bro.
He time talking to another girl.Yeah.
Is that is 13, but I don't out of all five girls who started
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but we're gonna make it sound like he's a real player.
Is a good guy, I guess I just but they'll be here.
They are missed. Yeah, it's nothing.
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Maybe, we'll see. Hopefully my soul mate.
Doesn't listen to us. Oh yeah, I mean, I don't know
but it doesn't matter. She'll accept you no matter
what, that's the kind of passion, no matter who you are
now and I think if you're going to start a relationship, he they
have to know your past. Yeah, that's true.
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Yeah, I would want to know her past.
Yeah, yeah. Yeah.
That's part of Of being in love being accepting of.
Hey, that's coming through. That's coming from married
woman. Yeah, that's true.
Because what happened before? Yeah, because you can't be with
somebody. You can't trust.
Yeah, that's true. Then you get like anxious and
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you get all that like, start overthinking.
Everything is the worst. It really is overthinking is the
worst. If you guys are overthinking
things and like you guys are getting anxious over things and
I think you need to step away from that.
Yeah step back that's like the best thing to step back and
Bleep sometimes. Yeah, rethink everything or
communicate and be like a, you know, I'm feeling this way but
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it also depends where you are ina relationship.
That's true. Like, if you guys are talking
but it's like, well I think if you guys just initiated like,
yeah, I've talking stage, I don't think you should say them,
but but like, how far into say that them?
Like, three months, two months, like maybe a month.
I would say. Yeah.
You think, what do you think, baby?
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Yeah, I mean, if both are in agreement like this is Yeah.
Like maybe there's no title yet because y'all still do your
other, don't friends. But you're more than for the
joint dating. Your more than friends are like
in that in-between stage? Yeah, yeah, sure.
Maybe. I don't know, maybe if I would
have done that in the past relationship, it would have
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helped. But yeah maybe but just saw,
y'all know this episode is aboutrelationship.
Yeah, we said we would continue for you last week.
It will get into our personal experiences and then we'll
answer you guys questions a little bit later on.
Yo y'all came in with a lot of questions?
Yeah I'll keep going. Follow us on Instagram or part
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about nothing. It's a pot that about nothing
and then follow our separate Instagram accounts through
varying are ya the first episodeduring the first episode?
Yeah and listen to this one. Maybe you're in question my
goodness. Oh yes we're going to answer it.
We're going to try our best and problem.
Yeah just a little bit now we are.
Yeah. But and also check out our sin
(09:18):
Sound Engineers Instagram to, hehas music and stuff out.
Go check him out. Yeah, yeah, it's really good.
I listen to it too me too. Yeah, I was like I'm more to
come more to come. Yeah, we don't show.
Love goes to love like you showed us.
Yeah, there's two in the barrel so yeah.
So I mean I really let's get into it.
I mean, what we say we're going to talk about our experiences.
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So we're gonna keep on Saturday Sunday.
We went to church I'm, I'm wearing my Express dress shirts.
What color is it? It's like a, it's like a pine
green emerald, green. I'm okay.
I'm okay. And we're going.
I got a brown belt, beige pants,and brown shoes.
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Yeah. And I had a jacket on because it
was cold in the morning. What kind of jacket?
It's nice though. I think like a charcoal.
I'm wearing a floral dress, a bird.
Candy with purple and white flowers from The Loft and some
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free band is not free. Brand new Adidas Slides.
Yeah. Actually was kind of that
church. Yeah.
They're asking Kevin. Were kind enough to let us do
the pot at their house or their Studio?
Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah and I'm wearing a black hoodie from H&M, a gray Carhartt
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shirt, some blue pants and the Nike Tom Sachs.
Yeah. Tom Sachs GPS although we're not
supporting him because a little I'll all those allegations in
those are funny too but Mi I said he was walking, he would
walk around the office naked just to get inspired.
That's crazy. I mean I guess he's an artist
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but that's what these are. These were made for girls.
These were made for girls. Oh, no way.
Yeah. If you made them for girls, I
don't mean, I don't know why like, it's his own shoe that
Nike made with him. But yeah, he's a little psycho
right now. I mean, here's an artist, so
that's no excuse me. Yeah.
There's like, there's literally women in the office.
Yeah. No, no, yeah.
There's no justification by like, artists are tend to be a
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little off. Yeah.
That's, that's a common way in these allegations.
Well, they just came out. They just came out last week.
Or his like workers. I got mean he didn't rape no
wear anything. He was walking around the
office. Naked.
That's how he brainstorms apparently.
Well, that that is sexual harassment.
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Yeah, I don't want no one to seeall that.
Yeah. And here like a swat sticker
over the refrigerator or something.
And then but yeah, these shoes were bought way before that.
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So we're now supporting him, which is crazy today.
But next time, maybe pretty soon.
It depends how we feel, pretty simple and show today.
