December 2, 2025 • 30 mins
And Another Thing With Dave, by Dave Smith
Episode: Fairness, Inclusion & Women’s Sports: Where Do We Draw the Line?
Host: Dave Smith
Dave examines the clash between inclusion and competitive fairness in women’s sports—from Title IX history to today’s debate over trans participation, scholarships, and safety. Call-ins weigh bathroom policies, separate divisions, and why emotions often overrun facts. Dave argues for logic-first discussion, equal opportunity, and women leading the reform push.
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(00:17):
All right, All right, All right.Greetings, fellow Earthlings,
and thanks for tuning into another episode of And Another
Thing with Dave. This is part 5 in a six part
series on the Democrats and immigration.
Let's get into it. Yeah.
And I think, I think that's the only way Bani think that's the
(00:37):
only way that women can solve the sports issue is if they just
refuse to compete against a biological male, right?
So if one biological male shows up at the track meet, all of the
females should just refuse to compete.
And it wouldn't be long before that shut everything down.
And they were like, OK, look, this isn't working.
We need to, we need to be grounded in reality again
(01:01):
because once again, let's look at that issue.
Just the sports once again, I don't hate anybody.
I love everybody as long as you're not a jerk.
But let's look at the sports issue, right?
So it's not, it's not that thesepeople were being denied the
ability to compete in sports. Women were.
(01:22):
That's how we got Title 9. Women were from forbidden from
competing in the Boston Marathon.
That's what started it all. This one woman wanted to run the
Boston Marathon. Women can't do it.
She dressed up as a man and ran it anyway.
But somebody outed her. And what the one of the
organizers of the marathon triedto run and tackle her.
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And he got caught on by a reporter, took pictures of it,
and it made the front page. And the whole country went
crazy. And that's what led to Title 9.
So that women could compete in sports.
So trans can compete and most ofthem have been competing for
years on male teams. They just weren't winning.
(02:09):
So this isn't about they have the right to compete in sports.
This is about do they have the right to invade women's spaces?
Because the only difference is if you're going to win a medal
or not, right? And that shouldn't be your
motivation to compete in sports.Your your motivation to compete
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in sports should be your purse to, to achieve a personal best
and to learn team and team interaction, team sport play and
sportsmanlike conduct. The number one lesson you learn
playing sports is how to lose because you do that most of the
time, even if you're really good, right?
(02:52):
So that's the number one thing you learn is how to be a
gracious loser, right? Your Little League baseball
coach forces you to go shake theother team's hand after the game
and he doesn't want to see any bullshit.
You go shake their hand and you mean it.
You know it's not their fault that you didn't play your best
(03:15):
game, right? They they brought their a game.
We need to do better, right? So you don't blame the other
team for winning. So that's the crux of the of the
sports issue to me, like, right,it shouldn't be about winning.
It should be about competing. So you didn't need to be on the
women's team to be able to compete.
(03:35):
You only needed to be on the women's team to be able to win.
So once again, that's pointing to narcissism, right?
We're winning and being up on that podium takes all precedence
to the point, well, you'll even identify as a female to do that.
Like Can you imagine and still be like, how could you still be
(03:59):
proud of that award? That's to me, that's just, and
that's another clear indication of mental illness to me.
Like, wait, what are we doing? If you want to run track, run
track. Try to try to run faster than
your last time. You don't need to try to compete
on the female team. Like what are we doing here?
(04:22):
And, and how do we know that It's that it's that because
there hasn't been one female that has gone over biological
female that's competing on a male's team.
It's all biological males that are competing against females
and walking away with it just absolutely smoking and in some
cases hurting people right like there there have been MMA
(04:44):
fighters that have hurt people and you know it's just it's
unreal 2025 man, who'd have thought BAM because.
He once again I said I agree with Fairy G but women in
general got to learn a lesson. They the one that wanted all
this inclusiveness when it comesto immigrants, illegals and the
(05:08):
alphabet community and transgenders.
Inclusiveness. Quit trying to conquer and
divide. We should all be together
included inclusiveness. And then and then when the shit
didn't work out in sports and they taking their scholarships
now they want to separate. Like no separation.
Let's conquer and divide. Yes, we agree with it now.
(05:29):
Why? Because it's inconvenient now
and they need to be taught a lesson that be careful what you
ask for when you get it. You might not like it now.
Once you get it, you can't turn it off Stupid, you know, I mean,
that's why I tell straight men, let the transgenders go ahead
and fight that fight with this this the biological women,
because they need to learn a lesson of how not to be stupid.
(05:57):
Yeah, I mean, I want to help thewomen in that fight, but I
understand what you're saying, right?
Like it's, you put it really well there where you were saying
it's the urge to be all inclusive, that it might sound
good in principle, but as soon as you in, you know, as soon as
(06:20):
you start applying, that doesn'tmake any sense, right.
And do we want equal equality ofopportunity or do we want
equality of outcome? You can't dictate equality of
outcome. That depends on how much people,
personal effort, personal ability, plethora of things,
(06:44):
right? You can shoot for equal
opportunity, right? And that's what feminism is
about, right? A bunch of like, you know,
people are trying to say there'sa second and a third wave of
feminism bullshit. That's man hating 1 and man
hating 2. Feminism is really simple.
Women deserve equal access, equal protection, and equal pay.
(07:11):
It's really simple. It was about equality.
But, you know, I'm asking my professor, what?
