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Rose Oates (00:04):
Welcome to Bearing
it All with Rose and Crystal.
Chrystal Russell (00:07):
Where the
conversations get real emotions
run raw and nothing is filtered.
Rose Oates (00:12):
Buckle up, because
we're Bearing it All deep,
diving into everything frommotherhood to mental health and
everything in between.
We want to get to know you,each other and our bodies, and
things are going to get spicy.
Chrystal Russell (00:25):
Are you ready
for it?
Rose Oates (00:26):
Let's do it.
Today we're chatting withJessica Lynn, a no-nonsense
medium renowned for herdown-to-earth approach and
remarkable ability to connectthe living and the spirit world.
Using a mix of deep insight andpractical wisdom, she helps
people reconnect with loved oneswho have passed away.
Jessica also has a uniquepractice involving limes to
boost energy and improve sleep.
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She's worked with celebrities,athletes, business leaders, and
her online sessions reachclients from around the globe,
featured on major media like theMorning Show, the Australian
and Marie Claire, just to name afew.
Jessica's straightforward, noBS style and spiritual insights
have made a big impact worldwideand we're thrilled to have her
on today.
Welcome back to Bearing it Allwith Rose and Crystal.
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Today, I have a guest here thatI've wanted to have on for ages
Jessica Lynn the medium.
Welcome to the pod.
Jessica Lynne (01:20):
Thank you, I'm so
excited to talk to you guys
Long time coming.
I know we just needed excitedto talk to you guys Long time
coming.
Chrystal Russell (01:24):
I know, we
just needed to get our butts
into gear and also we werefreaking the F out about doing a
Zoom.
Yeah.
Rose Oates (01:30):
I know I was like
technology.
It's not our jam.
Jessica Lynne (01:33):
Not really, you
nailed it Eventually.
Rose Oates (01:36):
Well, hopefully this
actually works, because
otherwise Otherwise, we've justhad a personal one-on-one chat
with Jessica Lee.
I'm fine either way.
Gal, honestly, you've done areading for me in the past,
which is how I got to know youfollowed.
You absolutely loved that andI've loved you ever since.
Like you are a no bullshitapproach to life, to the spirit
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world.
I feel like it's just sodifferent to what we're used to.
It's not like the hippie, Imean, like I love a crystal too,
but like the crystals and theyou know saging and stuff, and
that we have to be so seriousabout it.
You have been on numerousamounts of media, you're
internationally renowned and youhave a viral lime hack.
Chrystal Russell (02:27):
I was like I'm
interested in this.
Rose Oates (02:29):
I know, okay.
So who would have thought?
Who would have thought limes?
She's gone viral over the limes.
So, from what I hear and whatI've listened to you speak about
, is that limes, like, cancreate better energy in the
bedroom specifically.
Chrystal Russell (02:47):
I thought
limes were like sour and like no
one wants it.
Rose Oates (02:52):
Who knows, I don't
know what kind of energy, not
that energy in the bedroom, Idon't know.
But, jess, can you fill us inwhy limes in the bedroom work
for better energy and bettersleep?
Jessica Lynne (03:03):
Yes, so limes are
an amazing cleansing agent.
So they rid negative energieslike fear-based energies, bad
spirits, anyone that doesn'tbelong in your home.
So it's not just in the bedroom, it's in your home as well.
So if there's funky energy inthere or everyone's fighting or
it's just like weird vibes, ifyou have weird people come into
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your house and you're like ugh,like that was just not good,
this is a way to like clear itall out.
So limes are great for that.
Chrystal Russell (03:32):
I'm going to
the farmer's market tomorrow,
okay.
Rose Oates (03:36):
Plant a tree.
Chrystal Russell (03:38):
I know, do we
need to?
Rose Oates (03:39):
plant a limes.
So is there a specific way thatwe have to do this, like, is
there somewhere in the homespecifically that you've got to
put them, or what do we do?
Chrystal Russell (03:46):
Do you cut
them up?
Do you just put them in a bowl?
Do you put them on your bed?
What's the go?
Jessica Lynne (03:50):
So it all started
in the bedroom, as you've said.
So the reason why this all cameto be was because I had a
really negative entity that wasattached to me.
So one morning I was just likelaying in bed really early, Jade
, my wife had just gone to workand then I felt like I was kind
of half asleep and I felt likesomeone come in the room and I
was like, oh, maybe she's comeback, like she doesn't feel well
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or something.
I was like, oh well, I'll justgo back to sleep.
And then I felt like her sit onthe bed and I was like right.
