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Yet, knowing our worth is only half the battle; acting on it is where the true challenge lies. I dive into the art of extricating ourselves from the grasp of negative influences, whether they be friends, family, or mere acquaintances. It takes courage to step out of the shadows of others and into the light of our own path, but it's a journey worth embarking on. As I explore the empowerment that blossoms when we remove toxic presences from our lives, you'll hear insights on how to navigate these trials with grace. This episode isn't just a conversation; it's a beacon for anyone yearning to choose self-love and peace over discord and discontent, to attract the right tribe that will rise with us. Join us as we embrace our self-worth and empower ourselves to walk away from what no longer serves our growth.
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Speaker 0 (00:05):
Ladies and gentlemen, when are you going to realize
that you are a walking trophy?
If you're watching my contentright now or you're listening to
this content on a podcast, whenare you going to understand
that you are very valuable andthat you matter in this world?
When you realize your worth asa person, you pay a price,
ladies, especially y'all.
(00:26):
I know y'all don't want tosettle and I know that you guys
are worthy of more, but pleasedo not minimize who you are and
lower your standards justbecause you are way too
impatient for more.
Ladies and gentlemen,especially women, just because
you are way too impatient towait for more, please do not
lower your standards.
Do not be desperate.
(00:47):
Don't just be with someone justto say that you have somebody.
I don't care if it's yourfriends.
I don't care if it's yourfamily.
I don't care if you got peoplearound you that are in
relationships and you feellonely and you feel like a third
wheel because you don't haveanybody.
Do not adapt to yourenvironment because you are way
too impatient.
For God's blessing.
(01:07):
Don't lower who you are as aperson just because you don't
want to be lonely anymore.
You don't lower yourself justto meet other people.
Understand that you are veryvaluable and that you are a
walking trophy.
And let me tell you this whenyou are really worthy and you
notice your self-worth, you dopay a price.
You're going to have peoplearound you whether it's your
(01:29):
friends, whether it's familythat they're going to tell you
oh, just be with this person soyou don't have to be alone.
Just be with this personbecause you don't want to be
single anymore.
Or just date this person sothat you can have somebody.
Don't lower your standards tomeet someone else.
That person has to rise, justlike you rise.
Just like you know yourself-worth, just like you know
(01:49):
that you are top tier, thatperson has to rise as well.
We are no longer tolerating BS.
We are no longer toleratinghalf relationships.
We are no longer toleratingtoxic relationships.
Understand that when you rise tothe top, you are going to lose
people along the way, and thatis okay.
It's okay to outgrow people.
(02:10):
If you got people in yourcorner right now and they're
just bringing drama into yourlife, they're just bringing
toxic energy.
They're just bringing you down.
They're just minimizing who youare as a person.
Unfollow them.
Remove yourself from thosesituations when you guys are
doing what's best for you whenyou are choosing yourself.
Don't question god.
Why are you losing people alongthe way?
You're not losing anyone alongthe way.
(02:32):
God is just removing the snakes.
God is removing people that arenot serving you.
God is removing people that donot align with who you are
anymore.
Notice that when you become thebest cute version of yourself
the people that once was withyou they cannot relate to you
anymore.
They do not resonate with thehighest, newest version of you.
They don't relate to the hugeversion of you.
(02:53):
So notice that you are awalking trophy.
Don't adapt to your environmentbecause everyone else is doing
it.
You are not a bandwagon person.
You were not meant to fit in.
You were meant to stand out.
So many people are justfollowing the crowd.
So many people are justfollowing the trend.
So many people just jumping onpeople's bandwagon Cut off
(03:13):
access from people that do notneed access from you.
You are not the person that isgoing to be around everyone's
face and be around everyone elseand do what everyone else is
doing.
You are different.
Notice how valuable is doing.
You are different.
Notice how valuable you are.
You weren't meant to fit in.
You were simply meant to standout.
You were meant to be different.