What is the third wave? Oh, well, it's, you know, it's
the queer theory, and it doesn'teven have anything to do with
women. OK, well, then that's not
(07:32):
feminism anymore. Now you're talking about
something totally different, butyou're trying to put it under
the feminism umbrella. No, feminism is about what's
best for women. Right?
So the left totally tried to rebrand what feminism even is to
like, rebrand it to like, you know, man hating and queer
(07:58):
theory. Not that those two things have
to be aligned, but you know, nothing about being a feminist
says you have to hate men or or or like I choose the bear that
attitude, right? Like and that logic falls apart
real quick too, right? Like we need each other, right?
(08:21):
Men and women need each other. We are yin, yin and Yang.
We're each halves of the of the circle, you know, and if a grown
ass adults happy, you know, withAdam and Steve, then you know,
God bless them. More power to them.
I don't care as long as they're happy and not hurting people
(08:48):
amongst consenting adults. All right.
But it blows my mind how people try to backspin on on how it's
OK to transition children. Just blows my mind.
I've got a bunch of paperwork onthis, so I'll probably do now
(09:09):
that now that the science is turning and I won't get totally
canceled for doing talks like that, I will probably do a bunch
of them because I have a bunch. I still have all the peer
reviewed papers that I used to write my paper, so I probably
will read some of those and I might even read my own paper or
(09:32):
at least parts from it. But I learned a lot doing it.
And you know, it's awesome when you can, when you have a
professor that lets you researchwhat you want to because it's so
much more satisfying and interesting to research
something that you're interestedin as opposed to being given
(09:54):
assigned a topic or an assignment.
I'm sorry, I didn't see that. We still had messages very G.
OK, and it's probably my last message or nothing.
I don't understand what this whole kids and changing and
changing the gender of children and all that is the fact that
big decisions like that and likemaking a child feel like they're
a whole another gender when they're a child is wild to me.
(10:17):
Because it's like at the end of the day, that child is not even
an adult yet. So they don't even know right or
wrong. They don't even know anything,
just going off of what is taughtto them.
So you're supposed to be teaching them the right stuff.
You know, I mean, so if you're not teaching them the right
stuff, then they're just pretty much going off of what they
think is right and you're just, I don't know, it's just and then
(10:38):
when that kid becoming a whole adult and don't want to become a
woman anymore or the girl don't want to become a man anymore,
what are they going to do then? That's just so confusing.
You allow some a child to becomebe a child and then when it
become an adult alone to make the decisions that they want to
make, but don't make those decisions for a child when
they're a child. Absolutely couldn't agree more.
(11:04):
Well, Ben, I seem to disagree because a transgender could
never put a woman in this place because they're trying to be us
and something that they never will be.
So are women that trust like mentrying to put men in their
place? Let's talk about that because we
do know that we do have women who just like men too, right?
(11:28):
No, I don't think that have anything to do with it.
And if they think that they're starting a war with that, I
think the real war is between the actual females and males.
Yeah. I don't believe a transgender
male can put a woman in her feelings, a real woman in her
feelings about anything. Yeah, I agree.
(11:54):
But I think it's going to take women standing up to to stop, to
turn the tides on this issue, right?
Men can't do it because we just get called a homophobe or trans
phobe or whatever. So it's going to take women.
I don't, I don't. And the thing I do not feel like
a transgender male shouldn't invade any women's space.
(12:14):
I feel like those people need tohave their own spaces, their
their own kind. Why are we trying to put them
with people who are normal? That makes it just doesn't make
any sense. Have them have their own kind,
their own group, their own bathroom, their own special
activities, their own teams, their own groups, their own like
just let it be. Let it, it'll be, it'll be
(12:35):
happier for everybody. Because let's be real here, we
as females and males still deserve our own space, spaces
that occupy for ourselves. Just like for example, females
that have their own female groups should be allowed to have
their own female groups without having a transgender male that's
trying to be trying to be a woman.
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They should have their own spacefor that.
Females should be able to have their own spaces and males
should be able to have their ownspaces.
That's how I feel about it. And those are the people should
have their own spaces for themselves.
Yeah, some places, right? Like, but in a building that
only has a man, a man, you know,2 restrooms, What are they going
to do? I guess you could make him, you
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can make every bathroom and all gender restroom, right?
So the men's room is now if, if it's a one person bathroom, but
for the places that just have a men's room and a women's room
already for multiple people. But then you're stuck with that,
right? So in those cases, trans people
just need to start using the bathroom that associates with
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their junk, right? You don't need to identify as
anything. You just use the bathroom that
associates with your junk because men have already spoken
out and said nobody cares if a man dressed as a woman is in the
men's room. Nobody cares.
Fathers really do care if they're using the other room
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because then that means that they have to be on guard and go
in there with their daughter every time and that they can't
trust their daughter in a restroom.
So that's what we're talking about, right?
And it's and it's nobody's right.
Like this is not your constitutional God-given right
to use whatever bathroom you want.
(14:21):
Like, why does it really matter where you take a leak?
Just go take a leak. Get her done right, Fairy T.
So because that Lady decides to be the star of Joanna Mann.
I know you guys remember Joanna Mann the movie.
(14:43):
It seemed like that's what she did, dressed up like a man to
play in the sport and she was dead ass wrong.
She shouldn't get in trouble forthat.
And that should have been the end of it.
I don't know why we have to takeit to a point where we make
wrong good. That's pretty much what happened
in that situation. She did something wrong and we
made a lot out of the wrongness for it to be a good to self
(15:04):
perfect. The fact that she didn't get
what she want. Tell me that make any sense.