And then I felt like this breathon my neck and like this
scratch down my back and I waslike, hang on.
I'm like I feel really weird.
Now.
I don't think this is her.
I'm like this is like freakingscary.
Who the hell is in my room,like freaked out, and I thought
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I've got to get the hell out ofhere.
I've either got to like pretendI'm asleep or run and I'm like
you know what?
I'm just going to the.
No, I got up and I was like I'mgonna sage and palo santo and
do an exorcism and do whatever.
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I need to do it again, whateverthe hell.
This was out of my bedroom, outof my life, um, and so I did all
the things and then I was likenah, there's something still
going on.
So I was like I'm, there'ssomething still going on.
So I was like I'm just going tocall my kinesiologist and be
like you need to see me, youneed to like figure out what the
hell's attached to me.
And she tried a whole heap ofdifferent things and then, right
at the end, she put limeessential oil on my feet and I
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instantly felt better and I waslike this is weird.
She's like look, just take somehome on like a little cotton
swab tonight, put it by your bedand just see how you go.
And I was like, look, I'm goingto do you one better.
I'm going to get a lime and I'mgoing to cut it in half and I'm
going to put the two halves ina dish beside my bed and just
hope that it soaks up all thevibes and that thing never comes
back.
And I slept really well.
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And then I started sharing it.
I was like, guys, you shouldtry putting lime in your room.
Like it just gave me reallysound sleep.
It rid this entity.
So all these people startedtrying it and then all these
mums started trying it for theirkids going.
Do you think it will help ourkids sleep?
And I'm like, well, from whatI've read when I've done the
research now, so many culturesuse lime as like a cleansing
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tool and so people are like look, let's just put it in our kids'
rooms, Kids are now sleepingfor like 12 hours straight.
Shit, you need some limes.
They're saying there's no moremonsters Send me limes no more
hauntings.
Chrystal Russell (06:08):
Listen, I've
heard of onions in the bedroom
like to get rid of, like chestinfections and stuff, but now
the limes, yeah.
Rose Oates (06:18):
I need some limes.
Do you think as well with thekids' side of things?
Is it because kids are morespiritually open when they're
younger?
Because my kids don't sleep bythe way.
Yes, definitely.
Jessica Lynne (06:29):
Definitely they
are.
They're more intuitive, they'reswitched on, they're not
clouded like we are as adults,like with all of the busyness,
and we don't pick up on thingsthat they do, because they've
got that like raw kind of energy.
So, yeah, they tend to attachto kids and kids feel things and
sense things more.
So you've got to be cleansingthe hell out of your house and I
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would be adding lime to theshopping list, but also I'm
about to drop a whole lot oflime.
Rose Oates (06:56):
That's what we want
to know.
You, cheeky devil, I've seenthis account pop up and I was
like this has got to be you, socan we get a sneaky like little
you know, first drop here Firstof all what is the Instagram
handle?
Chrystal Russell (07:15):
It's called
the.
Jessica Lynne (07:16):
Lime Glow.
So it's all things limeinspired by the lime hack, and
I'm bringing out some productsthat will help you to cleanse
your space.
So, for those people who don'twant to put physical limes in
their house they're worriedabout fruit flies and all that
jazz I have the answer to yourprayers.
So it's coming in like just alittle while and all right, I'll
(07:41):
tell you guys.
Chrystal Russell (07:42):
You are the
first people to know.
By the way, we just squeezed itout of you.
Did you hear that?
All right, I'll tell you guys.
You are the first people toknow by the way, publicly, we
just squeezed it out of you.
Did you hear that it did?
Oh my God, you fucking.
Rose Oates (07:50):
I like that.
I like that, love a pun.
Jessica Lynne (07:55):
So I am dropping
a lime-scented candle with
physical lime in it Wow, I'm inlove with that.
Rose Oates (08:04):
I love something
that looks good and does the job
.
Jessica Lynne (08:07):
Yes, is that the
wrong thing to say?
Rose Oates (08:09):
That sounds so
fucking wrong, doesn't it?
Oh?
Chrystal Russell (08:12):
my God.
Well, you love things that dothe job so you know, that's true
.
Rose Oates (08:17):
Okay, so a
lime-scented candle with
physical limes in it that we canburn in our home, that will do
the same sort of you know, thesame thing.
So after I physically clean myhouse, like I do on a Wednesday,
I can light a lime candle, soto speak.
You know how you light a candleafter you clean and then
cleanse the fucking, the vibesand the spiritual energy.
Chrystal Russell (08:38):
I think we
need one in every room.
I think we need one at work.
Sometimes we need one at work100%, because there's a lot of
energy.