Yeah. But and Eric in his pj's at home
and yes, is wearing a cowboy hatand cowboy cowboy boots on the
plane. Anywhere in any situation that
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you're in there, you're just creating scenarios in your head
and anxiety. Yeah, and I didn't really like I
was going through that like you don't realize it because like
you want things to go. Well so do you like oh I'm good.
I could get through this. Yeah and maybe I should have
communicated but I mean I think the chant the outcome.
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Would it still be the same at the end of the day for a guy?
You forgot to tell that to grow.I feel like it's a little bitty
toxic or know. Like it's like you come off as
like week really. Yeah, I think so.
Yeah, I think it also depends onthe girl, but like most girls
are like that. Well, That they overthink.
No, no. Got like what if a guy
overthinks things in there? Like, oh, like, I don't know
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what you're doing tonight and they're complaining.
The like you're overthinking things again anxious.
I feel like the girls heiko Likeyour guy, why don't ya?
But you should be like the man, you shouldn't.
Yeah. No.
Not like that. That just like oh Like, you're
like like that. I don't know how to explain it
but I think if somebody's like oh I'm overthinking and I don't
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really trust, you had been like,whoa, what, what?
No, no no I've been like, well, what is it?
That makes you not trust me. Or what it takes?
What actions do I do? That makes you open think, you
know, I think I would probably respond that way, right?
Yeah. That's a good answer.
So like if a girl's, well, that's a good communicator.
Yeah. You know, like you're
communicating but I feel like that's like a no offense to him
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but I feel like that too. Like We're thinking in my thing.
Like I feel like that's a feminine trait.
I think Chris and I am I wrong for that.
All right. I think girls in general are
over thinkers. Yeah, I think guys to they just
don't yank, you know, they just and also we don't say anymore
because that worked like Societyhas this not communicating my
feelings and stuff like that. Like, that's how it is.
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Like, we're supposed to be the man of the house.
We're supposed to, like, be the boss is like, according to
society. Yeah.
And it's like, Boys, Don't Cry. I men don't cry.
And then that's how. Things are perceived.
So like if I can guys like anxious over thinking, like
you're like, oh he's weak. And then the the girls, like,
oh, I'm the one that has the pants in the relationship.
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Yeah. And then for a guy to get the
pants back when he loses. Like what this particular person
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or in this? Like, I think because I think it
was like, From my last relationship.
From your previous my previous relationship.
You know, I was with her for sixyears, right?
So that was fine. Yeah, so that was my Like what?
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It's like here later I actually like oh I'm asked this girl out.
Oh so after so you were dating. So you were with her for six
years and then broke up and thenyou didn't date anybody for a
year. Wow.
Wow, a year that's a long time, guys.
Usually is like three months in?No, I think it's more of like, I
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froze at least with me. It's just like you needed.
That guy need that reset. Yeah, I need a reset.
I don't know. And also like six years like
being a relationship for six years.
That's a long time bro. That's a big chunk of your life.
That's a bit. Yeah.
Yeah. Good thing.
Like, crap. That is another, I think about
it, like, in your mom mentioned it before, like either I would
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have been married or and out of church and not at a church.
But away from God, right away from God, yeah, like away from
God and trying to get back to him.
But, or either that or have a kid because that's how like that
would like. Wedlock?
Yeah, have a junior having. She knew he would be a menu.
How you would be a man? No, he would be a quiet kid.
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It'll be a quiet kid. Yeah.
Because who my kid's gonna be a man?
It's probably. Yeah, I think your kids would
probably hit my kids. I'm gonna be proud of all the
things you throw, do those wild?Y'all catch me at church on the
roof, killing throwing lemons, good.
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I was just having fun. I was just exploring.
I was like, I'm bored. I'm gonna go explore.
You catch me on the roof. So, yeah, that's why I just like
a year in and I was like finallyhave the guts to ask this girl
and I didn't know. We would just go out and stuff.
And then like later on towards the end of the year we got a
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little bit more serious and stuff.
Yeah, that's cool. Yeah.
But obviously it didn't work out.
No. Could you speak right now?
Which is good. You were just dating just to
date, right? Yeah.
I was doing just today. I was me and me for a long time.
Yeah, but I think when you're younger, it's okay, it's not
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okay. But it's like well yeah you're
young, you're studying having fun.
I was just having fun. Yeah.
Well, Marty still young. Yeah, I mean if the opportunity
comes up But I would tell you like, in your parents eyes, 30
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is kind of old. Yeah, I think so.
Like I don't think it's because they're used to
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I was a jerk for calling you as a dork, but that's just how it
is. That's just how we mess around
with each other watches me just made fun of Eric and called them
penguin enemy. And this is like how didn't
nobody catch that bro? It's because they were
apparently I'm almost all focused on my intro like it was
whacking this. You guys come do this man.
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No Mikey Yeah but I it was, I mean, it was cool because like I
went to concerts and like the girl you live, you live, you
live that like yeah, we saw trachea booed off stage so it
was cool. But like, let's go back to the
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back to the age thing, like, ourparents.
They all day. Most of them got married when
they're like, 28 1819 like do you remember what my mom got
married at 21. Yeah.