It doesn't make any sense. They should just let let her be
wrong. So you know what they sometimes
see my rhetoric might seem like sometimes that I hate women, but
(15:26):
I don't hate women. Obviously I have a mother and my
children. I have a mother that bore me so
I don't hate women. But just just because we're
trying to hold them accountable to their stupid shit, that
doesn't mean we hate women or I hate women.
That just mean human beings needto learn a lesson sometimes and
women need to learn. You ever noticed that women are
begged for something, cry, say we fought for something and a
(15:47):
law get passed and they'll be happy.
But then as time go on, they'll be unhappy about the same thing
that they help us you're in and help pass that they cried about
and threw a tantrum like a little child, a little girl.
But the law is here. It wouldn't be here if women
wouldn't a so-called fought for it right now.
They don't like what they foughtfor.
They did the same thing with gender equality.
(16:08):
Now they trying to say, well, wedon't want gender equality.
We only want it when it's convenient.
We want equity. Whatever happened to gender
equality? No, we want equity now, you
know, I mean, I'm telling you, be careful with you.
Yeah, no, you're absolutely right.
I mean, that we could do a wholenother conversation on that
because I'm absolutely in in line with you on that.
Like, I'm not a full on red pillar.
(16:30):
But I think the only way that women are going to change is if
men learn enough respect for themselves that they're not out
there chasing skirts, spending money on women that don't
deserve it. Right.
Like men need to, men need to reel back those urges so that
we're not out there with our wallets.
(16:52):
That's what's going to change the game.
It's already happening, right? You see women putting up videos,
They're like, look, I'm out hereand it's all women, bunch of
ladies out at a bar, not a single dude.
So it's already happening. We're dudes are pulling back.
I've been doing the same thing myself.
(17:13):
You know, I pulled back. I worked on myself.
I got my education. I just got my BA, not in the bar
anymore. I'm not chasing skirts.
I'm working on me. And I think a lot of dudes in a
lot of different age brackets are doing the same thing.
Don't want to get caught up withthe wrong chick, be tied to her
(17:35):
with a baby. Right?
Because we see it online and it doesn't look like something I
want. Listen here go another one Dave,
because this is women need to betaught or less to be careful
what you asked for because that time go on and you get it.
(17:55):
It might not come out the way you thought it was going to be.
It happened the same way with so-called in the past sexual
liberation. Now that was in the past in the
probably the 60s. Now we are 2025.
What are women complaining about?
How come men don't come up to women no more?
How come they all scared to comeup well me to sexual harassment.
Well, you know, how come there'sall these situations she
(18:17):
shifted. Men are not shippers no more.
They don't ask for dinner in themovie.
They don't properly court a woman anymore.
How come they just want to have sex and pump and dump and all
these red pill. See what I mean?
How did they thought it was going to turn out?
And back then, you know, they said back then when men try to
tell them back in 1960, well, when that will cross will handle
that when we cross that bridge. Now the bridge is here 2025 and
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they don't know what to do now there's a fallout gender war.
So much for sexual liberation. Yeah, and and you help.
You still hear women say that they think certain women still
say that. They think like marriage is a
trap or marriage is overrated. Like what?
So wait a minute. So you don't know, you don't
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want to stay at home and care for the house and and your man
because that's like bowing to the patriarchy and men ain't
shit. So you would rather work outside
the house, commute to and from that job, and bow to some
stranger who's your boss, maybe male, maybe female, but you
(19:26):
would rather be subservient to them?
That's wild, right? To hear people say that out
loud, To hear a woman say that out loud blew my mind.
Like wow, did you just hear whatyou said?
Wow. And my mom, my mom, too.
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My mom's 88. And she said if she had it all
to do again, she would do the same thing.
She's twice divorced, single, headstrong women's liberation
fighter. She's been single for 40
something years. And she's bitter.
(20:10):
Like, really? And you would do it again?
Like, OK, wow. What is it about that Democratic
Kool-aid Damn gets in ya? So, Dave, Fairy G said that a
transgender woman cannot put biological women in their
feelings. So if that's the case, Dave, now
(20:31):
why we hear so much fucking complaining from biological
women about the transgender women?
This says shut the fuck up. Did why did city complain about
a complain about B transgender women?
This They're not real women. I don't know why they complain
to them. We hear all this rhetoric if
they can't put them in their feelings.
Inquiring minds want to know. Oh, don't you go stirring it up.
(20:58):
And we were on the good foot. Let's stay on the good foot
here. We're all on the same team.
I think I, I hear more women that are OK with the trans thing
and even trans athletes. I, I have, I hear more men that
have a problem with it because like, it just doesn't make
sense. We're being told, like our whole
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lives as men, we're programmed that, that we protect women.
Right now you're telling me thatperson's a woman.
So in my unconscious, I'm thinking, wait, I'm supposed to
protect that person? That dude's bigger than me, you
know? This is how this stuff get
(21:41):
tricky because guess what? Like listen, years ago when I
was working at a hotel, right? I was working overnight and I
was working at one of those nicehotels that had like a beach bar
in the back. Anyway, Long story short, I had
to get security because I'm the,I was the, the front desk person
night auditing. I was a night auditor at night.
So then basically he wanted to use one of the, the guys wanted
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to use to try to use the woman'sbathroom and go inside the
woman's bathroom, right. And I'm trying to tell him, why
would you try to go into the woman's bathroom and you see me
standing right here, like, and then they already had an issue
with him trying to go into women's bathroom in the back of
the beach bar. So when I asked him about it,
you know what he told me? He told me, oh, he's a
transgender male. And then you started laughing.