You were meant to be great.
You were meant to be unique.
Your path is going to be alittle bit harder, because God
(03:36):
got so much more for you.
God got so much more blessingsfor you.
So stop trying to followeveryone else around you.
Who cares if they settled intheir relationship?
So stop trying to followeveryone else around you who
cares if they settled in theirrelationship?
Who cares if they don't followtheir goals?
Who cares if they don't have avision?
Don't be like them.
Don't ever minimize who you are, just so you can fit in with
the crowd that you are in.
This is the first time that I amsingle in a long time, and I've
(04:00):
just learned so much aboutmyself.
I have so much more peace.
I have so much more peace.
I have so much more clarity.
And let me tell you somethingIn my single season, I learned
to love myself so much more.
I've learned to pour thatenergy back into myself, because
when I was in theserelationships that were so toxic
to myself, that were so toxicto my mental health, I felt so
(04:21):
drained.
I felt like I was losing myself.
I didn't even know who I wasanymore.
I didn't even love myself.
I didn't even value myselfbecause I was accepting so much
disrespect.
I was accepting the bareminimum.
And sometimes it don't even bethe relationships that you are
in.
It'd be the friendships, it'dbe the people that you surround
yourself with, just because theysettled for less.
Why do you have to?
(04:42):
Just because they're miserablein their relationships and
that's okay to them?
Why do you have to be miserableJust because they don't want to
follow their passion and theydon't want to get up and they
don't want to grind forthemselves?
Why do you have to follow?
Just because you're in thisfamily and these family are so
toxic to you, these familymembers are not good for you
does not mean you have to keeptolerating them.
(05:03):
There is such thing as lovingpeople from a distance.
There is such thing asoutgrowing people.
Don't let anyone make you feellike you're mean, like you're a
bad person, because you don'twant to be around part of that
crowd anymore.
Sometimes God puts you indifficult paths so that he can
put you in the right path.
You're going to be in adifficult journey, meeting toxic
(05:24):
people, but that journey is toget you to the right path.
That journey is to get you tothe right destination.
Don't let family members, don'tlet toxic relatives block you
from your blessings.
Don't let these friendshipsthat you are settling with that
you know you deserve more.
You know that you deservebetter.
You know that these people arenot bringing any type of peace
or value into your life blockyou from your path.
(05:47):
You are not a bandwagon person,so just understand that you are
very valuable.
Your presence alone is morethan enough.
And if people around you cannotsee your worth and they cannot
see your value, people aroundyou make you feel like you gotta
diminish who you are.
If people just wants to dim yourlight, if people do not want
what's best for you, you need toremove yourself from those
(06:09):
situations.
You need to change your company.
A lot of y'all be around yourcompany and, yeah, notice, when
you're not around this companyanymore, you, you guys feel
bothered, you guys feel anxiety,you guys feel stressed out.
You guys have that negativespirit.
It's because that's yourintuition is trying to tell you
you should not be around thesepeople anymore.
These people are not good foryou.
There is a time in your lifethat when you wanna level up,
(06:32):
that, when you wanna do so muchbetter for yourself, that when
you just choose you, that whenyou just choose you, that when
you heal, that, when you reallylove yourself more and you just
get to a point in your lifewhere you want peace, you
realize that a lot of thesepeople are not for you.
And if you keep rising to thetop, you're going to realize a
lot of people is going to falloff in your process because they
(06:53):
weren't meant to be in thathuge, best version of yourself.
So stop complaining to God andstop getting mad at the process.
Notice that the process isprocessing and God is just
removing people that were notmeant to be in the next version
of yourself, in the huge versionof yourself.
Notice that you are valuable.
(07:13):
Do not settle for anything,anything that does not meet your
alignment.
Do not settle for anything thatyou do not want to Just because
the world is desperate rightnow and they just want someone
just to have anybody.
You do not adapt to yourenvironment.
