Accidentally Intentional
Are you part of the 60%? 60% of adults self-identify as lonely. We feel so alone... But collectively, the majority of us are feeling alone, together! We are in the midst of a loneliness epidemic. In fact, the CDC has said that loneliness on the body is as harmful as smoking 15 cigarettes a DAY. Is it even worth trying to make friends? What if I get rejected? What if they break my trust and betray me? What if they waste my time? What if... What if... What if... You're still worth finding and building rich friendships, and it IS possible even today. Yes, it is a risk. Yes, any of the what-ifs above *could* happen. But, you know what else could happen? You find the friendship you've always wanted your entire life. We're on a mission to DESTROY loneliness by building rich, meaningful friendships and relationships. New videos drop on Thursdays! Subscribe and turn on notifications to make sure you automatically get every new episode drop! Let's be accidentally intentional together! For video versions of these episodes, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel! You can connect with me on IG: @zoeasher or @accidentallyintentional. www.accidentallyintentionalpod.com . To contact the podcast and/or request a booking for Zoe to be on your show or speak at your event, please email: contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com
Episodes
Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!
I cannot believe we are actually here. We’ve created an AI “friend” necklace...a device that listens to your conversations all day long and claims to make you feel less lonely. In this episode, I react to the viral Friend AI Pendant, the controversial million-dollar ad campaign, and why New Yorkers are literally vandalizing the subway ads in protest. But most importantly, I explain why this ...
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When I first heard Taylor Swift’s new album, “The Life of a Showgirl,” I expected glitter, heartbreak, and spectacle, but what I didn’t expect were the friendship themes hiding in plain sight.
In this episode, I’m breaking down the hidden emotional truths in two of her songs, “Ruin the Friendship” and “Cancelled”, and how they reveal what so many of us wrestle with as adults: fear of rejectio...
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Friendships are supposed to feel mutual, but what if you’re always the one putting in the effort? In this episode, I share 5 ways to spot a one-sided friendship before it completely drains you. From being the only one who reaches out, to noticing if your wins go uncelebrated, these signs will help you figure out if your friendship is balanced… or if it’s costing you more than it should.
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Disagreements don’t have to end friendships. In this video, Zoe shares practical tools for how to disagree with friends without losing them. You’ll learn how to focus on the person, not the position, listen longer than you talk, and use communication strategies that lower the temperature instead of blowing things up.
Friendships are worth protecting, even in a divided world. If you’...
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This is what feels like unprecedented levels of division, and something has to change, or all of our friendships and relationships will get destroyed. But what exactly can WE do? How can we craft friendships that can survive such division? In this emergency episode, I'm breaking down exactly what it will take.
The Beyond Small Talk Cohort is coming. Here’s where to learn what i...
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Have you ever been in a conversation that went from calm to defensive in seconds, and you had no idea why?
Chances are, you used one of five danger words that instantly put people on edge. Most of us say them without even realizing it. But once you know what they are, you’ll start catching them everywhere… and you’ll be able to stop yourself before you make things worse.
In this episode, I bre...
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Starting a hard conversation with a friend can feel impossible. In this video, I’ll show you the best way to start THAT talk so it doesn’t blow up and ruin your friendship. You’ll learn practical steps to ease tension, open the door for honesty, and create trust instead of defensiveness. This is Part 1 of a 2 Part series, so be sure to subscribe and turn on your notifications to get Part 2 n...
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If you're "the fixer" in your relationships, you NEED to watch this episode, because I wish I had learned what I'm about to share with you much earlier in life. Being the “fixer” in your friend group can feel like a badge of honor! People come to you for advice, solutions, and insight. But what if your eagerness to help is actually pushing friends away? In this episode, I...
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Why is it so hard to find real community as an adult?! In this episode, I’m joined by my real-life friend and actual community legend Mackenzie T'eo, founder of Bag + Barre gym, and someone I literally call the “Mayor of Sewickley” (where she lives) to talk about what it really takes to build meaningful friendships and lasting community when you move to a new town, and open a brick and ...
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Watching a friend go through a massive struggle is so painful, especially if there is nothing you can do to fix it. BUT, there is still a way you can help. If your friend is currently going THROUGH IT, and you want to support (or don't want to do the wrong thing and make it worse), this video is for you. This past year, I was that struggling friend, and based on my own experience of wha...
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Adult friendships are hard. With all the buzzwords flying around like toxic friendships, cutting people off, and protecting your peace, it’s no wonder so many of us are silently wondering when it's time to end a friendship, how to know if it's actually over, and what to do if you want to keep the friendship alive.
In this episode, I’m breaking down 5 clarity-building quest...
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Have you ever thought about someone from your past and wondered if you should reach out and reconnect with them… but then stopped yourself because you didn’t want it to feel awkward, forced, or flat-out rejected? Then this episode is for you.
Whether it’s an old friend, someone who meant a lot to you years ago, or a relationship that just faded with time, I’m breaking down exactly h...
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I'll be honest, I did NOT hold back in this episode. Let me ask you a question: would you replace your best friend with AI? Mark Zuckerberg thinks you will. In this reaction episode, I'm breaking down the Wall Street Journal article, “Zuckerberg’s Grand Vision: Most of Your Friends Will Be AI.” As a creator on a mission to rebuild human connection, I unpack the unsettling trend of ...
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It happens to the best of us, but that doesn't make it any less uncomfortable. Forgetting someone's name feels quite embarrassing, and, here's how to fix it. In this episode, we are breaking down 7 different phrases you can choose from, and use when you forget someone's name!
Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection y...
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Struggling with social anxiety but still craving real connection? You're not alone—and this episode is for you. In this episode, I'm sharing the exact mindset shifts and practical strategies I used to break the grip of social anxiety and start forming rich, meaningful friendships—without faking it or forcing it. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed walking into a room full of strangers ...
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I love superhero movies, but Marvel's new Thunderbolts movie hit different. I was stunned by what the secret theme and message of the movie was all about, and I'm giving my full reaction in this episode.
Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Inten...
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Struggling to make friends? You’re not alone—and it’s not because something is wrong with you. In this episode, we’re unpacking the five sneaky reasons why you might be having trouble building close friendships, and more importantly, what to do about it.
Help me (Zoe) get to know YOU (yes, you, the person behind this screen) with this quick 2-minute form . As a thank you, I’ll email...
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Struggling with how to make a great first impression? Want to feel more confident when meeting someone new? In this video, you’ll learn five powerful, science-backed ways to make better first impressions, boost your confidence instantly, and stop feeling awkward in social situations. Whether it’s a networking event, a first date, or a casual conversation with a stranger, these simple yet eff...
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If you've ever wondered whether hitting "record" on a voice memo was worth it, this video is your answer. In this heartfelt and insightful reaction, Zoe takes us through a TIME article that argues voice notes aren’t just convenient communication tools—they’re small acts of love. From the very first words, she explores how sending a quick voice message can become a deeply human...
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Can you really trust them? These signs will reveal someone's true character. In this episode, Zoe shares how to spot the subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs that someone is truly trustworthy and a safe friend. If you’ve ever questioned someone’s intentions, felt anxious in a friendship, or had your trust broken in the past, this video gives you clarity on what to look for in real, honest r...
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