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So what? Goes to show that people can use
being a transgender male to go in any bathroom, touch and fill
up on a woman if they wanted to,and invade women's privacy.
It's not right. That's why I said they should
have their own spaces. Yeah, no, I agree.
And so the two options are you, you either just compete on the
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male team that you used to compete on, or if you didn't,
you just compete on the male team.
Or you could join like, you know, you could make another
division of the Special Olympics, right?
That's for transgenders because they have the whole
infrastructure already set up, right?
They have the whole organization, the fundraising,
everything all set up. So I've, I've thought about this
(23:11):
for a long time. I played sports my whole life
and I could not imagine being sobutt hurt that I didn't come in
first place that I'm going to gocompete against girls.
I could not. I can't.
That just what? No way that would have in the
70s, that would have never happened.
That people would have been throwing hands.
(23:33):
That would have never happened. People would have thrown hands.
There's no way that would have happened.
I'm not saying that's right, butthat's how much things have
changed, where now it's like it's happening.
Because people like that take advantage of the situation and
make it worse for everybody else.
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Just like that situation I just previously mentioned.
Sick. Hello hello tutor.
We were discussing the, well, wekind of drifted, but started off
discussing the immigration issueand how it's so hard to discuss
(24:15):
this issue with Democrats because they get suckered into
the emotional aspect of the conversation, right?
The individual story, right? Like, Oh my God, this one person
got separated from his wife. Instead of looking at the issue
of, we had 12 million illegal immigrants enter our country
(24:36):
under the Biden administration. What are we going to do about
it? OK, we had a president that ran
on the platform of getting thosepeople out of here, and he was
overwhelmingly elected and he's doing that now.
So what are the Democrats freaking out about?
Well, 1,000,001 sob stories, right?
(24:57):
And then so one of the useful factoids I learned studying
psychology, Pella Tutor, is thatif you get triggered emotionally
into an emotional response, you're not capable, right?
Then right at that moment, all of a sudden you become
compromised in your ability to use your cognitive function, to
(25:19):
use your prefrontal cortex, right, your logical and and
reasoning, logic and reasoning. So I think that's why the news
comes at us with these emotionaltear jerking, tugging on your
heart string stories, right? They try to get that emotional
response so that you don't thinkabout it critically.
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Like, wait a minute, who's benefiting from this?
Are they telling me the truth? Wait a minute, you know why
wait, why should men be competing against what?
Or excuse me, biological men be competing against women's worth?
What's the right weight? That doesn't make sense, right?
If you break it down and just stay on logic instead of
feelings, there doesn't have to be a victim and everything,
(26:05):
right? And there really is no victim
because nobody is being prevented from playing sports.
Nobody's being prevented from playing sports.
We're just saying you need to play on the team that your junk
aligns with. That's all pretty simple.
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Very G. You know why they complain, Ben?
Because women gonna talk about any and everything.
We're women, that's why. Let's be real.
We'll talk about a bandana on your head.
We'll talk about anything. So therefore, if the situation
is there or if it's something that is happening, they're gonna
talk about it. Men talk about nothing at all.
(26:49):
It's a difference. Now see we could do a whole
conversation. That's a whole nother podcast.
Men talk about nothing. I hear this from women all the
time. Like right that men are simple
feed em F em and and leave them alone.
Right? Men are simple like what you
(27:10):
just said. Men don't.
Men don't think about anything. Men think about how to build the
Eiffel Tower. Men think about how to build the
Sistine Chapel. Men think about how to build the
greatest things that you've seenon earth.
Men think about how to build thecar that you drive, the glasses
that you wear. You know, every single thing
(27:33):
that you use in your daily life was built by a man that thought
about building it. So it cracks me up when women
say that men are simple and and this goes into another.
So we could do a whole conversation with this.
And I would love you, Fairy G and BAN to join me on this one
(27:54):
because I think we could get we could get some energy going.
We'd agree to keep it polite, right, respectful, but but I
think we could get some energy going on this.
I think we could get people fired up.
I think it'd be good talk. Yeah, that one gets me going.
Hello, Tater. Uh oh.
(28:14):
Helly Tutor is in the building. That's right.
The founder of Clean Talk for Clean Folks has arrived.
And it's your turn, Dave, to speak with Helly Tutor.
Well, you know what I'm going tosay about Psycho Babylon, Psycho
Babblist's organized crime. There are no exceptions.
Now, why are the Democrats so difficult to talk to you about
immigration? Well, I'm sure you're up to date
(28:36):
on the latest constitutional challenge.
A federal judge has just ruled that Trump cannot expand his
deportation efforts and he's going to lose.
The Supreme Court is going to take it up and they're going to
rule against it again and again and again.
Telling the chief law enforcement officers in this
country that they can't enforce statutory law is folly and only
(29:01):
a delay technique in motion aside.
Point of order from the Heli tutor.
Wasn't there a ruling recently Hella Tutor that was saying that
that specified that the local courts do not have jurisdiction
to? What did it put a stay of to
stay of something, right? This.
(29:22):
So it's a it's a delay tactic like you're saying.
But I mean, this is ludicrous, right?
We have to, we have to find the legal solution to prevent them
from doing this because all they're doing is throwing down a
legal loophole, a legal delay, and it costs the taxpayers money
and it's absolutely ridiculous and it's going against, it's
slowing down and inhibiting the function of our government.