And and then the year later, my sister came and then a year
after that I came back. It was everything was fast.
That's why They see everything nowadays, right?
And they're taking forever. What y'all went too fast?
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I mean, if I would I mean I wouldn't mind either but like up
to see where I am but it's just like everything like and if a
kid pops out it happens like theworld.
You don't mean the kid pops out.Well, you're right.
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I have no kids. And then somebody told somebody
(21:42):
like, why is David up? There isn't engaged rain and
then both probably something minor Brody and then at David's
wedding might okay. Oh yeah.
Because in time for my birthday party, that that was going to be
my wedding. / Iya ya? Yeah.
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He's like, you're getting married.
I was like, he's like, you're getting Maybe next week I was
like, yeah, yeah, yeah. That I got married.
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When they were young and like, ayear later, their divorce, man,
like everything like everything,and they have a kid, everything
happened within the ear, that's crazy.
Well, that's when you don't havethe love of God, I sure as a
sinner. Oh yeah, I did just rush the
pages, fresh thinking too fast. But yeah, that's all the times.
The times are a lot harder than before.
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I think I like I'm sure there are hard like back together hard
because like oh wait our parentscame from.
Yeah. Yeah, but it's all of our
parents are from Mexico. Like it's, it's hard to even get
a house here. Do it until expensive latian is
going up and not wage, you know.So how am I going to get a house
with? You know.
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Barely barely getting. Well, not me.
But just saying in general, any more than a job.
I didn't have a job. Yeah, so sad.
I mean you need to do have fun, bro.
You just chill, bro. Like no, I want to do something,
man. I want to do something, but I
You know, like from going from not having a job to having a job
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and it's hard. It's hard because you got used
to the lifestyle, being at home.Yeah.
Being at home and being accessible to church.
Yeah, you know, just like, you know, like, all we need to do
this all types. I was just being be there or
just being there are just being free to do anything.
Yeah, but like, that's the most important thing you have so much
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money. Yeah.
Fighting go out. You're not progressing life or
anything like that. I mean you shouldn't.
Yeah. Cuz I was like, yeah.
Unless they're gonna pay I mean after like dating like girls
like career job girls and stuff.Oh yeah.
Why the hey, nah, nah. I like, for my birthday.
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Oh, yeah. And who wait, wait.
Hold up. Yeah, I know lie.
Like that was cool. No wonder girls, go out with and
let the guy pay, and who should pay on the first date?
Typical class. My, my opinion.
It's whoever asked whoever asked, if the girl asks the guy
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then there's the grocer pay because it was her idea Jews.
Obviously, obviously, I would offer, I would offer and I would
insist, but if she keeps tellingme know them, nah, I think you
should. Yeah.
No, no. I insist like three times but if
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she keeps telling me no like, what am I gonna do?
What am I to do? All right.
Wait, but I have I've always paid in on the first date.
This has one carat weight. Yeah, yeah, I'm yeah.
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Has anybody ever asked you guys out?
Oh wait. What's your, what?
What had a girl asked me to be her boyfriend.
Well, that's awkward like, right.
Right then. And there, or were you guys
talking we weren't even talking weird.
It was like we knew each other already.
Okay. Okay.
Oh, so you guys want? Friends for a while.
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Yeah, I was just like, you know, girl, I mean accident,
(26:30):
I'm going to sleep. I just didn't respond baby
responsibilities. Like she would text me through
like doing work and I wouldn't respond all the time you know,
because I can't be on my phone and then I said like I'm at work
all what time you get off 2:30 right are between 30 on the dot.
Hey what's up? That is that's too much girls,
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don't do that. Give when you guys are talking
guys to give each other some space.
Oh yeah. You know how much space but you
don't have to be talking 24/7 all day?
No yeah no but also don't, don'tleave someone on don't wait to
respond like 23 hours later by the way the rule is if Whoever
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doesn't text back last is one has to start to end the
conversation again. Oh, dang.
So like if that's right. Good morning.
Have a good day and then you're like, oh, thank you you too.
So they have to text you back oryeah.
So, what if you say? Good morning, right.
Your guy, I'm and then the girlsI would hope your girl.
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The guy says, good morning have a great day and then she's like,
oh yeah, you two things, whatever she has to initiate.
No, no, he already anything. I knew she as she responds and I
don't respond back at their Nation.
You're a jerk if you don't respond.
Okay, cool. So I finish it again.
Yeah. So like if you're texting and
well if he's if he says good night night before he's not
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gonna initiate. She is.
That's what it means. Yeah.
So she's going to say good morning, not him.
Yeah, really. I think guys should initiate
always. Good morning.
Always. I have heard that.
Yes, I like I like Yeah. I've been like I like good night
and good morning Texoma sir. Yeah and a girl told me that one
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like a girl that I did. Oh yeah.
I mean it worked. It worked out for him.
Yeah, me too. Sorry I fell asleep.
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Yeah, she does that. Okay.
But if she doesn't then it's like yeah.
