Stop Chasing Abundance — Start Becoming It

Most people are trying to manifest abundance through strategy, effort, and repetition...
 More vision boards. More affirmations. More mindset hacks.
 But if you’re still stuck in the same loop, repeating the same patterns, you’re not alone—and it’s not because something is wrong with you.

In this soul-fueled episode, I share the raw truth I had to learn the hard way:

Abundance doesn’t come from force.
 It flows through frequency.

You’ll hear my personal story of waking up in fear, rebuilding from rock bottom, and the moment I finally understood that manifesting isn’t about chasing what you want—it’s about becoming who you truly are.

I’ll walk you through the Abundancing formula:
 🌀 Awareness – Resistance = Desire Abundancing
…and how aligning your nervous system with your soul is the key to unlocking prosperity in health, wealth, peace, relationships, and purpose.

Whether you’re new to this path or deep in the journey, this episode is a transmission—designed to activate the remembrance within you.

You are abundance.
Let’s turn the signal up.

🎟️ Ready to go deeper? Join my 2-day live workshop:
🌀 The Soul-Flow Abundancing Experience
👉 drtomhaving.com/abundance-party

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Episode Transcript

Dr. Tom (00:00):
Most people are trying to manifest abundance by chasing
it.
Just more strategy, more books,more hustle, more videos, more
affirmations, more visionboards, and it's not working.
So you're wondering if somethingwrong with me, I, and just not
have connection to that essence,that source, the God light life

(00:24):
that.
Is helping other peoplemanifest, like why are others
getting what they want?
And I can't.
I spent the majority of my lifewaking up every morning feeling
rushed, fight or flight, worriedthat something was gonna go
wrong, just waking up almost ina panic.
It's hard to sleep.
I've had many periods of my lifewhere everything was horrible

(00:47):
and I built it back up to good.
I've even had periods wherethings were great.
Money, relationship, house,wife, kids, you name it.
And then it came crashing down.
I've learned that it was allbecause of me and my vibrational
frequency, energy alignment withsource.

(01:11):
So let's talk about manifest.
And by the way, my name is Dr.
Tom Hing, actually ThomasMiller, but I've recently become
a doctor of Metaphysic.
But this is stuff that you don'tneed a doctorate to know.
It's stuff we already know.
We just forget.
So I'm not here to teach youanything, convince you of
anything, sell you anything,just here to help you remember

(01:35):
what if the real secret isn't toget abundance, but to become it.
I mean, true freedom for memeans not having to worry about
money.
Your health, your relationships,peace of mind, your purpose,
alignment, just feeling at easebecause you're aligned with who

(01:58):
you truly are and where you'retruly going.
But manifesting that can seemhard if you feel very far
removed from it.
Here's what I've learned.
It's not about the actions wedo.
It's not even just the thoughtswe think.
It's actually becoming theenergy vibration that aligns

(02:24):
with our soul desire.
So abundance is isn't adestination.
It's not somewhere you getthere, you, you are never done
and you can't get it wrong.
Abundance is your frequency,your vibration.
It's your natural state.
You are born abundant.
So whether you're trying to havemore abundance in your health,

(02:45):
your finances, your career.
Your alignment with purpose,your relationships, your peace
of mind, your mental andphysical and emotional health.
I have a simple equation that'sgonna help you, a formula, if
you will.
Now, we've been taught that ifyou think positive and just work

(03:07):
really hard, we'll finallyarrive at this magical place
called prosperity abundance.
But here's the truth, and no onetold you.
We don't attract what we want.
We attract what we are.
You don't attract what you want.
You attract what you are.
And most of us, especially ifyou grow up in a poor family,

(03:28):
especially if people told youmoney doesn't grow on trees,
especially if you've beenoverweight and not healthy for a
long time, you start thinking,well, the same things you
thought the day before, themonth before, the year before.
We keep repeating the samethoughts again and again and
again.
The same beliefs again and againand again.

(03:48):
And the same emotionalvibrations that go with those
thoughts.
And that means we're tuned intothe frequency of our past,
present self, like the lifewe're experiencing today, this
life experience as a result ofour past present thinking,
feeling, believing, andintending.
That's our past present self,and that's usually fear, lack.

(04:11):
Fear of not being enough, nothaving enough.
And this loops our nervoussystem.
It's our nervous system caughtin a subconscious loop of old
programs, which is repeating thesame familiar past again and
again.
The body's carrying the imprintof survival and familiarity.

