June 26, 2023 • 43 mins
Ding Dong! We've missed you, and we've got a lot to catch up on! Some exciting life updates include Champ finishing school, saying goodbye to Whittier, and an unforgettable concert experience seeing The Cure. We also share our thoughts on a recent visit to Villains Brewery in Anaheim - a place with an incredible atmosphere, good food, and beer. So grab a drink and join us for some laughs and life updates!
Navigating the world of first dates can be tricky, but we've got your back! We discuss the delicate art of breaking the ice and share some valuable tips for making a great first impression. You'll also hear about a heartwarming policy at a popular first date spot in Whittier, California, that ensures no one leaves disappointed (Guildhall). And if you're curious about safe words and their significance in relationships, we've got that covered too!
Before we wrap up, we've got some juicy celebrity gossip involving Al Pacino, Robert De Niro, and a scandal with Tom Sandoval and Ariana Maddox. Plus, you'll hear our frustrating tale of a custom song purchase gone wrong and our plans for finding a new theme song. Cheers to being back, and we can't wait to share more with you every Monday!
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Cris (00:13):
Welcome back to All Tricks , no Treats, the number one
relationship slash printingpodcast.
Briana (00:21):
We've been coming out every four weeks.
Cris (00:25):
We've been MIA.
We have no excuses, sorry, wejust like to tease you.
You know We're like, okay, nowwe're going to do it every week,
but then don't.
We're liars essentially, buthopefully we'll be back on your
Spotify playlist and YouTubechannels.
Briana (00:42):
Consistent, yeah, consistent.
Hopefully we'll be consistent,yay, okay, so bear with us, just
because we're getting back intothe groove.
Cris (00:49):
I'm fucking so nervous.
Briana (00:50):
Some of us are a little nervous, We're catching up, Okay
.
So let's just act like you know.
We're talking to our friendsbecause we are Yeah.
Okay, so we're catching up.
Champ finished school.
He had his last day of school.
Cris (01:05):
Bittersweet, very bittersweet, because that means
we leave Whittier forever.
Not forever, but you know.
Briana (01:12):
Yeah, our last like pretty big tie to Whittier is
done, so we're officially movedout and gone Officially In our
new city.
In our new city.
Yeah, To my bestie Becca Who,by the way, when you listen to
this, thank you.
Cris (01:31):
She's watching the kids.
Briana (01:32):
She's watching the kids right now And I was telling her
she was asking me about it and Iwas just telling her that it
just felt like it's been a lotof back and forth for him.
And it just felt like when wewent and picked him up for his
last day of school becausethat's like a little we're a big
tradition family When we pickedhim up, i just felt like this
big sense of relief, like It'sdone.
(01:55):
Like it's, we did it.
Cris (01:57):
It was.
it was crazy to see because itwas a lot, especially for champ,
because he was traveling 25, 30minutes away.
He would stay at hisgrandparents a couple of days
out of the week, which was sadfor us too.
But picking him up you can seehe was a little like sad.
He wasn't like smiling or we'relike, oh, what's up, dude,
(02:18):
you're a little sad becauseyou're not coming back, and he
was like, yeah, i'm happy hecould be honest with us.
Briana (02:24):
Like with something like that.
Cris (02:26):
But it's.
It's sad to go, but yeah.
Briana (02:29):
So we, just you know, we validate those feelings and let
them know, that that's okay.
It's okay to be sad.
You know, we get sad too whenwe have to leave things, but it
doesn't mean that we're donewith it.
Cris (02:40):
One chapter closed and the next one opens.
Briana (02:43):
Justin Bobby.
But yes, so that's somethingbig that was in our little lives
little time frame.
Next is we went and saw thecure.
Cris (02:58):
The cure still looking good.
Not that good, but good, Noyeah.
Briana (03:02):
Robert Smith's uh, I mean his lipsticks still smears.
Amazingly, that herities isstill as high as it can go.
Cris (03:09):
They still sound pretty good.
They sound amazing, yeah, butthey're getting up there in age,
which is sad.
Briana (03:14):
It is sad.
They're one of my top threefavorite bands, So to be able to
see them again.
Cris (03:17):
I saw them.
Briana (03:18):
The last time I saw them in the Hollywood Bowl I was 17.
We just graduated high school.
Cris (03:23):
How long ago was that?
15 years ago.
15 years ago, don't remind me.
We're going to start lookinglike them soon.
Briana (03:30):
I already do.
Um, something else we did is,uh, we went to Villains Brewery.
Cris (03:38):
A new brewery in Nihonaheim, california Brewery
Brewery.
That's so weird, weird.
Briana (03:44):
It is a word We're going to start having, like this one
Yeah.
Cris (03:49):
Well, it had higher end vibes.
There was security, and thenthere was like two security.
One was letting people in aspeople came out, and then
another one had like a fuckinglittle mini clipboard.
Briana (04:01):
There was like a list, like a guest list.
Cris (04:04):
People were walking in and we just didn't like it.
Briana (04:08):
We stood in line with our stroller and our three kids.
Cris (04:11):
Parking was pretty shitty.
Um yeah, But overall it wascool.
They have like a clubby vibekind of.
Briana (04:18):
So I had seen it And I think we also went with my aunt,
uncle and my cousin and hisgirlfriend And she is originally
the one who's really beenwanting to go because it's
called Villains and she reallylikes scary movies, like us.
She likes scary movies, likeshe likes the creepy things in
life And um, so she's, you knowshe really wanted to go and we
(04:42):
got there and we were like, oh,i mean, i love the decor, it's
beautiful.
Cris (04:46):
It's modern.
Briana (04:46):
Yes, it's like a kind of like a LA well we were sitting.
It's like a LA pool club typevibe.
Cris (04:52):
Yeah.
Briana (04:54):
Um, i was expecting more , like we were talking about.
I was like, oh, maybe like somescary movies could have been
playing on screens or something,but it was still.
It was still really.
Cris (05:01):
It's a cool name.
It just didn't really.
it doesn't fit the name, Idon't think.
Briana (05:04):
Yeah.
Cris (05:05):
But it's cool Like they have a storage containers as
little buildings kind of, withvines everywhere.
They had a pool that had acover and people were sitting on
the pool and it's like down.
this place is pretty gnarly.
So it definitely is a sickplace.
Briana (05:20):
Yeah, i want to go back for sure, yeah, for sure.
Um, something else we've beenuh very into our.
We always get like stuck on ashow.
So our show we just finished itlast night Actually, drink
masters.
And since we're talking aboutdrink masters, let's, let's.
Cris (05:35):
cheers Cause let's do it.
I'm not going to interrupt youlike four times to do this, but
I'm glad you did that perfectway.
Briana (05:41):
I'm a good.
I'm a good.
Cris (05:44):
Segui Cheers to being back every Monday, hopefully.
Briana (05:49):
We didn't say which Monday.
Cris (05:54):
Oh man, it's always so crispy, the first drink It is.
And gassy, anyway, gassy, gassy.
Briana (06:01):
Yeah, that was waiting for you.
Um, yeah, we've been watchingthe show on Netflix called drink
masters.
It's about these bartenders,who they are.
We were talking about it.
Like, when we go to a bar, weusually like you just get the
old fashioned.
I get the tequila sprite,tequila squirt, like we're very
simple, but these people arelike they're, it's like their
craft.
Cris (06:21):
Yeah, it's.
It's a what's a drink?
masters is what it's called,but it's like a chopped version
for cocktails.
You know what's crazy.
Longer times then people.
Briana (06:33):
From chopped they get like an hour and a half to make
a drink And people in choppedhave to cook like meat and they
make ice cream and stuff.
I just realized that.
Cris (06:41):
That's fucking dude.
These people are making an hourand a half cocktails.
How is that possible?
I'd sock you in the head if Iwould be gone if I ordered that
drink and they're like okay, anhour and a half you'll have it.
I'd punch her in the face andwalk out.
Yeah, it's still someone'sdrink and be like bitch.
I ain't waiting an hour and ahalf, but it was a very good
(07:01):
show.
It was cool.
Briana (07:02):
It was good If you can watch it.
you definitely should, becausethese like it's an art for them.
Cris (07:07):
So yeah, they're really into it.
They were crying aboutcocktails.
I was like that's crazy.
Briana (07:11):
The only time I cried about cocktails are like two in
the morning.
Cris (07:16):
Two in the morning, we're getting our decisions.
Why do we?
do this In an alleyway A coupleof times I was also drunk.
I was spinning and throwing up.
I said, God, please, I'll neverdo this again.
Briana (07:26):
Please just take it away .
Oh no Feel me.
I usually do that the morningafter.
Cris (07:33):
Oh my God, one time I got so drunk I'm drinking the OG
Four Loco and I was barfing inmy buddy's house I was living
with him at the time and I endedup with no clothes on a blanket
he brought me I was naked andGrahams was his grandma.
We called her Grahams.
She walked in and was likeshe's like ours, are you okay?
And I was like, yeah, i think Ijust ate some bad food.
(07:55):
Clearly it was not bad food.
Briana (07:57):
You were trying to hide it from her.
Yeah, i was in the nude.
Well, i mean, you can't hidethe nude, but you were trying to
hide that you drank.
Cris (08:05):
Yeah, i was a kid, i was 19, 20 years old And I was
living at the house.
I didn't wonder if there was abad influence on her son.
Puppy Grahams that was anickname, That's a cute nickname
.
Briana (08:17):
How cute did she, was that it she just left after?
Cris (08:20):
Yeah, she said, oh, okay, And then close the door and left
.
That was the prime years of mylife, parting years, not like in
life years, sorry.
Briana (08:31):
Anyway, one of my cousins, he said that he went to
a I forgot a party or fratparty or something, and he said
that one of his oh yeah, one ofhis friends was pledging a frat
and he had to, because he waswith him, do the same thing as
him And they had to drink.
I think they drink like theyhad to drink three, four locos.
(08:51):
Three to four, four locos.
The hell No yeah, He said atthe end of the night they were
like dead, dead.
Cris (08:57):
Yeah, that had got bad, that's how they were speaking.
Yes, they had to get broughtback to life.
Why is that sentence so hard tosay?
Wake me up inside.
Briana (09:12):
Bring me back to life.
That's the name of that song.
Save me, evanescence.
Yes, imagine you go to like akaraoke place on a first date or
something And that's a song youpick and you're doing like both
(09:37):
roles.
And the person that you're on adate with is like oh, they
really went for it.