But if you're not gonna respond for a long time you could be
like I'm gonna be busy. I'll talk to you when I can like
that's like polite. You know.
That's who. Yeah.
That way. Yeah.
That's just put like I think I agree.
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Yeah. And then like in a different
relationship was like she never responded.
You don't like one whole day. Like oh, that's annoying.
And I was just like, are you okay?
Just like, yeah. Why.
Should I be wearing was, what would be wrong?
What you doing beep? Like that.
Look it. She's like, well, how did you
know? I was just resting.
I was with my family and I don'twant to text and I'm like, oh,
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I'm sorry. I know that they make you seem
like the bad guy, but like, advice for everyone out there if
she, if they want, if they want to talk to you, if they want
initiate something, they would. If they don't, they don't.
So don't stress out about it. Don't overthink it.
If they want to, they will Yeah,that's true.
And Mike I mean yeah. Yeah, that they're 101.
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Shout out to you and Josh, just kidding.
Josh, I love you. I love you.
Both you to jail. Yeah.
Deal finally bought his own cowboy boots.
I saw his idea boots, dude. I'm guys gonna be
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That's what I'm finished. Proverbs only ours is good.
You know, which one you know it's versatility and the
Proverbs woman is supposed to sound like proverbs 31 and I was
just like, you know, well beforehow I would answer like, oh I
mean your mom knows the type of girl I like and stuff like that.
He's been easy baddies. Tara better.
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You know, and my record shows. You feel about filled out my
record. Oh no, we're not.
But we don't care about that, nomore like In terms of it
matters. Yeah, but yeah but looks and
personality. Only go a certain way like so
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far the only go so far. It goes both ways.
Yeah, you're not attracted and then you're not going to be.
They're not gonna want to be with them.
If you don't like the personality, then you're not
going to work with them, it's just common sense.
Well, in my opinion, that's true, but I mean a lot of people
but I people don't know that. What that what that looks in
personalities. Don't go a long way.
Yeah, so yeah, yeah. Very true.
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Yeah, it's crazy. What have you ever met?
Like a really, like beautiful girl.
Like yeah. And and it's like talking to a
wall, like and sometimes like even sometimes I'm like, girl,
what did you just say? Like that was so dumb.
Like you're the only one talkingthe whole time, you say, or they
say dumb stuff. Like it's like or they're boring
and unattractive. So I mean do you wanna
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conversation? Yeah, do it but you're the only
one talking. That's right.
Yeah. That's what I'm saying.
Like that's boring. It's like talking to a wall once
you do that. No.
So looks what was your day look looks and personality.
Only go so far. Okay.
Hey remember that talk and markswords.
That's my opinion. That's what I think.
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Yeah. Yeah I agree.
I mean but now it's like that's changed like a lot like before
like she knows that she needs toknow like Like I used to say,
well she has to be a baddie, shehas to know how to dress.
Yeah, dresses get 20 like that. And also like if they accept
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like that, I can like press someyeah trust unless that's what
whatever is to me. I mean, that's because you're
not into that. Like, it depends.
Yeah. That's what you just like, the
girls that I've dated like, Yeah.
Yeah, that's different. I think it was like, oh no.
I would do that too. But like, I'm not gonna pick out
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a whole outfit. Oh, I could.
And I say, why can't you understand?
Why? Me too, I could.
And I have before. Oh wow.
Okay, our next like one girl that I did date and I was a
little shocked that we wanted tosee that together, unless the
whole like the it and was it awkward at all?
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It's natural and then why shouldit sounds like, oh yeah, your
taste I do trust like You know, David keeps telling me he's
gonna, you know, take me to a store and he's gonna make an
outfit for me. He hasn't done it it's because
it's harder like oh no, no, no. Like to you like, it's hard.
Why? Because I don't know, like, I
don't want to look like a bomb and I'll put something dumb on,
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you know, I appreciate it. Let's stretch much, you're
tough. So that's why it's hard, you
know. Yeah, I forgot easier because
just like these pants are cute. This color is this?
Would you? Excuse me?
You let a girl pick out an outfit for you.
Yeah, save me some time. First, I was just like, why do
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you want to dress me? Yeah, just let them do ya.
Like why change? Just go along with it, you know,
but like if it like like, that'swhy I said like career girls
like, you know, for my birthday like somebody, she got me like
some Tommy, denim jacket, like, it seems like people wanted it
at work and then I know what else you bought me.
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Okay. So that's why I said like if
they know how to dress and they could trust and it's not hard to
find a girl that could dress nowadays.
Everything's different now. No.
But like, I don't want to like, if they go to like, Like what
those fashion Q stores? Just get like get off.
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20:19 around, 20 1920, 18 and she she had a flannels like why
are you in a flannel or anyways like 2015 anymore?
Like the guys, she called me came to the realization.
(36:50):
Yes, kind of lean or like the guys that work sweaters and like
100 degree weather. Yeah, I don't know whether my
bad words are hard. And yeah, so if they could dress
without having to just like Got a fashion Cube.
