And They Were Roommates

And They Were Roommates

Advice on life, love, and everything in between, with your friendly neighborhood polyam fam! How do you come out? How do you find a therapist? How do you set up a date during a pandemic? If you're worried about it, one of the four of us has probably blundered into the same problem and lived.


April 9, 2021 56 min

Hey lovelies!  Thank you all for rolling with our week delay so we could all get the covid vaccine, recover, and take a short vacation. (Also sorry, Thursday did not happen in our house, so happy Friday!) I am so excited for y'all to listen to this episode about therapy, giving feedback, and some weird fun questions we decided to ask each other during our intermission.

We had so much fun doing the questions that we ran overtime!...

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I am so excited for you lovely folks to listen to this episode about love languages, our hopes for this coming spring, and how to give a compliment. We are coming up on a year since we first went into lockdown for Covid, and we hope this episode is the dose of positivity we  all could use right now.

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March 4, 2021 65 min

This episode we went through some of the questions you folks sent in and decided to just get a whole bunch done in one fell swoop!

Our topics ending up spanning things from serious to fun: coming out, weird fears and joys, being demiromantic, and some stuff about our anniversary and relationship. We really had fun doing a listener question special, so let us know if this format works for you and if you'd like to see us do it aga...

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In this episode we discuss hobbies, making your brain pay out those GOOD neurotransmitters, and managing chronic pain in your relationships. Our intermission was also our first ever attempt at a Fun Facts With Fox (it was before we added shorter times, but we still think it's a fun listen!) As a peek behind the curtain, this is also our last episode that we recorded before we officially launched.

Do you have any feedback on our...

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February 4, 2021 61 min

Join us this episode for our talk about the importance of dates! We brainstorm some excellent date ideas and give a media recommendation for one of our very favorite TV shows: Sense8! We also answer a listener question on talking to non-polyamorous people about polyamory and coming out. 

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January 21, 2021 43 min

Thank you all for your patience while we dealt with our Covid scare! For this week, we decided to document our experience quarantining from each other in a special episode. Sage was in an isolation hotel, Fox was in Maine on an unintentionally prolonged visit to their parents, all while Sun and Iris had to figure out how to isolate from each other in our home. Thankfully we have all tested negative, went through a full two week qua...

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You may have noticed that this isn't a normal episode! We had to delay our episode release to next week due to a potential Covid-19 exposure in our household. Thankfully, we are all Covid free and doing fine, but we decided to release a piece of bonus content as a thank you for your patience.

Welcome to Hell on Wheels: our limited series about Sun and Iris' wild summer serving ice cream at festivals and events all over New ...

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December 31, 2020 56 min

This episode we discuss living with other people, creating boundaries, and answer a listener question about jealousy! As a little peek behind the curtain, this and the next two episodes were actually recorded before our pilot so there is, unfortunately, no funny interlude in the middle of this one. However, it means we provided a full 56 minutes of (good?) advice!

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December 16, 2020 69 min

Our official first full length episode! We set the stage with some introductions, answer some fun "what blank are you" questions, and talk about some basic strategies for communication (including how we run family meetings).

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October 14, 2020 24 min

Our closed polycule of four (the Quaple) is launching a podcast: And They Were Roommates! Our podcast is about modern love, life, and everything in between. Don’t worry, our advice isn’t just for polyamorous people. We are four 20-somethings with very different lived experiences and we think our (potentially dubious) advice could be helpful for anyone!

This is the Story of Us, our backstory episode and a sneak peek of what’s to come...

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