Cris (09:45):
That's a good one.
Briana (09:46):
That is Well.
Speaking of first dates, I'mdoing amazing with our sagus
today.
Yeah, It's a segue.
Cris (09:54):
Okay.
Briana (09:55):
I'm doing amazing with our segues today, Speaking of
first dates.
Cris (10:04):
that's our topic for today .
Briana (10:07):
Is that for No?
Cris (10:09):
that's rock show.
Briana (10:17):
In the car.
I just can't wait to pick youup on a very first date.
It's a cool live.
Cris (10:31):
Oh, is it wrong.
Briana (10:32):
Yeah, speaking of Blink, wow, it's like we're seasoned
podcast people.
Cris (10:35):
By the time this is released, we'll have seen them
and I'm like dying.
I can't wait.
I've been a fan for ever.
10,000 middle school 2002.
Let's go.
Briana (10:47):
Are you going to scream?
Cris (10:48):
A couple songs.
I don't know all their songs, ijust know a few other songs.
Well, a good amount of othersongs, but it'll be, fun First
date.
It's a good topic.
Briana (10:57):
Yes, so our first date.
You saw it.
Cris (11:02):
What.
Briana (11:04):
What was our?
I know I asked you.
Cris (11:06):
I told you earlier.
Briana (11:07):
What was our first date?
Cris (11:09):
I'd say Barnes and Noble.
Briana (11:10):
You said Barnes and Noble, was that not it?
No, we were talking about it.
And you said Barnes and NobleWell, it wasn't.
And we were like, was thatreally a date?
because we weren't really likedating.
We just kind of hung out asfriends, Like that's when we
hooked up.
We didn't hook up that day.
Cris (11:25):
Not that day, but we were just hook up friends, I think.
Briana (11:28):
You were in, you had your own life, like you had a
job and everything, and we kindof hung out a little bit, talked
a little bit, hung out a littlebit.
This is before you left to NewYork.
So this is.
We just hung out.
Cris (11:40):
Okay.
Briana (11:41):
But you thought it was Barnes and Noble.
That's cute, do you remember it?
Cris (11:46):
What we did Barnes and Noble Didn't I buy something.
Briana (11:48):
Yeah, you were getting a journal for someone.
I mean it could have been foranother girl, i don't even know.
Cris (11:53):
But I think it might have been.
Briana (11:55):
Really I think so.
Cris (11:58):
Wow, i don't even know if that's what I bought.
I'm just saying, if it was that, i don't know, maybe you know,
i don't know I don't think thatwas our first date.
Briana (12:08):
I thought we were just hanging out.
Our first date, i think, iswhen you came back and we
started actually talking and youasked you had that show in
upland.
and you asked me and you werelike, hey, do you know where
this is You?
and then we went and we went tothat.
We went to Corey His tattooshop, his tattoo shop.
Cris (12:30):
Oh, i went to get the tickets.
Briana (12:32):
What is it Downtown upland?
What's it called Downtownupland?
Cris (12:34):
It's closed.
now, i forgot the name.
Briana (12:37):
Shit Give me.
Cris (12:39):
Okay, so back in the day I used to play music and I got
hit up by this venue which I didnot know, that you have to sell
tickets, and I was like theyhit me up, they they like my
stuff, they want me to play Thewire, the wire It was a wire.
Briana (12:53):
It was called the wire.
Cris (12:54):
It closed down since, but they hit me up and they're like
do you want to play?
And I was like, yeah.
And then one of my buddies waslike you know, you have to sell
tickets, right And whatever youdon't, you need to pay.
And I was like what?
No?
So they're like Oh, yeah, youhave some tickets.
And then I want to go pick themup.
I think they gave me 25 ticketsand I didn't know that many
people, but I try to promote itand I sold, i think, 24 out of
(13:18):
the 25 and I only sold 24.
I really sold maybe like 18 orlike 15, and your aunt and uncle
bought like fucking 10 ticketsand they had like three people.
Oh, did they really?
Yeah, they bought like three.
It was just you, chris Shelley,who else went.
(13:40):
That's it right.
Briana (13:41):
Yeah.
Cris (13:42):
And they bought like 10.
Briana (13:43):
I don't remember that And I was like.
Cris (13:44):
I was like what the heck?
Yes, I don't.
Because when I got there,they're like oh you, you'll owe
this much at the end And I waslike what?
I was like fuck, he was right,my buddy was right, so I had to
pay back.
I had to pay them 10.
You had to pay to play prettymuch Pretty much And I thought
that they like found me and Iwas like yes, how rude of them.
Briana (14:01):
That's every venue.
Cris (14:02):
That's pretty much every venue, every little shit hole in
the wall.
But yeah, i only had to pay 10bucks and I was like the
happiest ever.
I was like fuck, that was asuccess to me, it was so cool
Anyway well, that was our firstdate.
Briana (14:15):
We went up on the scope out that place.
We stopped by Corey Miller'stattoo shop.
We stopped at the ice creamshop right by the tattoo shop
And we got like just like a hotdog ice cream.
I remember I wish I did And wejust hung out.
That was our first date.
Cris (14:32):
Cute, I'm cute See.
Briana (14:34):
I took you, i drove you.
Cris (14:36):
Sorry, i didn't have a car at the time.
She's got to rip it in I tookyou.
Briana (14:39):
I mean, i don't care, i'll take you anywhere, okay
that was a good first date.
Yeah, So that was our firstdate, But also we were, we were
just there for one of my friendsfirst dates one of my friends.
She went on a date.
They met online, And so that'spart of like why we're talking
about this.
(14:59):
Oh yeah, She just went on afirst date, and so that's you
know, kind of like, why we'rebringing this up.
Like it was online.
We were there, we weren't therethe whole time.
It's not like we met up withthem.
We sat there with her, but wewere in the same place.
Cris (15:17):
I was confused.
Just part of, like you know itwas a coincidence that we were
at the same place.
Briana (15:23):
We were all the way in the back.
Well, no, actually we werereally like the restaurant that
they went to, so that's why wewere there.
But they, we would got thereearly but they'd happen and be
there at the same time as us.
But I mean, hey, any friend,I'll be there for your first
date.
I mean I won't.
Cris (15:41):
Yeah, i was kind of confused at what you were saying
, but we were actually,coincidentally, at the same spot
as her best friend.
Briana (15:47):
Yes, and you know what?
Cris (15:48):
First date and we're just it was cool.
Briana (15:52):
Yeah, i'll you know, and I was partially there as, like
you know, security, like I eventold her like, hey, if
anything's wrong, if you need,if you need to like talk, like I
went and talked to her before Isaid I'm in the back, just text
me bathroom or something.
Walk to the bathroom.
I'll walk to the bathroom withyou.
Cris (16:11):
Again, coincidentally one of the bathroom at the same time
.
Briana (16:13):
I really had a pee.
I really had a pee.
Cris (16:16):
Yeah, she did too Yeah.
Briana (16:19):
So, you know we were there for that first date, So
that was fun.
Cris (16:23):
That was the first time we've done that.
Briana (16:26):
That was the first time we've ever done that Yeah.
Cris (16:28):
And last time Maybe.
Briana (16:30):
I'll go on a first date with any of my friends.
Cris (16:32):
Who knows?
Briana (16:33):
Um, so I was thinking, if you're in a first date, like,
what do you do to break the ice?
Cris (16:41):
First dates are so awkward .
Briana (16:43):
They are very awkward.
Cris (16:44):
If it's someone you don't really know, especially if you
meet someone online or like,meet someone randomly, and you
get their info and you want togo hang out on a first date.
You don't really know them thatmuch and you have to ask the
awkward questions and try tofigure them out, see if you're
really like, and then sometimesyou don't even know if you liked
them on the first date.
(17:05):
Um, but ice breakers, i don'tknow.
I mean, i'm probably like oneof the funniest guys ever, so
it's easy for me.
Briana (17:15):
You just bring your own ice picks to break that ice.
Cris (17:19):
You just come hauling it in ice Breakers, not in my
vocabulary, i'm just kidding.
Briana (17:25):
You're the um.
What's his when he goes freezefrom Batman?
I know It's what you'rethinking.
Cris (17:31):
Yes, Dude that guy that guy's icy Um ice breakers.
I don't fucking know.
I take a couple shots so youcan loosen up a little bit.
Yeah, cause it's so tense,right, if you're going on a
first date with someone youdon't know, it's kind of like,
oh, this is weird, yeah, andwhat questions?
Briana (17:48):
do you ask?
Cris (17:50):
I haven't hung out with someone on a first date in a
long time.
Yeah, you haven't.
Um, are you going to?
Briana (17:53):
be like this, though People are going to think you're
crazy.
What do you mean?
you haven't, we've beentogether for 10 years Getting a
little crazy, to be honest.
We've been together for 10years.
What do you mean?
Cris (18:05):
But uh yeah, have you been on any awkward first dates?
I don't think so.
No, i think ice breakers is uhgetting drinks and uh getting
drinks, and.
Briana (18:16):
I think it's different, like it depends like what age
you are and stuff.
Cris (18:20):
Sure.
Briana (18:21):
Like I've been on a first date in high school where
it was so awkward Like you.
you know, you are like, uh, idon't know some guy.
So, these are some questionsthat you can ask on the first
date to break the ice.
Okay, Given the choice ofanyone in the world who would
you want as a dinner guest?
Cris (18:39):
Never ask that.
Briana (18:41):
I obviously, but you know, you can kind of like
tailor it to your like.
I would be like Hey, if you, ifyou could have dinner with
three people, who would it beDead or alive?
Cris (18:54):
Yeah, that's.
Briana (18:55):
See, and that gets you thinking.
Cris (18:59):
Yeah, yeah, i think I would spin it to some funny
questions.
Maybe that'll be good.
Briana (19:05):
Yeah, next one.
What's your most treasuredmemory?
I've asked you that before,like what are some of your best
memories from childhood?
Cris (19:13):
Four years in.
I don't think it's a first datequestion.
Briana (19:16):
Yeah, I feel like that's probably more for a little more
serious.
Cris (19:19):
A little more serious, that's true.
Briana (19:21):
What would make a perfect day for you.
Cris (19:24):
That's a good one.
These are all little cheesy,but.
Briana (19:27):
But you need cheesy for a first date to really truly get
to know someone.
Cris (19:30):
First dates are so cheesy.
What do you like to do?
What's your favorite food?