Thank you. Yeah.
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And then it's like cheap and it's never been to one yellow
shirt and it's like the horak. Yeah but it's called
differently. Either online shopping Shopping.
But also like, once I got careerjob like I said, it's my bad.
(37:43):
What else he's showing off rightnow?
Guys are impressed and, and stuff like that, you know?
Yeah. A little bit more upscale
Brands. Yeah.
And I'm like, but I mean, I don't care about that stuff
anymore, but a lot of people do.This artwork are hurt.
A lot of people are materialistic.
Oh yeah, I can't date a girl, that's me cheerless like my
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cousin. Yeah, you know who you are.
Are you don't like shout out to Terry Burke?
Oh yeah. And then I only like bags that
are Tory Burch like it's I don'tthink it's a problem.
I know that part is not but you like you don't you know you
don't you don't tell Kevin if you love me you gonna buy me
something. I expect somebody to buy you
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this right? You know or like when the girls
like I only go to fancy restaurants on a date.
These acceptable. It's like you go to like a
Dodger game or something. And then after it's a test, it's
a test. But like, a tennis court.
I don't know. Bigger all this girl Nobu right
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after college. I think if you're in college,
you're like, hey, let's go grab some coffee.
I think that's okay. Yeah, that's fine.
But like, we need to be able to go to McDonald's for a date like
40, but like no, not the first. Yeah.
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No, but just Chick-fil-A slow solely like now.
Oh no. I was just like fast.
Okay, I just mentioned she couldlike, ya know.
(39:36):
Smart. No, I mean, because then you'll
get confused. No, not really play the
different. Hey, not if you play your cards,
right, don't you remember, we went to this placing your order,
this and yeti on Annoying, know that was all.
That was my friend. She told me the story.
Do your friends will hear? That's crazy.
Hey, I got a question, what go for it?
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How many times can you dedicate a song to the person that you're
dating huh-ugh? I've never done it before.
I've never did. Wait, wait like one song to
multiple women or multiple. Like I said, they're not gonna
know. I think if the song like
resonates to your feelings and it's like, well, I know you've
been feeling that if you have for every single girl,
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Do girls like cheesy Stuff. Yes or no idea all like the the
dad jokes. The ghost Jen, all that stuff to
all that cheesy Stuff. I was cheesy pickup lines and
everything, I own. I don't know.
I think they're fun pickup lines.
I don't know about that, but I think of your child.
I don't joking. I don't use pickup lines but I'm
just saying in general, I think there, That's me.
(41:04):
Yeah, they're funny like you're joking around like if you come
off as if you do I feel like if you do it right, you come off
confident, you just like make itcasual like, you know, they
know, you're just the same joke to this to multiple when they're
not gonna know from experience really marked don't post it as I
don't do, I don't do that. I'm just kidding.
(41:36):
Like I said, earlier, we don't from art were speaking from our
experience. Yeah.
Don't like, this isn't like setting sprayer not there, but
some of them are common sense. Not gonna lie, I'm sorry.
Yes, I'm more common sense. And then like, the more we are
in touch with God and some of them are like super personal.
Not gonna, yeah, that probably requires a therapist but not all
(41:58):
the way. The Lord is our prayer prayer
requires but we will pray for you folks.
We will just put it on my Instagram.
Yeah. In a message to a good one.
A good one. What's the worst date story?
You guys have had? I got to the day and she didn't
look like how she looks after round 1.
(42:18):
I'm just like, yeah, we're talking on Instagram and I was
like, all right. Cool cool, right?
Everything's going good like we have stuff in common, I like
okay. Let's go meet up.
And I was and I see her and I was like, we're sealing, did she
(42:40):
just not look good or was she not dressed up or like you were
just like, oh no. This she had too many filters
but I think so. I don't know.
I was just like, dang, I put It was so sad.
I was what you do. I might cut the detour or what I
tried my best to and I did banana in a nice way.
(43:00):
Okay, I was like oh my dad called me, I had to go do some
emergency family. Emergency.
They don't know, I'm just now but like yeah, I mean like I was
just like okay. Go David.
(43:24):
I'm trying to think I should. You got one?
I don't think I do. But what about Kevin?
I just yeah but I haven't anyoneabout Kevin but it was it was we
went I went to Ohio and Ohio school.
Yeah. And then he was like, what are
we gonna do? And then he said that, we were
(43:45):
going to go to like this Castle,right?
That they, this guy built this Castle So from like the ground
up or something and it looked like really beautiful with like
flowers but this was Winter. Okay.
So like we go anyway and it was like this like rundown castle
and there was no flowers becauseit was Winter and over there,
(44:07):
what's not spring. So it's not like California
where he tried to do, he tried? That's what matters.
Yeah, it is. So it's not like he tried, Kevin
Got all red right now. For me, at least.
(44:42):
I don't know. I don't know.
I'm trying to think, but I wouldsay this when I went to Camp
along now. So Tyler is Tyler.
