Anglotopia Podcast: Episode 81 – British vs American Christmas – 40 Years of Festive Culture Shock with Expat Amanda Graves

In this engaging Christmas episode of the Anglotopia podcast, host Jonathan Thomas and guest and Anglotopia columnist Amanda Graves explore the fascinating differences between British and American Christmas traditions. Amanda shares her experiences of celebrating Christmas in both cultures, discussing everything from the timing of decorations and Christmas dinner to the significance of Boxing Day and the King's speech. The conversation highlights the unique aspects of each tradition, the challenges of blending cultures, and the joy of preserving cherished customs while adapting to new ones.

Links

• Spilling the Tea Column on Anglotopia
• British Christmas Articles
• Friends of Anglotopia

Takeaways

• Amanda shares her first culture shock during her first American Christmas.
• The tradition of opening presents on Christmas Day is a significant difference between the UK and the US.
• Christmas dinner in the UK typically includes turkey, stuffing, and Christmas pudding, while Americans often opt for ham or beef.
• Amanda has adapted to American traditions while still trying to maintain some British customs.
• Christmas crackers are a fun British tradition that Amanda tries to introduce to her American friends.
• The misconception of fruitcake in America differs greatly from the British version, which is often enjoyed.
• Boxing Day is a day of recuperation and charity in the UK, but is largely unknown in America.
• The King's Christmas speech is an important tradition for Amanda, providing a moment of reflection during the holiday.
• Christmas television specials are a cherished part of British culture that Amanda misses.
• Amanda enjoys the festive spirit of Texas, where Christmas decorations are often extravagant.

Sounds Bites

Here are 10 compelling sound bites from the episode with timestamps:

1. The Decoration Culture Shock (02:22-02:51)

"Suddenly everybody had tons of decorations up. Everybody had wreaths on their door. Everybody was putting lights into their bushes outside their door. And I'm thinking, I didn't know that we were supposed to do that."

2. Tree Timeline Shock (02:51-03:18)

"A lot of people put their Christmas trees up super early, right after Thanksgiving. That was a bit baffling to me because at home we really didn't put up our Christmas tree until the week of Christmas."

3. The Cactus Christmas (04:12-05:02)

"When I first met my husband, he had a large cactus and he would put some really funny ornaments on the cactus. He has some funny ornaments like the Oscar Mayer Wienermobile, which hangs from that. We still have a small Christmas tree that we put the tacky ornaments on as a nod to his previous indifference of Christmas."

4. The Breakfast in Bed Disaster (06:48-07:37)

"We decided to make my mother breakfast in bed. We had no way of knowing that very late the night before she'd gone to midnight mass and had trod dog poo all the way up the stairs and had to spend two hours scrubbing the stairs, had fallen into bed at about three o'clock in the morning and we woke her at six o'clock with breakfast in bed."

5. Bilingual Christmas Greetings (01:32-01:38)

"Well, I am bilingual now. So when I'm here, I say Merry Christmas. And when I'm in England, I say Happy Christmas."

6. Christmas in July Surprise (41:45-42:29)

"I enlisted my niece to help me surprise everybody with Christmas in July. I had ordered a turkey from the butcher and it was so big it literally wouldn't fit in the fridge. So I had to find a cooler, pack it full of ice and put the turkey in the cooler and hide it."

7. The Queen's Speech Tradition (06:48-07:37)

"At three o'clock, it was the Queen's speech, it's now the King's speech, and that is an absolute must-see. Everybody pretty much gathers around the TV. We would spend hours before Christmas poring over the radio times and the TV times to see what was on on Christmas Day."

8. Not Grandma Got Run Over by a Reindeer (43:11-43:22)

"I like to tune into the Christmas carols and just remind myself that there are beautiful carols out there and beautifully sung and it's not Grandma Got Run Over by a Reindeer."

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