Jessica Lynne (08:44):
They work a charm
.
I've been like obviouslytesting them myself and because
I can feel all the vibes, I usethem when I'm reading for people
now, like it's a thing, it justclears everything out that
doesn't belong, and because it'slike, basically, you know it's
dosed with lime essential oil tothe shit, like you've got that
much in there that it really islike an exorcism for your home.
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And then you've got thephysical lime in there as well,
which adds to the potency.
But it smells beautiful, itlooks amazing.
And then there's some otherthings I have in the pipeline
too that will be coming.
But yeah, guys.
Chrystal Russell (09:18):
I just got a
vision of like you bringing out
something that you're.
No, I'm not going to say it.
I'm going to DM you, just incase you're not thinking about
it.
It's a good idea.
Rose Oates (09:25):
Yeah, do it.
Okay, drop that handle againbecause we will release this
after it releases.
Yes, it's thelimeglow onInstagram.
You heard it here first.
I'm bearing it on.
You literally did yeah, quiteliterally Love that.
Thank you, literally did.
Yeah, quite literally, lovethat.
Thank you so much for sharingthat.
Which brings me to you and yourpsychic medium abilities, like
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how do you actually channelpeople or spirits?
Like I know that everybody'sdifferent.
Can you like expand more abouthow you physically do it or how
it comes to you?
Jessica Lynne (10:00):
So usually I will
see more than anything else.
So I have quite.
It's almost like you know, whenyou get like flash images of
things or you just see thingslike in your mind, like you
might go, oh, you think ofsomeone and just get like an
image of them.
That's what it's like for mewhen I'm reading.
They just show me objects orflashes of things and then I
might feel something like spirittend to affect my physical body
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, so they might hit me in thechest and they might make me
feel breathless and I'm like, oh, that's my symbol for someone
passing of the heart, lungs orchest, or they just they sort of
use your memories and yourphysical body as a way of giving
you the information.
So I might get flashes of likepeople that I've known before,
who have passed in a similar wayto your loved one, or you know,
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it's really clever the way thatthey use my own memories in
order to piece together thepuzzle for me for someone else.
Wow.
Chrystal Russell (10:55):
It's really
clever, but I always found it
weird.
Like are you so when you do aZoom with somebody, you're still
able to connect with themwithout being face-to-face.
Jessica Lynne (11:05):
Oh yeah, it's
exactly the same.
Wow, it's like sometimes it'salmost better when it's online,
because you're in a place thatfeels really comfortable to you,
wherever you are, and I'mobviously in the best place
where I feel comfortable, sowe're both chill, like you know
if you're in your car likeyou're not sitting in someone's
random house that you've justcome to and you're feeling a bit
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on edge like you're in yourzone.
So sometimes it can help to sortof give you that more of a
relaxed feeling so you're moreopen to the experience.
So it kind of just it workseither way.
Energy is energy.
It's not like bound by locationor time or anything like that.
Chrystal Russell (11:45):
And do you?
I'm so interested in all thisstuff, I know it's cool, like do
you hear voices at all, or youjust see.
Jessica Lynne (11:49):
Like, like you
said before, yeah, I don't hear
anybody else's voice, but I hearmy own.
So they might just saysomething to me and I'll, or I
might just see a word.
So they'll be like.
Or they might say to me youknow heart, or they'll say trust
, or they'll say something likeword.
So they'll be like, or theymight say to me you know heart,
or they'll say trust, or they'llsay something like that, and I
just know what the symbol is forthat, or I know what they mean
by it.
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And it's because I've built uplike, it's almost like you've
got a symbology kind of likekeyboard and they just keep
pressing all the differentsymbols and you know, which ones
mean what.
So it's quite clever the waythat I don't even know these
spirits and it's almost likethey come in and see my board
and they're like all right, thisis how I work with Jess.
Bang, bang, bang, bang bang andit just works.
Rose Oates (12:29):
Wow how long have
you had these abilities or that
you've known?
Has it always been there, or doyou feel like it's almost
developed and you've let it inover the years?
Jessica Lynne (12:41):
I think it's
always been there.
I just never really known whatto do with it.
So even when I was younger, Ihad really strong gut instinct,
great intuition, like I justknew things, and I was super
fascinated with this wholemediumship, spirituality.
I was going down that road bymyself before I even went into
this in this way, but it'sreally only been like five or so
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years that I've been tapping inin this way, so it hasn't been
that long.
But I honestly believe like Ihad to get to this point in my
life.
I had to hit like my 30s beforeI was ready to be able to do
this.
