How To Figure Yourself Out: 10 Self-Discovery Tools That Actually Work

Ep 227: In this episode, Allison and Ceara break down their favorite tools for better understanding yourself and navigating personal growth. They cover everything from personality frameworks like Human Design, Astrology, the Enneagram, and Myers-Briggs, to practices like journaling, somatic awareness, therapy, and solo travel. The conversation highlights how these tools can provide clarity, build self-awareness, and help you make more aligned decisions.

They also share life updates—including Allison’s big announcement, Ceara’s recent work trip to Palm Beach, and the importance of reaching out to the right people. Whether you’re in a season of change or simply looking to deepen your self-understanding, this episode is packed with actionable insights and personal reflections to support your journey.

TAKEAWAYS:

• Self-discovery is a lifelong process — tools like Human Design, astrology, and the Enneagram can offer helpful frameworks.
• Getting clear on what you want attracts aligned opportunities.
• Clarity helps you recognize and act on the right connections, jobs, and experiences.
• Somatic practices and journaling are powerful for emotional processing
• Tuning into your body and thoughts helps uncover patterns and release stuck energy.
• Solo travel builds confidence and clarity.
• Being in new environments can reveal who you are without outside influence.
• Therapy and coaching provide objective feedback.
• Having someone reflect your blind spots can accelerate personal growth.

RELATED EPISODES:

Episode # 20 - Following Your Intuition with Hyper-intuitive Didi Beck

Episode # 134 - Human Design 101: Unlock Your Life’s Purpose w/ Rebekah Joy

MENTIONS:

Rebekah - Human Design Coach

StrengthsQuest for Students

Human Design

Myers-Briggs / 16 Personalities

Apps: CoStar, The Pattern, Dimensional

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