(29:45):
So on a certain level you could view that as treason or possibly
sedition. All right, that's it for this
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All right, until next time.
All right, All right, All right.Greetings, fellow Earthlings,
and thanks for tuning into another episode of And Another
Thing with Dave. This is part 5 in a six part
series on the Democrats and immigration.
Let's get into it. Yeah.
And I think, I think that's the only way Bani think that's the
(00:37):
only way that women can solve the sports issue is if they just
refuse to compete against a biological male, right?
So if one biological male shows up at the track meet, all of the
females should just refuse to compete.
And it wouldn't be long before that shut everything down.
And they were like, OK, look, this isn't working.
We need to, we need to be grounded in reality again
(01:01):
because once again, let's look at that issue.
Just the sports once again, I don't hate anybody.
I love everybody as long as you're not a jerk.
But let's look at the sports issue, right?
So it's not, it's not that thesepeople were being denied the
ability to compete in sports. Women were.
(01:22):
That's how we got Title 9. Women were from forbidden from
competing in the Boston Marathon.
That's what started it all. This one woman wanted to run the
Boston Marathon. Women can't do it.
She dressed up as a man and ran it anyway.
But somebody outed her. And what the one of the
organizers of the marathon triedto run and tackle her.
(01:44):
And he got caught on by a reporter, took pictures of it,
and it made the front page. And the whole country went
crazy. And that's what led to Title 9.
So that women could compete in sports.
So trans can compete and most ofthem have been competing for
years on male teams. They just weren't winning.
(02:09):
So this isn't about they have the right to compete in sports.
This is about do they have the right to invade women's spaces?
Because the only difference is if you're going to win a medal
or not, right? And that shouldn't be your
motivation to compete in sports.Your your motivation to compete
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in sports should be your purse to, to achieve a personal best
and to learn team and team interaction, team sport play and
sportsmanlike conduct. The number one lesson you learn
playing sports is how to lose because you do that most of the
time, even if you're really good, right?
(02:52):
So that's the number one thing you learn is how to be a
gracious loser, right? Your Little League baseball
coach forces you to go shake theother team's hand after the game
and he doesn't want to see any bullshit.
You go shake their hand and you mean it.
You know it's not their fault that you didn't play your best
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game, right? They they brought their a game.
We need to do better, right? So you don't blame the other
team for winning. So that's the crux of the of the
sports issue to me, like, right,it shouldn't be about winning.
It should be about competing. So you didn't need to be on the
women's team to be able to compete.
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You only needed to be on the women's team to be able to win.
So once again, that's pointing to narcissism, right?
We're winning and being up on that podium takes all precedence
to the point, well, you'll even identify as a female to do that.
Like Can you imagine and still be like, how could you still be
(03:59):
proud of that award? That's to me, that's just, and
that's another clear indication of mental illness to me.
Like, wait, what are we doing? If you want to run track, run
track. Try to try to run faster than
your last time. You don't need to try to compete
on the female team. Like what are we doing here?
(04:22):
And, and how do we know that It's that it's that because
there hasn't been one female that has gone over biological
female that's competing on a male's team.
It's all biological males that are competing against females
and walking away with it just absolutely smoking and in some
cases hurting people right like there there have been MMA
(04:44):
fighters that have hurt people and you know it's just it's
unreal 2025 man, who'd have thought BAM because.
He once again I said I agree with Fairy G but women in
general got to learn a lesson. They the one that wanted all
this inclusiveness when it comesto immigrants, illegals and the
(05:08):
alphabet community and transgenders.
Inclusiveness. Quit trying to conquer and
divide. We should all be together
included inclusiveness. And then and then when the shit
didn't work out in sports and they taking their scholarships
now they want to separate. Like no separation.
Let's conquer and divide. Yes, we agree with it now.
(05:29):
Why? Because it's inconvenient now
and they need to be taught a lesson that be careful what you
ask for when you get it. You might not like it now.
Once you get it, you can't turn it off Stupid, you know, I mean,
that's why I tell straight men, let the transgenders go ahead
and fight that fight with this this the biological women,
because they need to learn a lesson of how not to be stupid.
(05:57):
Yeah, I mean, I want to help thewomen in that fight, but I
understand what you're saying, right?
Like it's, you put it really well there where you were saying
it's the urge to be all inclusive, that it might sound
good in principle, but as soon as you in, you know, as soon as
(06:20):
you start applying, that doesn'tmake any sense, right.
And do we want equal equality ofopportunity or do we want
equality of outcome? You can't dictate equality of
outcome. That depends on how much people,
personal effort, personal ability, plethora of things,
(06:44):
right? You can shoot for equal
opportunity, right? And that's what feminism is
about, right? A bunch of like, you know,
people are trying to say there'sa second and a third wave of
feminism bullshit. That's man hating 1 and man
hating 2. Feminism is really simple.
Women deserve equal access, equal protection, and equal pay.
(07:11):
It's really simple. It was about equality.
But, you know, I'm asking my professor, what?
What is the third wave? Oh, well, it's, you know, it's
the queer theory, and it doesn'teven have anything to do with
women. OK, well, then that's not
(07:32):
feminism anymore. Now you're talking about
something totally different, butyou're trying to put it under
the feminism umbrella. No, feminism is about what's
best for women. Right?
