March 2, 2024 • 9 mins
They say you have to see it to believe it, but I've lived it—the power of unwavering self-belief and the magic it can unlock. From the raw concrete of the projects to the polished stages of brand partnerships and fervent community support, my journey defies the odds. In this candid episode, I'm laying bare the transformative power of a delusional mindset, in the best possible sense. Imagine embodying your future successes so fully that they have no choice but to materialize. Through the lens of my own narrative, I'll show you the significance of visualizing your victory lap, grasping the essence of your aspirations, and the seismic shift that a change in mindset can bring about. And while we're dreaming big, remember, the groundwork of hard work, unwavering consistency, and faith in the universe's timing is non-negotiable.
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Speaker 0 (00:00):
I don't care if no one is supporting you, I don't
care if no one's showing up foryou, I don't care if no one is
clapping for you.
You got to show up for yourself.
You got to believe in yourselfwholeheartedly.
Even when, even when you'refeeling discouraged, even when
you feel like no one got yourback, even when you don't feel
heard, even though, when youdon't feel supported, you don't
feel validated, you still got tobelieve in yourself
(00:22):
wholeheartedly.
You need to be delusional.
You need to be delulu untilyour dreams come true.
We are not meant to be in thisworld to suffer.
We're not here to sufferforever.
We're not here to be miserable.
We're not here to be depressed.
We're not here to live a lifethat does not serve us, that
does not bring us happiness.
So if you need to be delusionalabout your goals, then continue
(00:44):
to be delusional.
Have it to the point where youknow it's going to happen for
you, no matter what thecircumstances is, no matter
where you are in your life rightnow, no matter how your life is
looking right now, even if itlooks no way, even if it looks
impossible, even if it looks sofar fetched, even if it looks
like it's never going to happenfor you.
You got to be delusional, andwhat I mean by being delusional
(01:05):
with that?
You really got to believe inyourself wholeheartedly.
You have to vision yourselfalready having it.
It's like manifesting it.
You're visualizing about it,you're talking about it like if
you already have it.
Let go of people's expectationsabout your life and live the
life that you truly want to live.
When I started being a contentcreator I'm not even monetized
(01:27):
on YouTube, y'all, like I'm noteven monetized on my podcast,
but I love creating content Iknew in my life that there was
so much more for me.
Like I'm living in the projects.
I know I'm more than theprojects.
I know I'm more than foodstamps.
I know I'm more than living ina limited, restricted life.
Like I know that God got somuch more from me.
But other people is not goingto understand that because other
(01:48):
people they don't have myvision.
They don't have the vision thatGod put in me.
God, he planted a seed in mymind and he instilled a vision,
a dream, a thought in my headand that's how I know that I'm
so much more in life.
And for a lot of you guys thatare just going through your
darkest times and you guys arein circumstances that you don't
think you'll ever be able tomake it or break it or come out
(02:12):
of.
You have the capacity, you haveeverything in you, you have the
tools in you to get out of yoursituation.
I don't care if, even if it'snot happening in your real life
right now, in your mind,absolutely Like if you know you
want to be somewhere in life, ifyou know you want to have a
certain type of income, if youknow you want to have a certain
type of person in your life,whether it's love, whether it's
(02:34):
finances, whether it's career,whether it's family, like, act,
like in your mind it's alreadyhappening for you.
Act like you already have it.
Act like you.
Your mind is living the bestversion of yourself.
Even if it's not physicallyhappening to you, yeah, at least
in your mind it's there.
Because, in order to get towhere you want to be, the first
thing you got to do is changeyour mindset.
(02:54):
Everything all starts withmindset.
So, yes, be intrusional untilyour visions come true.
And I'm not saying intrusional,as if you're speaking about
becoming a higher, betterversion of yourself, but you're
not putting into no actions Likeno, you got to put in the work.
You got to put in the effort.
You got to pray about it.
You got to keep beingconsistent about the vision that
(03:18):
you want for yourself, aboutthe dream life that you want for
yourself, about who you want tobecome.
You got to put in the work.
You got to pray to God.
You got to keep visualizing it.
You got to keep manifesting it.
You got to keep believing thatit's going to happen for you.
It's not about if it's aboutwhen.
Everything all happens indivine timing.
Everything happened in God'stiming.
(03:39):
When I started my YouTubechannel, I never thought I would
get a brand deal.
I never thought I would get abrand deal.
I never thought that I would beon camera.
I never thought that I wouldeven make it to 500 subscribers.
I thought Me making it to even100 subscribers was impossible.
I thought it was unreachablefor me because I've never create
content.
(04:00):
I didn't know who my targetaudience is.
