November 6, 2023 • 53 mins
Ding Dong! Have you ever had that moment when you're scrolling through social media and suddenly stumble upon your ex's profile? You know, the one you promised to stay friends with, but ended up cutting ties instead. Well, this episode is all about that. We take you through some of our October antics, like our family trip to the Myers House and a visit to the whimsical Sugar Mynt Gallery. And let’s not forget our four-year anniversary and the ongoing saga of our house remodel. And yes, we even tried our hands at Halloween costumes this year. Spoiler alert - it didn't end that way.
Let's chat about exes, shall we? We posed a simple question to you, our listeners - do you still follow your exes on social media? The responses we received were anything but expected! As we navigate through the murky waters of staying friends with an ex and the necessity of cutting off contact after a breakup, we realize that it’s not all black and white. The conversation takes an interesting turn as we discuss whether exes can truly be friends, especially when intimacy was once a part of the equation.
Hold onto your hats because the episode takes a turn towards the eerie. Your paranormal experiences and our own spine-tingling tales will have you looking over your shoulder. From inexplicable phone calls to ghostly presences, the unexplained just got a little more real. And let’s not forget our take on Britney Spears' early relationship with Justin Timberlake. We round off with an open invitation to our listeners to share their own chilling experiences and secrets. Whether you are here for some light-hearted banter, some serious relationship advice, or some spine-chilling stories, don’t miss out on this episode.
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Speaker 1 (00:09):
No trees, no trees, no trees, no trees, no trees, no
trees, no trees.
Welcome back to All Tricks notrees.
It's been a very busy.
This is Halloween.
This is Halloween Halloween.
I wish you joined in.
It's been a very busy Octoberfor us.
(00:29):
October but it sucks becauselast year we wanted to do a
bunch of things during Octoberand this year In October, we
wanted to do a bunch of thingstoo.
We wanted to like have spookyepisodes.
Dress up, make a website.
Make like a spooky shirt.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Oh wow, I didn't know we had all that planned.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
And we didn't, and we're doing one episode for
October.
You know us.
I feel like they can take ourword that we're going to change.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
They're probably not even here anymore, because
they're like no, you let us down.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Okay, sorry, we're back.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Here we are Every week.
Yeah, anyway, yeah.
So it's October, our busiestmonth.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Pretty busy Out of the whole year.
Yeah, we've done a lot.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
So there's some things we do in October.
We visit the Myers House thebeginning of every October.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Explain to them what that is.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
So when champ was a baby, we just needed to get out
of the house and we were like,okay, let's just go, let's go do
something, let's find something.
And I found where the MichaelMyers house the house in
Halloween, the movie is.
It's in Pasadena.
And so we went there and took apicture with champ when he was
(01:52):
I don't even know like sevenmonths old, new born pretty much
.
And it's become a tradition.
We go there every year.
So obviously our family's grown, our pictures have developed
and we go there every year andtake a picture in front of the
house.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
What's cool about that, too, is like two houses
down is a museum, like a.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Halloween museum, a gallery, what's it called Sugar
Mint Sugar Mint Gallery.
But, it's mint with the Y.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
They have hocus pocus stuff, stuff from the movie.
They have Halloween stuff, theyhave.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
It was a ghost, no, no.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
They have a local artist paint scenes for movies
and they sell them there, whichis super.
We try to buy something everytime we go.
If you're wanting to go, it's20 bucks to get in, so take some
cash.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
We're going for that, yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Especially if you have five people in your family.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Actually they just pay.
They charge us for us.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Because we go every year.
And it was cool because oneyear the mom actually was
babysitting.
Quote unquote Bubby.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
The gallery owner.
She's a younger girl and hermom was there and she was like,
oh, can I hold her?
I don't have any grandchildrenyet.
And so we were like, okay, yes,take her baby.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Anyway, it was cool there.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Yeah, so we went there.
We went to the pumpkin patch.
We also saw movements.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
The band.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Movements, which was really good.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Some guy almost I think he died next to us.
Yeah, that guy who passed righton his head.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
The ghost, the movement, ghost.
No, I meant that's the ghost.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Yeah, I feel bad for that dude.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Yeah, that was hard RIP.
Who knows what happened.
He's doing well.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
I don't think so.
But anyway, Movements, they'regood to see live.
If you haven't heard them,check them out.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
We celebrated our four year anniversary.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Four years, eleven years together.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Four years married.
Yes, A four year married.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
We just talked about this, but we would always say
like two years through, isn't it?
We're like man, imagine like a10 year anniversary.
No way, that's too long to betogether.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
We'd always be like oh no way.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
And now we're here, all old farts, but yeah, four
years.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
It was fun.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Yeah, it was a good time.
We went to Beauty and Essex.
Beauty and Essex, it was a nicerestaurant in Hollywood and we
hit a couple of bars which waspretty good.
No kids, thank God.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
We took the kids to the bar.
They would want to go Probably.
It was probably fun.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
But yeah, it was a good time.
Four years Damn, that's wild.
Four years married and I did acheers.
I was like 10 other four years.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
And they went.
Oh no, I was like four hundredfour hundred 44 years oh no, oh
no.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
But anyway, yeah, that happened too.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Yeah, so October's been very busy.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
And we're getting a new fucking roof at the moment.
So it's been like dirty andcrazy and, if you don't know, we
remodeled our whole house andthat was one of the last things.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
We did the inside.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Yeah, we needed a lot more stuff outside, but we had
leaks, so we had to do a newroof and it's the front house is
done.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
We need to work on the back house, but I'm trying
to make it seem like that's partof it.
We're just doing a hauntedhouse, guys.
We're just you know, that's theaesthetic we're going for.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
It looks like all the , all the white old neighbors
are like oh yeah, okay, thatmakes sense yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Instead, it's just our house is trashed because
we're getting we're getting alot of construction done.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
I'm just leaning into it right now.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Yeah, so let's choose to that, to our October.
Unfortunately, it's the end ofOctober Halloween's over.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
They really have Christmas shit.
So sad, you know, it's realwhen they have the white Santa
and black Santa at Los.
You're like you always highfive him.
I say what's up?
My home dude Cheers.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Cheers.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Oh, but nice.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
We did want to wear costumes, but we didn't have
time to so these things on ourheads.
If you can't see him, he'swearing a captain's hat.
I'm wearing a beret.
It's going to be for my costume, so you know why I'm in the
captain's hat.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
baby, captain Tan, baby, all y'all are just all,
y'all are just in the on theride.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Captain Crunch.
Wow, that's crazy.
Captain Hook, don't try to saveit.
Oh Captain, my captain.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Wow, captain Crunch, I guess I do look like that fat
guy in my box.
Surah box.
Thanks, oh God.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Okay, so there was one more thing.
I know we talked about this.
We said that we wanted to starta.
Actually look at my pumpkin.
This is my pumpkin too.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Very nice.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
This is my.
I had a pumpkin painting nightwith my friends and I chose
Pennywise.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
I heard of pumpkin painting, but who pumpkin paints
?
It's pumpkin carving right.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
I do like pumpkin carving, but even actually
someone who she listens to us.
She did pumpkin painting withher kids and I told her like oh,
it looks so cute.
And she said it's so mucheasier.
And then after doing this, itwas easier.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
And look at that thing, If you can't see.
It's Pennywise on a pumpkin andshe showed me a picture of all
of her girlfriends and herpumpkin and her friends.
Pumpkins were cute.
There was shit.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
No, they weren't.
They were all cute, like theyhad cute colors, like little
cute ghosts, like look at thisthing.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
If you can't see it, I'm going to fucking post it.
On the story I'm going to postall of those and we'll see who's
the best one.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
No, they're so cute, but I just of course went for
the creepy vibes.
But um, give me, I know I saidthat um a while ago.
I wanted to start like a littlesegment where we talked about
funny things our kids say, andso today one happened Really.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
So, um, I made breakfast for the kids and I and
we were sitting at the tableand normally we always tell them
like turn the TV off whilewe're eating.
But I was like, okay, let's puton a movie.
Champ wanted to watch Big Daddy.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Family favorite, so we put it on.
And then, um, we finishedwatching it.
We were walking around cleaningup, getting ready to leave and
I just hear him walking aroundgoing Hooters, Hooters, Hooters,
Hooters, Hooters.
Hooters and I was like oh no,what have we done?
I'm like you don't even knowwhat it means.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Oh my God, is this a?
Speaker 2 (08:29):
hooters, no, like I said, okay, um, like, let's,
let's get dressed, Go get, let'sgo get some clothes on.
He walks away going Hooters,Hooters, hooters, no, no.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
My boy.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Yeah, it's natural.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
He knows it's right.
He knows it's right to sayHooters.
But that was funny, it'shilarious.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
I wish I heard him say that.
What's the topic of the day?
What?
Speaker 1 (08:47):
what is a good topic for October?
The scariest thing of all.
What the X.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Files for having the X talk today, the X Talking
about our X's.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Sex with the X?
No, okay, just the X, the X, sospookiest thing of all.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
We have our polls, but also I want to know what you
think of the X, the X, the X.
The X, the X, the X, the X, theX, the X, the.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
The X.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
You did like a form, like a wave formation on it.
You better chill out.
You better chill out with thatcatch up.
So we did a pull.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Let's hear that people eat it with ketchup.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Okay, Ketchup on chorizo.
We said Is there any other wayor no, I'm not crazy.
20% said there's no other way.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Hell yeah, that sounds like the majority.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Yeah, oh yeah.
80% said no, I'm not crazy.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
I bet you, those people haven't even tried it.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
If you haven't tried they haven't tried it because
they already know how disgustingit looks.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
If you haven't tried ketchup on chorizo and eggs, go
try it with some tortilla.
There's a lot of R-rollinggoing on but try it.
That bitch is delicious.
I'm not crazy, you're crazy.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
So I just wanted to bring that up.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Thanks for they're scammers.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
I mean, we all have that, I bet you.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
They say they don't like ketchup on Spanish rice
either.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
You probably don't.
Oh, my God, you guys aredisgusting people.
Us, yes, us.
Okay.
So our X polls.
Do you keep in touch with anyXs?
17% said yes, I'm mature andcan keep it cool.
83% no, they gone.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Damn.
I feel like if you don't keepin touch, it ended badly.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Yeah, I think there's a lot of reasons to not keep in
touch and I think-.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
The main one is yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
Yeah.
The next one is do you stillfollow an X on social media?
20% said how else am I going tosee how miserable they are?
80% said no, they're cut offfor a reason.
Do you believe it's possible tostay friends with an X?
38% said yes, which is Ithought that's a lot higher than
I thought I think so.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Oh, my God 62% said no.
Again, there's a lot of reasonsfor the yes and no, but thanks
for polling, thank you.
Yeah, so an X I don't have an X, oh God this is how he avoids
all these conversations.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
I don't, yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
I swear to God, Brianna is my only girlfriend
that I've ever had.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
Yes, okay, I've talked All of his friends I've
known I've talked let me talk.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
I've talked to girls, obviously, and I like girls,
jesus, man, like can't stoptwitching the hell Because it
knows you're lying.
I've talked to quite a fewgirls, sure, but none of them
have been officially mygirlfriend, and it's for a
reason because I knew this onewas going to be there, be there
(12:24):
for me, and I made her mygirlfriend.
So, technically, I don't haveany Xs, so I'm good.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
I don't know why.
Okay, so we did our polls.
Do you follow them on socialmedia?
What do you think?
If you have an X, do you stillfollow them?
And also, do you have a talkwith your friends and family
about following them?
Because social media is a bigthing now and I feel like you
can.
If your X is with someone andyou still follow them, it can
(12:54):
escalate into oh, you starttalking to each other Like, you
start commenting on things, youstart you know you can go back
into that Like a habit.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Sure, I mean, I guess , like we were saying, it
depends.