So the left totally tried to rebrand what feminism even is to
like, rebrand it to like, you know, man hating and queer
(07:58):
theory. Not that those two things have
to be aligned, but you know, nothing about being a feminist
says you have to hate men or or or like I choose the bear that
attitude, right? Like and that logic falls apart
real quick too, right? Like we need each other, right?
(08:21):
Men and women need each other. We are yin, yin and Yang.
We're each halves of the of the circle, you know, and if a grown
ass adults happy, you know, withAdam and Steve, then you know,
God bless them. More power to them.
I don't care as long as they're happy and not hurting people
(08:48):
amongst consenting adults. All right.
But it blows my mind how people try to backspin on on how it's
OK to transition children. Just blows my mind.
I've got a bunch of paperwork onthis, so I'll probably do now
(09:09):
that now that the science is turning and I won't get totally
canceled for doing talks like that, I will probably do a bunch
of them because I have a bunch. I still have all the peer
reviewed papers that I used to write my paper, so I probably
will read some of those and I might even read my own paper or
(09:32):
at least parts from it. But I learned a lot doing it.
And you know, it's awesome when you can, when you have a
professor that lets you researchwhat you want to because it's so
much more satisfying and interesting to research
something that you're interestedin as opposed to being given
(09:54):
assigned a topic or an assignment.
I'm sorry, I didn't see that. We still had messages very G.
OK, and it's probably my last message or nothing.
I don't understand what this whole kids and changing and
changing the gender of children and all that is the fact that
big decisions like that and likemaking a child feel like they're
a whole another gender when they're a child is wild to me.
(10:17):
Because it's like at the end of the day, that child is not even
an adult yet. So they don't even know right or
wrong. They don't even know anything,
just going off of what is taughtto them.
So you're supposed to be teaching them the right stuff.
You know, I mean, so if you're not teaching them the right
stuff, then they're just pretty much going off of what they
think is right and you're just, I don't know, it's just and then
(10:38):
when that kid becoming a whole adult and don't want to become a
woman anymore or the girl don't want to become a man anymore,
what are they going to do then? That's just so confusing.
You allow some a child to becomebe a child and then when it
become an adult alone to make the decisions that they want to
make, but don't make those decisions for a child when
they're a child. Absolutely couldn't agree more.
(11:04):
Well, Ben, I seem to disagree because a transgender could
never put a woman in this place because they're trying to be us
and something that they never will be.
So are women that trust like mentrying to put men in their
place? Let's talk about that because we
do know that we do have women who just like men too, right?
(11:28):
No, I don't think that have anything to do with it.
And if they think that they're starting a war with that, I
think the real war is between the actual females and males.
Yeah. I don't believe a transgender
male can put a woman in her feelings, a real woman in her
feelings about anything. Yeah, I agree.
(11:54):
But I think it's going to take women standing up to to stop, to
turn the tides on this issue, right?
Men can't do it because we just get called a homophobe or trans
phobe or whatever. So it's going to take women.
I don't, I don't. And the thing I do not feel like
a transgender male shouldn't invade any women's space.
(12:14):
I feel like those people need tohave their own spaces, their
their own kind. Why are we trying to put them
with people who are normal? That makes it just doesn't make
any sense. Have them have their own kind,
their own group, their own bathroom, their own special
activities, their own teams, their own groups, their own like
just let it be. Let it, it'll be, it'll be
(12:35):
happier for everybody. Because let's be real here, we
as females and males still deserve our own space, spaces
that occupy for ourselves. Just like for example, females
that have their own female groups should be allowed to have
their own female groups without having a transgender male that's
trying to be trying to be a woman.
(12:55):
They should have their own spacefor that.
Females should be able to have their own spaces and males
should be able to have their ownspaces.
That's how I feel about it. And those are the people should
have their own spaces for themselves.
Yeah, some places, right? Like, but in a building that
only has a man, a man, you know,2 restrooms, What are they going
to do? I guess you could make him, you
(13:16):
can make every bathroom and all gender restroom, right?
So the men's room is now if, if it's a one person bathroom, but
for the places that just have a men's room and a women's room
already for multiple people. But then you're stuck with that,
right? So in those cases, trans people
just need to start using the bathroom that associates with
(13:38):
their junk, right? You don't need to identify as
anything. You just use the bathroom that
associates with your junk because men have already spoken
out and said nobody cares if a man dressed as a woman is in the
men's room. Nobody cares.
Fathers really do care if they're using the other room
(14:00):
because then that means that they have to be on guard and go
in there with their daughter every time and that they can't
trust their daughter in a restroom.
So that's what we're talking about, right?
And it's and it's nobody's right.
Like this is not your constitutional God-given right
to use whatever bathroom you want.
(14:21):
Like, why does it really matter where you take a leak?
Just go take a leak. Get her done right, Fairy T.
So because that Lady decides to be the star of Joanna Mann.
I know you guys remember Joanna Mann the movie.
(14:43):
It seemed like that's what she did, dressed up like a man to
play in the sport and she was dead ass wrong.
She shouldn't get in trouble forthat.
And that should have been the end of it.
I don't know why we have to takeit to a point where we make
wrong good. That's pretty much what happened
in that situation. She did something wrong and we
made a lot out of the wrongness for it to be a good to self
(15:04):
perfect. The fact that she didn't get
what she want. Tell me that make any sense.
It doesn't make any sense. They should just let let her be
wrong. So you know what they sometimes
see my rhetoric might seem like sometimes that I hate women, but
(15:26):
I don't hate women. Obviously I have a mother and my
children. I have a mother that bore me so
I don't hate women. But just just because we're
trying to hold them accountable to their stupid shit, that
doesn't mean we hate women or I hate women.