Briana (19:35):
What's your favorite food?
I love that one Yeah.
Cris (19:38):
It has to be everything or I'm like Max, never mind.
Briana (19:40):
You want a girl to say everything?
Cris (19:41):
Yeah, To make it easy, you know.
But so when you say what do youwant to eat, She knows what she
wants to eat.
Briana (19:49):
Sorry, ok, so now we have some tips to prep for the
first date.
Choosing the place.
Cris (19:59):
Choosing the place beforehand.
How do you choose?
No ifs, ands or buts?
Briana (20:06):
You don't want to have buts on the first date.
Cris (20:08):
You know how you choose Men.
You choose.
You choose the date Becauseyou're going to get the scene in
the notebook when RyanGosling's Charlie and Rachel,
Charlie and Rachel.
What do you want?
What do you?
Briana (20:21):
want.
It's not that simple.
That is my favorite.
He is like Emotions.
It's like heartfelt.
What do you want?
Cris (20:32):
Damn, you're in the wrong field.
You need to switch from stayhome to actress.
I mean.
Briana (20:39):
Let's go baby.
Call me Hollywood, let's gobaby.
Cris (20:44):
You don't choose Men, you choose.
You don't say what do you wantto eat Or what do you like This
or that.
You choose a place.
Maybe it has to have a big menu, So there's variety And you
just go.
Briana (20:58):
Make sure it's sick though.
Yeah, imagine you chooseBoiling Crab and then you show
up and the person's like I havea shellfish allergy.
Cris (21:08):
It's like on a long came Polly.
He's allergic to Indian food,spicy food, and he's like
blowing the rest of the world.
And he doesn't say nothing.
Briana (21:19):
What am I thinking of?
There was one where they wenton a date and then They're
telling about Mary And his eyesare like slits, like his face
swells up so much on the date.
Cris (21:30):
That sounds weird.
Briana (21:31):
I don't know That was some sort of movie, sorry guys,
but yeah.
Well, my friend who just wenton the first date she chose a
restaurant because she knew thatwhere they were going they had
games, which is perfect becauseYou could focus on the game, not
that.
It keeps the conversation going.
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You don't have a lull in yourconversation.
Cris (21:55):
Yeah, you don't have dead ends.
That's a good one.
Briana (21:58):
You're not like your hands on the table fidgety.
You could hold cards, You couldhold a little piece.
You could move stuff around.
I feel like that's a very gooddetail to keep in mind.
Cris (22:12):
A tip for guys is to offer the choice to the women one
time, one only.
And if they don't say a place,then you say, ok, i'll figure it
out, don't worry about it.
And then you should choose aplace, just choose it.
I agree with that, yeah.
Briana (22:27):
Yeah, don't make her try to keep guessing Like, oh what?
This place, this place, that'sgood.
Yeah, i like that tip.
Well, she chose this restaurantAnd then actually come to find
out at the end of their date Oneof the waiters was talking to
them.
The restaurant she chose isactually one of the top first
date places because of the gamesand stuff.
(22:47):
But the best part is that theyhave this little policy, i guess
, where, if someone gets stoodup there, someone's there
waiting for their date.
Their date never shows up.
All of the staff by.
Cris (23:02):
That person drinks hell Yeah, baby, that's nice This
play.
we should shot this place offGuildhall, whittier, california.
Good have good food, good games, good vibes.
Briana (23:12):
Yeah, but if you're there for a first date and your
date shows up And it's a littleawkward they give you a round of
shots like it, like your friendgot.
Okay, we're gonna do that.
Cris (23:31):
That's good.
Yeah, you get around a shot.
Briana (23:33):
Yeah, you buy around a shot keeps the night going ice
breaker.
Cris (23:36):
Oh, they say ice breaker, take a couple shots.
Nice, i thought I didn't knowwhat I was talking about until
that part.
Briana (23:45):
You just popped up all of a sudden.
But yeah so choosing a place,don't over complicate it.
keep it simple, don't make itan all-day thing too.
Yeah like don't Try to planlike this and then this and then
this, because if it doesn'twork out like imagine you have
to Like like you're in a citythree hours away.
Cris (24:05):
Sure.
So that's a very good point.
Make it quick, make it a goodplace, because in that short
amount of time you'll know ifyou're into it or not.
If you're not into it, you getout of there quick and you both
are like oh yes, it's done.
If you go through it quick andyou both love it, you're like I
can't wait to hang out with themagain and you plan the next
thing boom, boom, boom, fasterto get it in boys.
Briana (24:32):
I mean, if both parties want have fun, yeah, but if
things go well on the first day,you could still like continue
it.
Yeah, it's spontaneous.
You could even be like, oh hey,look, i just saw this bar down
the street.
I just saw this museum down thestreet, like we did.
Cris (24:48):
What, after guilt, all we went to this time, oh, Yeah, the
night going baby, we did alittle awkward, but it was
fucking tight.
Baby, let's go.
Keep it going, that's a goodone.
(25:09):
Keep it going if you feel it,and that's why you keep it short
imagine there has beeninstances, probably In earth,
where the day is horrible andone person's like enjoying it.
The other person is like I hatethis and then like let's go do
something else.
The go-to is how I have to gethome, i have to do, i have to go
to sleep, i work tomorrow, ihave this, that, but that's just
(25:30):
funny thought.
Briana (25:31):
Yeah, no, imagine like, how do you get out of that?
Cris (25:34):
Yeah, awkward.
Briana (25:36):
Hope you survived it Next.
Okay, so you're on the firstdate.
Things are going great.
You're feeling it Hooking uphow far do you go.
Cris (25:54):
Hmm, hmm, it's a good one.
That is a good one.
Again, it's all in the feelingyou could tell what type of girl
she is right if she's reallyreally into you or she's into
you only.
It's either one into you orinto into you, and if it's the
into into you into squared,you're getting it in on the
(26:14):
first day.
Baby.
Yeah, if you're really intoeach other into squared, i Think
it's Fine to do the deed thefirst time.
Briana (26:24):
I think there's a lot of factors, because a million
factors, but that's why I saidinto squared that covers all the
factors, but you're so manyfactors, what do you mean it
into?
just doesn't cover it.
Cris (26:35):
I know into is probably just a kiss on the cheek Quick
pack and say, oh, walk you toyour door.
We should do this againsometime.
Briana (26:42):
You think two and twos is just getting it in yes.
I don't know like I havefriends like they're.
They're like the whole spectrumof I.
Cris (26:52):
Think two and twos is on the day.
You're all over each otherholding hands already, like
flirting, body flirting, notjust like talking flirting.
Briana (27:02):
That's the thing, though to like how close you get like,
even just like your knees touch, like yeah, knees touch like a
hand touch 100% of the handtouches.
Always do is just touch yourhand not just touch the hand.
Cris (27:16):
I think you may like touch my crotch region.
Briana (27:20):
Your hand is your crotch .
Cris (27:25):
Super proud when he says when she says This guy, try back
with scratchers, he's like.
the funny thing is, my back isno kidding, i'm like.
I think more physical duringthe day, like you think you
might be able to get in or slipthe fingers.
Briana (27:49):
I'm just saying that's real life.
That's real life.
I feel like there's a bunch ofFactors.
So like your age, for one, yes.
Like if you're younger, youmight.
You might be a little morereserved.
Cris (28:07):
You might not be able to like you know you might not be
able to agree with what you'resaying.
I don't agree with that.
You don't have to, okay, hey,do you think what else?
Briana (28:17):
Familiarity, like do you feel like you're familiar with
this person, like how long haveyou been talking to each other?
Cris (28:22):
Yeah, that one I agree with okay, thanks.
Briana (28:26):
Drinks Have you had a few drinks?
if you've had a few drinks, youmight be, a little more like.
Cris (28:32):
Hey, what do you see?
Briana (28:33):
goose you might be ready to go, Yeah you know the saying
.
How does it go?
The goose is the goose.
Cris (28:44):
The goose is loose.
What's?
Briana (28:46):
good for the goose.
Cris (28:50):
What is it?
What is it?
The alcohol makes you tell thetruth, or something?
Oh no, oh no, i know that's notit.
I know that's not it, but whatis it?
You know what it is drunkthoughts are sober words
something like that Yes, yes,what are you doing?
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That's what I meant to say, youknow.
Briana (29:21):
Close.
Yeah, you were real close.
Cris (29:25):
Okay, next.
Briana (29:27):
Yeah, so this factors that go into it, but Would you
hook up on the first date?
Cris (29:33):
It depends, if it was, if all the, the factors, all the
factors were there.
All the boxes were checked, ifI jerked off before the date.
Briana (29:43):
How far would you go?
You would go all the way.
Cris (29:47):
It feels good, why not you wouldn't?
I don't know you would Likeyour stupid face I mean, yeah, i
probably would, Yeah, why not?
Briana (29:54):
Yeah, yeah, why not?
Cris (29:55):
Yeah, I mean, yeah, I would.
That'd be the best 30 secondsof their life.
What I tell you all the timeAgreed, i probably would too,
yeah.
Damn, just chill out.
Briana (30:13):
What do you mean?
Cris (30:14):
I'm just agreeing with you All of a sudden, yeah, yeah,
yeah, yeah, don't doubt, crackaddict.
Briana (30:22):
Let me give my picks.
Okay, okay, dark night, ididn't get a good Sikyu, but So
now let's ask some men.
Cris (30:32):
The men The men Of.
Reddit, reddit, reddit.
Briana (30:46):
Have you ever had a safe word during sex?
If so, what was it?
Orange, the color, not thefruit.
Cris (30:57):
I thought you were asking me about the answer I mean.
Well, you are a man, orange thecolor, not the fruit Red,
yellow, green.
Briana (31:05):
Stop, use caution, but proceed.
Oh, yes, is green?
Yeah.
Cris (31:10):
I follow martial arts rules.
Briana (31:20):
You either tap out with a hand or you say the words tap,
tap.
Cris (31:24):
Jesus.
Briana (31:25):
I like having the hand tap out option in case someone's
mouth is, let's say,unavailable.
Oh, flugging, it's F, l, u, g,g, a, e, n, k, o, e, c, c, h, i,
c, e, b, o L.
Cris (31:46):
S E N.
Briana (31:47):
That's their safe word.
I hate them.
That's it Why.
That's ridiculous.
That's the point.
You can't say it, so you don'thave a safe word.
