Adulthood is a Project

Some weeks, work just feels... heavy.

In this episode, we're sharing a conversation that started with both of us struggling to find joy in our current job. That led us down a path of remembering other jobs we've had where the passion just wasn't there, and asking a bigger question: What do you do when you're not excited to go to work every day?

We talk about the difference between waiting for your circumstances to change and taking o...

At some point as kids, most of us assumed adulthood came with a secret age that you just knew it all. You hit a certain birthday, someone hands you "The Adult Manual," and suddenly you know how mortgages work, how to raise kids, how to cook dinner, and what a home warranty actually covers.

...Yeah, that never happened.

In this episode, we're talking about the reality that most adults are figuring it out one awkward, expensive, and oc...

Why is it so hard to have empathy for some people...but effortless for others?

This week on Adulthood is a Project, we're diving into The Empathy Gap. We talk about why empathy doesn't always come naturally, the difference between empathy and sympathy, and why two people can experience the exact same situation but react in completely different ways.

We also unpack something that gets misunderstood all the time: when someone responds ...

You save for the big expenses. Nobody tells you about the dozens of little ones waiting around the corner.

In this episode, we're talking about the hidden costs of adulthood, from replacing RV sewer hoses and buying car batteries to expensive friendships, classroom supplies, and all the unexpected fees life keeps throwing our way. Along the way, we realized the biggest cost isn't always money. Sometimes it's the mental load of makin...

Have you ever been disappointed because something didn't go the way you pictured it...only to realize no one else even knew the plan?

In this episode, we're talking about the expectations we create in our own minds and how those invisible scripts can shape everything from relationships and vacations to restaurant orders and road trips.

Through plenty of laughs, we share stories about a farm-to-table dinner that didn't live up to the ...

Have you ever caught yourself saying, "Things were different back then..."? This week on Adulthood is a Project, we're taking a lighthearted look at America Then vs. Now as we wrap up our 3-Part Summer Series.

From political campaigns and voting habits to the lessons history continues to teach us, we're comparing yesterday and today with plenty of laughs along the way. We even manage to wander into a debate about witches... because ...

What happened to July 4th?

In Part 2 of our Summer Series, we take a trip down memory lane and talk about how Independence Day has changed over the years. From small-town ice cream socials and neighborhood fireworks to learning surprising facts about the Declaration of Independence, we're exploring what made July 4th feel so special growing up and why it feels a little different today.

We share memories of community celebrations, dis...

Presidents Were Wild… and history class definitely left out the fun parts.

In this kickoff to our 3-part summer series, we’re diving into the weird, wild, and unexpected side of U.S. presidents. From bizarre rumors and strange coincidences to surprising personal stories, this episode proves American history was a lot messier, funnier, and more chaotic than we remember.

Did Lincoln’s son have unbelievably bad timing...

KC has no idea what today’s topic is… and we’re keeping it that way. 😏

In this Mystery Episode of Adulthood is a Project, the only clue comes through the quiz, and she’ll have to piece it together one question at a time. Will she figure it out before the episode gives it away?

Play along, make your guesses, and see if you can crack the mystery before KC does. 🎙️

Come for the fun and stay for the relatable co...

Family relationships feel more complicated than ever… but are they actually, or are we just talking about them differently now?

In this episode, we dive into the pressure parents face to be “perfect,” the new language around trauma and boundaries, and whether we’re too quick to label family relationships as toxic or cut people off completely.

We talk about everything from spanking and changing parenting stand...

Are we more judgmental than we think... and should we actually be more discerning? 🤔

In this episode of Adulthood is a Project, we’re talking about the blurry line between judgment and discernment. Is avoiding certain people protecting your peace... or are we just judging with better vocabulary?

We get into neighborhood drama, being judged for weird preferences (including KC somehow wanting a pig while not really liking animal...

What books have stayed with you long after you turned the last page?

In this episode of Adulthood is a Project, we’re talking about the stories that shaped us, the authors we can’t stop reading, and the books we still think about years later. From childhood favorites to the things we’re reading now, we’re diving into books.

We chat about getting completely hooked on an author (until they start feeling a little...

Adult friendships can feel complicated. Between work, kids, activities, texts, snaps, notifications, and trying to survive your own day-to-day life, keeping up with people can start to feel like another task on the to-do list.

In this episode, we talk about friendships that survive months without talking, why some people need constant connection while others don’t, the pressure of always being reachable, and whether we’v...

Postpartum is often talked about like it’s just depression… but it’s so much more than that

In this episode, we open up about the parts of postpartum no one really prepares you for—the anxiety, the overthinking, the unexpected sadness, and the pressure to feel nothing but happiness after having a baby

We talk about how postpartum is really another phase of pregnancy that doesn’t just end after birth, ho...

Life isn’t about avoiding hard… it’s about choosing the right kind of hard.

In this episode, we’re diving into what it really means to “choose your hard” — from relationships that take effort, to big life decisions that look exciting on the outside but come with their own challenges behind the scenes.

We talk about:

• Why the lifestyle you want will always come with trade-offs
• The reality of...

Editing was a struggle this week - enjoy the chaos

In a world where soap is good for you… until it’s not Eggs are healthy… until they’re suddenly not 🍳 And somehow even water feels suspicious some days…

How are you supposed to choose anything?

This week, we’re talking about the constant back-and-forth of “what’s good for you” and how trying to do everything right can leave you ...

Volume Up On This One (we’re working on it)

Ever feel like life isn’t going the way you planned… and you’re not sure if you should stick it out or switch it up?

In this episode, we’re talking about what it really means to pivot — and why giving yourself permission to change your mind might be one of the healthiest things you can do.

We get into how pivoting shows up in real life — from career...

Yeah…we realized too late that the camera was sideways - we just went Adulthood style and rolled with it.

What does it really mean to invest in yourself?

In this episode, we’re breaking down the idea that self-investment always has to cost money — because honestly, it doesn’t. Sometimes it’s as simple as taking a nap, sitting in silence for a few minutes, picking up a book, or even trying a new hobby ...

Growing up before smartphones feels like a completely different world… and honestly, we kind of loved it 😅

In this episode, we’re talking about what life was like before everything was tracked, recorded, and instantly shared. From being thankful there were no Ring Doorbell cameras catching our every move, to somehow surviving with maps and pure guesswork—we look back at a time that felt a little more free (and a ...