The Creator? I was his past life.
Yeah, this is like four years ago.
I won't my college Crush. You know what's funny is I put
up in Diego's Lexus. They you let me borrow his
(45:04):
Lexus. That's a good friend.
We traded cars. Because I got you, bro.
Had to do. Yeah, for a Lexus,
(45:28):
she took her kid. That's what you think.
That there was kids know. Yeah, like that.
There was kids. And like she just kept
(45:49):
complaining the whole just kept complaining.
It's annoying. Like maybe she didn't like kids,
don't think so. Yeah, I mean, we were in the 21
and over section section but like, kids kids like little
yeah, we're like teens teens? Yeah, teenagers could be.
(46:09):
Yeah, so what's your complaininglike it was like over it.
Yeah, I get to know him like youwere enjoying the day.
Know once a complainer. Yeah.
Like we're in a music festival. Like have fun.
Just watched. Yeah.
Yeah. Alright.
So that was one question. So that was where States, I
(46:31):
don't know about this one because I don't pay attention
that much. I would just ask.
What are the red flags? You guys.
Stay away from there. Has to be some.
Yeah. Obviously I mean obviously is
the typical ones. You gotta stay away from the
hose, you know the answer about the normal one.
(46:58):
We're just looking at each otherand laugh or like too many
boyfriends you mean. No, you know what?
A red flag is right now. I think about it just right now
if she still friends with your ex.
Oh oh yeah, that's a red flag. I got another one.
Nope don't but no best friends. No.
(47:19):
Best friends like Guy best friend.
All right, girl that's yeah. So like opposite sex.
Yeah. That's right.
They have a guy or girl best friend like the girl or a guy.
Now that is a wrap I'm not playing with that because I
always say it like if you know they're best friends but I don't
know if one of them, one of themhad to feel something.
Yeah. Coach.
Someone always has feelings. And there was gonna bag on you
(47:41):
and stuff. When you like the girls
complaining about you, I think if it's like a child who's a
jerk. Yeah, childhood friends.
Like, it's fine but like if they're just friends, fine.
But no best friends like this. I'm not dealing with that.
Ya know if they're friends with your ex.
Nope. Nope.
I mean that's that was kind of Common Sense.
Yeah. And like to her like she said,
(48:02):
she didn't see no big deal but like I knew After lifestyle.
That's why. Yeah.
Like, yeah, that's her life. Yes.
She'll just go back to him and that's it.
Whenever a novice. That's a red flag for me.
No best friends. Also, she's not Christian.
Well, yeah, because well that's a red flag if you're a
Christian, right? But if you're not but yeah, like
(48:22):
no no like oh she's not following God and stuff.
Yeah, I mean that's just know your lifestyle difference is, it
doesn't go? Well, I think somebody who's
like, always you can't be serious like, well, I know,
yeah. If you like Begging someone to
(48:44):
hang out and stuff like that. Like, you can't be serious.
What if they return a not enoughto say?
Say say is this a specific person?
Oh no. I think you know if like they
(49:07):
treat like service is a service workers like like we are here at
the restaurant. That's very like they're cool
with everybody but if they treatlike wretched workers are
waitresses or anybody at that point, they're still childish,
you know, that's a red flag. I mean everyone has their
(49:31):
childish moments. Yeah, immature moment but I
think that just shows that's just yeah, that's just shows how
you were raised. Next question.
How to know if it is a real relationship?
I mean we kind of went over thatalready.
Yeah I mean you answer the question if you don't know if
(49:52):
it's a real relation, it's not areal relationship.
Be like what is it? Like step back yourself.
Look at it from the outside in and then but like even doing
that that's a loser and ask thembecause if you really like that
person you just you're gonna keep making excuses for it, you
know. So so that's hard.
(50:13):
Go another one. Another one, what relationships
are worth the effort. When went to Nation, what were
they are worth the effort? When both of you are putting in
the work. Yeah.
Exactly. I think if you feel like very
(50:34):
safe. Yeah.
Very like fine figure out your friends.
Yeah, I'm sorry. I mean yeah.
That completes you because the only person that could complete
you is God. Yeah.
For sure. Or somebody who like wants to
(50:55):
make you grow. Yes.
That brings you calm and peace, that doesn't wear you down.
Yeah, but then the groins are friends went in there guys.
That's, that's all. Yeah.
That's also a problem. That's, that's a big problem.
Anything. Nice guys.
Finish last tracks. Yeah, but Jake's Never See.
The Finish Line. Supposedly supposedly.
(51:15):
But I haven't seen enough to fit.
They do see the finish line but Way Lady.
Yeah we really yeah. and okay before yeah, years past
(51:57):
Nobody was giving it back tension.
Yeah. And I'm like, no.
And I'm just, let me try something different.
Like, oh, she asked me for something or do something like
but it's crazy. How that works.
Yeah. It's because they're like, or
like, or like that, or like, when you call her out, like on
her insecurities stuff. Like, why do you have a scar on
(52:18):
your face? You know, dang, but I never did
that. No, but I would like, I would
like make fun of him and stuff. Yeah, yeah.