Cris (31:57):
If they were like flakish, i'd be like hell.
yeah, they love this shit,they're into it.
They can't even speak English.
Briana (32:10):
Ice cream.
We all scream for ice cream.
Cris (32:15):
I hate that person too.
Briana (32:20):
Let's see Safe word.
Cris (32:24):
Safe word Safe word, safe word Safe word.
Briana (32:26):
Why make it complicated?
Cris (32:30):
That's it.
Briana (32:30):
That's why I'm thirsty.
for us means stop what you'redoing.
I'm thirsty.
Cris (32:37):
Those are the words I'm thirsty.
Briana (32:38):
Yeah, we like it, because sometimes we are
literally just thirsty for somewater.
Cris (32:43):
Oh, Jesus, sorry, i mean they go on the marathon run.
They don't.
They're parched.
We sprint.
They need their electrolytes.
We sprint after we're.
Like man, i drink too much.
Briana (33:02):
Oh no.
So what would your safe word be?
Cris (33:07):
Mine is I'm gonna come stop.
Briana (33:13):
That's his sentence.
You have a safe sentence.
Cris (33:18):
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait wait.
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa,whoa, whoa.
Mine is aw man, because I'mdone already.
Briana (33:35):
I want you to feel safe.
Cris (33:37):
Definitely feel safe.
What's your safe word?
Briana (33:42):
Neapolitan.
Cris (33:44):
Cosmopolitan.
Briana (33:46):
Sorry, carrie Bradshaw.
Cris (33:47):
Carrie Bradshaw.
Briana (33:49):
Carrie Bradshaw.
Cris (33:51):
All right.
Briana (33:51):
Neapolitan Neapolitan.
Cris (33:52):
Just because you're thinking about pizza, probably
I'm thinking about ice creamright now.
Briana (33:58):
That's it.
Yeah, i mean, i don't know.
Cris (34:02):
I mean.
Safe words work for some people, i guess.
Briana (34:04):
But No, some people need safe words.
but so I think, if you have, ifyou need to make a safe word,
making a safe word out ofsomething that is not so common,
obviously, because you're notgoing to be like, oh, my safe
word is I'm tired, tired.
Cris (34:19):
I'm more into a safe word.
When it's not dealing with thebedroom, like if you're out
somewhere and you don't want to,you say a safe word.
Briana (34:27):
Like when we got what the kids are safe word is.
Cris (34:30):
I'm going to kill myself.
Time to go home.
Briana (34:35):
We just went to David Buster's with all three kids.
Cris (34:38):
Jesus, that was a nightmare.
Briana (34:40):
Yeah, that was our safe word.
That's when we needed our safeword.
Cris (34:43):
We actually have a road trip coming up and we're taking
the kids, and me and brown, ikeep saying how we're excited
about it because we're going toSeattle, we're flying to Seattle
, then we're driving to Portland, to Utah, to Vegas, and we keep
saying, man, we can't wait togo.
And as time goes closer, we'relike when you go on a vacation
with your kids.
Like we said before, it's notfor you, it's for them, you're
(35:06):
gonna for them will probably belike, not on talking terms, by
the time we go to.
Briana (35:12):
You might get the next episode like three weeks after
that one.
And it'll be like this is theend of the podcast.
Cris (35:22):
The finale.
Briana (35:23):
Sorry guys.
Cris (35:25):
It's like those breakup videos were breaking up.
Briana (35:28):
We done had enough.
It's just too much.
Cris (35:31):
Safe word out in the community is better than in the
bed, i think.
Briana (35:36):
I like it.
Yeah, actually we should make asafe word.
We should make a safe word whenwe're out with each other, like
and the kids are, you know,being kids and look at each
other.
I mean I feel like we alreadyhave that like where you look at
each other, you have that look,maybe a word where we could
just say a word and be like okay, yeah, i'm ready to go too.
Cris (35:58):
Yeah, good one, yeah Good job.
Briana (36:01):
Okay, last is our Hot goss.
Cris (36:08):
What's the gossip?
We love the gossip.
Briana (36:11):
We love the goss.
We love the goss.
Al Pacino, 82, is expecting ababy with his 29-year-old
girlfriend, while Robert De Nirois also having his seven child.
Cris (36:27):
Jesus.
Briana (36:28):
I mean, let's not judge.
Wait, let's work this out first.
Cris (36:35):
What's the first?
Al Pacino.
How old is he?
He's 82.
He's 82.
How old is the lady?
Briana (36:43):
29.
29.
Oh remember, I just told youthat too 53-year difference No
but Al Pacino has.
I think Al Pacino has a33-year-old daughter 33?
Cris (36:55):
Can you say 33?
Briana (36:56):
33.
, 33.
, 33.
33.
There you go, your old daughter.
That's our age.
But imagine you're the daughter.
Cris (37:06):
I could be his daughter.
Briana (37:08):
You'd be his daughter And your stepmom is older than
you.
Cris (37:12):
Younger than you.
Briana (37:13):
Oh yeah, younger than you, Are you okay?
Cris (37:16):
There's too many tequila shots there.
No wonder you weren't nervous.
I was more nervous.
I hate you, Dude.
53-year.
When he was 53 years old, Shewas born.
She was born.
That's fucking wild.
I know, That is so crazy.
I don't even know what to sayabout it.
How does his dick work still?
(37:37):
How old is he?
Ew?
Briana (37:39):
he's 82.
Cris (37:40):
82?
Still fucking, i want to bedead by 62.
Hi, damn, that's crazy.
Well, keep on rocking on.
Briana (37:50):
They had a baby, i mean.
Cris (37:54):
Is it his baby?
Is it Who knows?
Briana (37:59):
I mean, they know What if they're liking the committed
relationship.
Cris (38:03):
Jesus.
I'm surprised there's notuproar about that shit, but
Maybe because he's a good actor.
Briana (38:08):
What I read is that Robert DeNiro, he wanted a
paternity test for his baby.
Cris (38:14):
Good That guy's probably broke because of his.
I think I said I heardsomething He had a voicemail or
some shit.
Our phone call recorded withhis wife and saying that's why
he has to make all theseshooting movies, because she
spends all his money.
Briana (38:29):
Yeah, that was true, that it was it.
It's a new girl.
This is a new girl.
Cris (38:33):
Oh, okay, but seven kids, holy fuck, are you broke Seven?
Briana (38:37):
kids.
No wonder you're still acting.
I mean, but why is Nick CannonNick Cannon's fine?
Cris (38:43):
It's not fine.
No, he's fine.
Briana (38:45):
I see so many.
Cris (38:47):
I see so many like memes and stuff about Nick Cannon.
It's crazy.
It's crazy because I wasfriends with one of the girls he
has twins with and it's weird.
It's crazy.
Anyway, I don't even know whatto say about it.
Well, he has a lot of kids.
It looks like he takes care ofthem, which is good, but yeah,
(39:13):
it's crazy to have like 10brothers and sisters, though.
Briana (39:16):
If they see each other.
Cris (39:18):
Yeah, anyway, that's wild.
Well, the thing is.
Briana (39:21):
I mean, hopefully they're happy, hopefully they're
good, you know.
You know they're well takencare of, though, but yeah,
hopefully they're happy.
Our last one is Scandival.
See, I'm not, I'm not.
Cris (39:33):
I don't even know what that is.
Briana (39:34):
I know I didn't either.
I'm not a part of this, i don'tknow anything about this, but
we're talking about it.
Yes, we are because it's a big,it's been a big thing.
I've seen a lot of it.
So I guess this is show calledVanderpump, vanderpump rules,
and it's this guy, tom Sandoval,and he's been with this girl,
ariana Maddox, for about 10years.
Cris (39:57):
It's a long time like us.
Briana (39:59):
Yeah, they've been together for about 10 years and
it just came out.
I don't know, just came out.
I don't know how it found out,whatever, but it just came out
that he was cheating on her withher best friend her best friend
And I was talking to Beccaabout this and she said that it
was found out.
(40:19):
What did it say?
Um, it was around the time thathis girlfriend, ariana's dog
died.
So the girl, raquel, who hecheated with, was consoling
Ariana the one who was cheatedon about the dog dying, while
while she was hooking up Withher boyfriend of 10 years.
Cris (40:46):
She was consoling both of them.
Oh no.
Briana (40:51):
Okay, okay.
Cris (40:53):
That's.
that's fucked up.
That's crazy, it's horrible.
Briana (40:56):
And I've seen a lot of things about this Like I haven't
seen anything I've seen?
so many things, probablybecause I'm like, because you
click on all the videos, so it'slike this is what you want to
watch.
Cris (41:06):
That's crazy.
Briana (41:07):
It's so sad.
Cris (41:09):
But that's, i mean those actors they're not actors.
Isn't that a movie?
They were in the movie orsomething.
No, they were in Van der Pumpbills or whatever it's called.
Briana (41:21):
Van der Pump, is it Biles?
Aren't those all actors?
No, that's a.
it was like a Bravo show, soit's like reality Fuck all them,
all those weirdos.
I mean, that's still sad.
Cris (41:34):
It's someone's life, it's someone's life.
That's sad, yeah, super sad.
You're so sad, i'm so sad.
I don't care about that one,Anyway.
Well, one last thing before wego Our theme song that I paid
over $200 for.
Briana (41:55):
Wait what?
Cris (41:56):
Oh?
This guy on some stupid appthat you could buy music from.
It says custom song, whatever.
Whatever.
I was on like I don't know,instagram or something, tiktok,
and it was like a homeimprovement.
Tiktok and Brianna was likelooked at me quick And I was
(42:17):
like, fuck, what did I look at?
I need something bad.
I was like tripping out andthen you're like, was that our
song?
And I go back to the video.
It's our fucking intro of ourpodcast that I paid this guy
over $200 for.
And I messaged this fucking guyand he says, oh, i don't say
anything about custom songs,even though the fucking picture
(42:40):
of his thing it says customintro and outro.
He worded it, so it's a customanimation.
You know that animation fromthe intro It says all tricks and
the truth with Chris Garza andBrianna.
It's an art Where it like kindof moves.
Yeah, that's what it is.
And I said, I said, I saidyou're a bitch dude.
I'm going to freaking kill youwhen I see you.
(43:01):
So our song is not even anoriginal song and we're going to
change it now.
I'm fucking so irritated aboutit.
Briana (43:08):
I didn't even know that.
You didn't tell me that.
I just remember sitting in thecar and be like Hey, that's our
song.