I still don't know a lot ofthings about social media.
Like, I'm still new, I'm stilla small channel, I'm still
building myself, but there's somany things that I've learned.
And everything all starts withmindset.
And one thing is once I startedmy YouTube channel, my
confidence changed, my mindsetchanged, my perspective changed
(04:21):
and the fact that I'm makingimpact to my small community and
to other people that just makesme really happy.
The fact that I even got abrand deal just makes me happy
and I always visualize myselflike being a content creator,
making an impact, you know,empowering, uplifting,
encouraging woman.
I always vision that for myself.
I always knew.
Just because I'm living in theprojects right now, I always
(04:43):
know that there's so much morefor me.
Like I believe in myself evenwhen no one is showing up for me
.
Even though when people are notclapping for me, when I have
friends that just look at myself, they don't clap for me.
When I have family or relativesthat they don't support me, I
still believe in myself.
I don't need other people tovalidate who I am as a person.
That's the kind of mindset I am.
(05:03):
I'm gonna be delusional and I'mgonna keep manifesting into the
highest, best version of myselfbecause I believe that I can get
myself there and that's what alot of you guys gotta do.
No matter where you are in yourlife right now, no matter what
is your circumstances like, youhave to believe in yourself so
heartedly, even when it seemsimpossible, even when it seems
(05:24):
like no one is rooting for you,even when it seems like no one
is clapping for you, even whenit seems like what's the point?
Like you might as well give up.
But don't give up, like I'mtelling you that's when you
really gain so much strength andconfidence and it changes you
Like God really changes you.
So don't give up on your goals,don't give up on your dreams.
(05:44):
Like everything is possible.
It can happen.
You just gotta want it so badand you gotta believe that it
can happen for you.
And you gotta put in the workand you gotta pray to God Like
you gotta get locked in with God.
Another thing that you gotta dois you have to reprogram your
mind, reprogram yoursubconscious mind.
Get rid of limited beliefs.
(06:04):
Just because you come from afamily that does not come from
wealth or does not breakgenerational curse or still
living in poverty, doesn't meanthat you have to accept that
that's gonna be your lifeforever and your children's life
.
You can break out of that.
I truly believe in breakinggenerational curse and that is
what my YouTube channel is about.
It's about self love, it'sabout personal development, it's
(06:27):
about breaking generationalcurse.
Just because our families liveda certain way, or just because
no one in our family has becomesuccessful the way that they
wanted to, or just because theygave up on their goals or their
visions or your friends or yourneighbors or your coworkers
doesn't mean that you have to.
You have to program your mind,especially if you a believer of
(06:48):
God.
You gotta just believe that Godwants so much more for you.
You think God wants you in theprojects.
You think God wants you on foodstamps.
You think God wants you livingpaycheck to paycheck, like.
I believe that my God, he doesnot want me in the projects
forever.
I believe that he does not wantme on food stamps.
I believe that God does notwant me on government assistance
.
So I am still programming mymind every day and I'm still
(07:13):
planting that seed in my brainthat I am more for the lifestyle
that I'm currently living andthat's what makes me delusional,
but that's what makes memanifest my dream life.
I may not have it right now,but I have it in my mind.
Once I have it in my mind and Ikeep visualizing it and I keep
putting in the work and I keeptalking to God, it's gonna
(07:34):
happen, it's gonna happen.
When I had my first brand new, Iwas crying.
I was crying.
I was like, wow, this is real.
Like I'm really getting paid.
Like this brand really wants tosponsor one of my YouTube
channel, they wanna sponsor mypodcast.
Like I'm telling you like it'sreal, if you really want
something for your life and itdoesn't always have to be about
(07:54):
money it could be family, itcould be love, it could be your
dream career, it could be thathouse.
Like, keep visualizing it,write about it, talk to God
about it, do the work and itwill happen for you.
You are not what your family is.
If your family is in poverty,your family they gave up on
their goals Doesn't mean thatthat's what you have to do.
You don't have to be that.
(08:15):
You don't have to do what theydid.
You could do things differently.
You could break the chain, youcould break the curse.
You could start building yourown wealth.
You could start living your ownvision.
You could start living your owndreams.
You can live.
Why just simply exists, why youonly got one life.
You might as well just go afterwhat you really want.
And yeah, I'm knowing my videos.
I wear makeup.
(08:35):
I didn't wanna wear makeuptoday because I just wanted to
talk to you.
I really wanted to talk to you,I really wanted to uplift you.
I wanted to give you out wordsthat would encourage you, that
would just make you feel goodand motivate you a little bit,
cause I know, for the supporters, for my viewers that really be
watching me, if you know thatyou are more than the life that
(08:56):
you currently have, you have itin you.