But like, you know, women are sensitive will hurt, not that
much but and then I would get numbers out.
What the heck? It was only a month.
(52:59):
Was there ever a relationship? You regret?
No. Because those are learning
lessons. I think you grow from release
those past incident. I think if it's like very
extreme, like abuse. Oh, yeah, I've been, yeah.
But you still, you still learn from You see the shirt?
(53:23):
No, no, no. I was kidding.
Just kidding. I would never solid joke.
I would never put my hands. Yeah, I think you liked him for
a reason right there. If you I think just like
traumatic stuff, like I can feellike it's something really bad
that affected your minute like mental state then really?
(53:45):
Yeah, like cheating. Would you like if somebody
cheated? Why don't know if I know, I
never been to know. Yeah, no one me.
I found out later that I was just like, no, I don't either
(54:11):
no. And I know like in the last part
I said money and stuff but like it doesn't mean matter like it's
who I am. Yeah, yeah.
Yeah. So you regret them.
Money but not the experience or not the don't waste a lot of
money. Yeah, I know.
Like yeah, I mean it just goes back to like well you think I'm
I'm with this person can be withthis person or dating this
(54:32):
person for a long-ass time like,sorry.
Not because I was like, he got frustrated for a minute.
(54:53):
And don't tell me dating multiple women at the same time.
Same time. Multiple guys.
Same time, guys. That's messed up.
What you want that to happen to you just think about that
furrows, seriously. And just be honest, like I'm
already talking to somebody and just be like, you know, I'm
dating around. Yeah.
Because you'll never find a serious relationship like that.
(55:15):
And if you have commitment, that's commitment issues.
Right there. Yeah.
If you a lot of people have thatcommitment issues.
Yeah. With all friendships.
Like yeah. Can't even commit.
That's next part. But if you have community's
commitment issues you need use. Yeah, you do.
(55:36):
Yeah. I mean you need you Jesus period
or a therapist? Well yeah, you can't even commit
to Jesus. He offers you free salvation.
Action can commit to that then then you probably won't have
commitment in other areas of your life.
I know a lot of people communityissues.
David. Just like comments and I'll bury
(56:25):
you in. Got your first kiss down?
Next question. No, the wrestler we kind of
answered because it's like, Wesley apparently.
Yeah. If your parents don't like your
relationship or what was? No, I don't know.
If it doesn't matter if like your friends and your parents
(56:45):
don't like him. Don't like the person.
Yeah, I think, I think that's wrong.
Then you'll never be able to hang out with your friends and
your parents like with your girl.
All right? You know what I learned?
From friends was that you had that experience?
Sorry. No, no, no.
Okay. Okay.
No. But from Friends, the show.
Yeah. Oh and she was a filth or
(57:14):
something and like she didn't like his friends.
Oh yeah. Oh yeah.
Oh so that's also a red flag. Yeah, that's what she doesn't
like my friends. Oh yeah, my friends can't like
her because the way I see it, they want the best.
Best for me. Yeah.
And if they don't like it, they don't like it for some reason,
right? They have a reason, and but
that's cool. That's okay.
But the girl that I'm dating? Yeah, she's gonna have to like
(57:37):
my friends. I gonna live.
Yes, I do family pens like because if you hang out with
your family a lot. Yeah.
Are you guy? I mean that one they're going to
deal with it. Immediate family should matter.
You're like your mom or dad because Bro, your parents are
(57:58):
going to be there forever for you, that's true, but but I want
them to get along. They're not it's not going to be
like they're going to criticize.Well, that's why I like because
that goes back to that Friends, Friends episode, no, no, listen
to a married woman, you know, like they're, they're always
going to say, like, Kevin alwayssaid that nobody's going to be a
never enough because he has a sister, right?
(58:18):
Like know, his parents never thought that anybody was enough
for his sister. So it's the same like, nobody's
gonna Be enough for your daughter.
Right? So, they didn't criticize Kevin
but it's not like, oh, he's likeperfect.
And I'm in, but they would. They had like a Kanye are
moments when I stopped friends? No, not perfect.
But then they see that he liked her.
(58:58):
And I wouldn't expect any less from you my friends.
That's because yeah, because like if they see me happy, then
like, okay, so we do try but I'mbreaks it off with her because
she does she becomes like this jerk and starts talking smack
about his friends. Hmm.
You know and it goes back to thesame thing but we'll save that
for the next part. Yeah, that's like friendship
(59:20):
friendship but it is it's sort of been a room in a romantic
relationship. Hopefully Eric and yeas are back
for that. I think Eric might be back.
Yeah, I know. All right.
Well, I think one more question and then I'm going to call it
(59:41):
because call it a day. Yeah, our call it an episode.
Yeah. It's been fun, though.
Thank you again guys for the feedback and the listens.
It's been awesome. This is fun.
It's getting more and more fun. Every time we do this.
Yeah. 0 and 100 followers were going to do a giveaway.