Cris (43:13):
Anyway, I'm damn.
He's probably from fuckingBangladesh or some shit, but I
hate her song now We'll have tofind a new one.
Briana (43:22):
Yeah, I hate it.
Cris (43:23):
He added the doorbell and the closing.
Oh, that was his Customcustomization.
Briana (43:29):
Fucking dickhead Anyway well, we'll be on the hunt for a
new song, but also we're gladto be back, yeah.
Cris (43:37):
We appreciate all of you and we'll leave you on that, so
we'll catch you on the flip floplater.
Welcome back to All Tricks , no Treats, the number one
relationship slash printingpodcast.
Briana (00:21):
We've been coming out every four weeks.
Cris (00:25):
We've been MIA.
We have no excuses, sorry, wejust like to tease you.
You know We're like, okay, nowwe're going to do it every week,
but then don't.
We're liars essentially, buthopefully we'll be back on your
Spotify playlist and YouTubechannels.
Briana (00:42):
Consistent, yeah, consistent.
Hopefully we'll be consistent,yay, okay, so bear with us, just
because we're getting back intothe groove.
Cris (00:49):
I'm fucking so nervous.
Briana (00:50):
Some of us are a little nervous, We're catching up, Okay
.
So let's just act like you know.
We're talking to our friendsbecause we are Yeah.
Okay, so we're catching up.
Champ finished school.
He had his last day of school.
Cris (01:05):
Bittersweet, very bittersweet, because that means
we leave Whittier forever.
Not forever, but you know.
Briana (01:12):
Yeah, our last like pretty big tie to Whittier is
done, so we're officially movedout and gone Officially In our
new city.
In our new city.
Yeah, To my bestie Becca Who,by the way, when you listen to
this, thank you.
Cris (01:31):
She's watching the kids.
Briana (01:32):
She's watching the kids right now And I was telling her
she was asking me about it and Iwas just telling her that it
just felt like it's been a lotof back and forth for him.
And it just felt like when wewent and picked him up for his
last day of school becausethat's like a little we're a big
tradition family When we pickedhim up, i just felt like this
big sense of relief, like It'sdone.
(01:55):
Like it's, we did it.
Cris (01:57):
It was.
it was crazy to see because itwas a lot, especially for champ,
because he was traveling 25, 30minutes away.
He would stay at hisgrandparents a couple of days
out of the week, which was sadfor us too.
But picking him up you can seehe was a little like sad.
He wasn't like smiling or we'relike, oh, what's up, dude,
(02:18):
you're a little sad becauseyou're not coming back, and he
was like, yeah, i'm happy hecould be honest with us.
Briana (02:24):
Like with something like that.
Cris (02:26):
But it's.
It's sad to go, but yeah.
Briana (02:29):
So we, just you know, we validate those feelings and let
them know, that that's okay.
It's okay to be sad.
You know, we get sad too whenwe have to leave things, but it
doesn't mean that we're donewith it.
Cris (02:40):
One chapter closed and the next one opens.
Briana (02:43):
Justin Bobby.
But yes, so that's somethingbig that was in our little lives
little time frame.
Next is we went and saw thecure.
Cris (02:58):
The cure still looking good.
Not that good, but good, Noyeah.
Briana (03:02):
Robert Smith's uh, I mean his lipsticks still smears.
Amazingly, that herities isstill as high as it can go.
Cris (03:09):
They still sound pretty good.
They sound amazing, yeah, butthey're getting up there in age,
which is sad.
Briana (03:14):
It is sad.
They're one of my top threefavorite bands, So to be able to
see them again.
Cris (03:17):
I saw them.
Briana (03:18):
The last time I saw them in the Hollywood Bowl I was 17.
We just graduated high school.
Cris (03:23):
How long ago was that?
15 years ago.
15 years ago, don't remind me.
We're going to start lookinglike them soon.
Briana (03:30):
I already do.
Um, something else we did is,uh, we went to Villains Brewery.
Cris (03:38):
A new brewery in Nihonaheim, california Brewery
Brewery.
That's so weird, weird.
Briana (03:44):
It is a word We're going to start having, like this one
Yeah.
Cris (03:49):
Well, it had higher end vibes.
There was security, and thenthere was like two security.
One was letting people in aspeople came out, and then
another one had like a fuckinglittle mini clipboard.
Briana (04:01):
There was like a list, like a guest list.
Cris (04:04):
People were walking in and we just didn't like it.
Briana (04:08):
We stood in line with our stroller and our three kids.
Cris (04:11):
Parking was pretty shitty.
Um yeah, But overall it wascool.
They have like a clubby vibekind of.
Briana (04:18):
So I had seen it And I think we also went with my aunt,
uncle and my cousin and hisgirlfriend And she is originally
the one who's really beenwanting to go because it's
called Villains and she reallylikes scary movies, like us.
She likes scary movies, likeshe likes the creepy things in
life And um, so she's, you knowshe really wanted to go and we
(04:42):
got there and we were like, oh,i mean, i love the decor, it's
beautiful.
Cris (04:46):
It's modern.
Briana (04:46):
Yes, it's like a kind of like a LA well we were sitting.
It's like a LA pool club typevibe.
Cris (04:52):
Yeah.
Briana (04:54):
Um, i was expecting more , like we were talking about.
I was like, oh, maybe like somescary movies could have been
playing on screens or something,but it was still.
It was still really.
Cris (05:01):
It's a cool name.
It just didn't really.
it doesn't fit the name, Idon't think.
Briana (05:04):
Yeah.
Cris (05:05):
But it's cool Like they have a storage containers as
little buildings kind of, withvines everywhere.
They had a pool that had acover and people were sitting on
the pool and it's like down.
this place is pretty gnarly.
So it definitely is a sickplace.
Briana (05:20):
Yeah, i want to go back for sure, yeah, for sure.
Um, something else we've beenuh very into our.
We always get like stuck on ashow.
So our show we just finished itlast night Actually, drink
masters.
And since we're talking aboutdrink masters, let's, let's.
Cris (05:35):
cheers Cause let's do it.
I'm not going to interrupt youlike four times to do this, but
I'm glad you did that perfectway.
Briana (05:41):
I'm a good.
I'm a good.
Cris (05:44):
Segui Cheers to being back every Monday, hopefully.
Briana (05:49):
We didn't say which Monday.
Cris (05:54):
Oh man, it's always so crispy, the first drink It is.
And gassy, anyway, gassy, gassy.
Briana (06:01):
Yeah, that was waiting for you.
Um, yeah, we've been watchingthe show on Netflix called drink
masters.
It's about these bartenders,who they are.
We were talking about it.
Like, when we go to a bar, weusually like you just get the
old fashioned.
I get the tequila sprite,tequila squirt, like we're very
simple, but these people arelike they're, it's like their
craft.
Cris (06:21):
Yeah, it's.
It's a what's a drink?
masters is what it's called,but it's like a chopped version
for cocktails.
You know what's crazy.
Longer times then people.
Briana (06:33):
From chopped they get like an hour and a half to make
a drink And people in choppedhave to cook like meat and they
make ice cream and stuff.
I just realized that.
Cris (06:41):
That's fucking dude.
These people are making an hourand a half cocktails.
How is that possible?
I'd sock you in the head if Iwould be gone if I ordered that
drink and they're like okay, anhour and a half you'll have it.
I'd punch her in the face andwalk out.
Yeah, it's still someone'sdrink and be like bitch.
I ain't waiting an hour and ahalf, but it was a very good
(07:01):
show.
It was cool.
Briana (07:02):
It was good If you can watch it.
you definitely should, becausethese like it's an art for them.
Cris (07:07):
So yeah, they're really into it.
They were crying aboutcocktails.
I was like that's crazy.
Briana (07:11):
The only time I cried about cocktails are like two in
the morning.
Cris (07:16):
Two in the morning, we're getting our decisions.
Why do we?
do this In an alleyway A coupleof times I was also drunk.
I was spinning and throwing up.
I said, God, please, I'll neverdo this again.
Briana (07:26):
Please just take it away .
Oh no Feel me.
I usually do that the morningafter.
Cris (07:33):
Oh my God, one time I got so drunk I'm drinking the OG
Four Loco and I was barfing inmy buddy's house I was living
with him at the time and I endedup with no clothes on a blanket
he brought me I was naked andGrahams was his grandma.
We called her Grahams.
She walked in and was likeshe's like ours, are you okay?
And I was like, yeah, i think Ijust ate some bad food.
(07:55):
Clearly it was not bad food.
Briana (07:57):
You were trying to hide it from her.
Yeah, i was in the nude.
Well, i mean, you can't hidethe nude, but you were trying to
hide that you drank.
Cris (08:05):
Yeah, i was a kid, i was 19, 20 years old And I was
living at the house.
I didn't wonder if there was abad influence on her son.
Puppy Grahams that was anickname, That's a cute nickname
.
Briana (08:17):
How cute did she, was that it she just left after?
Cris (08:20):
Yeah, she said, oh, okay, And then close the door and left
.
That was the prime years of mylife, parting years, not like in
life years, sorry.
Briana (08:31):
Anyway, one of my cousins, he said that he went to
a I forgot a party or fratparty or something, and he said
that one of his oh yeah, one ofhis friends was pledging a frat
and he had to, because he waswith him, do the same thing as
him And they had to drink.
I think they drink like theyhad to drink three, four locos.
(08:51):
Three to four, four locos.
The hell No yeah, He said atthe end of the night they were
like dead, dead.
Cris (08:57):
Yeah, that had got bad, that's how they were speaking.
Yes, they had to get broughtback to life.
Why is that sentence so hard tosay?
Wake me up inside.
Briana (09:12):
Bring me back to life.
That's the name of that song.
Save me, evanescence.
Yes, imagine you go to like akaraoke place on a first date or
something And that's a song youpick and you're doing like both
(09:37):
roles.
And the person that you're on adate with is like oh, they
really went for it.
Cris (09:45):
That's a good one.
Briana (09:46):
That is Well.
Speaking of first dates, I'mdoing amazing with our sagus
today.
Yeah, It's a segue.
Cris (09:54):
Okay.
Briana (09:55):
I'm doing amazing with our segues today, Speaking of
first dates.
Cris (10:04):
that's our topic for today .
Briana (10:07):
Is that for No?
Cris (10:09):
that's rock show.
Briana (10:17):
In the car.
I just can't wait to pick youup on a very first date.
It's a cool live.