(04:36):
And so we keep, even though wewant more and we know more is
possible, we keep repeating thesame programs.
It's like our energy is stillaligned with the past, and how
can we build a new future, amore abundant future if we're

(04:57):
stuck in the energy systems ofthe past?
We can't.
That's why people are stuck.
That's why I was stuck, andthere is definitely a way out.
I call it abundancing.
Abundancing isn't just amindset.
It's not about forcing, fixing,or faking it.
Abundancing is energeticfrequency alignment, soul-flow

(05:18):
alignment.
I'm gonna call it your soul.
Call it your presence.
Call it your essence.
Call it awareness.
I like that.
It is our connection to thenon-physical non five sensory
energy.
It exists.
Quantum mechanics proves it.
That's topic for a differentvideo.
We have a quantum, non-physical,spiritual energy surrounding us

(05:42):
that we can access at any time.
And when we align with that,that's when we start
Abundancing.
So here's the formula I teacheveryone I work with, and here
it is for you.
Now, awareness minus resistanceequals your desire abundance.
Awareness and that's beyond yourfive senses, minus resistance.

(06:07):
Those are the old programs,equals your desire, fulfilled,
desire, abundance.
That means when you become awareof what's real and true and you
release programs that areblocking the flow, your natural
desire begins to form.
It begins to flow.
You begin to see it in thephysical world.

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But it's all energetic.
There's no judgment.
No one is up on a throne sittingin the heavens judging you,
whether you're worthy or not.
No, we only judge ourselves, andif we're judging, we're not in
the alignment energy ofAbundancing.
Your natural desire is your souldesire.

(06:49):
You are born with.
It is already in existence.
If you can observe it, itexists.
It's a matter of aligning yourenergy systems with it.
That's the secret.
You are this frequency and it isthere already.
It's just tuning into that radiostation that it's playing on.
That's why I call it AbunDancingdancing it out because you're

(07:11):
dancing to the music you want tohear and you're feeling the way
you want to feel, and you'reliving the life that you desire
because you are finally tunedinto the right frequency.
Call radio station.
I wanna help you because justknowing this on a cognitive
conscious thinking level, it'sgreat, but it doesn't put it

(07:36):
into action.
That's called embodiment oralignment.
When you take the knowledge andyou put into action and you
start seeing the results of it,but aligned action means
aligning with the thoughts andthe feelings and the intentions
of that frequency.
It's simple awareness minusresistance equals your desire.

(07:58):
Fulfilled abundance is a verb,it is a noun, and it's a state
of being.
So I'm inviting you to join mefor a two day live workshop, a
hundred percent free.
And I mean, this is not justanother webinar about mindset
training.
Nothing wrong with them, butuntil the pavement hits the

(08:19):
road, until you put it intoaction.
It's just more informationcluttering your mind, so it's a
two day energetic experience.
I'm gonna help you activate yourprosperity frequency, whether
you wanna have more abundancewith your health, your wealth,
your career, your relationships,Peace of presence, your mental

(08:41):
and emotional health.
Start with the one that mattersmost and grow out from there.
But this means aligning yournervous system with your soul.
This means aligning yourprograms, the reactive programs
that have been running the show,subconscious shadow, trauma, all
that, aligning it with yoursoul.

(09:03):
That's how we're gonna transformyour soul desire into form.
You can see and experiencewithout any force.
I'm gonna help you reclaim yourpower to create, to create
prosperity in a way that worksfor you.
So maybe you have a job youlike, maybe you hate your job,
you wanna shift, maybe you wannastart your own business.

(09:24):
So whether you're building abusiness or simply feeling the
nudge to live more on purpose,this workshop is your permission
slip.
You have permission to rememberwho you truly are.
Again, I'm not here to teach youanything or convince you
anything.
If this does not feel resonant,it's not resonating with you at
all.
Doesn't apply.

(09:45):
Let it fly.
But if it does, you're simplyremembering what your energetic
field of intelligence is alwaysknown.
You don't need a funnel.
You don't need to fakeconfidence.
You don't need to wait.
You just need a yes, a hell yesto the part of you that already

(10:07):
has it, a part of you that, thatversion of you that already
exists.
It's just now becoming aware ofit.
Removing the resistance andallowing your desire to start
Abundancing.
I mean, just ask yourself, whatwould it feel like to become
abundance, to become magnetic,to vibrate in that energy all

(10:30):
day long, every day and everyway.
I mean, what would it feel liketo stop chasing, struggling, and
start radiating everything'senergy.
You don't need to fix anything.
You don't need to become more.
You just need to become aware.
It all starts with awareness,and if you're still watching

(10:51):
this, if something's stirring inyour chest and your belly and
your gut, that's your heart gut,brain coherence coming together
then I believe you're ready.
Ready to a AbunDance,AbunDancing.
You don't have to dance, but youdo have to align with a
different frequency than you'vebeen on.

(11:12):
You're ready to abunDance.
You're ready to let your soulflow.
You're ready to remember thenI'm ready to show you what's
been working for me and for theother people that I've been
fortunate enough to work withover the past months.
So there's a link.
Click it to reserve your spot.
It's free, it's sacred, and it'sfor you.
Let's turn your Abundancingsignal up.

(11:35):
Let's abunDance together.
Dancing in mind.
Dancing in body, dancing in thelight that we all share
Abundancing'cause I care.
Thank you.
I love you.
I'll see you on the inside.