So if it's like a really badugly breakup or kind of toxic, I
guess you could say thenthere's no point in following an
X.
But if you guys like mutuallybreak up and you guys are
cordial with each other andthere's no like bad blood, I
guess you could say it's not bad.
(13:22):
And if it's mutual especially,you both know that it's not
really going to work out.
So why can't you just like becool with each other?
There's a bunch of differentreasons, but those are, I guess,
the straight forward one.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
It's very mature.
I don't know, not at all.
No, I think, once you're done,you cut them off, you unfollow
them, you block not block them,but make them unfollow you.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Jesus.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Well, you're not together for a reason.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
So if we broke up, you'd block me?
Speaker 2 (13:50):
I wouldn't block you, but I don't think I need to
follow you.
What I had?
This talk with my friendsthat's rude.
That's not rude, it's just.
We had a talk because we'rejust talking about like breakups
and stuff, and it was a groupof us and we were talking about
like, do you follow them still,do you not?
And a lot of my friends aresaying like, oh yeah, you know,
(14:14):
I'd still want to follow them,I'd still want to, you know see
how they're doing stuff.
And I told my friend I was likeno, I just cut it off, like I
don't.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
You're the only one.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Yeah, damn.
No, it's a Scorpio you had acontrol.
No, I just feel like there's no, there's no reason and I would
never, but I would never tell myfriends and family like you
can't follow them.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
Like don't like that's up to them, but I would
so so I think from a guy'sperspective, if someone breaks
up with you or something, theguys want to better themselves.
That's like a thing goingaround Like you fucking want to
hit the gym.
You want to do better foryourself, to show people that,
or show your ex, rather, orwhatever that you're doing
better in life being a boss andit's funny that you put that on
(14:57):
the pole.
Like I want to look back to seehow miserable they are without
me, yeah.
So that's funny because, likegirls have talked too long time
ago.
I've told you this that somearen't really like doing the
best and I kind of I laugh aboutit and you tell me not to be
mean, but I think it's, I loveit.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
But see, that's not why you should follow them.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
I don't.
I mean I'm not looking forthese people, but I'm in a place
where it's like fuck everybody,look at what I'm doing now.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
You know, I'm getting .
Speaker 1 (15:31):
I have everything I ever wanted, and yeah, I don't
know I think it's funny?
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Well, fuck them Happy .
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Halloween.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
If you can't see, we have a skeleton on our table and
we positioned his hand to besaying bye.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
So it's like girl, bye, Bye.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
What if they text you have you ever had?
Okay, you don't have an X.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
We get it.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
But what if a girl that you were talking to that
things ended?
What if they texted you?
Speaker 1 (16:02):
I mean, I've never been in that situation before,
but I'd be like you've never hadsomeone text you after things
ended.
I mean I guess, yeah, drunkcall, Okay.
So how did you respond to that?
I was so turned off and oneperson comes to mind and they're
the little intoxicated and Igot some drunk texts and drunk
calls that were like too much.
(16:25):
Yeah, because obviously they,like, were really into me, I was
, I mean I was into them at thetime, sure, but um, I mean it
just wasn't the right time, Iguess, for me, but just, that I
was the best how did you respond, though I?
mean, I'm not a dick.
So I just said listen, call mewhen you're sober and like I
kind of don't really want tolisten to this, like when you're
(16:46):
drunk, you know, let's justtalk when you're sober.
And I don't know if we ever did.
I don't think we did.
I think I texted her but wenever talked on the phone.
Really I'm not a big phonetalker, but that was very
dramatic, dramatic yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Traumatic or dramatic , tra or drudra it was like a,
it was next level.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
I don't know I was, I was really young anyway.
But yeah, I just got a coupleof drunk calls.
What about you?
Speaker 2 (17:14):
Um yeah, I had an ex reach out to me a few times.
Um huh, yeah, when we wenttogether.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
When.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
Uh, maybe about like a month or two after we woke up.
Month ago After we broke up youdummy Good American Horror
Story, the.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
X, I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
Yeah, because when we broke up, I just had like a big
talk with him like you know,I'm not filling this anymore
because of this and this and allthis stuff and he just sent me
this big long text of like, oh,I fixed this or I did this, or
I'm doing this now Because whatyou talked to me about Sure, oh
yeah, that was nice, give me.
Um, and it was just a big text.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
Sure.
Speaker 2 (18:03):
I'm about that and I just Miss him.
I don't even know if Iresponded.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
Damn harsh, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
But then I got another text saying like hey,
I'm cleaning out my closet andyou have some stuff in here,
like I bought skates.
I remember I was driving I wasactually driving to my aunt and
uncle's and I got a text I'mlike immediately in my stomach
like dropped.
I was like oh, keep it.
Yeah, and I did.
I said, I haven't needed itthis long, you can just throw it
away.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
And that was it.
So they said I'm not writingthose no more.
I'm writing Chris now.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
I don't need this.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
This is what I have.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
Instead of picture of you.
My balls oh, oh, oh, oh, oh oh.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
Oh man yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:55):
But yeah.
So if they text you, here's acouple things.
You can talk to a friendbecause you know when you break
up after a while you kind offorget about how the
relationship was, the bad points, like why you broke up.
So, you should talk to a friend, have them jog your memory,
because we forget about thatstuff.
(19:16):
But you can be like 100% surethat your friend will not have
forgot it.
I will have your back and yeah,and that's why that's some
advice.
Yes, so they can remind you.
Also and there was one thing Iread to that, when you start
missing someone that you brokethings up like you guys broke up
, you make a list, you start alist and write one thing down
(19:40):
that like gave you an ick or onething that annoyed you about
them, or one thing that youdidn't like.
So then when you miss them, youread that list and you've got a
lot of reasons why youshouldn't be calling them,
talking to them.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
Why are you smiling like that?
Because that one's like fuckingweird.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
Why is that weird?
Speaker 1 (20:00):
It's helpful no, it's helpful, but it's like fucking
cringey to do that, to writedown bad stuff they did or stuff
you didn't like.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
I mean sometimes it's hard to get over someone, Maybe
it maybe it works for somepeople.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
I'm not trying to judge, but it sounds very white
person, white people, stuff, youknow, not in a bad way, but
that's some fucking.
That's some next level, nextlevel, okay, no, healthy coping
mechanisms and very interesting.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Okay, okay.
Number two is trust your gut.
So, when they texted you, whatwas your initial reaction?
Did your stomach drop, did yousmile, did you roll your eyes?
Speaker 1 (20:50):
That particular one was like no feelings.
Really, I was just kind of like, oh, maybe gross feeling like
you didn't even need theconversation.
No, it's kind of like turnedoff.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
Yeah, so your initial reaction will tell you how you
feel.
Yeah, so you need to lean intothat, okay, sure.
Next one, practice restraint.
So you know, sometimes peopleafter you've broken up and you
hear from them, you're likeitching to talk back to them.
You really want to, like youknow, have a full on
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conversation, but you need togive them some time, like wait a
little bit, see what they say,see where the conversation goes.
Don't just jump right back intoit because you want to see what
their intentions are.
Yeah, so kind of have them leadthe conversation, kind of let
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them fill in the blanks and thenthat way you can figure out
what's going on with theconversation, where it's going.
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
I could just so.
Let me just say a quick storyabout one of my buddies, about
trusting your gut.
It's hard sometimes.
So it's because sometimesyou're in a relationship or
you're talking to someone andthey say something you don't
really want to hear, likethey're don't see going anywhere
, they're not really into you,and you know, and your gut like
(22:12):
fuck, all right, this is over, Ishouldn't entertain this
anymore.
But in this case that happenedand it was like mature, it's a
mature thing to do, right,you're not going to want to
leave them off for so long.
But it happened to him.
And but this girl ended uptexting him again that oh, we
should hang out soon it's goingto be my birthday.
(22:33):
After she already said what shesaid.
As, as a friend, I gave him myadvice like fuck her, you know,
because she's just trying.
I think she's just trying to.
I don't know.
She wants to do what she wantsto do, but she doesn't want to
take it to the next level and hewanted to.
So I think trusting your gut ishard when you're really into
someone and you want somethingto work, but at the end of the
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day it's not going to work.
You know, they're not asinterested in you as you are
with them.
So I mean you could trust yourgut all you want, but when it
comes to like dating and loveand shit, it's hard to actually
be like disconnect from that youknow.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
no, yeah, it's very hard.
It's very hard because you um,especially if things didn't end
the way you wanted them to likeyou, it's very hard to backslide
into it and like, go into oh myGod, we're talking, we're doing
this now.
Oh, it feels so good Like, itfeels like old times like, and
that's why you need to be ableto have your support system,
your friends, your family, tolet you know, like hey, this is
why you're not together, this iswhy things ended this way.
(23:35):
Yeah.
So, yeah, um, last one neverfeel obligated if it doesn't
serve you.
Okay, so if your goal is to getover something that hurt you,
then you're not obligated torespond.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
Like you you don't?
Speaker 2 (23:50):
you don't owe anything to them.
So, um, sometimes relationshipsreach their end and that's okay
, yeah, and it might be painfulfor you to communicate with them
.
It might be very hard for you,it might be very, like you know,
it might be too much, yeah, soif you don't have anything and
that's like keep tying you tothem like kids or anything, then
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you know, yeah, you don't have.
You don't have to respond ifyou don't want to.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
And, like you said, it is hard to kind of accept
that because they were importantperson in your life at a point.
But there's people in your lifethat are meant to come and go
and that should be that.
You should just not like astepping stone, but it's like a
step towards you growing as aperson and learning and
developing yeah whatever.
(24:37):
So people are meant to come inand out of your life.
It's not like everyone you meet.
You're not going to fuckingkeep them in your life.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
Yeah, especially you know romantic people, you can't
just string them along forever,yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
Or get strung along forever.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
You need to know when to fucking move on.
Yeah, and say I'm out now, ontothe next one.
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Best way to get over someone is to get under someone.
Damn dog.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
If I can, therapist over here, sex therapist Okay.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
So can exes be friends.
This is a big one.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
I think they could.
I think they could be friends.
Wow, You're being trying topretend she's a pretend jealous
or jealous pretend.
She's a jealous pretender.
She pretends to be jealouspretending jealous or whatever
the fuck, not an English majorprofessor, teacher, doctor.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Oh, wow.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
Thanks, fucking construction worker, I think you
could.
If it doesn't end bad, I meandamn, can I talk to me?
If it doesn't end bad, I don'tmean like being their best
friend, where you're stillfucking communicating.
Pause, oh, oh, play.
(26:04):
I don't think you should belike buddy buddy with them, but
like I Mean it's.
I don't know, you're notnecessarily friends, but you're
not fucking enemies, so you'renot trying to block them or be
weird, you know, I think that'sfine.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
I don't think so.
Okay, why is that Because I feellike you've had so much, like
you have history.
You Usually been intimate witheach other.
That's a big thing, mm-hmm.
You've had a lot of stuff thatyou've like gone through
together.
You've done stuff together andI think it's very hard to get
(26:41):
over that and it's very hard tomove on when you still have that
constant reminder of what youwent through together.
Like you can't look at someoneand be like, well, I know what
you look like naked, but let'sbe friends like I don't.
I don't think you can do that.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
But what do you mean by friends like Like going out
to fucking have drinks and no,yeah like part of a friend group
, part of like.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
I don't talk to each other like, not acquaintances,
like friends not, like you, runinto someone on the street.
I'm like oh, how are you likefriends?
Speaker 1 (27:14):
No oh.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
You change your mind.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
Yeah, I thought you meant like friends on fucking
Instagram or something.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
No, I didn't mean in real life, you don't mean IRL.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
I thought fake life, it's Sims in the Sims, yeah.
So obviously that's weird.
You're not gonna surroundyourself with it.
I mean, if you have a samefriends group, maybe I'm sure
that happens, but I think it's.
It definitely is kind of,especially if you're moving on
into a new relationship.