Cris (10:31):
Oh, is it wrong.
Briana (10:32):
Yeah, speaking of Blink, wow, it's like we're seasoned
podcast people.
Cris (10:35):
By the time this is released, we'll have seen them
and I'm like dying.
I can't wait.
I've been a fan for ever.
10,000 middle school 2002.
Let's go.
Briana (10:47):
Are you going to scream?
Cris (10:48):
A couple songs.
I don't know all their songs, ijust know a few other songs.
Well, a good amount of othersongs, but it'll be, fun First
date.
It's a good topic.
Briana (10:57):
Yes, so our first date.
You saw it.
Cris (11:02):
What.
Briana (11:04):
What was our?
I know I asked you.
Cris (11:06):
I told you earlier.
Briana (11:07):
What was our first date?
Cris (11:09):
I'd say Barnes and Noble.
Briana (11:10):
You said Barnes and Noble, was that not it?
No, we were talking about it.
And you said Barnes and NobleWell, it wasn't.
And we were like, was thatreally a date?
because we weren't really likedating.
We just kind of hung out asfriends, Like that's when we
hooked up.
We didn't hook up that day.
Cris (11:25):
Not that day, but we were just hook up friends, I think.
Briana (11:28):
You were in, you had your own life, like you had a
job and everything, and we kindof hung out a little bit, talked
a little bit, hung out a littlebit.
This is before you left to NewYork.
So this is.
We just hung out.
Cris (11:40):
Okay.
Briana (11:41):
But you thought it was Barnes and Noble.
That's cute, do you remember it?
Cris (11:46):
What we did Barnes and Noble Didn't I buy something.
Briana (11:48):
Yeah, you were getting a journal for someone.
I mean it could have been foranother girl, i don't even know.
Cris (11:53):
But I think it might have been.
Briana (11:55):
Really I think so.
Cris (11:58):
Wow, i don't even know if that's what I bought.
I'm just saying, if it was that, i don't know, maybe you know,
i don't know I don't think thatwas our first date.
Briana (12:08):
I thought we were just hanging out.
Our first date, i think, iswhen you came back and we
started actually talking and youasked you had that show in
upland.
and you asked me and you werelike, hey, do you know where
this is You?
and then we went and we went tothat.
We went to Corey His tattooshop, his tattoo shop.
Cris (12:30):
Oh, i went to get the tickets.
Briana (12:32):
What is it Downtown upland?
What's it called Downtownupland?
Cris (12:34):
It's closed.
now, i forgot the name.
Briana (12:37):
Shit Give me.
Cris (12:39):
Okay, so back in the day I used to play music and I got
hit up by this venue which I didnot know, that you have to sell
tickets, and I was like theyhit me up, they they like my
stuff, they want me to play Thewire, the wire It was a wire.
Briana (12:53):
It was called the wire.
Cris (12:54):
It closed down since, but they hit me up and they're like
do you want to play?
And I was like, yeah.
And then one of my buddies waslike you know, you have to sell
tickets, right And whatever youdon't, you need to pay.
And I was like what?
No?
So they're like Oh, yeah, youhave some tickets.
And then I want to go pick themup.
I think they gave me 25 ticketsand I didn't know that many
people, but I try to promote itand I sold, i think, 24 out of
(13:18):
the 25 and I only sold 24.
I really sold maybe like 18 orlike 15, and your aunt and uncle
bought like fucking 10 ticketsand they had like three people.
Oh, did they really?
Yeah, they bought like three.
It was just you, chris Shelley,who else went.
(13:40):
That's it right.
Briana (13:41):
Yeah.
Cris (13:42):
And they bought like 10.
Briana (13:43):
I don't remember that And I was like.
Cris (13:44):
I was like what the heck?
Yes, I don't.
Because when I got there,they're like oh you, you'll owe
this much at the end And I waslike what?
I was like fuck, he was right,my buddy was right, so I had to
pay back.
I had to pay them 10.
You had to pay to play prettymuch Pretty much And I thought
that they like found me and Iwas like yes, how rude of them.
Briana (14:01):
That's every venue.
Cris (14:02):
That's pretty much every venue, every little shit hole in
the wall.
But yeah, i only had to pay 10bucks and I was like the
happiest ever.
I was like fuck, that was asuccess to me, it was so cool
Anyway well, that was our firstdate.
Briana (14:15):
We went up on the scope out that place.
We stopped by Corey Miller'stattoo shop.
We stopped at the ice creamshop right by the tattoo shop
And we got like just like a hotdog ice cream.
I remember I wish I did And wejust hung out.
That was our first date.
Cris (14:32):
Cute, I'm cute See.
Briana (14:34):
I took you, i drove you.
Cris (14:36):
Sorry, i didn't have a car at the time.
She's got to rip it in I tookyou.
Briana (14:39):
I mean, i don't care, i'll take you anywhere, okay
that was a good first date.
Yeah, So that was our firstdate, But also we were, we were
just there for one of my friendsfirst dates one of my friends.
She went on a date.
They met online, And so that'spart of like why we're talking
about this.
(14:59):
Oh yeah, She just went on afirst date, and so that's you
know, kind of like, why we'rebringing this up.
Like it was online.
We were there, we weren't therethe whole time.
It's not like we met up withthem.
We sat there with her, but wewere in the same place.
Cris (15:17):
I was confused.
Just part of, like you know itwas a coincidence that we were
at the same place.
Briana (15:23):
We were all the way in the back.
Well, no, actually we werereally like the restaurant that
they went to, so that's why wewere there.
But they, we would got thereearly but they'd happen and be
there at the same time as us.
But I mean, hey, any friend,I'll be there for your first
date.
I mean I won't.
Cris (15:41):
Yeah, i was kind of confused at what you were saying
, but we were actually,coincidentally, at the same spot
as her best friend.
Briana (15:47):
Yes, and you know what?
Cris (15:48):
First date and we're just it was cool.
Briana (15:52):
Yeah, i'll you know, and I was partially there as, like
you know, security, like I eventold her like, hey, if
anything's wrong, if you need,if you need to like talk, like I
went and talked to her before Isaid I'm in the back, just text
me bathroom or something.
Walk to the bathroom.
I'll walk to the bathroom withyou.
Cris (16:11):
Again, coincidentally one of the bathroom at the same time
.
Briana (16:13):
I really had a pee.
I really had a pee.
Cris (16:16):
Yeah, she did too Yeah.
Briana (16:19):
So, you know we were there for that first date, So
that was fun.
Cris (16:23):
That was the first time we've done that.
Briana (16:26):
That was the first time we've ever done that Yeah.
Cris (16:28):
And last time Maybe.
Briana (16:30):
I'll go on a first date with any of my friends.
Cris (16:32):
Who knows?
Briana (16:33):
Um, so I was thinking, if you're in a first date, like,
what do you do to break the ice?
Cris (16:41):
First dates are so awkward .
Briana (16:43):
They are very awkward.
Cris (16:44):
If it's someone you don't really know, especially if you
meet someone online or like,meet someone randomly, and you
get their info and you want togo hang out on a first date.
You don't really know them thatmuch and you have to ask the
awkward questions and try tofigure them out, see if you're
really like, and then sometimesyou don't even know if you liked
them on the first date.
(17:05):
Um, but ice breakers, i don'tknow.
I mean, i'm probably like oneof the funniest guys ever, so
it's easy for me.
Briana (17:15):
You just bring your own ice picks to break that ice.
Cris (17:19):
You just come hauling it in ice Breakers, not in my
vocabulary, i'm just kidding.
Briana (17:25):
You're the um.
What's his when he goes freezefrom Batman?
I know It's what you'rethinking.
Cris (17:31):
Yes, Dude that guy that guy's icy Um ice breakers.
I don't fucking know.
I take a couple shots so youcan loosen up a little bit.
Yeah, cause it's so tense,right, if you're going on a
first date with someone youdon't know, it's kind of like,
oh, this is weird, yeah, andwhat questions?
Briana (17:48):
do you ask?
Cris (17:50):
I haven't hung out with someone on a first date in a
long time.
Yeah, you haven't.
Um, are you going to?
Briana (17:53):
be like this, though People are going to think you're
crazy.
What do you mean?
you haven't, we've beentogether for 10 years Getting a
little crazy, to be honest.
We've been together for 10years.
What do you mean?
Cris (18:05):
But uh yeah, have you been on any awkward first dates?
I don't think so.
No, i think ice breakers is uhgetting drinks and uh getting
drinks, and.
Briana (18:16):
I think it's different, like it depends like what age
you are and stuff.
Cris (18:20):
Sure.
Briana (18:21):
Like I've been on a first date in high school where
it was so awkward Like you.
you know, you are like, uh, idon't know some guy.
So, these are some questionsthat you can ask on the first
date to break the ice.
Okay, Given the choice ofanyone in the world who would
you want as a dinner guest?
Cris (18:39):
Never ask that.
Briana (18:41):
I obviously, but you know, you can kind of like
tailor it to your like.
I would be like Hey, if you, ifyou could have dinner with
three people, who would it beDead or alive?
Cris (18:54):
Yeah, that's.
Briana (18:55):
See, and that gets you thinking.
Cris (18:59):
Yeah, yeah, i think I would spin it to some funny
questions.
Maybe that'll be good.
Briana (19:05):
Yeah, next one.
What's your most treasuredmemory?
I've asked you that before,like what are some of your best
memories from childhood?
Cris (19:13):
Four years in.
I don't think it's a first datequestion.
Briana (19:16):
Yeah, I feel like that's probably more for a little more
serious.
Cris (19:19):
A little more serious, that's true.
Briana (19:21):
What would make a perfect day for you.
Cris (19:24):
That's a good one.
These are all little cheesy,but.
Briana (19:27):
But you need cheesy for a first date to really truly get
to know someone.
Cris (19:30):
First dates are so cheesy.
What do you like to do?
What's your favorite food?
Briana (19:35):
What's your favorite food?
I love that one Yeah.
Cris (19:38):
It has to be everything or I'm like Max, never mind.
Briana (19:40):
You want a girl to say everything?
Cris (19:41):
Yeah, To make it easy, you know.
But so when you say what do youwant to eat, She knows what she
wants to eat.
Briana (19:49):
Sorry, ok, so now we have some tips to prep for the
first date.
Choosing the place.
Cris (19:59):
Choosing the place beforehand.
How do you choose?
No ifs, ands or buts?
Briana (20:06):
You don't want to have buts on the first date.