That just mean human beings needto learn a lesson sometimes and
women need to learn. You ever noticed that women are
begged for something, cry, say we fought for something and a
(15:47):
law get passed and they'll be happy.
But then as time go on, they'll be unhappy about the same thing
that they help us you're in and help pass that they cried about
and threw a tantrum like a little child, a little girl.
But the law is here. It wouldn't be here if women
wouldn't a so-called fought for it right now.
They don't like what they foughtfor.
They did the same thing with gender equality.
(16:08):
Now they trying to say, well, wedon't want gender equality.
We only want it when it's convenient.
We want equity. Whatever happened to gender
equality? No, we want equity now, you
know, I mean, I'm telling you, be careful with you.
Yeah, no, you're absolutely right.
I mean, that we could do a wholenother conversation on that
because I'm absolutely in in line with you on that.
Like, I'm not a full on red pillar.
(16:30):
But I think the only way that women are going to change is if
men learn enough respect for themselves that they're not out
there chasing skirts, spending money on women that don't
deserve it. Right.
Like men need to, men need to reel back those urges so that
we're not out there with our wallets.
(16:52):
That's what's going to change the game.
It's already happening, right? You see women putting up videos,
They're like, look, I'm out hereand it's all women, bunch of
ladies out at a bar, not a single dude.
So it's already happening. We're dudes are pulling back.
I've been doing the same thing myself.
(17:13):
You know, I pulled back. I worked on myself.
I got my education. I just got my BA, not in the bar
anymore. I'm not chasing skirts.
I'm working on me. And I think a lot of dudes in a
lot of different age brackets are doing the same thing.
Don't want to get caught up withthe wrong chick, be tied to her
(17:35):
with a baby. Right?
Because we see it online and it doesn't look like something I
want. Listen here go another one Dave,
because this is women need to betaught or less to be careful
what you asked for because that time go on and you get it.
(17:55):
It might not come out the way you thought it was going to be.
It happened the same way with so-called in the past sexual
liberation. Now that was in the past in the
probably the 60s. Now we are 2025.
What are women complaining about?
How come men don't come up to women no more?
How come they all scared to comeup well me to sexual harassment.
Well, you know, how come there'sall these situations she
(18:17):
shifted. Men are not shippers no more.
They don't ask for dinner in themovie.
They don't properly court a woman anymore.
How come they just want to have sex and pump and dump and all
these red pill. See what I mean?
How did they thought it was going to turn out?
And back then, you know, they said back then when men try to
tell them back in 1960, well, when that will cross will handle
that when we cross that bridge. Now the bridge is here 2025 and
(18:40):
they don't know what to do now there's a fallout gender war.
So much for sexual liberation. Yeah, and and you help.
You still hear women say that they think certain women still
say that. They think like marriage is a
trap or marriage is overrated. Like what?
So wait a minute. So you don't know, you don't
(19:03):
want to stay at home and care for the house and and your man
because that's like bowing to the patriarchy and men ain't
shit. So you would rather work outside
the house, commute to and from that job, and bow to some
stranger who's your boss, maybe male, maybe female, but you
(19:26):
would rather be subservient to them?
That's wild, right? To hear people say that out
loud, To hear a woman say that out loud blew my mind.
Like wow, did you just hear whatyou said?
Wow. And my mom, my mom, too.
(19:46):
My mom's 88. And she said if she had it all
to do again, she would do the same thing.
She's twice divorced, single, headstrong women's liberation
fighter. She's been single for 40
something years. And she's bitter.
(20:10):
Like, really? And you would do it again?
Like, OK, wow. What is it about that Democratic
Kool-aid Damn gets in ya? So, Dave, Fairy G said that a
transgender woman cannot put biological women in their
feelings. So if that's the case, Dave, now
(20:31):
why we hear so much fucking complaining from biological
women about the transgender women?
This says shut the fuck up. Did why did city complain about
a complain about B transgender women?
This They're not real women. I don't know why they complain
to them. We hear all this rhetoric if
they can't put them in their feelings.
Inquiring minds want to know. Oh, don't you go stirring it up.
(20:58):
And we were on the good foot. Let's stay on the good foot
here. We're all on the same team.
I think I, I hear more women that are OK with the trans thing
and even trans athletes. I, I have, I hear more men that
have a problem with it because like, it just doesn't make
sense. We're being told, like our whole
(21:20):
lives as men, we're programmed that, that we protect women.
Right now you're telling me thatperson's a woman.
So in my unconscious, I'm thinking, wait, I'm supposed to
protect that person? That dude's bigger than me, you
know? This is how this stuff get
(21:41):
tricky because guess what? Like listen, years ago when I
was working at a hotel, right? I was working overnight and I
was working at one of those nicehotels that had like a beach bar
in the back. Anyway, Long story short, I had
to get security because I'm the,I was the, the front desk person
night auditing. I was a night auditor at night.
So then basically he wanted to use one of the, the guys wanted
(22:04):
to use to try to use the woman'sbathroom and go inside the
woman's bathroom, right. And I'm trying to tell him, why
would you try to go into the woman's bathroom and you see me
standing right here, like, and then they already had an issue
with him trying to go into women's bathroom in the back of
the beach bar. So when I asked him about it,
you know what he told me? He told me, oh, he's a
transgender male. And then you started laughing.
