In this episode, we focus on why many secular and humanist meetups don’t last. We hear from longtime organizers about how they rebuilt the social network that people lose after leaving religious institutions. They share how snacks, casual brunches, movies in the park, and simple conversation act as the glue. We look closely at the Black atheist experience and how leaving church means leaving a broader community. This episode offers insights on creating safer, more welcoming spaces for people questioning faith. It offers ideas and encouragement to anyone wanting to connect through secular social practice.
💬 Viewer Question (to spark discussion)
What kind of social gathering—snacks, games, movie nights, brunch—would help you feel welcomed in a secular community?
📑 Relevant Topics or Chapter Headings
Why secular meetups fade
Role of social habits left behind from church
The Black atheist experience and loss of community
What makes secular meetups last: event variety, leadership, safe space
Building belonging through casual connection
Handling anger, fear, loneliness after leaving religion
📚 Suggested Reading List (3–5 resources, with Amazon links; data from your spreadsheet)
African American Humanism: An Anthology by Norm R. Allen Jr. — Essays and reflections from Black freethinkers exploring secular humanism in the context of race and liberation. https://amzn.to/3GU8O92
Leaving the Fold by Marlene Winell — Addresses the psychological challenge and social isolation of leaving authoritarian religion. https://amzn.to/3GqjZ9l
Living the Secular Life by Phil Zuckerman — Explores how nonreligious people find meaning and morality without faith. https://amzn.to/4jxluQt
Godless Americana: Race and Religious Rebels by Sikivu Hutchinson — Examines atheism through race and gender in the Black experience. https://amzn.to/45iA2yD
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