You have it in you Cause that'show I felt and I'm going after
what I want and you can too.
So if you like more contentlike this, please like comment
and subscribe.
Also, follow my TikTok, causewhen I'm not on YouTube, I'm on
TikTok.
I'm a post, a screenshot of myTikTok, but I love you and I
(09:16):
will see you on my next video.
I don't care if no one is supporting you, I don't
care if no one's showing up foryou, I don't care if no one is
clapping for you.
You got to show up for yourself.
You got to believe in yourselfwholeheartedly.
Even when, even when you'refeeling discouraged, even when
you feel like no one got yourback, even when you don't feel
heard, even though, when youdon't feel supported, you don't
feel validated, you still got tobelieve in yourself
(00:22):
wholeheartedly.
You need to be delusional.
You need to be delulu untilyour dreams come true.
We are not meant to be in thisworld to suffer.
We're not here to sufferforever.
We're not here to be miserable.
We're not here to be depressed.
We're not here to live a lifethat does not serve us, that
does not bring us happiness.
So if you need to be delusionalabout your goals, then continue
(00:44):
to be delusional.
Have it to the point where youknow it's going to happen for
you, no matter what thecircumstances is, no matter
where you are in your life rightnow, no matter how your life is
looking right now, even if itlooks no way, even if it looks
impossible, even if it looks sofar fetched, even if it looks
like it's never going to happenfor you.
You got to be delusional, andwhat I mean by being delusional
(01:05):
with that?
You really got to believe inyourself wholeheartedly.
You have to vision yourselfalready having it.
It's like manifesting it.
You're visualizing about it,you're talking about it like if
you already have it.
Let go of people's expectationsabout your life and live the
life that you truly want to live.
When I started being a contentcreator I'm not even monetized
(01:27):
on YouTube, y'all, like I'm noteven monetized on my podcast,
but I love creating content Iknew in my life that there was
so much more for me.
Like I'm living in the projects.
I know I'm more than theprojects.
I know I'm more than foodstamps.
I know I'm more than living ina limited, restricted life.
Like I know that God got somuch more from me.
But other people is not goingto understand that because other
(01:48):
people they don't have myvision.
They don't have the vision thatGod put in me.
God, he planted a seed in mymind and he instilled a vision,
a dream, a thought in my headand that's how I know that I'm
so much more in life.
And for a lot of you guys thatare just going through your
darkest times and you guys arein circumstances that you don't
think you'll ever be able tomake it or break it or come out
(02:12):
of.
You have the capacity, you haveeverything in you, you have the
tools in you to get out of yoursituation.
I don't care if, even if it'snot happening in your real life
right now, in your mind,absolutely Like if you know you
want to be somewhere in life, ifyou know you want to have a
certain type of income, if youknow you want to have a certain
type of person in your life,whether it's love, whether it's
(02:34):
finances, whether it's career,whether it's family, like, act,
like in your mind it's alreadyhappening for you.
Act like you already have it.
Act like you.
Your mind is living the bestversion of yourself.
Even if it's not physicallyhappening to you, yeah, at least
in your mind it's there.
Because, in order to get towhere you want to be, the first
thing you got to do is changeyour mindset.
(02:54):
Everything all starts withmindset.
So, yes, be intrusional untilyour visions come true.
And I'm not saying intrusional,as if you're speaking about
becoming a higher, betterversion of yourself, but you're
not putting into no actions Likeno, you got to put in the work.
You got to put in the effort.
You got to pray about it.
You got to keep beingconsistent about the vision that
(03:18):
you want for yourself, aboutthe dream life that you want for
yourself, about who you want tobecome.
You got to put in the work.
You got to pray to God.
You got to keep visualizing it.
You got to keep manifesting it.
You got to keep believing thatit's going to happen for you.
It's not about if it's aboutwhen.
Everything all happens indivine timing.
Everything happened in God'stiming.
(03:39):
When I started my YouTubechannel, I never thought I would
get a brand deal.
I never thought I would get abrand deal.
I never thought that I would beon camera.
I never thought that I wouldeven make it to 500 subscribers.
I thought Me making it to even100 subscribers was impossible.
I thought it was unreachablefor me because I've never create
content.
(04:00):
I didn't know who my targetaudience is.
I still don't know a lot ofthings about social media.
Like, I'm still new, I'm stilla small channel, I'm still
building myself, but there's somany things that I've learned.
And everything all starts withmindset.
And one thing is once I startedmy YouTube channel, my
confidence changed, my mindsetchanged, my perspective changed
(04:21):
and the fact that I'm makingimpact to my small community and
to other people that just makesme really happy.