You keep rising and if yourenvironment makes you feel less
than you, are in the wrongenvironment.
(07:34):
But you should always feel thatwithin you don't need other
people's validation.
You don't need other people'sapproval.
And if you like this content,please like, comment and
subscribe, and I'll be back formore videos.
Also, check out my Amazonstorefront.
It will be linked in thedescription below.
(08:08):
Bye.
Ladies and gentlemen, when are you going to realize
that you are a walking trophy?
If you're watching my contentright now or you're listening to
this content on a podcast, whenare you going to understand
that you are very valuable andthat you matter in this world?
When you realize your worth asa person, you pay a price,
ladies, especially y'all.
(00:26):
I know y'all don't want tosettle and I know that you guys
are worthy of more, but pleasedo not minimize who you are and
lower your standards justbecause you are way too
impatient for more.
Ladies and gentlemen,especially women, just because
you are way too impatient towait for more, please do not
lower your standards.
Do not be desperate.
(00:47):
Don't just be with someone justto say that you have somebody.
I don't care if it's yourfriends.
I don't care if it's yourfamily.
I don't care if you got peoplearound you that are in
relationships and you feellonely and you feel like a third
wheel because you don't haveanybody.
Do not adapt to yourenvironment because you are way
too impatient.
For God's blessing.
(01:07):
Don't lower who you are as aperson just because you don't
want to be lonely anymore.
You don't lower yourself justto meet other people.
Understand that you are veryvaluable and that you are a
walking trophy.
And let me tell you this whenyou are really worthy and you
notice your self-worth, you dopay a price.
You're going to have peoplearound you whether it's your
(01:29):
friends, whether it's familythat they're going to tell you
oh, just be with this person soyou don't have to be alone.
Just be with this personbecause you don't want to be
single anymore.
Or just date this person sothat you can have somebody.
Don't lower your standards tomeet someone else.
That person has to rise, justlike you rise.
Just like you know yourself-worth, just like you know
(01:49):
that you are top tier, thatperson has to rise as well.
We are no longer tolerating BS.
We are no longer toleratinghalf relationships.
We are no longer toleratingtoxic relationships.
Understand that when you rise tothe top, you are going to lose
people along the way, and thatis okay.
It's okay to outgrow people.
(02:10):
If you got people in yourcorner right now and they're
just bringing drama into yourlife, they're just bringing
toxic energy.
They're just bringing you down.
They're just minimizing who youare as a person.
Unfollow them.
Remove yourself from thosesituations when you guys are
doing what's best for you whenyou are choosing yourself.
Don't question god.
Why are you losing people alongthe way?
You're not losing anyone alongthe way.
(02:32):
God is just removing the snakes.
God is removing people that arenot serving you.
God is removing people that donot align with who you are
anymore.
Notice that when you become thebest cute version of yourself
the people that once was withyou they cannot relate to you
anymore.
They do not resonate with thehighest, newest version of you.
They don't relate to the hugeversion of you.
(02:53):
So notice that you are awalking trophy.
Don't adapt to your environmentbecause everyone else is doing
it.
You are not a bandwagon person.
You were not meant to fit in.
You were meant to stand out.
So many people are justfollowing the crowd.
So many people are justfollowing the trend.
So many people just jumping onpeople's bandwagon Cut off
(03:13):
access from people that do notneed access from you.
You are not the person that isgoing to be around everyone's
face and be around everyone elseand do what everyone else is
doing.
You are different.
Notice how valuable is doing.
You are different.
Notice how valuable you are.
You weren't meant to fit in.
You were simply meant to standout.
You were meant to be different.
You were meant to be great.
You were meant to be unique.
Your path is going to be alittle bit harder, because God
(03:36):
got so much more for you.
God got so much more blessingsfor you.
So stop trying to followeveryone else around you.
Who cares if they settled intheir relationship?
So stop trying to followeveryone else around you who
cares if they settled in theirrelationship?