Oh wait, I do know this guy's, Ididn't know this.
(01:00:05):
Wait, the hundred followers on Instagram.
Once we hit on Instagram, you guys heard that go follow the,
hey, I don't care. Follow.
Go for it. Follow our individual accounts.
To, I mean, I guess this is goodone.
(01:00:27):
Now, pick a good how to deal with a non communicator?
I don't know. That's a red flag and yeah,
that's a red flag. You don't Camille with them.
You'd be like Bible. You know your worth.
Yeah, exactly. A communication.
Communication is key in a relationship.
Yeah, mr. Ignoring you or act like you're
(01:00:47):
not alive or that's nice in the same area and like didn't even
acknowledge you. Mmm.
In the same area that did seem like they're not putting any
effort like, oh, like they know that you're there but they don't
acknowledge you. Yeah.
Have you ever had like when you're like texting somebody?
And when you see them in person they're like, whatever, like I
haven't experienced that but yeah, sometimes that question
(01:01:10):
their social media. They are like all chatty and
everything but in person they'rejust like well maybe there's
well maybe they're socially awkward.
Yeah. All right, pretty and stuff.
I forget the things to talk about like you're like, yeah I
know he's like, damn I should have talked about this that and
(01:01:31):
the other, but I get nervous because like they're pretty and
like, you know, but you just gotto keep trying keep talking I
guess that's how you sure. And I think that's what happens
when my college Crush to thank you.
We why mistook you stomach arsenic is keep bringing her up.
Yeah, just kidding. No, she's bad.
She's really pretty but like butYeah, I would forget things to
(01:01:56):
talk about and stuff and you're like, dang, I should like pretty
girls and stuff, you know. So answering that question,
maybe had been like maybe that person if you've experienced
that, maybe that person was nervous or yeah.
Are you were just very pretty like these?
(01:02:16):
Exactly. Exactly.
Because, or maybe just straight-up asking me, you good?
Yeah. Is everything okay?
Yeah. And also you, I don't want to
ruin that cofactor, like the perception.
Yeah. Yeah.
That's going to be pushy either.Yeah.
First annoying, but you should say.
Hi. Oh no.
(01:02:37):
Yeah, yeah. But like yeah.
Some people are just socially are great.
Yeah, I don't people like that. There's a lot of people like
that. Yeah.
Socially awkward to some extent.We are yeah, yeah, yeah.
When I don't want to talk to knowin, ya, I'll just say hi and
I'll leave. So everybody knows, it might
(01:03:01):
want to talk to you soon. I forgot to say this is last
(01:03:28):
thing before we end the Pod, I got a temporary shift schedule
change over from 6 a.m. to 2:30 now that 245 our no traffic, you
got like the whole day because that's the way I had to wake up
early. Yeah that's fine.
Yeah. But I said going Jim now because
they got that. Yeah.
Oh and there's nobody at 2:30. Huh, so.
(01:03:48):
Yeah. Everyone's working at this
hopefully you know got a really nice thick.
They let me let me keep it. So that's cool.
Just tell him I want to stay. Yeah.
We I'm going to bug them. Yeah.
Oh yeah. That's pretty cool.
So now we've got answered your prayers.
Yeah, that's cool. We're gonna have my time for
stuff like this. Yeah, we won't take long neck,
(01:04:10):
so sorry. Yeah.
But 100 followers, give him intoa giveaway.
Yeah, guys. So follow it up.
Blow it up. What's the pot, a pot?
The follow us on Instagram againagain, because I thought about
nothing. Yeah, on Instagram.
And then the rest of our socialsare on there too.
(01:04:30):
Yeah for us. All right.
Well that's the end of episode to thank you.
Guys. Always on Spotify and apple
music. No, apple podcast.
I apologize and soon YouTube. Yeah, we're going to we're
working on it. We have a lot of stuff going on
out everybody. Yeah.
Thank you guys. Thank you for the love.
Shout out to the haters and the arena guests are going to start
coming on soon too. Yeah, yeah.
(01:04:52):
College. Soccer player O War veteran or I
just remember, I'm Gonna Save that.
Who is it? No, dude, I'm on the, I'm on the
(01:05:19):
pot and I don't even know. Yeah, like I said there's a
bright future. David David's the manager.
So, yeah. I'm the I'm the face of the
whole thing, you know? He's here.
I didn't, I didn't know that he liked.
He really liked to be talking tothem like, and whom I didn't do
the intro, you me? Oh yeah.
This is fun. Yeah.
All right. We're going to end this over.
(01:05:40):
We're sorry. We went a little bit too late.
Now deserve the long run becausewe take.
All right. Well, romantic relationships is
a long time. Yeah, it might be a two-parter.
Ya later on. If you guys want a two-parter,
let us know on Instagram. Yeah.
And again we're not relationship.
Experts your marriage counselor.This is just sorry.
Thank you guys for listening andwe'll see you about will see.
(01:06:02):
You will see you when we see you.
All right. Bye.
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