The fact that I even got abrand deal just makes me happy
and I always visualize myselflike being a content creator,
making an impact, you know,empowering, uplifting,
encouraging woman.
I always vision that for myself.
I always knew.
Just because I'm living in theprojects right now, I always
(04:43):
know that there's so much morefor me.
Like I believe in myself evenwhen no one is showing up for me
.
Even though when people are notclapping for me, when I have
friends that just look at myself, they don't clap for me.
When I have family or relativesthat they don't support me, I
still believe in myself.
I don't need other people tovalidate who I am as a person.
That's the kind of mindset I am.
(05:03):
I'm gonna be delusional and I'mgonna keep manifesting into the
highest, best version of myselfbecause I believe that I can get
myself there and that's what alot of you guys gotta do.
No matter where you are in yourlife right now, no matter what
is your circumstances like, youhave to believe in yourself so
heartedly, even when it seemsimpossible, even when it seems
(05:24):
like no one is rooting for you,even when it seems like no one
is clapping for you, even whenit seems like what's the point?
Like you might as well give up.
But don't give up, like I'mtelling you that's when you
really gain so much strength andconfidence and it changes you
Like God really changes you.
So don't give up on your goals,don't give up on your dreams.
(05:44):
Like everything is possible.
It can happen.
You just gotta want it so badand you gotta believe that it
can happen for you.
And you gotta put in the workand you gotta pray to God Like
you gotta get locked in with God.
Another thing that you gotta dois you have to reprogram your
mind, reprogram yoursubconscious mind.
Get rid of limited beliefs.
(06:04):
Just because you come from afamily that does not come from
wealth or does not breakgenerational curse or still
living in poverty, doesn't meanthat you have to accept that
that's gonna be your lifeforever and your children's life
.
You can break out of that.
I truly believe in breakinggenerational curse and that is
what my YouTube channel is about.
It's about self love, it'sabout personal development, it's
(06:27):
about breaking generationalcurse.
Just because our families liveda certain way, or just because
no one in our family has becomesuccessful the way that they
wanted to, or just because theygave up on their goals or their
visions or your friends or yourneighbors or your coworkers
doesn't mean that you have to.
You have to program your mind,especially if you a believer of
(06:48):
God.
You gotta just believe that Godwants so much more for you.
You think God wants you in theprojects.
You think God wants you on foodstamps.
You think God wants you livingpaycheck to paycheck, like.
I believe that my God, he doesnot want me in the projects
forever.
I believe that he does not wantme on food stamps.
I believe that God does notwant me on government assistance
.
So I am still programming mymind every day and I'm still
(07:13):
planting that seed in my brainthat I am more for the lifestyle
that I'm currently living andthat's what makes me delusional,
but that's what makes memanifest my dream life.
I may not have it right now,but I have it in my mind.
Once I have it in my mind and Ikeep visualizing it and I keep
putting in the work and I keeptalking to God, it's gonna
(07:34):
happen, it's gonna happen.
When I had my first brand new, Iwas crying.
I was crying.
I was like, wow, this is real.
Like I'm really getting paid.
Like this brand really wants tosponsor one of my YouTube
channel, they wanna sponsor mypodcast.
Like I'm telling you like it'sreal, if you really want
something for your life and itdoesn't always have to be about
(07:54):
money it could be family, itcould be love, it could be your
dream career, it could be thathouse.
Like, keep visualizing it,write about it, talk to God
about it, do the work and itwill happen for you.
You are not what your family is.
If your family is in poverty,your family they gave up on
their goals Doesn't mean thatthat's what you have to do.
You don't have to be that.
(08:15):
You don't have to do what theydid.
You could do things differently.
You could break the chain, youcould break the curse.
You could start building yourown wealth.
You could start living your ownvision.
You could start living your owndreams.
You can live.
Why just simply exists, why youonly got one life.
You might as well just go afterwhat you really want.
And yeah, I'm knowing my videos.
I wear makeup.
(08:35):
I didn't wanna wear makeuptoday because I just wanted to
talk to you.
I really wanted to talk to you,I really wanted to uplift you.
I wanted to give you out wordsthat would encourage you, that
would just make you feel goodand motivate you a little bit,
cause I know, for the supporters, for my viewers that really be
watching me, if you know thatyou are more than the life that
(08:56):
you currently have, you have itin you.
You have it in you Cause that'show I felt and I'm going after
what I want and you can too.
So if you like more contentlike this, please like comment
and subscribe.
Also, follow my TikTok, causewhen I'm not on YouTube, I'm on
TikTok.
I'm a post, a screenshot of myTikTok, but I love you and I
(09:16):
will see you on my next video.
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