Who cares if they don't followtheir goals?
Who cares if they don't have avision?
Don't be like them.
Don't ever minimize who you are, just so you can fit in with
the crowd that you are in.
This is the first time that I amsingle in a long time, and I've
(04:00):
just learned so much aboutmyself.
I have so much more peace.
I have so much more peace.
I have so much more clarity.
And let me tell you somethingIn my single season, I learned
to love myself so much more.
I've learned to pour thatenergy back into myself, because
when I was in theserelationships that were so toxic
to myself, that were so toxicto my mental health, I felt so
(04:21):
drained.
I felt like I was losing myself.
I didn't even know who I wasanymore.
I didn't even love myself.
I didn't even value myselfbecause I was accepting so much
disrespect.
I was accepting the bareminimum.
And sometimes it don't even bethe relationships that you are
in.
It'd be the friendships, it'dbe the people that you surround
yourself with, just because theysettled for less.
Why do you have to?
(04:42):
Just because they're miserablein their relationships and
that's okay to them?
Why do you have to be miserableJust because they don't want to
follow their passion and theydon't want to get up and they
don't want to grind forthemselves?
Why do you have to follow?
Just because you're in thisfamily and these family are so
toxic to you, these familymembers are not good for you
does not mean you have to keeptolerating them.
(05:03):
There is such thing as lovingpeople from a distance.
There is such thing asoutgrowing people.
Don't let anyone make you feellike you're mean, like you're a
bad person, because you don'twant to be around part of that
crowd anymore.
Sometimes God puts you indifficult paths so that he can
put you in the right path.
You're going to be in adifficult journey, meeting toxic
(05:24):
people, but that journey is toget you to the right path.
That journey is to get you tothe right destination.
Don't let family members, don'tlet toxic relatives block you
from your blessings.
Don't let these friendshipsthat you are settling with that
you know you deserve more.
You know that you deservebetter.
You know that these people arenot bringing any type of peace
or value into your life blockyou from your path.
(05:47):
You are not a bandwagon person,so just understand that you are
very valuable.
Your presence alone is morethan enough.
And if people around you cannotsee your worth and they cannot
see your value, people aroundyou make you feel like you gotta
diminish who you are.
If people just wants to dim yourlight, if people do not want
what's best for you, you need toremove yourself from those
(06:09):
situations.
You need to change your company.
A lot of y'all be around yourcompany and, yeah, notice, when
you're not around this companyanymore, you, you guys feel
bothered, you guys feel anxiety,you guys feel stressed out.
You guys have that negativespirit.
It's because that's yourintuition is trying to tell you
you should not be around thesepeople anymore.
These people are not good foryou.
There is a time in your lifethat when you wanna level up,
(06:32):
that, when you wanna do so muchbetter for yourself, that when
you just choose you, that whenyou just choose you, that when
you heal, that, when you reallylove yourself more and you just
get to a point in your lifewhere you want peace, you
realize that a lot of thesepeople are not for you.
And if you keep rising to thetop, you're going to realize a
lot of people is going to falloff in your process because they
(06:53):
weren't meant to be in thathuge, best version of yourself.
So stop complaining to God andstop getting mad at the process.
Notice that the process isprocessing and God is just
removing people that were notmeant to be in the next version
of yourself, in the huge versionof yourself.
Notice that you are valuable.
(07:13):
Do not settle for anything,anything that does not meet your
alignment.
Do not settle for anything thatyou do not want to Just because
the world is desperate rightnow and they just want someone
just to have anybody.
You do not adapt to yourenvironment.
You keep rising and if yourenvironment makes you feel less
than you, are in the wrongenvironment.
(07:34):
But you should always feel thatwithin you don't need other
people's validation.
You don't need other people'sapproval.
And if you like this content,please like, comment and
subscribe, and I'll be back formore videos.
Also, check out my Amazonstorefront.
It will be linked in thedescription below.
(08:08):
Bye.
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