Deep Dive 5: A Guide for Parents

This candid Deep Dive with therapist and Encircle’s Director of Clinical Operations, Malia Burgess, takes us on a three-part journey: into the past that shaped us, the present we must reckon with, and the future we’re responsible for building. She begins by unpacking the generational trauma rooted in LDS pioneer mythology and how it impacts the behavior of children and youth in a culture that rewards long-suffering silence. For the present, she offers trauma-informed guidance for parents navigating conversations about bodies, boundaries, and what to do if a child discloses abuse or discomfort. Looking to the future, Malia shares advice on raising resilient children who trust their instincts and know how to say no when it matters. And for both survivors and their caregivers, she discusses what healing can look like across different therapeutic modalities.

 

Episode Transcript:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1T7KO9o_N3masu9PQF9cMfIPmGUrWTuUj/view

 

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Learn more about Malia at https://encircletogether.org/therapy/therapists

 

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