It's kind of it's kind of you'retaking like a step back or
(27:45):
being, I don't know, surroundingyourself with Someone, like you
said have been with intimate,with, trying to move on from
that.
You shouldn't, I don't thinkyou should be friends like that,
be buddy, buddy in the samegroup, I think, like
acquaintances like on socialmedia fine, everyone grows up
and has families and I thinkthat's okay to just see you once
in a while.
But, yeah, being friends, ah,that's kind of weird.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
Yeah, yeah, question work.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
Yeah, I know.
I mean, like I don't even knowabout like friends on social
media, like that's kind of weird.
Speaker 1 (28:19):
Yeah, to me it's not, it's kind of normal your
friends with everyone.
My god, are we being like realor you're just being fucking
judgmental?
Speaker 2 (28:29):
Okay.
So I asked a few people Abouttheir different points of view
and someone said well, how didit end?
So it does you know, there's alot of big things that depend on
it, like how did it did it?
Was it a mature?
Like ending Someone that Iasked?
Their only response was hell,no.
(28:50):
So there's, I think there's alot that goes into it.
Yeah, but here's a few Timeswhere being a friend, being
friends with the next, is a goodidea.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
So if you have platonic feelings, if you don't
have romantic feelings for eachother anymore, which is kind of
you know so, like I said before,if it's a mutual breakup and
you guys know it's not really,if you're in the same Friends
group and you guys see eachother, the same bars, and that's
fine, you could, I mean, befriends, right I guess, but it's
not.
(29:23):
But if it's like a bad breakupor something you shouldn't be,
but that one's like, that one'sa pretty, pretty good one.
Speaker 2 (29:30):
Yeah, if you have.
Speaker 1 (29:32):
Who's mature nowadays like that Not?
Speaker 2 (29:34):
really anybody.
None of us anyway.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
Damn dog, you fucking have allergies.
Maybe blow that little nose.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
They're just my nostrils okay.
Aligned goals.
You're both on the same pageand genuinely want to be friends
with each other.
Mutual support you have mutualrespect for each other and
continue to be a source ofsupport to one another.
Closure you have both processthe breakup and don't have any
unresolved feelings for eachother, so you've both moved on,
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which is that's a big one.
Yeah, like no more feelings youlike can truly look at them and
say, like I'm good, like haveyour fun like, especially if you
guys are in your ownrelationships.
I think then it's more.
Speaker 1 (30:25):
Okay it's.
If you guys are just trying tomove on, but still around each
other, then it's Weird.
But if you're like growing upand being with other people and
but that's where it's hard,though, because people tend.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
People are like jealous not we're all jealous,
but they tend to get jealous.
Speaker 1 (30:43):
Yeah, so you have you shared something with them, no
matter how it ended, like Ithink, but that that's when it
comes up in conversation withthe person you're with to See if
it's okay or not.
But in general it's what I mean, whatever.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
Okay, last one emotional maturity.
You're both emotionally matureenough to maintain a supportive
friendship without any baggageor unrealistic expectations.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
Again.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Yeah, it's pretty easier said than done.
Speaker 1 (31:10):
Yeah, who has emotional maturity these days?
Speaker 2 (31:16):
Okay.
So, on the other hand, ifyou're trying to be friends with
an ex, it might not be a goodidea if there was any abuse or
anyone who was harmed in any way.
Anyone lied or cheated orseriously hurt each other in
that sort of way.
You still have feelings foryour ex and you're trying to get
back together with them.
Speaker 1 (31:36):
Yeah, that's.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
That's a big no-no yeah you know your ex still has
feelings for you, but you don'tfeel that way anymore.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
Yeah, don't be around them.
Yeah, it's kind of scary andyou'll give them like false hope
kind of.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
I feel like that's like a lifetime movie.
Speaker 1 (31:49):
How does it end?
Bad yeah.
Speaker 2 (31:53):
Well, I mean, every lifetime movie always ends like,
with like happy music and theperson walking out of the house
with the cop cars arriving.
But it wasn't a good.
Wasn't a good like middle part?
You're feeling lonely and wantcomfort and attention.
Speaker 1 (32:08):
That one's another scary one, big one, because it's
, it's hard.
Speaker 2 (32:11):
It's hard to you know , get over someone.
It's hard to feel lonely, it'shard to like grieve that
relationship.
Yeah you don't want to just goback to something, because you
want something no way.
Speaker 1 (32:22):
Yeah that's negative.
Speaker 2 (32:24):
Yeah, You're trying to prove that you're over the
relationship and you're doingwell without them.
So you just want to talk tothem and be like, oh yeah, I met
this guy last night yeah.
You're trying to get gossip onwhat their life is like without
you.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
That's just unhealthy .
Speaker 2 (32:40):
So those are a few things why you should not be
friends if you have any of thosefeelings.
You should not be friends withan ex.
Speaker 1 (32:46):
Yeah that's a good one.
Speaker 2 (32:49):
Nice.
So what about when they startdating someone else?
What if your friends and Eitheryou or the person your ex start
dating someone else?
That's when things get verytricky if you, if you stay
friends.
Speaker 1 (33:04):
Yeah, it could be hard, for sure it could be hard.
Speaker 2 (33:07):
But if you're mature, quote, unquote, you'd be happy
for that we don't know thatMaturity, we don't know her, I
fucking.
Speaker 1 (33:16):
I'd plot to fucking hurt you and your new boyfriend.
I Mean rewind.
Don't use this as evidence.
I.
Speaker 2 (33:26):
Speaking of lifetime movie, he'll fight me walking
out of a basement.
Speaker 1 (33:31):
That'd be fun, it'd be rough on me for sure.
But I mean if it ended and youboth ended it, then it'd be fine
.
I mean it depends.
You know we always say dependsbecause it's so many variables
in time.
But If it's mutual, obviouslyyou're gonna want to be happy
for someone, to move on and findhappiness.
But if you saw feelings oneither side then it's gonna be
(33:53):
hard.
But I mean I think that's good,it's a step in the right
direction, even if it hurts youbecause it's like Confirming yep
, that's why it's confirminglike it's over you know yeah,
and you need to accept it andtruth in time.
Speaker 2 (34:10):
Happy Halloween.
Justin Bobby has re-emerged.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
So time it's cheesy, but over time you'll kind of
lose that little flame, for themever get more and more dim, you
know.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
I think that if you are friends with your ex and you
start dating Someone else, youdefinitely need to have that
talk with them about hey, so, soand so in my friend group We've
been together, we dated, wehooked up, whatever.
Yeah, I think you definitelyneed to have that talk and have
an open conversation about whatyour history is with someone,
(34:43):
and I think that I actuallythink, if you're friends with an
ex, I think that ends a lot ofthe being friends with them,
because that's the true test ofwhen you start dating someone
else Mm-hmm, so yeah, that'shard for sure but the last thing
is Take time for yourself.
When you go through a breakup,you need to heal and work on
(35:07):
yourself before you come back toany sort of friendship with an
ex, any sort of like, even ideaof Talking to them.
Speaker 1 (35:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:13):
I think you need to spend A lot of time.
I was reading things and theysaid there's no set amount of
time, like some places said,like One year, six months.
Like I read Reddit Threadswhere someone said it took me
two and a half years.
There's no set amount of time.
But you can't jump into beingfriends right after a breakup.
You need to take your time.
Speaker 1 (35:35):
He'll find yourself again be able to set your
boundaries, and I think that'slike a piece of advice on oh.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
The skeleton hand just fell out and oh Well, oh,
oh no.
Speaker 1 (35:54):
That thing's flexible .
Speaker 2 (35:58):
You little jealous right now.
Oh wow, need to elbow, need toelbow.
Speaker 1 (36:11):
So, no we've said that before, take time to
yourself and always, yeah, whenyou're fighting with a, your
significant other, like if youneed time to yourself.
We've always said that for alot of topics and it's true it's
like a good thing to to do isto spend time with yourself and
(36:35):
do things you like to do andkind of reset, I guess yeah,
your your priority.
Speaker 2 (36:41):
You know your mental health, your happiness, is the
number one priority.
So take your time.
Do we need to do?
Find yourself, find yourhappiness, and maybe then you
can be friends with your ex.
Some of us can't you guys don'tsee this right now, but my hand
(37:01):
is gripping his knee.
Some of us can't, some of uswon't, but yeah, so good luck
out there.
Yeah, do what's best for you,for sure, okay.
So I know we usually do ourUh-huh ask man yeah, but since
(37:24):
it's um.
Halloween the one week ofHalloween that we, the one week
of October that we record ourAsk men reddit has changed to a
different reddit spoopy.
Speaker 1 (37:40):
All right, let's hear it.
Speaker 2 (37:41):
It's dark theme reddit.
Dark theme reddit, All rightspit it out.
Let me sing if I want.
So what paranormal activitieshave you witnessed?
One weekend I was at my dad'shouse.
He'd come to the upstairsbathroom to get a shave and
(38:02):
heard footsteps in my stepssister's room.
I thought I was him walkingaround initially, so I got up to
find him standing at her closeddoor.
He looks back at me andwhispers.
You can hear that too right.
I nodded and he opened the doorslowly.
My steps sister was asleep.
Never had been awake apparentlythey have in parentheses.
There was no way she could havecrossed the room, got in bed
and pretended to be thatconvincingly asleep.
(38:23):
In two seconds it took my dadto open the door.
He went in, checked her TV,which had never been on.
She had a big one from the 90s.
The radio hadn't been on either.
After that we heard thefootsteps a bunch of times,
usually very early in themorning.
Some of the footsteps were soheavy They'd shake the ceiling
fan of the dining room directlyunder her bedroom and they'd
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woken her up a few times as well.
Whenever I'd shower at my dad's,I always felt like someone was
standing behind me.
Eventually, I got so stressedand paranoid that I refused to
shower at the house or even gointo the upstairs bathroom.
My dad asked me one day do Ifeel like someone's in the
shower with you when you're here?
After months me feeling thatway and never mentioning it to
anyone, you get chills no.
(39:08):
No but um, that's weird yeah notsure if this is considered
paranormal, but when I getfevers as a child I would always
, in my pain-infused state, here, a man counting in a very deep
voice Jesus.
He would count from one and up.
As the numbers get larger, thevoice gets louder and more
intense, which kind of remindsme of insidious.
Remember that part of insidious.
(39:29):
It started to get less frequentas I grew older, and now I do
not experience it anymore.
I brushed it aside as arecurring nightmare until only
recently.
I've learned that my sisterwould experience the exact same
thing when she was younger aswell.
It's not the scariest thing,but it does send shivers down my
spine trying to comprehend this.
That's fucking crazy they dosay that kids, you know, can
(39:50):
feel a lot more or more open to,like you know weirdo shit not
weirdo, but you know like yeah,yeah, demon.
Speaker 1 (39:59):
So mm-hmm.
Speaker 2 (40:00):
When I was three, I told my parents that my
great-grandmother came to me ina dream and said her feet didn't
hurt anymore.
I think she had a problem withit due to diabetes.
She had died that night.
They received the call shortlyafter I told them yeah.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Incidents maybe.
Speaker 2 (40:20):
I work in a cemetery.
One evening I had stayed lateto do some ketchup work.
I was taking pictures of somegranite saples to have on my
phone and how already locked upI was alone.
As I was holding my phone, Iheard the doorway to the
basement swing open, slam shutand her footsteps go down the
stairs.
I froze.
I Thought for sure someone hadcome in.
I called out to see if it wassomeone for maintenance.
No reply.
(40:41):
I got scared because if itwasn't them, someone had broken
in.
I stayed still for a bit andlistened and called out again
Nothing.
Finally I got brave enough tolook.
No one there.
I peeked down the basementempty.
All the doors were still locked.
Hmm, okay, last one.
I don't believe in paranormalactivity, but my grandparents
house is considered by many tobe extremely haunted.
