In this episode, we unpack the centuries-old religious systems that police women’s sexuality while excusing men. From the way conservative Christians condemn women in porn but ignore male participation, to purity culture traditions like veils and “giving away the bride,” we explore the deep roots of patriarchal control.
We also discuss the link between modesty rules, property laws, and the ongoing expectation that women bear the moral burden in sexual matters. Along the way, we address sex-positivity, boundaries, and the troubling patterns that connect violence against women to broader cultural beliefs.
💬 Viewer Question
Why do you think religious communities so often excuse men’s sexual behavior while condemning women’s?
📑 Relevant Topics or Chapter Headings
Sexual Double Standards in Religion
Women as “Moral Corrupters” in Faith Traditions
Purity Culture and Property Laws
Wedding Customs and Ownership Echoes
Sex Positivity vs. Harmful Porn Trends
Violence, Strangulation, and Real-World Risks
📚 Suggested Reading List
The Purity Myth by Jessica Valenti — https://amzn.to/45QtfNK
Explores how the obsession with female virginity shapes women’s lives, politics, and self-worth.
Sex and God by Darrel Ray — https://amzn.to/3JdatYh
Examines how religion controls sexuality and perpetuates harmful myths.
The Creation of Patriarchy by Gerda Lerner — https://amzn.to/3JcUp8Z
A deep dive into the historical development of patriarchal systems, including religious influence.
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