(22:25):
So what? Goes to show that people can use
being a transgender male to go in any bathroom, touch and fill
up on a woman if they wanted to,and invade women's privacy.
It's not right. That's why I said they should
have their own spaces. Yeah, no, I agree.
And so the two options are you, you either just compete on the
(22:48):
male team that you used to compete on, or if you didn't,
you just compete on the male team.
Or you could join like, you know, you could make another
division of the Special Olympics, right?
That's for transgenders because they have the whole
infrastructure already set up, right?
They have the whole organization, the fundraising,
everything all set up. So I've, I've thought about this
(23:11):
for a long time. I played sports my whole life
and I could not imagine being sobutt hurt that I didn't come in
first place that I'm going to gocompete against girls.
I could not. I can't.
That just what? No way that would have in the
70s, that would have never happened.
That people would have been throwing hands.
(23:33):
That would have never happened. People would have thrown hands.
There's no way that would have happened.
I'm not saying that's right, butthat's how much things have
changed, where now it's like it's happening.
Because people like that take advantage of the situation and
make it worse for everybody else.
(23:54):
Just like that situation I just previously mentioned.
Sick. Hello hello tutor.
We were discussing the, well, wekind of drifted, but started off
discussing the immigration issueand how it's so hard to discuss
(24:15):
this issue with Democrats because they get suckered into
the emotional aspect of the conversation, right?
The individual story, right? Like, Oh my God, this one person
got separated from his wife. Instead of looking at the issue
of, we had 12 million illegal immigrants enter our country
(24:36):
under the Biden administration. What are we going to do about
it? OK, we had a president that ran
on the platform of getting thosepeople out of here, and he was
overwhelmingly elected and he's doing that now.
So what are the Democrats freaking out about?
Well, 1,000,001 sob stories, right?
(24:57):
And then so one of the useful factoids I learned studying
psychology, Pella Tutor, is thatif you get triggered emotionally
into an emotional response, you're not capable, right?
Then right at that moment, all of a sudden you become
compromised in your ability to use your cognitive function, to
(25:19):
use your prefrontal cortex, right, your logical and and
reasoning, logic and reasoning. So I think that's why the news
comes at us with these emotionaltear jerking, tugging on your
heart string stories, right? They try to get that emotional
response so that you don't thinkabout it critically.
(25:40):
Like, wait a minute, who's benefiting from this?
Are they telling me the truth? Wait a minute, you know why
wait, why should men be competing against what?
Or excuse me, biological men be competing against women's worth?
What's the right weight? That doesn't make sense, right?
If you break it down and just stay on logic instead of
feelings, there doesn't have to be a victim and everything,
(26:05):
right? And there really is no victim
because nobody is being prevented from playing sports.
Nobody's being prevented from playing sports.
We're just saying you need to play on the team that your junk
aligns with. That's all pretty simple.
(26:28):
Very G. You know why they complain, Ben?
Because women gonna talk about any and everything.
We're women, that's why. Let's be real.
We'll talk about a bandana on your head.
We'll talk about anything. So therefore, if the situation
is there or if it's something that is happening, they're gonna
talk about it. Men talk about nothing at all.
(26:49):
It's a difference. Now see we could do a whole
conversation. That's a whole nother podcast.
Men talk about nothing. I hear this from women all the
time. Like right that men are simple
feed em F em and and leave them alone.
Right? Men are simple like what you
(27:10):
just said. Men don't.
Men don't think about anything. Men think about how to build the
Eiffel Tower. Men think about how to build the
Sistine Chapel. Men think about how to build the
greatest things that you've seenon earth.
Men think about how to build thecar that you drive, the glasses
that you wear. You know, every single thing
(27:33):
that you use in your daily life was built by a man that thought
about building it. So it cracks me up when women
say that men are simple and and this goes into another.
So we could do a whole conversation with this.
And I would love you, Fairy G and BAN to join me on this one
(27:54):
because I think we could get we could get some energy going.
We'd agree to keep it polite, right, respectful, but but I
think we could get some energy going on this.
I think we could get people fired up.
I think it'd be good talk. Yeah, that one gets me going.
Hello, Tater. Uh oh.
(28:14):
Helly Tutor is in the building. That's right.
The founder of Clean Talk for Clean Folks has arrived.
And it's your turn, Dave, to speak with Helly Tutor.
Well, you know what I'm going tosay about Psycho Babylon, Psycho
Babblist's organized crime. There are no exceptions.
Now, why are the Democrats so difficult to talk to you about
immigration? Well, I'm sure you're up to date
(28:36):
on the latest constitutional challenge.
A federal judge has just ruled that Trump cannot expand his
deportation efforts and he's going to lose.
The Supreme Court is going to take it up and they're going to
rule against it again and again and again.
Telling the chief law enforcement officers in this
country that they can't enforce statutory law is folly and only
(29:01):
a delay technique in motion aside.
Point of order from the Heli tutor.
Wasn't there a ruling recently Hella Tutor that was saying that
that specified that the local courts do not have jurisdiction
to? What did it put a stay of to
stay of something, right? This.
(29:22):
So it's a it's a delay tactic like you're saying.
But I mean, this is ludicrous, right?
We have to, we have to find the legal solution to prevent them
from doing this because all they're doing is throwing down a
legal loophole, a legal delay, and it costs the taxpayers money
and it's absolutely ridiculous and it's going against, it's
slowing down and inhibiting the function of our government.
(29:45):
So on a certain level you could view that as treason or possibly
sedition. All right, that's it for this
(30:08):
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