In parentheses, it's part of atour of haunted houses in LA
(41:04):
area and according to legend,was part of the inspiration for
American Horror Story.
Nice I know there are tons ofstories, but the one I
experienced myself was when Iwas living there as a child.
I was about six years old andmy elder, my older sister, was
12.
We shared a room.
My mom had decorated ourbedside table with an antique
(41:25):
telephone that didn't work.
It was not plugged in.
That would be us.
Yeah.
My sister and I were asleepasleep, and for some reason we
both woke up at the same timeand turned to face each other.
I remember feeling an extremefeeling of dread.
Then the phone rang in betweenus.
We locked eyes and both hitunder the blankets until it
stopped ringing.
What we both thought it was adream, because we didn't say
(41:47):
anything for years about it.
Then one day she was talkingabout it.
We realized we had the exactsame experience.
There are so many more stories,but that's only one I
experienced directly.
Speaker 1 (41:56):
Damn that's fucking scary, isn't that crazy?
I'd sock that phone.
I'd answer that phone.
Speaker 2 (42:02):
What would you say?
Well, fuck it is, I want tosleep.
Speaker 1 (42:10):
Can you order a pizza ?
I'm hungry.
Okay so those are good theywere little spooky creepy.
Frickin naughty.
Speaker 2 (42:22):
Well, freaking naughty, that's.
That's what's the scariest partof this podcast.
I was saying freaky naughty.
Okay.
So last is our.
We should have tried to sing itlike a spooky way.
Why can't I go low?
(42:46):
So Britney Spears came out withher memoir titled the woman in
me.
Okay so it's a lot.
There's a lot in there tounpack, but a few of the things
that Stood out is herrelationship with Justin
Timberlake Damn, she's still onthat, okay.
(43:09):
So Let me talk about this firstand we'll talk about that.
So allegedly she had anabortion.
Oh yeah, I did hear about thattogether because he
quote-unquote was not ready tobe a father.
Speaker 1 (43:20):
That's her fucking fault for doing that.
Speaker 2 (43:21):
Okay, relax, there's a lot of things that go into
that there's.
You know she was young, shemight have felt pressure, she
might have felt a lot ofdifferent things to his young
dumb and full of cum literally.
So I mean technically no, butyeah so that sucks.
Speaker 1 (43:42):
Yeah, that's very sad and and did you just witness a
ghost or something?
Speaker 2 (43:50):
No, I thought I heard a child crying.
Oh, I thought I heard Nuckycrying, uh, okay, um.
So apparently he wasn't be.
I wasn't ready to be a father.
So I know a lot of people aresaying, like, well, why is she
talking about this now, likeit's so long ago?
And even Justin Timberlake hascome out and been like you know,
I've supported her from afarand like but a lot of people are
(44:13):
saying she had herconservatorship so she couldn't
talk about this stuff.
She couldn't, you know, do whatshe wanted to do.
Speaker 1 (44:20):
And now that?
Speaker 2 (44:21):
it's over.
She's getting her time.
Speaker 1 (44:23):
I guess it's healing for her.
Yeah, I'm going to try to be awhat's the word?
Supportive.
Speaker 2 (44:31):
No, I'm going to try to be.
Speaker 1 (44:32):
Yeah, I guess receptive it's not receptive.
But vulnerable oh yeah, yeah,I'm going to try to be
vulnerable, I'm going to try notto be a dick about it Nice, but
yeah, we're improving we'rewe're working together.
Speaker 2 (44:49):
Okay, and after her and Justin broke up right,
Remember she started.
She had that little thing withColin Farrell.
Speaker 1 (44:56):
No.
Speaker 2 (44:56):
Well, her and Colin Farrell showed up to an opening
of one of his movies and it waslike a huge thing because her
and Justin broke broke up, soshe referred to it as a two week
brawl, and so this is a quote.
Brawl is the only word for it.
We were all over each other,grappling so passionately.
It was like we were in a streetfight.
Colin Farrell, colin.
Speaker 1 (45:16):
Farrell.
Colin Farrell is tight, yeah,he is.
Speaker 2 (45:19):
I like him as an actor.
Speaker 1 (45:20):
He's he's in a couple good movies that I really like.
Colin Farrell is beautiful man.
Still.
Speaker 2 (45:26):
Is he beautiful?
Speaker 1 (45:27):
Was he beautiful Dress as Scarecrow and Batman?
Hell, no, he was fucking ugly.
I was looking.
I'm not a good looking dude,but I was better looking than
him as Scarecrow.
Speaker 2 (45:37):
Colin Farrell.
He was Scarecrow.
Speaker 1 (45:40):
And the new one, the new Batman.
Speaker 2 (45:43):
Oh, he was.
No, he wasn't Scarecrow, he wasthe penguin Same shit Same shit
Same shit, different villain.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
He was a penguin, yeah he was Okay.
Anyway.
Speaker 2 (45:59):
Yeah, so those are a few things, okay, and lastly, a
list of places that girls do notwant to go on a first date goes
viral.
Speaker 1 (46:07):
What else do women want?
Let's hear it.
What else do they want?
Want to complain about.
Speaker 2 (46:11):
Okay, so it's a group of women, I don't know.
Some woman got taken.
The candles move, the candlesmoving the skeletons moving.
Speaker 1 (46:19):
What is happening?
We're hearing children laughing.
Speaker 2 (46:21):
We have children in the house, but we're still
hearing children laughing.
The candle doesn't agree withthe list.
So it was a list of 28 placesthat women do not want to go on
a first date.
Okay, so let's 28 places.
Speaker 1 (46:37):
women do not want to get a free meal at that should
be the fucking title.
Speaker 2 (46:40):
Okay, it doesn't say anything about anyone paying.
Speaker 1 (46:43):
You know, these fucking hoses are paying for the
first date.
Oh, God.
Speaker 2 (46:48):
So men want to be like um, I'll provide for you,
I'll do this for you, I'll dothat for you, but then, when it
comes, to all of a sudden.
Speaker 1 (46:55):
all of a sudden, you want to be provided for Talking
about fucking food.
Speaker 2 (46:59):
No.
So men want to say that.
Men want to say that, they wantto say I'll provide for you.
I got you girl, I guarantee you.
Speaker 1 (47:07):
Cheesecake factory is probably on there.
I fucking probably all ofgarden.
Good ass, fucking places.
Fucking bitches want.
Want fucking steak and steinand shit and fucking whatever
Breadsticks Fogo to chow bitch.
You're getting fucking pizzafrom now on.
Speaker 2 (47:24):
Oh, thank you, I love that.
Speaker 1 (47:25):
Not you.
You're missing girls Pisses meoff.
Speaker 2 (47:28):
This isn't all women.
Speaker 1 (47:30):
Yes, it is All you motherfuckers in this category,
are you?
Speaker 2 (47:32):
What it is not.
Speaker 1 (47:34):
You want fucking equal rights bitch.
You're getting fuckingspaghetti factory.
You're getting red Robinendless fries.
Speaker 2 (47:45):
Actually their portions have gone very down, so
that's offensive.
You notice every time we order.
Speaker 1 (47:51):
We say can we start with some fries?
Speaker 2 (47:53):
We never used to, but remember they had like a basket
, then it had a little silvercup.
Speaker 1 (47:58):
And then they got rid of that shit.
Yes, yeah, the portions areless and less.
Anyway, I hate this, but I'mboys, I got your back, boys,
fuck this.
What free meals don't they want?
Let's hear them.
Chili's, probably.
Speaker 2 (48:11):
OK yeah, Chili's.
Speaker 1 (48:13):
Please, none of us want Chili's.
Speaker 2 (48:15):
Let's hear it OK.
So here's a few Knock them off.
Number one is CheesecakeFactory.
Oh my god, you don't wantCheesecake Factory either you
don't want Cheesecake Factoryeither, I want it twice.
Speaker 1 (48:28):
So do not.
I never ordered dessert.
I'm getting dessert atCheesecake Factory.
Oh, all of a sudden now you'regoing Cheesecake.
Factory's number one.
I knew it.
See these, it's dude.
Speaker 2 (48:40):
You don't even like Number two Applebee's.
Speaker 1 (48:44):
That one is gross.
I don't even take it.
I don't even take it.
I don't even take it.
Your voice went down.
Your voice went down.
I don't even take you toApplebee's.
Speaker 2 (48:50):
Number three I hate you Chili's.
You want to explain?
Speaker 1 (48:57):
I don't even want to talk.
You want to explain.
Girl should be singing Boys weneed to.
Speaker 2 (49:01):
We used to hate.
We need to exterminate women.
How about that?
Ok, well, then you'll go buytwo.
What are you saying?
I'm a woman.
Speaker 1 (49:08):
I'll go buy two.
Speaker 2 (49:08):
No, I'm saying the whole world will disintegrate,
because you need women, you needwomen, you need women, you need
women, you need women.
Speaker 1 (49:15):
You need women, you need women.
Speaker 2 (49:18):
Anyways, we used to hate Chili's.
And then one night we werelaying in bed and what'd you say
to me?
I need to tell you something.
Speaker 1 (49:28):
My buddy forced me to go to Chili's with him for
lunch we went to Chili's 10years ago, and it was the worst
experience ever, when we saidwe'll never go back and I didn't
want to tell Breonna, I waslike, oh my god, I can't believe
I'm doing this.
Chili's just stepped their gameup and I told her she's been
fucking pissed off and I'm likegive second chances Because I
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want him to hate things with me.
Speaker 2 (49:52):
I hate everything.
You know me, but what's next?
Speaker 1 (49:55):
Chipotle.
I took a go to Chipotle once.
I took a go to Chipotle once.
Speaker 2 (50:04):
OK, olive Garden.
I said Olive Garden.
Number six, the movies.
Speaker 1 (50:13):
I love the movies.
I love the movies.
I don't know you don't want tointeract there though.
Oh, that's a good point, that'sa good point.
Speaker 2 (50:20):
Number seven, your House, which I completely agree
with A first date.
I want to get murdered.
No one wants to get murdered.
What if it's cute, though?
Speaker 1 (50:27):
You could come down here.
Speaker 2 (50:28):
It's a Dateline episode of White N'.
Speaker 1 (50:29):
White, that should be the second date.
I think the first date.
You should definitely go outinto the community, yeah.
Speaker 2 (50:38):
Eight, you're going to be offended.
Any fast, oh no, that's on it.
Eight any fast food chain, why?
Why not?
Speaker 1 (50:47):
Bitch.
Speaker 2 (50:47):
So then we're done, because our first date was.
One of the first things we didwas we went to the movies and we
went to Wendy's.
We saw 50-50.
Speaker 1 (50:56):
What's your freaking the best?
So so.
Speaker 2 (50:59):
Um nine Buffalo Wild Wings that's gross.
Ten Wingstop 11, red Lobster 12, a buffet it depends.
Speaker 1 (51:10):
It depends if you find a cool chick, that bitch is
going to like that shit.
I don't love a buffet.
I know you do.
Take it a buffet please.
That's all it depends.
That's a good one though.
Speaker 2 (51:20):
Okay, I hop.
Denny's the gym, the church,starbucks, coffee dates, ice
cream dates, family functions,which is true, yeah.
Like you should not do familyfunction things together.
Um, yeah or uh.
There's another one that sayssomewhere that requires a long
drive, movie night, a bar forjust drinks, which I don't think
(51:43):
that's bad.
Speaker 1 (51:43):
Well it's not bad yeah, especially if you're like
older and it's like more fun.
Speaker 2 (51:48):
I think it's you know , a bar for just drinks.
It's very you know.
Speaker 1 (51:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (51:55):
It gets things going Chill.
Yeah, so that's it.
Speaker 1 (51:58):
Cool, I hope you guys got something from this episode
.
Speaker 2 (52:02):
Yeah, like On.
