Who Started It? The Never-Ending Mystery of Couple Fights (We Both Lose!)

Jenny and Vic, who have been together for over 20 years and share five children, openly discuss a recent loud argument they had, reflecting on the recurring nature of their fights despite the longevity of their relationship. They consider their progress in handling disputes, including the use of a therapist-recommended 'password' to take breaks during heated moments, which they admit to forgetting in the heat of the moment. The discussion delves into the impact of their arguments on their children, the importance of setting a good example, and the emotional aftermath of such disputes. Vic and Jenny also touch on insecurities and fears of separation, while humorously navigating through their differences and shared moments. The conversations highlight the complexities of long-term relationships, the challenge of communication, and the ongoing effort to improve and understand each other better, all within the tapestry of family life and love. 00:00 The Aftermath of a Heated Argument 00:15 Reflecting on Relationship Dynamics and Arguments 01:40 The Impact of Arguments on Children 02:35 The Struggle with Communication and Resolution 08:02 Revisiting the Argument: Who Started It? 09:08 Post-Argument Actions and Reassurances 09:52 Dealing with Trust and Infidelity Concerns 12:10 Maturity and Moving Forward 12:53 Opening Up About Personal Struggles 13:02 The Aftermath of a Heated Argument 13:51 Finding Humor in Neighborly Observations 14:59 The Reality of Couple Fights and Communication 15:54 A Public Argument and Its Consequences 20:24 Reflecting on Respect and Communication in Relationships 23:04 The Importance of Shielding Children from Arguments 24:25 Understanding Emotional Needs and Communication in Relationships----Across the Web----   🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711   🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0   🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life   🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life