AskYourselfWhyNot

AskYourselfWhyNot

Welcome to Ask Yourself Why Not! We’re Jayla and Shaye—two friends and your personal hype squad here to help you ditch self-doubt and live confidently. We’re curious about a variety of topics, from confidence-building to mindset shifts, and each week we share real talk, practical tools, and plenty of laughs. Plus, we interview experts from all over the world to bring you fresh insights. So, whether you’re sipping your coffee or taking us on a walk, hit play on your favorite podcast platform and join our uplifting community. Why not start today? We’re so glad you’re here!

Episodes

October 23, 2025 32 mins

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Ask Yourself YNOT, belief, patience, personal growth, podcasting, Taylor Swift, community, resilience, goals, self-improvement



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In this episode of the Ask Yourself WHYNOT podcast, hosts Jayla and Shaye discuss the importance of believing in the process of personal growth and the power of patience. They reflect on their journey with the podcast, the challenges of achieving goals, and the significance of ...

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podcast, Special Wish Foundation, Lip Sync Challenge, community event, fundraising, children's wishes, nonprofit, local impact, emotional connection, mindset


Get your Tickets to the Lip Sync Challenge Here or Here

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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Jayla Robinson and Shaye Pentino discuss the impactful work of the Special Wish Foundation, which grants wishes to children battling life-threatening...

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gratitude, excuses, consistency, accountability, self-improvement, mindset, feel good habits, personal growth, motivation, positive thinking


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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shay and Jayla discuss the importance of gratitude and how to overcome excuses that hinder personal growth. They introduce their 'Feel Good Five' challenge, emphasizing the significance of consistency ...

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momentum, small wins, confidence, habit stacking, feel good, personal growth, accountability, gratitude, self-improvement, motivation



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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla discuss the importance of momentum and how it is built through small wins. They emphasize the significance of accountability and confidence in personal growth, encouraging listeners to celebrate t...

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podcast, mindset, self-improvement, gratitude, emotional awareness, feel good challenge, choose again method, personal growth


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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla discuss the transition from summer to fall, introduce their Feel Good Five Challenge aimed at promoting mindfulness and positivity, and explore the Choose Again method for shifting negative mindsets. They emp...

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self-care, community, Feel Good Five Challenge, gratitude, self-love, daily movement, meditation, intentional consumption, accountability, personal growth



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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shayla and Shay discuss the upcoming Feel Good Five Challenge, designed to help listeners prioritize self-care and build positive habits. They emphasize the importance of community support an...

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fear, courage, personal growth, whitewater rafting, comfort zone, self-trust, excitement, overcoming fear, life lessons, adventure



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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla discuss the relationship between fear and courage, sharing personal experiences and insights on how to embrace fear as a signal for growth. They recount a thrilling whitewater rafting adventure that ...

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discipline, motivation, habits, habit stacking, consistency, burnout, personal development, productivity, self-improvement, goal setting



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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla discuss the importance of discipline over motivation, emphasizing how habits play a crucial role in achieving goals. They explore strategies like habit stacking and the significance of consiste...

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cryotherapy, recovery, wellness, movement, mindset, health, exercise, inflammation, mental health, stress relief

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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla discuss the benefits of cryotherapy and the importance of movement for recovery and mental health. They share personal experiences with cryotherapy, emphasizing its role in reducing inflammation and aiding recovery. The conversation ...

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Wheeling Community Night, Washington Wild Things, baseball, sports mindset, community engagement, athlete journey, fun in sports, sports psychology, local events, podcast

Takeaways

  • The importance of community in sports events.
  • Celebrating local teams fosters a sense of belonging.
  • Mindset and mantras can significantly impact performance.
  • Fun should be a priority in youth sports.
  • Athletes often face pressure but can learn from ...
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self-care, Brazilian wax, mindset, social media, mental health, content cleanse, empowerment, personal growth, wellness, summer



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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Welcome to Episode 200 of the Ask Yourself, Why Not? podcast! 🎉 In this milestone episode, Shaye and Jayla dive into the often-overlooked side of self-care: what you’re feeding your mind. From social media scrolls to the energy in yo...

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mindset, meditation, intention, self-love, daily routine, mindfulness, personal growth, Feel Good Five, positive energy, mental health



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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Jayla and Shaye introduce the concept of 'Mindset Munchies'—short, impactful episodes designed to set a positive tone for the day. They emphasize the importance of starting the day with intention rather ...

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community resilience, mental health, grounding techniques, survivor's guilt, compassion, support, tragedy, Ohio Valley, Wheeling, floods

Ways to donate

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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Jayla and Shaye discuss the recent devastating floods in Wheeling, West Virginia, and the impact on their community. They emphasize the importance of community resilience and support during times of tragedy....

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A Special Wish OV

American Heart Association

Lacy Instagram

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pageantry, confidence, community, advocacy, mindset, Mrs. West Virginia, personal growth, coaching, public speaking, empowerment

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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Jayla and Shaye welcome Lacy Ferguson, Mrs. West Virginia, to discuss her journey in pageantry, the importance of community and advocacy, and the mindset required for success....

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self-improvement, motivation, confidence, personal growth, taking action, overcoming fear, starting before ready, mindset, empowerment, growth mindset

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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, Jayla and Shaye discuss the importance of starting before you feel ready. They explore the common fears that hold people back, such as the fear of failure and the illusion of the perfect time. The hosts emphasize that...

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mindset, intentions, soul, authenticity, emotional awareness, personal growth, podcast, self-discovery, consciousness, empowerment

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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla explore the themes of mindset, intentions, and emotional awareness. They discuss insights from a podcast featuring Gary Zukav, focusing on the importance of aligning with one's soul and understanding the various...

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EmpowerFestWheeling, women's wellness, community, mental health, intentional living, emotional skills, connection, kindness, self-help, empowerment

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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla reflect on their recent event, EmpowerFest Wheeling, a women's wellness event designed to help you grow, move, shop and align. They discuss the planning and execution of the event, the posit...

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EmpowerFest Wheeling


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EmpowerFest, women's event, wellness, Wheeling, fitness, self-love, local vendors, community, empowerment, experience stations

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This conversation provides an overview of EmpowerFest, a women's event designed to inspire and recharge attendees through various activities, workshops, and local vendor experiences. The hosts discuss event details, inc...

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EmpowerFest Wheeling Tickets May 17

Blue Tie Ball for Prostate Cancer Awareness May 10

Brave Men Inc

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Empower Fest, wellness, Brave Men, prostate cancer, community, health awareness, self-care, caregiver support, mental health, advocacy

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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla discuss the upcoming Empower Fest Wheeling event, which focuses on wellness and community building. They are join...

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