Speaker 1 (52:02):
X's.
Well, we thank you forlistening.
The same few people have beenhitting us up for a new episode
and we got you, but you have towait till tomorrow night because
I'm not fucking editing thisbitch right now.
It's fucking late and I'mtrying to play Call of Duty with
my can Chemp play Call of Duty?
Speaker 2 (52:19):
No, it's bedtime.
Speaker 1 (52:20):
Okay, well, thank you Again.
Well, uh, do you want to shoutout the phone number?
So if you could call,Skeleton's in the closet
562-457-0613.
Yeah, so if you want to tell usa secret or need advice or
whatever the case.
Yeah, have a laugh, getsomething off your chest.
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Call our number, text ournumber, and we'll say it over
the air and we'll uh, I don'tknow laugh with you and shit.
Tell you our advice, personalexperience.
But anyway, we'll catch you onthe flip flop later.
No trees, no trees, no trees, no trees, no trees, no
trees, no trees.
Welcome back to All Tricks notrees.
It's been a very busy.
This is Halloween.
This is Halloween Halloween.
I wish you joined in.
It's been a very busy Octoberfor us.
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October but it sucks becauselast year we wanted to do a
bunch of things during Octoberand this year In October, we
wanted to do a bunch of thingstoo.
We wanted to like have spookyepisodes.
Dress up, make a website.
Make like a spooky shirt.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Oh wow, I didn't know we had all that planned.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
And we didn't, and we're doing one episode for
October.
You know us.
I feel like they can take ourword that we're going to change.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
They're probably not even here anymore, because
they're like no, you let us down.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Okay, sorry, we're back.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Here we are Every week.
Yeah, anyway, yeah.
So it's October, our busiestmonth.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Pretty busy Out of the whole year.
Yeah, we've done a lot.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
So there's some things we do in October.
We visit the Myers House thebeginning of every October.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Explain to them what that is.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
So when champ was a baby, we just needed to get out
of the house and we were like,okay, let's just go, let's go do
something, let's find something.
And I found where the MichaelMyers house the house in
Halloween, the movie is.
It's in Pasadena.
And so we went there and took apicture with champ when he was
(01:52):
I don't even know like sevenmonths old, new born pretty much
.
And it's become a tradition.
We go there every year.
So obviously our family's grown, our pictures have developed
and we go there every year andtake a picture in front of the
house.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
What's cool about that, too, is like two houses
down is a museum, like a.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Halloween museum, a gallery, what's it called Sugar
Mint Sugar Mint Gallery.
But, it's mint with the Y.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
They have hocus pocus stuff, stuff from the movie.
They have Halloween stuff, theyhave.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
It was a ghost, no, no.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
They have a local artist paint scenes for movies
and they sell them there, whichis super.
We try to buy something everytime we go.
If you're wanting to go, it's20 bucks to get in, so take some
cash.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
We're going for that, yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Especially if you have five people in your family.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Actually they just pay.
They charge us for us.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Because we go every year.
And it was cool because oneyear the mom actually was
babysitting.
Quote unquote Bubby.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
The gallery owner.
She's a younger girl and hermom was there and she was like,
oh, can I hold her?
I don't have any grandchildrenyet.
And so we were like, okay, yes,take her baby.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Anyway, it was cool there.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Yeah, so we went there.
We went to the pumpkin patch.
We also saw movements.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
The band.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Movements, which was really good.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Some guy almost I think he died next to us.
Yeah, that guy who passed righton his head.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
The ghost, the movement, ghost.
No, I meant that's the ghost.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Yeah, I feel bad for that dude.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Yeah, that was hard RIP.
Who knows what happened.
He's doing well.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
I don't think so.
But anyway, Movements, they'regood to see live.
If you haven't heard them,check them out.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
We celebrated our four year anniversary.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Four years, eleven years together.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Four years married.
Yes, A four year married.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
We just talked about this, but we would always say
like two years through, isn't it?
We're like man, imagine like a10 year anniversary.
No way, that's too long to betogether.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
We'd always be like oh no way.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
And now we're here, all old farts, but yeah, four
years.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
It was fun.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Yeah, it was a good time.
We went to Beauty and Essex.
Beauty and Essex, it was a nicerestaurant in Hollywood and we
hit a couple of bars which waspretty good.
No kids, thank God.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
We took the kids to the bar.
They would want to go Probably.
It was probably fun.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
But yeah, it was a good time.
Four years Damn, that's wild.
Four years married and I did acheers.
I was like 10 other four years.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
And they went.
Oh no, I was like four hundredfour hundred 44 years oh no, oh
no.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
But anyway, yeah, that happened too.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Yeah, so October's been very busy.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
And we're getting a new fucking roof at the moment.
So it's been like dirty andcrazy and, if you don't know, we
remodeled our whole house andthat was one of the last things.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
We did the inside.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Yeah, we needed a lot more stuff outside, but we had
leaks, so we had to do a newroof and it's the front house is
done.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
We need to work on the back house, but I'm trying
to make it seem like that's partof it.
We're just doing a hauntedhouse, guys.
We're just you know, that's theaesthetic we're going for.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
It looks like all the , all the white old neighbors
are like oh yeah, okay, thatmakes sense yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Instead, it's just our house is trashed because
we're getting we're getting alot of construction done.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
I'm just leaning into it right now.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Yeah, so let's choose to that, to our October.
Unfortunately, it's the end ofOctober Halloween's over.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
They really have Christmas shit.
So sad, you know, it's realwhen they have the white Santa
and black Santa at Los.
You're like you always highfive him.
I say what's up?
My home dude Cheers.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Cheers.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Oh, but nice.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
We did want to wear costumes, but we didn't have
time to so these things on ourheads.
If you can't see him, he'swearing a captain's hat.
I'm wearing a beret.
It's going to be for my costume, so you know why I'm in the
captain's hat.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
baby, captain Tan, baby, all y'all are just all,
y'all are just in the on theride.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Captain Crunch.
Wow, that's crazy.
Captain Hook, don't try to saveit.
Oh Captain, my captain.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Wow, captain Crunch, I guess I do look like that fat
guy in my box.
Surah box.
Thanks, oh God.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Okay, so there was one more thing.
I know we talked about this.
We said that we wanted to starta.
Actually look at my pumpkin.
This is my pumpkin too.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Very nice.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
This is my.
I had a pumpkin painting nightwith my friends and I chose
Pennywise.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
I heard of pumpkin painting, but who pumpkin paints
?
It's pumpkin carving right.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
I do like pumpkin carving, but even actually
someone who she listens to us.
She did pumpkin painting withher kids and I told her like oh,
it looks so cute.
And she said it's so mucheasier.
And then after doing this, itwas easier.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
And look at that thing, If you can't see.
It's Pennywise on a pumpkin andshe showed me a picture of all
of her girlfriends and herpumpkin and her friends.
Pumpkins were cute.
There was shit.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
No, they weren't.
They were all cute, like theyhad cute colors, like little
cute ghosts, like look at thisthing.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
If you can't see it, I'm going to fucking post it.
On the story I'm going to postall of those and we'll see who's
the best one.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
No, they're so cute, but I just of course went for
the creepy vibes.
But um, give me, I know I saidthat um a while ago.
I wanted to start like a littlesegment where we talked about
funny things our kids say, andso today one happened Really.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
So, um, I made breakfast for the kids and I and
we were sitting at the tableand normally we always tell them
like turn the TV off whilewe're eating.
But I was like, okay, let's puton a movie.
Champ wanted to watch Big Daddy.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Family favorite, so we put it on.
And then, um, we finishedwatching it.
We were walking around cleaningup, getting ready to leave and
I just hear him walking aroundgoing Hooters, Hooters, Hooters,
Hooters, Hooters.
Hooters and I was like oh no,what have we done?
I'm like you don't even knowwhat it means.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Oh my God, is this a?
Speaker 2 (08:29):
hooters, no, like I said, okay, um, like, let's,
let's get dressed, Go get, let'sgo get some clothes on.
He walks away going Hooters,Hooters, hooters, no, no.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
My boy.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Yeah, it's natural.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
He knows it's right.
He knows it's right to sayHooters.
But that was funny, it'shilarious.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
I wish I heard him say that.
What's the topic of the day?
What?
Speaker 1 (08:47):
what is a good topic for October?
The scariest thing of all.
What the X.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Files for having the X talk today, the X Talking
about our X's.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Sex with the X?
No, okay, just the X, the X, sospookiest thing of all.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
We have our polls, but also I want to know what you
think of the X, the X, the X.
The X, the X, the X, the X, theX, the X, the.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
The X.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
You did like a form, like a wave formation on it.
You better chill out.
You better chill out with thatcatch up.
So we did a pull.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Let's hear that people eat it with ketchup.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Okay, Ketchup on chorizo.
We said Is there any other wayor no, I'm not crazy.
20% said there's no other way.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Hell yeah, that sounds like the majority.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Yeah, oh yeah.
80% said no, I'm not crazy.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
I bet you, those people haven't even tried it.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
If you haven't tried they haven't tried it because
they already know how disgustingit looks.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
If you haven't tried ketchup on chorizo and eggs, go
try it with some tortilla.
There's a lot of R-rollinggoing on but try it.
That bitch is delicious.
I'm not crazy, you're crazy.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
So I just wanted to bring that up.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Thanks for they're scammers.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
I mean, we all have that, I bet you.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
They say they don't like ketchup on Spanish rice
either.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
You probably don't.
Oh, my God, you guys aredisgusting people.
Us, yes, us.
Okay.
So our X polls.
Do you keep in touch with anyXs?
17% said yes, I'm mature andcan keep it cool.
83% no, they gone.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Damn.
I feel like if you don't keepin touch, it ended badly.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Yeah, I think there's a lot of reasons to not keep in
touch and I think-.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
The main one is yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
Yeah.
The next one is do you stillfollow an X on social media?
20% said how else am I going tosee how miserable they are?
80% said no, they're cut offfor a reason.
Do you believe it's possible tostay friends with an X?
38% said yes, which is Ithought that's a lot higher than
I thought I think so.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Oh, my God 62% said no.
Again, there's a lot of reasonsfor the yes and no, but thanks
for polling, thank you.
Yeah, so an X I don't have an X, oh God this is how he avoids
all these conversations.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
I don't, yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
I swear to God, Brianna is my only girlfriend
that I've ever had.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
Yes, okay, I've talked All of his friends I've
known I've talked let me talk.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
I've talked to girls, obviously, and I like girls,
jesus, man, like can't stoptwitching the hell Because it
knows you're lying.
I've talked to quite a fewgirls, sure, but none of them
have been officially mygirlfriend, and it's for a
reason because I knew this onewas going to be there, be there
(12:24):
for me, and I made her mygirlfriend.
So, technically, I don't haveany Xs, so I'm good.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
I don't know why.
Okay, so we did our polls.
Do you follow them on socialmedia?
What do you think?
If you have an X, do you stillfollow them?
And also, do you have a talkwith your friends and family
about following them?
Because social media is a bigthing now and I feel like you
can.
If your X is with someone andyou still follow them, it can
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escalate into oh, you starttalking to each other Like, you
start commenting on things, youstart you know you can go back
into that Like a habit.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Sure, I mean, I guess , like we were saying, it
depends.
So if it's like a really badugly breakup or kind of toxic, I
guess you could say thenthere's no point in following an
X.
But if you guys like mutuallybreak up and you guys are
cordial with each other andthere's no like bad blood, I
guess you could say it's not bad.
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And if it's mutual especially,you both know that it's not
really going to work out.
So why can't you just like becool with each other?
There's a bunch of differentreasons, but those are, I guess,
the straight forward one.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
It's very mature.
I don't know, not at all.
No, I think, once you're done,you cut them off, you unfollow
them, you block not block them,but make them unfollow you.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Jesus.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Well, you're not together for a reason.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
So if we broke up, you'd block me?