Cris (20:08):
You know how you choose Men.
You choose.
You choose the date Becauseyou're going to get the scene in
the notebook when RyanGosling's Charlie and Rachel,
Charlie and Rachel.
What do you want?
What do you?
Briana (20:21):
want.
It's not that simple.
That is my favorite.
He is like Emotions.
It's like heartfelt.
What do you want?
Cris (20:32):
Damn, you're in the wrong field.
You need to switch from stayhome to actress.
I mean.
Briana (20:39):
Let's go baby.
Call me Hollywood, let's gobaby.
Cris (20:44):
You don't choose Men, you choose.
You don't say what do you wantto eat Or what do you like This
or that.
You choose a place.
Maybe it has to have a big menu, So there's variety And you
just go.
Briana (20:58):
Make sure it's sick though.
Yeah, imagine you chooseBoiling Crab and then you show
up and the person's like I havea shellfish allergy.
Cris (21:08):
It's like on a long came Polly.
He's allergic to Indian food,spicy food, and he's like
blowing the rest of the world.
And he doesn't say nothing.
Briana (21:19):
What am I thinking of?
There was one where they wenton a date and then They're
telling about Mary And his eyesare like slits, like his face
swells up so much on the date.
Cris (21:30):
That sounds weird.
Briana (21:31):
I don't know That was some sort of movie, sorry guys,
but yeah.
Well, my friend who just wenton the first date she chose a
restaurant because she knew thatwhere they were going they had
games, which is perfect becauseYou could focus on the game, not
that.
It keeps the conversation going.
(21:53):
You don't have a lull in yourconversation.
Cris (21:55):
Yeah, you don't have dead ends.
That's a good one.
Briana (21:58):
You're not like your hands on the table fidgety.
You could hold cards, You couldhold a little piece.
You could move stuff around.
I feel like that's a very gooddetail to keep in mind.
Cris (22:12):
A tip for guys is to offer the choice to the women one
time, one only.
And if they don't say a place,then you say, ok, i'll figure it
out, don't worry about it.
And then you should choose aplace, just choose it.
I agree with that, yeah.
Briana (22:27):
Yeah, don't make her try to keep guessing Like, oh what?
This place, this place, that'sgood.
Yeah, i like that tip.
Well, she chose this restaurantAnd then actually come to find
out at the end of their date Oneof the waiters was talking to
them.
The restaurant she chose isactually one of the top first
date places because of the gamesand stuff.
(22:47):
But the best part is that theyhave this little policy, i guess
, where, if someone gets stoodup there, someone's there
waiting for their date.
Their date never shows up.
All of the staff by.
Cris (23:02):
That person drinks hell Yeah, baby, that's nice This
play.
we should shot this place offGuildhall, whittier, california.
Good have good food, good games, good vibes.
Briana (23:12):
Yeah, but if you're there for a first date and your
date shows up And it's a littleawkward they give you a round of
shots like it, like your friendgot.
Okay, we're gonna do that.
Cris (23:31):
That's good.
Yeah, you get around a shot.
Briana (23:33):
Yeah, you buy around a shot keeps the night going ice
breaker.
Cris (23:36):
Oh, they say ice breaker, take a couple shots.
Nice, i thought I didn't knowwhat I was talking about until
that part.
Briana (23:45):
You just popped up all of a sudden.
But yeah so choosing a place,don't over complicate it.
keep it simple, don't make itan all-day thing too.
Yeah like don't Try to planlike this and then this and then
this, because if it doesn'twork out like imagine you have
to Like like you're in a citythree hours away.
Cris (24:05):
Sure.
So that's a very good point.
Make it quick, make it a goodplace, because in that short
amount of time you'll know ifyou're into it or not.
If you're not into it, you getout of there quick and you both
are like oh yes, it's done.
If you go through it quick andyou both love it, you're like I
can't wait to hang out with themagain and you plan the next
thing boom, boom, boom, fasterto get it in boys.
Briana (24:32):
I mean, if both parties want have fun, yeah, but if
things go well on the first day,you could still like continue
it.
Yeah, it's spontaneous.
You could even be like, oh hey,look, i just saw this bar down
the street.
I just saw this museum down thestreet, like we did.
Cris (24:48):
What, after guilt, all we went to this time, oh, Yeah, the
night going baby, we did alittle awkward, but it was
fucking tight.
Baby, let's go.
Keep it going, that's a goodone.
(25:09):
Keep it going if you feel it,and that's why you keep it short
imagine there has beeninstances, probably In earth,
where the day is horrible andone person's like enjoying it.
The other person is like I hatethis and then like let's go do
something else.
The go-to is how I have to gethome, i have to do, i have to go
to sleep, i work tomorrow, ihave this, that, but that's just
(25:30):
funny thought.
Briana (25:31):
Yeah, no, imagine like, how do you get out of that?
Cris (25:34):
Yeah, awkward.
Briana (25:36):
Hope you survived it Next.
Okay, so you're on the firstdate.
Things are going great.
You're feeling it Hooking uphow far do you go.
Cris (25:54):
Hmm, hmm, it's a good one.
That is a good one.
Again, it's all in the feelingyou could tell what type of girl
she is right if she's reallyreally into you or she's into
you only.
It's either one into you orinto into you, and if it's the
into into you into squared,you're getting it in on the
(26:14):
first day.
Baby.
Yeah, if you're really intoeach other into squared, i Think
it's Fine to do the deed thefirst time.
Briana (26:24):
I think there's a lot of factors, because a million
factors, but that's why I saidinto squared that covers all the
factors, but you're so manyfactors, what do you mean it
into?
just doesn't cover it.
Cris (26:35):
I know into is probably just a kiss on the cheek Quick
pack and say, oh, walk you toyour door.
We should do this againsometime.
Briana (26:42):
You think two and twos is just getting it in yes.
I don't know like I havefriends like they're.
They're like the whole spectrumof I.
Cris (26:52):
Think two and twos is on the day.
You're all over each otherholding hands already, like
flirting, body flirting, notjust like talking flirting.
Briana (27:02):
That's the thing, though to like how close you get like,
even just like your knees touch, like yeah, knees touch like a
hand touch 100% of the handtouches.
Always do is just touch yourhand not just touch the hand.
Cris (27:16):
I think you may like touch my crotch region.
Briana (27:20):
Your hand is your crotch .
Cris (27:25):
Super proud when he says when she says This guy, try back
with scratchers, he's like.
the funny thing is, my back isno kidding, i'm like.
I think more physical duringthe day, like you think you
might be able to get in or slipthe fingers.
Briana (27:49):
I'm just saying that's real life.
That's real life.
I feel like there's a bunch ofFactors.
So like your age, for one, yes.
Like if you're younger, youmight.
You might be a little morereserved.
Cris (28:07):
You might not be able to like you know you might not be
able to agree with what you'resaying.
I don't agree with that.
You don't have to, okay, hey,do you think what else?
Briana (28:17):
Familiarity, like do you feel like you're familiar with
this person, like how long haveyou been talking to each other?
Cris (28:22):
Yeah, that one I agree with okay, thanks.
Briana (28:26):
Drinks Have you had a few drinks?
if you've had a few drinks, youmight be, a little more like.
Cris (28:32):
Hey, what do you see?
Briana (28:33):
goose you might be ready to go, Yeah you know the saying
.
How does it go?
The goose is the goose.
Cris (28:44):
The goose is loose.
What's?
Briana (28:46):
good for the goose.
Cris (28:50):
What is it?
What is it?
The alcohol makes you tell thetruth, or something?
Oh no, oh no, i know that's notit.
I know that's not it, but whatis it?
You know what it is drunkthoughts are sober words
something like that Yes, yes,what are you doing?
(29:17):
That's what I meant to say, youknow.
Briana (29:21):
Close.
Yeah, you were real close.
Cris (29:25):
Okay, next.
Briana (29:27):
Yeah, so this factors that go into it, but Would you
hook up on the first date?
Cris (29:33):
It depends, if it was, if all the, the factors, all the
factors were there.
All the boxes were checked, ifI jerked off before the date.
Briana (29:43):
How far would you go?
You would go all the way.
Cris (29:47):
It feels good, why not you wouldn't?
I don't know you would Likeyour stupid face I mean, yeah, i
probably would, Yeah, why not?
Briana (29:54):
Yeah, yeah, why not?
Cris (29:55):
Yeah, I mean, yeah, I would.
That'd be the best 30 secondsof their life.
What I tell you all the timeAgreed, i probably would too,
yeah.
Damn, just chill out.
Briana (30:13):
What do you mean?
Cris (30:14):
I'm just agreeing with you All of a sudden, yeah, yeah,
yeah, yeah, don't doubt, crackaddict.
Briana (30:22):
Let me give my picks.
Okay, okay, dark night, ididn't get a good Sikyu, but So
now let's ask some men.
Cris (30:32):
The men The men Of.
Reddit, reddit, reddit.
Briana (30:46):
Have you ever had a safe word during sex?
If so, what was it?
Orange, the color, not thefruit.
Cris (30:57):
I thought you were asking me about the answer I mean.
Well, you are a man, orange thecolor, not the fruit Red,
yellow, green.
Briana (31:05):
Stop, use caution, but proceed.
Oh, yes, is green?
Yeah.
Cris (31:10):
I follow martial arts rules.
Briana (31:20):
You either tap out with a hand or you say the words tap,
tap.
Cris (31:24):
Jesus.
Briana (31:25):
I like having the hand tap out option in case someone's
mouth is, let's say,unavailable.
Oh, flugging, it's F, l, u, g,g, a, e, n, k, o, e, c, c, h, i,
c, e, b, o L.
Cris (31:46):
S E N.
Briana (31:47):
That's their safe word.
I hate them.
That's it Why.
That's ridiculous.
That's the point.
You can't say it, so you don'thave a safe word.
Cris (31:57):
If they were like flakish, i'd be like hell.
yeah, they love this shit,they're into it.
They can't even speak English.
Briana (32:10):
Ice cream.
We all scream for ice cream.
Cris (32:15):
I hate that person too.
Briana (32:20):
Let's see Safe word.
Cris (32:24):
Safe word Safe word, safe word Safe word.
Briana (32:26):
Why make it complicated?
Cris (32:30):
That's it.
Briana (32:30):
That's why I'm thirsty.
for us means stop what you'redoing.
I'm thirsty.
Cris (32:37):
Those are the words I'm thirsty.
