The Truth About Sex After Kids: Honest Talk from 19 Years of Marriage

You used to sneak into dressing rooms together to "try on clothes". Now you’re just hoping no one knocks on the door while you're having sex.

This episode is about sex after kids. What intimacy looks like when you’re touched out, exhausted, and parenting tiny chaos goblins who interrupt literally everything.

From high-drive spontaneity to calendar-based logistics, dry spells, mismatched desire, and redefining intimacy beyond just sex, Nic and Janna (married 19 years, 4 kids deep) get honest about how connection has changed for them.

We talk about:

    •    The death of spontaneity (and why that’s okay)

    •    How to reconnect when you’re mentally spiraling and physically tired

    •    The small non-sexual things that matter more than ever

    •    And how they keep choosing each other even when the spark feels dim

This isn’t a how-to guide. It’s a real, messy, occasionally hilarious convo about what it actually takes to stay close when life is full, kids are loud, and nobody has time to “set the mood.”