Speaker 2 (13:50):
I wouldn't block you, but I don't think I need to
follow you.
What I had?
This talk with my friendsthat's rude.
That's not rude, it's just.
We had a talk because we'rejust talking about like breakups
and stuff, and it was a groupof us and we were talking about
like, do you follow them still,do you not?
And a lot of my friends aresaying like, oh yeah, you know,
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I'd still want to follow them,I'd still want to, you know see
how they're doing stuff.
And I told my friend I was likeno, I just cut it off, like I
don't.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
You're the only one.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Yeah, damn.
No, it's a Scorpio you had acontrol.
No, I just feel like there's no, there's no reason and I would
never, but I would never tell myfriends and family like you
can't follow them.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
Like don't like that's up to them, but I would
so so I think from a guy'sperspective, if someone breaks
up with you or something, theguys want to better themselves.
That's like a thing goingaround Like you fucking want to
hit the gym.
You want to do better foryourself, to show people that,
or show your ex, rather, orwhatever that you're doing
better in life being a boss andit's funny that you put that on
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the pole.
Like I want to look back to seehow miserable they are without
me, yeah.
So that's funny because, likegirls have talked too long time
ago.
I've told you this that somearen't really like doing the
best and I kind of I laugh aboutit and you tell me not to be
mean, but I think it's, I loveit.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
But see, that's not why you should follow them.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
I don't.
I mean I'm not looking forthese people, but I'm in a place
where it's like fuck everybody,look at what I'm doing now.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
You know, I'm getting .
Speaker 1 (15:31):
I have everything I ever wanted, and yeah, I don't
know I think it's funny?
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Well, fuck them Happy .
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Halloween.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
If you can't see, we have a skeleton on our table and
we positioned his hand to besaying bye.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
So it's like girl, bye, Bye.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
What if they text you have you ever had?
Okay, you don't have an X.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
We get it.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
But what if a girl that you were talking to that
things ended?
What if they texted you?
Speaker 1 (16:02):
I mean, I've never been in that situation before,
but I'd be like you've never hadsomeone text you after things
ended.
I mean I guess, yeah, drunkcall, Okay.
So how did you respond to that?
I was so turned off and oneperson comes to mind and they're
the little intoxicated and Igot some drunk texts and drunk
calls that were like too much.
(16:25):
Yeah, because obviously they,like, were really into me, I was
, I mean I was into them at thetime, sure, but um, I mean it
just wasn't the right time, Iguess, for me, but just, that I
was the best how did you respond, though I?
mean, I'm not a dick.
So I just said listen, call mewhen you're sober and like I
kind of don't really want tolisten to this, like when you're
(16:46):
drunk, you know, let's justtalk when you're sober.
And I don't know if we ever did.
I don't think we did.
I think I texted her but wenever talked on the phone.
Really I'm not a big phonetalker, but that was very
dramatic, dramatic yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Traumatic or dramatic , tra or drudra it was like a,
it was next level.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
I don't know I was, I was really young anyway.
But yeah, I just got a coupleof drunk calls.
What about you?
Speaker 2 (17:14):
Um yeah, I had an ex reach out to me a few times.
Um huh, yeah, when we wenttogether.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
When.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
Uh, maybe about like a month or two after we woke up.
Month ago After we broke up youdummy Good American Horror
Story, the.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
X, I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
Yeah, because when we broke up, I just had like a big
talk with him like you know,I'm not filling this anymore
because of this and this and allthis stuff and he just sent me
this big long text of like, oh,I fixed this or I did this, or
I'm doing this now Because whatyou talked to me about Sure, oh
yeah, that was nice, give me.
Um, and it was just a big text.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
Sure.
Speaker 2 (18:03):
I'm about that and I just Miss him.
I don't even know if Iresponded.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
Damn harsh, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
But then I got another text saying like hey,
I'm cleaning out my closet andyou have some stuff in here,
like I bought skates.
I remember I was driving I wasactually driving to my aunt and
uncle's and I got a text I'mlike immediately in my stomach
like dropped.
I was like oh, keep it.
Yeah, and I did.
I said, I haven't needed itthis long, you can just throw it
away.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
And that was it.
So they said I'm not writingthose no more.
I'm writing Chris now.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
I don't need this.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
This is what I have.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
Instead of picture of you.
My balls oh, oh, oh, oh, oh oh.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
Oh man yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:55):
But yeah.
So if they text you, here's acouple things.
You can talk to a friendbecause you know when you break
up after a while you kind offorget about how the
relationship was, the bad points, like why you broke up.
So, you should talk to a friend, have them jog your memory,
because we forget about thatstuff.
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But you can be like 100% surethat your friend will not have
forgot it.
I will have your back and yeah,and that's why that's some
advice.
Yes, so they can remind you.
Also and there was one thing Iread to that, when you start
missing someone that you brokethings up like you guys broke up
, you make a list, you start alist and write one thing down
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that like gave you an ick or onething that annoyed you about
them, or one thing that youdidn't like.
So then when you miss them, youread that list and you've got a
lot of reasons why youshouldn't be calling them,
talking to them.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
Why are you smiling like that?
Because that one's like fuckingweird.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
Why is that weird?
Speaker 1 (20:00):
It's helpful no, it's helpful, but it's like fucking
cringey to do that, to writedown bad stuff they did or stuff
you didn't like.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
I mean sometimes it's hard to get over someone, Maybe
it maybe it works for somepeople.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
I'm not trying to judge, but it sounds very white
person, white people, stuff, youknow, not in a bad way, but
that's some fucking.
That's some next level, nextlevel, okay, no, healthy coping
mechanisms and very interesting.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Okay, okay.
Number two is trust your gut.
So, when they texted you, whatwas your initial reaction?
Did your stomach drop, did yousmile, did you roll your eyes?
Speaker 1 (20:50):
That particular one was like no feelings.
Really, I was just kind of like, oh, maybe gross feeling like
you didn't even need theconversation.
No, it's kind of like turnedoff.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
Yeah, so your initial reaction will tell you how you
feel.
Yeah, so you need to lean intothat, okay, sure.
Next one, practice restraint.
So you know, sometimes peopleafter you've broken up and you
hear from them, you're likeitching to talk back to them.
You really want to, like youknow, have a full on
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conversation, but you need togive them some time, like wait a
little bit, see what they say,see where the conversation goes.
Don't just jump right back intoit because you want to see what
their intentions are.
Yeah, so kind of have them leadthe conversation, kind of let
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them fill in the blanks and thenthat way you can figure out
what's going on with theconversation, where it's going.
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
I could just so.
Let me just say a quick storyabout one of my buddies, about
trusting your gut.
It's hard sometimes.
So it's because sometimesyou're in a relationship or
you're talking to someone andthey say something you don't
really want to hear, likethey're don't see going anywhere
, they're not really into you,and you know, and your gut like
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fuck, all right, this is over, Ishouldn't entertain this
anymore.
But in this case that happenedand it was like mature, it's a
mature thing to do, right,you're not going to want to
leave them off for so long.
But it happened to him.
And but this girl ended uptexting him again that oh, we
should hang out soon it's goingto be my birthday.
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After she already said what shesaid.
As, as a friend, I gave him myadvice like fuck her, you know,
because she's just trying.
I think she's just trying to.
I don't know.
She wants to do what she wantsto do, but she doesn't want to
take it to the next level and hewanted to.
So I think trusting your gut ishard when you're really into
someone and you want somethingto work, but at the end of the
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day it's not going to work.
You know, they're not asinterested in you as you are
with them.
So I mean you could trust yourgut all you want, but when it
comes to like dating and loveand shit, it's hard to actually
be like disconnect from that youknow.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
no, yeah, it's very hard.
It's very hard because you um,especially if things didn't end
the way you wanted them to likeyou, it's very hard to backslide
into it and like, go into oh myGod, we're talking, we're doing
this now.
Oh, it feels so good Like, itfeels like old times like, and
that's why you need to be ableto have your support system,
your friends, your family, tolet you know, like hey, this is
why you're not together, this iswhy things ended this way.
(23:35):
Yeah.
So, yeah, um, last one neverfeel obligated if it doesn't
serve you.
Okay, so if your goal is to getover something that hurt you,
then you're not obligated torespond.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
Like you you don't?
Speaker 2 (23:50):
you don't owe anything to them.
So, um, sometimes relationshipsreach their end and that's okay
, yeah, and it might be painfulfor you to communicate with them
.
It might be very hard for you,it might be very, like you know,
it might be too much, yeah, soif you don't have anything and
that's like keep tying you tothem like kids or anything, then
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you know, yeah, you don't have.
You don't have to respond ifyou don't want to.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
And, like you said, it is hard to kind of accept
that because they were importantperson in your life at a point.
But there's people in your lifethat are meant to come and go
and that should be that.
You should just not like astepping stone, but it's like a
step towards you growing as aperson and learning and
developing yeah whatever.
(24:37):
So people are meant to come inand out of your life.
It's not like everyone you meet.
You're not going to fuckingkeep them in your life.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
Yeah, especially you know romantic people, you can't
just string them along forever,yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
Or get strung along forever.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
You need to know when to fucking move on.
Yeah, and say I'm out now, ontothe next one.
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Best way to get over someone is to get under someone.
Damn dog.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
If I can, therapist over here, sex therapist Okay.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
So can exes be friends.
This is a big one.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
I think they could.
I think they could be friends.
Wow, You're being trying topretend she's a pretend jealous
or jealous pretend.
She's a jealous pretender.
She pretends to be jealouspretending jealous or whatever
the fuck, not an English majorprofessor, teacher, doctor.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Oh, wow.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
Thanks, fucking construction worker, I think you
could.
If it doesn't end bad, I meandamn, can I talk to me?
If it doesn't end bad, I don'tmean like being their best
friend, where you're stillfucking communicating.
Pause, oh, oh, play.
(26:04):
I don't think you should belike buddy buddy with them, but
like I Mean it's.
I don't know, you're notnecessarily friends, but you're
not fucking enemies, so you'renot trying to block them or be
weird, you know, I think that'sfine.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
I don't think so.
Okay, why is that Because I feellike you've had so much, like
you have history.
You Usually been intimate witheach other.
That's a big thing, mm-hmm.
You've had a lot of stuff thatyou've like gone through
together.
You've done stuff together andI think it's very hard to get
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over that and it's very hard tomove on when you still have that
constant reminder of what youwent through together.
Like you can't look at someoneand be like, well, I know what
you look like naked, but let'sbe friends like I don't.
I don't think you can do that.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
But what do you mean by friends like Like going out
to fucking have drinks and no,yeah like part of a friend group
, part of like.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
I don't talk to each other like, not acquaintances,
like friends not, like you, runinto someone on the street.
I'm like oh, how are you likefriends?
Speaker 1 (27:14):
No oh.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
You change your mind.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
Yeah, I thought you meant like friends on fucking
Instagram or something.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
No, I didn't mean in real life, you don't mean IRL.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
I thought fake life, it's Sims in the Sims, yeah.
So obviously that's weird.
You're not gonna surroundyourself with it.
I mean, if you have a samefriends group, maybe I'm sure
that happens, but I think it's.
It definitely is kind of,especially if you're moving on
into a new relationship.
It's kind of it's kind of you'retaking like a step back or
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being, I don't know, surroundingyourself with Someone, like you
said have been with intimate,with, trying to move on from
that.
You shouldn't, I don't thinkyou should be friends like that,
be buddy, buddy in the samegroup, I think, like
acquaintances like on socialmedia fine, everyone grows up
and has families and I thinkthat's okay to just see you once
in a while.
But, yeah, being friends, ah,that's kind of weird.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
Yeah, yeah, question work.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
Yeah, I know.
I mean, like I don't even knowabout like friends on social
media, like that's kind of weird.
Speaker 1 (28:19):
Yeah, to me it's not, it's kind of normal your
friends with everyone.