Briana (32:38):
Yeah, we like it, because sometimes we are
literally just thirsty for somewater.
Cris (32:43):
Oh, Jesus, sorry, i mean they go on the marathon run.
They don't.
They're parched.
We sprint.
They need their electrolytes.
We sprint after we're.
Like man, i drink too much.
Briana (33:02):
Oh no.
So what would your safe word be?
Cris (33:07):
Mine is I'm gonna come stop.
Briana (33:13):
That's his sentence.
You have a safe sentence.
Cris (33:18):
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait wait.
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa,whoa, whoa.
Mine is aw man, because I'mdone already.
Briana (33:35):
I want you to feel safe.
Cris (33:37):
Definitely feel safe.
What's your safe word?
Briana (33:42):
Neapolitan.
Cris (33:44):
Cosmopolitan.
Briana (33:46):
Sorry, carrie Bradshaw.
Cris (33:47):
Carrie Bradshaw.
Briana (33:49):
Carrie Bradshaw.
Cris (33:51):
All right.
Briana (33:51):
Neapolitan Neapolitan.
Cris (33:52):
Just because you're thinking about pizza, probably
I'm thinking about ice creamright now.
Briana (33:58):
That's it.
Yeah, i mean, i don't know.
Cris (34:02):
I mean.
Safe words work for some people, i guess.
Briana (34:04):
But No, some people need safe words.
but so I think, if you have, ifyou need to make a safe word,
making a safe word out ofsomething that is not so common,
obviously, because you're notgoing to be like, oh, my safe
word is I'm tired, tired.
Cris (34:19):
I'm more into a safe word.
When it's not dealing with thebedroom, like if you're out
somewhere and you don't want to,you say a safe word.
Briana (34:27):
Like when we got what the kids are safe word is.
Cris (34:30):
I'm going to kill myself.
Time to go home.
Briana (34:35):
We just went to David Buster's with all three kids.
Cris (34:38):
Jesus, that was a nightmare.
Briana (34:40):
Yeah, that was our safe word.
That's when we needed our safeword.
Cris (34:43):
We actually have a road trip coming up and we're taking
the kids, and me and brown, ikeep saying how we're excited
about it because we're going toSeattle, we're flying to Seattle
, then we're driving to Portland, to Utah, to Vegas, and we keep
saying, man, we can't wait togo.
And as time goes closer, we'relike when you go on a vacation
with your kids.
Like we said before, it's notfor you, it's for them, you're
(35:06):
gonna for them will probably belike, not on talking terms, by
the time we go to.
Briana (35:12):
You might get the next episode like three weeks after
that one.
And it'll be like this is theend of the podcast.
Cris (35:22):
The finale.
Briana (35:23):
Sorry guys.
Cris (35:25):
It's like those breakup videos were breaking up.
Briana (35:28):
We done had enough.
It's just too much.
Cris (35:31):
Safe word out in the community is better than in the
bed, i think.
Briana (35:36):
I like it.
Yeah, actually we should make asafe word.
We should make a safe word whenwe're out with each other, like
and the kids are, you know,being kids and look at each
other.
I mean I feel like we alreadyhave that like where you look at
each other, you have that look,maybe a word where we could
just say a word and be like okay, yeah, i'm ready to go too.
Cris (35:58):
Yeah, good one, yeah Good job.
Briana (36:01):
Okay, last is our Hot goss.
Cris (36:08):
What's the gossip?
We love the gossip.
Briana (36:11):
We love the goss.
We love the goss.
Al Pacino, 82, is expecting ababy with his 29-year-old
girlfriend, while Robert De Nirois also having his seven child.
Cris (36:27):
Jesus.
Briana (36:28):
I mean, let's not judge.
Wait, let's work this out first.
Cris (36:35):
What's the first?
Al Pacino.
How old is he?
He's 82.
He's 82.
How old is the lady?
Briana (36:43):
29.
29.
Oh remember, I just told youthat too 53-year difference No
but Al Pacino has.
I think Al Pacino has a33-year-old daughter 33?
Cris (36:55):
Can you say 33?
Briana (36:56):
33.
, 33.
, 33.
33.
There you go, your old daughter.
That's our age.
But imagine you're the daughter.
Cris (37:06):
I could be his daughter.
Briana (37:08):
You'd be his daughter And your stepmom is older than
you.
Cris (37:12):
Younger than you.
Briana (37:13):
Oh yeah, younger than you, Are you okay?
Cris (37:16):
There's too many tequila shots there.
No wonder you weren't nervous.
I was more nervous.
I hate you, Dude.
53-year.
When he was 53 years old, Shewas born.
She was born.
That's fucking wild.
I know, That is so crazy.
I don't even know what to sayabout it.
How does his dick work still?
(37:37):
How old is he?
Ew?
Briana (37:39):
he's 82.
Cris (37:40):
82?
Still fucking, i want to bedead by 62.
Hi, damn, that's crazy.
Well, keep on rocking on.
Briana (37:50):
They had a baby, i mean.
Cris (37:54):
Is it his baby?
Is it Who knows?
Briana (37:59):
I mean, they know What if they're liking the committed
relationship.
Cris (38:03):
Jesus.
I'm surprised there's notuproar about that shit, but
Maybe because he's a good actor.
Briana (38:08):
What I read is that Robert DeNiro, he wanted a
paternity test for his baby.
Cris (38:14):
Good That guy's probably broke because of his.
I think I said I heardsomething He had a voicemail or
some shit.
Our phone call recorded withhis wife and saying that's why
he has to make all theseshooting movies, because she
spends all his money.
Briana (38:29):
Yeah, that was true, that it was it.
It's a new girl.
This is a new girl.
Cris (38:33):
Oh, okay, but seven kids, holy fuck, are you broke Seven?
Briana (38:37):
kids.
No wonder you're still acting.
I mean, but why is Nick CannonNick Cannon's fine?
Cris (38:43):
It's not fine.
No, he's fine.
Briana (38:45):
I see so many.
Cris (38:47):
I see so many like memes and stuff about Nick Cannon.
It's crazy.
It's crazy because I wasfriends with one of the girls he
has twins with and it's weird.
It's crazy.
Anyway, I don't even know whatto say about it.
Well, he has a lot of kids.
It looks like he takes care ofthem, which is good, but yeah,
(39:13):
it's crazy to have like 10brothers and sisters, though.
Briana (39:16):
If they see each other.
Cris (39:18):
Yeah, anyway, that's wild.
Well, the thing is.
Briana (39:21):
I mean, hopefully they're happy, hopefully they're
good, you know.
You know they're well takencare of, though, but yeah,
hopefully they're happy.
Our last one is Scandival.
See, I'm not, I'm not.
Cris (39:33):
I don't even know what that is.
Briana (39:34):
I know I didn't either.
I'm not a part of this, i don'tknow anything about this, but
we're talking about it.
Yes, we are because it's a big,it's been a big thing.
I've seen a lot of it.
So I guess this is show calledVanderpump, vanderpump rules,
and it's this guy, tom Sandoval,and he's been with this girl,
ariana Maddox, for about 10years.
Cris (39:57):
It's a long time like us.
Briana (39:59):
Yeah, they've been together for about 10 years and
it just came out.
I don't know, just came out.
I don't know how it found out,whatever, but it just came out
that he was cheating on her withher best friend her best friend
And I was talking to Beccaabout this and she said that it
was found out.
(40:19):
What did it say?
Um, it was around the time thathis girlfriend, ariana's dog
died.
So the girl, raquel, who hecheated with, was consoling
Ariana the one who was cheatedon about the dog dying, while
while she was hooking up Withher boyfriend of 10 years.
Cris (40:46):
She was consoling both of them.
Oh no.
Briana (40:51):
Okay, okay.
Cris (40:53):
That's.
that's fucked up.
That's crazy, it's horrible.
Briana (40:56):
And I've seen a lot of things about this Like I haven't
seen anything I've seen?
so many things, probablybecause I'm like, because you
click on all the videos, so it'slike this is what you want to
watch.
Cris (41:06):
That's crazy.
Briana (41:07):
It's so sad.
Cris (41:09):
But that's, i mean those actors they're not actors.
Isn't that a movie?
They were in the movie orsomething.
No, they were in Van der Pumpbills or whatever it's called.
Briana (41:21):
Van der Pump, is it Biles?
Aren't those all actors?
No, that's a.
it was like a Bravo show, soit's like reality Fuck all them,
all those weirdos.
I mean, that's still sad.
Cris (41:34):
It's someone's life, it's someone's life.
That's sad, yeah, super sad.
You're so sad, i'm so sad.
I don't care about that one,Anyway.
Well, one last thing before wego Our theme song that I paid
over $200 for.
Briana (41:55):
Wait what?
Cris (41:56):
Oh?
This guy on some stupid appthat you could buy music from.
It says custom song, whatever.
Whatever.
I was on like I don't know,instagram or something, tiktok,
and it was like a homeimprovement.
Tiktok and Brianna was likelooked at me quick And I was
(42:17):
like, fuck, what did I look at?
I need something bad.
I was like tripping out andthen you're like, was that our
song?
And I go back to the video.
It's our fucking intro of ourpodcast that I paid this guy
over $200 for.
And I messaged this fucking guyand he says, oh, i don't say
anything about custom songs,even though the fucking picture
(42:40):
of his thing it says customintro and outro.
He worded it, so it's a customanimation.
You know that animation fromthe intro It says all tricks and
the truth with Chris Garza andBrianna.
It's an art Where it like kindof moves.
Yeah, that's what it is.
And I said, I said, I saidyou're a bitch dude.
I'm going to freaking kill youwhen I see you.
(43:01):
So our song is not even anoriginal song and we're going to
change it now.
I'm fucking so irritated aboutit.
Briana (43:08):
I didn't even know that.
You didn't tell me that.
I just remember sitting in thecar and be like Hey, that's our
song.
Cris (43:13):
Anyway, I'm damn.
He's probably from fuckingBangladesh or some shit, but I
hate her song now We'll have tofind a new one.
Briana (43:22):
Yeah, I hate it.
Cris (43:23):
He added the doorbell and the closing.
Oh, that was his Customcustomization.
Briana (43:29):
Fucking dickhead Anyway well, we'll be on the hunt for a
new song, but also we're gladto be back, yeah.
Cris (43:37):
We appreciate all of you and we'll leave you on that, so
we'll catch you on the flip floplater.
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