My god, are we being like realor you're just being fucking
judgmental?
Speaker 2 (28:29):
Okay.
So I asked a few people Abouttheir different points of view
and someone said well, how didit end?
So it does you know, there's alot of big things that depend on
it, like how did it did it?
Was it a mature?
Like ending Someone that Iasked?
Their only response was hell,no.
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So there's, I think there's alot that goes into it.
Yeah, but here's a few Timeswhere being a friend, being
friends with the next, is a goodidea.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
So if you have platonic feelings, if you don't
have romantic feelings for eachother anymore, which is kind of
you know so, like I said before,if it's a mutual breakup and
you guys know it's not really,if you're in the same Friends
group and you guys see eachother, the same bars, and that's
fine, you could, I mean, befriends, right I guess, but it's
not.
(29:23):
But if it's like a bad breakupor something you shouldn't be,
but that one's like, that one'sa pretty, pretty good one.
Speaker 2 (29:30):
Yeah, if you have.
Speaker 1 (29:32):
Who's mature nowadays like that Not?
Speaker 2 (29:34):
really anybody.
None of us anyway.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
Damn dog, you fucking have allergies.
Maybe blow that little nose.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
They're just my nostrils okay.
Aligned goals.
You're both on the same pageand genuinely want to be friends
with each other.
Mutual support you have mutualrespect for each other and
continue to be a source ofsupport to one another.
Closure you have both processthe breakup and don't have any
unresolved feelings for eachother, so you've both moved on,
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which is that's a big one.
Yeah, like no more feelings youlike can truly look at them and
say, like I'm good, like haveyour fun like, especially if you
guys are in your ownrelationships.
I think then it's more.
Speaker 1 (30:25):
Okay it's.
If you guys are just trying tomove on, but still around each
other, then it's Weird.
But if you're like growing upand being with other people and
but that's where it's hard,though, because people tend.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
People are like jealous not we're all jealous,
but they tend to get jealous.
Speaker 1 (30:43):
Yeah, so you have you shared something with them, no
matter how it ended, like Ithink, but that that's when it
comes up in conversation withthe person you're with to See if
it's okay or not.
But in general it's what I mean, whatever.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
Okay, last one emotional maturity.
You're both emotionally matureenough to maintain a supportive
friendship without any baggageor unrealistic expectations.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
Again.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Yeah, it's pretty easier said than done.
Speaker 1 (31:10):
Yeah, who has emotional maturity these days?
Speaker 2 (31:16):
Okay.
So, on the other hand, ifyou're trying to be friends with
an ex, it might not be a goodidea if there was any abuse or
anyone who was harmed in any way.
Anyone lied or cheated orseriously hurt each other in
that sort of way.
You still have feelings foryour ex and you're trying to get
back together with them.
Speaker 1 (31:36):
Yeah, that's.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
That's a big no-no yeah you know your ex still has
feelings for you, but you don'tfeel that way anymore.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
Yeah, don't be around them.
Yeah, it's kind of scary andyou'll give them like false hope
kind of.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
I feel like that's like a lifetime movie.
Speaker 1 (31:49):
How does it end?
Bad yeah.
Speaker 2 (31:53):
Well, I mean, every lifetime movie always ends like,
with like happy music and theperson walking out of the house
with the cop cars arriving.
But it wasn't a good.
Wasn't a good like middle part?
You're feeling lonely and wantcomfort and attention.
Speaker 1 (32:08):
That one's another scary one, big one, because it's
, it's hard.
Speaker 2 (32:11):
It's hard to you know , get over someone.
It's hard to feel lonely, it'shard to like grieve that
relationship.
Yeah you don't want to just goback to something, because you
want something no way.
Speaker 1 (32:22):
Yeah that's negative.
Speaker 2 (32:24):
Yeah, You're trying to prove that you're over the
relationship and you're doingwell without them.
So you just want to talk tothem and be like, oh yeah, I met
this guy last night yeah.
You're trying to get gossip onwhat their life is like without
you.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
That's just unhealthy .
Speaker 2 (32:40):
So those are a few things why you should not be
friends if you have any of thosefeelings.
You should not be friends withan ex.
Speaker 1 (32:46):
Yeah that's a good one.
Speaker 2 (32:49):
Nice.
So what about when they startdating someone else?
What if your friends and Eitheryou or the person your ex start
dating someone else?
That's when things get verytricky if you, if you stay
friends.
Speaker 1 (33:04):
Yeah, it could be hard, for sure it could be hard.
Speaker 2 (33:07):
But if you're mature, quote, unquote, you'd be happy
for that we don't know thatMaturity, we don't know her, I
fucking.
Speaker 1 (33:16):
I'd plot to fucking hurt you and your new boyfriend.
I Mean rewind.
Don't use this as evidence.
I.
Speaker 2 (33:26):
Speaking of lifetime movie, he'll fight me walking
out of a basement.
Speaker 1 (33:31):
That'd be fun, it'd be rough on me for sure.
But I mean if it ended and youboth ended it, then it'd be fine
.
I mean it depends.
You know we always say dependsbecause it's so many variables
in time.
But If it's mutual, obviouslyyou're gonna want to be happy
for someone, to move on and findhappiness.
But if you saw feelings oneither side then it's gonna be
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hard.
But I mean I think that's good,it's a step in the right
direction, even if it hurts youbecause it's like Confirming yep
, that's why it's confirminglike it's over you know yeah,
and you need to accept it andtruth in time.
Speaker 2 (34:10):
Happy Halloween.
Justin Bobby has re-emerged.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
So time it's cheesy, but over time you'll kind of
lose that little flame, for themever get more and more dim, you
know.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
I think that if you are friends with your ex and you
start dating Someone else, youdefinitely need to have that
talk with them about hey, so, soand so in my friend group We've
been together, we dated, wehooked up, whatever.
Yeah, I think you definitelyneed to have that talk and have
an open conversation about whatyour history is with someone,
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and I think that I actuallythink, if you're friends with an
ex, I think that ends a lot ofthe being friends with them,
because that's the true test ofwhen you start dating someone
else Mm-hmm, so yeah, that'shard for sure but the last thing
is Take time for yourself.
When you go through a breakup,you need to heal and work on
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yourself before you come back toany sort of friendship with an
ex, any sort of like, even ideaof Talking to them.
Speaker 1 (35:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:13):
I think you need to spend A lot of time.
I was reading things and theysaid there's no set amount of
time, like some places said,like One year, six months.
Like I read Reddit Threadswhere someone said it took me
two and a half years.
There's no set amount of time.
But you can't jump into beingfriends right after a breakup.
You need to take your time.
Speaker 1 (35:35):
He'll find yourself again be able to set your
boundaries, and I think that'slike a piece of advice on oh.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
The skeleton hand just fell out and oh Well, oh,
oh no.
Speaker 1 (35:54):
That thing's flexible .
Speaker 2 (35:58):
You little jealous right now.
Oh wow, need to elbow, need toelbow.
Speaker 1 (36:11):
So, no we've said that before, take time to
yourself and always, yeah, whenyou're fighting with a, your
significant other, like if youneed time to yourself.
We've always said that for alot of topics and it's true it's
like a good thing to to do isto spend time with yourself and
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do things you like to do andkind of reset, I guess yeah,
your your priority.
Speaker 2 (36:41):
You know your mental health, your happiness, is the
number one priority.
So take your time.
Do we need to do?
Find yourself, find yourhappiness, and maybe then you
can be friends with your ex.
Some of us can't you guys don'tsee this right now, but my hand
(37:01):
is gripping his knee.
Some of us can't, some of uswon't, but yeah, so good luck
out there.
Yeah, do what's best for you,for sure, okay.
So I know we usually do ourUh-huh ask man yeah, but since
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it's um.
Halloween the one week ofHalloween that we, the one week
of October that we record ourAsk men reddit has changed to a
different reddit spoopy.
Speaker 1 (37:40):
All right, let's hear it.
Speaker 2 (37:41):
It's dark theme reddit.
Dark theme reddit, All rightspit it out.
Let me sing if I want.
So what paranormal activitieshave you witnessed?
One weekend I was at my dad'shouse.
He'd come to the upstairsbathroom to get a shave and
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heard footsteps in my stepssister's room.
I thought I was him walkingaround initially, so I got up to
find him standing at her closeddoor.
He looks back at me andwhispers.
You can hear that too right.
I nodded and he opened the doorslowly.
My steps sister was asleep.
Never had been awake apparentlythey have in parentheses.
There was no way she could havecrossed the room, got in bed
and pretended to be thatconvincingly asleep.
(38:23):
In two seconds it took my dadto open the door.
He went in, checked her TV,which had never been on.
She had a big one from the 90s.
The radio hadn't been on either.
After that we heard thefootsteps a bunch of times,
usually very early in themorning.
Some of the footsteps were soheavy They'd shake the ceiling
fan of the dining room directlyunder her bedroom and they'd
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woken her up a few times as well.
Whenever I'd shower at my dad's,I always felt like someone was
standing behind me.
Eventually, I got so stressedand paranoid that I refused to
shower at the house or even gointo the upstairs bathroom.
My dad asked me one day do Ifeel like someone's in the
shower with you when you're here?
After months me feeling thatway and never mentioning it to
anyone, you get chills no.
(39:08):
No but um, that's weird yeah notsure if this is considered
paranormal, but when I getfevers as a child I would always
, in my pain-infused state, here, a man counting in a very deep
voice Jesus.
He would count from one and up.
As the numbers get larger, thevoice gets louder and more
intense, which kind of remindsme of insidious.
Remember that part of insidious.
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It started to get less frequentas I grew older, and now I do
not experience it anymore.
I brushed it aside as arecurring nightmare until only
recently.
I've learned that my sisterwould experience the exact same
thing when she was younger aswell.
It's not the scariest thing,but it does send shivers down my
spine trying to comprehend this.
That's fucking crazy they dosay that kids, you know, can
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feel a lot more or more open to,like you know weirdo shit not
weirdo, but you know like yeah,yeah, demon.
Speaker 1 (39:59):
So mm-hmm.
Speaker 2 (40:00):
When I was three, I told my parents that my
great-grandmother came to me ina dream and said her feet didn't
hurt anymore.
I think she had a problem withit due to diabetes.
She had died that night.
They received the call shortlyafter I told them yeah.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Incidents maybe.
Speaker 2 (40:20):
I work in a cemetery.
One evening I had stayed lateto do some ketchup work.
I was taking pictures of somegranite saples to have on my
phone and how already locked upI was alone.
As I was holding my phone, Iheard the doorway to the
basement swing open, slam shutand her footsteps go down the
stairs.
I froze.
I Thought for sure someone hadcome in.
I called out to see if it wassomeone for maintenance.
No reply.
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I got scared because if itwasn't them, someone had broken
in.
I stayed still for a bit andlistened and called out again
Nothing.
Finally I got brave enough tolook.
No one there.
I peeked down the basementempty.
All the doors were still locked.
Hmm, okay, last one.
I don't believe in paranormalactivity, but my grandparents
house is considered by many tobe extremely haunted.
In parentheses, it's part of atour of haunted houses in LA
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area and according to legend,was part of the inspiration for
American Horror Story.
Nice I know there are tons ofstories, but the one I
experienced myself was when Iwas living there as a child.
I was about six years old andmy elder, my older sister, was
12.
We shared a room.
My mom had decorated ourbedside table with an antique
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telephone that didn't work.
It was not plugged in.
That would be us.
Yeah.
My sister and I were asleepasleep, and for some reason we
both woke up at the same timeand turned to face each other.
I remember feeling an extremefeeling of dread.
Then the phone rang in betweenus.
We locked eyes and both hitunder the blankets until it
stopped ringing.
What we both thought it was adream, because we didn't say
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anything for years about it.
Then one day she was talkingabout it.
We realized we had the exactsame experience.
There are so many more stories,but that's only one I
experienced directly.
Speaker 1 (41:56):
Damn that's fucking scary, isn't that crazy?
I'd sock that phone.
I'd answer that phone.
Speaker 2 (42:02):
What would you say?
Well, fuck it is, I want tosleep.
Speaker 1 (42:10):
Can you order a pizza ?
I'm hungry.
Okay so those are good theywere little spooky creepy.
Frickin naughty.
Speaker 2 (42:22):
Well, freaking naughty, that's.
That's what's the scariest partof this podcast.
I was saying freaky naughty.
Okay.
So last is our.
We should have tried to sing itlike a spooky way.
Why can't I go low?
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So Britney Spears came out withher memoir titled the woman in
me.
Okay so it's a lot.
There's a lot in there tounpack, but a few of the things
that Stood out is herrelationship with Justin
Timberlake Damn, she's still onthat, okay.
(43:09):
So Let me talk about this firstand we'll talk about that.
So allegedly she had anabortion.
Oh yeah, I did hear about thattogether because he
quote-unquote was not ready tobe a father.
Speaker 1 (43:20):
That's her fucking fault for doing that.
Speaker 2 (43:21):
Okay, relax, there's a lot of things that go into
that there's.
You know she was young, shemight have felt pressure, she
might have felt a lot ofdifferent things to his young
dumb and full of cum literally.
So I mean technically no, butyeah so that sucks.
Speaker 1 (43:42):
Yeah, that's very sad and and did you just witness a
ghost or something?
Speaker 2 (43:50):
No, I thought I heard a child crying.
Oh, I thought I heard Nuckycrying, uh, okay, um.
So apparently he wasn't be.
I wasn't ready to be a father.
So I know a lot of people aresaying, like, well, why is she
talking about this now, likeit's so long ago?
And even Justin Timberlake hascome out and been like you know,
I've supported her from afarand like but a lot of people are
(44:13):
saying she had herconservatorship so she couldn't
talk about this stuff.
She couldn't, you know, do whatshe wanted to do.
Speaker 1 (44:20):
And now that?
Speaker 2 (44:21):
it's over.
She's getting her time.
Speaker 1 (44:23):
I guess it's healing for her.
Yeah, I'm going to try to be awhat's the word?
Supportive.
Speaker 2 (44:31):
No, I'm going to try to be.
Speaker 1 (44:32):
Yeah, I guess receptive it's not receptive.
But vulnerable oh yeah, yeah,I'm going to try to be
vulnerable, I'm going to try notto be a dick about it Nice, but
yeah, we're improving we'rewe're working together.
Speaker 2 (44:49):
Okay, and after her and Justin broke up right,
Remember she started.
She had that little thing withColin Farrell.
Speaker 1 (44:56):
No.
Speaker 2 (44:56):
Well, her and Colin Farrell showed up to an opening
of one of his movies and it waslike a huge thing because her
and Justin broke broke up, soshe referred to it as a two week
brawl, and so this is a quote.
Brawl is the only word for it.
We were all over each other,grappling so passionately.
It was like we were in a streetfight.
Colin Farrell, colin.
Speaker 1 (45:16):
Farrell.
Colin Farrell is tight, yeah,he is.
Speaker 2 (45:19):
I like him as an actor.
Speaker 1 (45:20):
He's he's in a couple good movies that I really like.
Colin Farrell is beautiful man.
Still.
Speaker 2 (45:26):
Is he beautiful?
Speaker 1 (45:27):
Was he beautiful Dress as Scarecrow and Batman?
Hell, no, he was fucking ugly.
I was looking.
I'm not a good looking dude,but I was better looking than
him as Scarecrow.
Speaker 2 (45:37):
Colin Farrell.
He was Scarecrow.
Speaker 1 (45:40):
And the new one, the new Batman.
Speaker 2 (45:43):
Oh, he was.
No, he wasn't Scarecrow, he wasthe penguin Same shit Same shit
Same shit, different villain.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
He was a penguin, yeah he was Okay.
Anyway.
Speaker 2 (45:59):
Yeah, so those are a few things, okay, and lastly, a
list of places that girls do notwant to go on a first date goes
viral.
Speaker 1 (46:07):
What else do women want?
Let's hear it.
What else do they want?
Want to complain about.
Speaker 2 (46:11):
Okay, so it's a group of women, I don't know.
Some woman got taken.
The candles move, the candlesmoving the skeletons moving.
Speaker 1 (46:19):
What is happening?
We're hearing children laughing.
Speaker 2 (46:21):
We have children in the house, but we're still
hearing children laughing.
The candle doesn't agree withthe list.
So it was a list of 28 placesthat women do not want to go on
a first date.
Okay, so let's 28 places.
Speaker 1 (46:37):
women do not want to get a free meal at that should
be the fucking title.
Speaker 2 (46:40):
Okay, it doesn't say anything about anyone paying.
Speaker 1 (46:43):
You know, these fucking hoses are paying for the
first date.
Oh, God.
Speaker 2 (46:48):
So men want to be like um, I'll provide for you,
I'll do this for you, I'll dothat for you, but then, when it
comes, to all of a sudden.
Speaker 1 (46:55):
all of a sudden, you want to be provided for Talking
about fucking food.
Speaker 2 (46:59):
No.
So men want to say that.
Men want to say that, they wantto say I'll provide for you.
I got you girl, I guarantee you.
Speaker 1 (47:07):
Cheesecake factory is probably on there.
I fucking probably all ofgarden.
Good ass, fucking places.
Fucking bitches want.
Want fucking steak and steinand shit and fucking whatever
Breadsticks Fogo to chow bitch.
You're getting fucking pizzafrom now on.
Speaker 2 (47:24):
Oh, thank you, I love that.
Speaker 1 (47:25):
Not you.
You're missing girls Pisses meoff.
Speaker 2 (47:28):
This isn't all women.
Speaker 1 (47:30):
Yes, it is All you motherfuckers in this category,
are you?
Speaker 2 (47:32):
What it is not.
Speaker 1 (47:34):
You want fucking equal rights bitch.
You're getting fuckingspaghetti factory.
You're getting red Robinendless fries.
Speaker 2 (47:45):
Actually their portions have gone very down, so
that's offensive.
You notice every time we order.
Speaker 1 (47:51):
We say can we start with some fries?
Speaker 2 (47:53):
We never used to, but remember they had like a basket
, then it had a little silvercup.
Speaker 1 (47:58):
And then they got rid of that shit.
Yes, yeah, the portions areless and less.
Anyway, I hate this, but I'mboys, I got your back, boys,
fuck this.
What free meals don't they want?
Let's hear them.
Chili's, probably.
Speaker 2 (48:11):
OK yeah, Chili's.
Speaker 1 (48:13):
Please, none of us want Chili's.
Speaker 2 (48:15):
Let's hear it OK.
So here's a few Knock them off.
Number one is CheesecakeFactory.
Oh my god, you don't wantCheesecake Factory either you
don't want Cheesecake Factoryeither, I want it twice.
Speaker 1 (48:28):
So do not.
I never ordered dessert.
I'm getting dessert atCheesecake Factory.
Oh, all of a sudden now you'regoing Cheesecake.
Factory's number one.
I knew it.
See these, it's dude.
Speaker 2 (48:40):
You don't even like Number two Applebee's.
Speaker 1 (48:44):
That one is gross.
I don't even take it.
I don't even take it.
I don't even take it.
Your voice went down.
Your voice went down.
I don't even take you toApplebee's.
Speaker 2 (48:50):
Number three I hate you Chili's.
You want to explain?
Speaker 1 (48:57):
I don't even want to talk.
You want to explain.
Girl should be singing Boys weneed to.
Speaker 2 (49:01):
We used to hate.
We need to exterminate women.
How about that?
Ok, well, then you'll go buytwo.
What are you saying?
I'm a woman.
Speaker 1 (49:08):
I'll go buy two.
Speaker 2 (49:08):
No, I'm saying the whole world will disintegrate,
because you need women, you needwomen, you need women, you need
women, you need women.
Speaker 1 (49:15):
You need women, you need women.
Speaker 2 (49:18):
Anyways, we used to hate Chili's.
And then one night we werelaying in bed and what'd you say
to me?
I need to tell you something.
Speaker 1 (49:28):
My buddy forced me to go to Chili's with him for
lunch we went to Chili's 10years ago, and it was the worst
experience ever, when we saidwe'll never go back and I didn't
want to tell Breonna, I waslike, oh my god, I can't believe
I'm doing this.
Chili's just stepped their gameup and I told her she's been
fucking pissed off and I'm likegive second chances Because I
(49:50):
want him to hate things with me.
Speaker 2 (49:52):
I hate everything.
You know me, but what's next?
Speaker 1 (49:55):
Chipotle.
I took a go to Chipotle once.
I took a go to Chipotle once.
Speaker 2 (50:04):
OK, olive Garden.
I said Olive Garden.
Number six, the movies.
Speaker 1 (50:13):
I love the movies.
I love the movies.
I don't know you don't want tointeract there though.
Oh, that's a good point, that'sa good point.
Speaker 2 (50:20):
Number seven, your House, which I completely agree
with A first date.
I want to get murdered.
No one wants to get murdered.
What if it's cute, though?
Speaker 1 (50:27):
You could come down here.
Speaker 2 (50:28):
It's a Dateline episode of White N'.
Speaker 1 (50:29):
White, that should be the second date.
I think the first date.
You should definitely go outinto the community, yeah.
Speaker 2 (50:38):
Eight, you're going to be offended.
Any fast, oh no, that's on it.
Eight any fast food chain, why?
Why not?
Speaker 1 (50:47):
Bitch.
Speaker 2 (50:47):
So then we're done, because our first date was.
One of the first things we didwas we went to the movies and we
went to Wendy's.
We saw 50-50.
Speaker 1 (50:56):
What's your freaking the best?
So so.
Speaker 2 (50:59):
Um nine Buffalo Wild Wings that's gross.
Ten Wingstop 11, red Lobster 12, a buffet it depends.
Speaker 1 (51:10):
It depends if you find a cool chick, that bitch is
going to like that shit.
I don't love a buffet.
I know you do.
Take it a buffet please.
That's all it depends.
That's a good one though.
Speaker 2 (51:20):
Okay, I hop.
Denny's the gym, the church,starbucks, coffee dates, ice
cream dates, family functions,which is true, yeah.
Like you should not do familyfunction things together.
Um, yeah or uh.
There's another one that sayssomewhere that requires a long
drive, movie night, a bar forjust drinks, which I don't think
(51:43):
that's bad.
Speaker 1 (51:43):
Well it's not bad yeah, especially if you're like
older and it's like more fun.
Speaker 2 (51:48):
I think it's you know , a bar for just drinks.
It's very you know.
Speaker 1 (51:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (51:55):
It gets things going Chill.
Yeah, so that's it.
Speaker 1 (51:58):
Cool, I hope you guys got something from this episode
.
Speaker 2 (52:02):
Yeah, like On.
Speaker 1 (52:02):
X's.
Well, we thank you forlistening.
The same few people have beenhitting us up for a new episode
and we got you, but you have towait till tomorrow night because
I'm not fucking editing thisbitch right now.
It's fucking late and I'mtrying to play Call of Duty with
my can Chemp play Call of Duty?
Speaker 2 (52:19):
No, it's bedtime.
Speaker 1 (52:20):
Okay, well, thank you Again.
Well, uh, do you want to shoutout the phone number?
So if you could call,Skeleton's in the closet
562-457-0613.
Yeah, so if you want to tell usa secret or need advice or
whatever the case.
Yeah, have a laugh, getsomething off your chest.
(52:41):
Call our number, text ournumber, and we'll say it over
the air and we'll uh, I don'tknow laugh with you and shit.
Tell you our advice, personalexperience.
But anyway, we'll catch you onthe flip flop later.
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