So sometimes people are like oh,don't you wish you could do it
sooner?
I'm like, not really, because Iwasn't the person I am today.
I didn't have all the knowledgeand experiences I need to be
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able to do it like this.
Rose Oates (13:28):
Love that.
I think there's somethingspecial about your 30s, though,
and I love that you've been withJade she gets real, oh my God.
And I'm about to tip over theedge into my 40s next year, so
I'm like oh special diving in.
I love that you've been withJade for so long.
Now she cracks me up Like she'sa part, like a part of your the
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social side of things that Ijust find like hilarious.
She reminds me a lot of Craig,in the sense, though, like she
created the sign that's aboveJess right now and it says I
talk to dead people.
She's got a great sense ofhumor.
Is she spiritual, or was sheeven like a believer of this?
Jessica Lynne (14:07):
No, absolutely
not.
Chrystal Russell (14:10):
She didn't
believe in shit.
How do you date someone thatdoesn't believe in it and just
be like, by the way, I speak todead people and she's like sure
thing, yeah, she's literally.
Jessica Lynne (14:18):
Well, this is the
thing I've always been into and
she's just accepted it.
She's like, oh yeah, whatever.
And then when I'm like, I thinkI'm going to like do this and
see what happens.
She's like oh yeah, and I'mlike well, I need someone to
practice on, so you're going tobe here.
And she was like, oh shit, I'mlike, yeah, so you sit here and
I'm going to channel for you.
And because I don't know likeher grandparents at all I've
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never met them, know nothingabout them so I sat there one
day with her and I'm like, okay,I see like this woman and I was
like I feel like it might beyour grandmother.
Anyway, her nonina came throughand she gave me a tour of her
house of what it looked like.
I'm like Jade, all I'm seeingis like this big yellow, long
thing in the kitchen.
I'm like I don't know what thehell this is.
If it's a piece of furniture,she's like, oh my God, she had
this really long round yellowbench.
Chrystal Russell (15:08):
Oh my.
Jessica Lynne (15:09):
God.
And I said and then I'm likewalking in and there's this big
glass cabinet and then she saysyou always used to lay on the
floor and then you use.
It's really funny.
I said I see you sucking onsomething.
So I said to her and she's likewhat?
I'm like there's this thing,it's like L-shaped, and you keep
like sucking on it.
I'm like what is this?
And she goes oh my God, I usedto like suck on my non-non's
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pipe because he used to havethis pipe.
Rose Oates (15:33):
I was like what
she's sucking?
Jessica Lynne (15:34):
Oh Lord you
should have seen me saying this
to her.
I'm like Jade, what is thisshit?
I'm like this is getting weird.
No, but she's like how wouldyou have known this stuff?
So it was almost like I madeher a believer in channeling
things that I wouldn't haveknown.
Yeah, like before and likememories from when she was like
tiny.
So she's like maybe there'ssomething to this.
Rose Oates (15:56):
Maybe maybe my
partner slash now.
Wife has actually got theseabilities, so now she just kind
of goes with it.
Jessica Lynne (16:03):
she's like yeah,
whatever, my wife's a witch.
Partner slash now wife hasactually got these abilities.
Yes, so now she just kind ofgoes with it.
She's like yeah, whatever, mywife's a witch.
Chrystal Russell (16:07):
She is what it
is Literally blows my mind.
I am literally covered ingoosebumps right now.
Rose Oates (16:11):
I know, isn't it
incredible?
And I just love the dynamic ofyous twos Crack me up and that's
what I was meaning, that's whatI wanted to know.
I was like how did you makeJade a believer?
So you had to just prove yourpoint.
Jessica Lynne (16:22):
I did.
I had to show her things andtell her stuff that I would not
have known.
It was the only way, and Ididn't even mean to.
It was when I had no idea whatI was doing and I was just
practicing like just hit andmiss, and things landed and the
rest is history.
Chrystal Russell (16:35):
I love it.
Have you ever done like groupreadings, like big group
readings, small group readings,anything like that?
Jessica Lynne (16:45):
Yes, I have done
quite a few group readings,
mostly around like I think mymaximum has been around like 15
people.
I haven't done any like biglive events or anything like
that, because I feel like I workbetter one-on-one I feel like
you just get a bit deeper.
But yeah, they're reallypopular.
People love them.
Have you guys been to groups?
Rose Oates (17:05):
We've done.
We've been to like a livereading recently, actually, we
went to a big live reading and Ithink there was 200 to 300
people in the room.
The energy I get quite badheadaches in those situations.
I don't know why, but it wasfull on, wasn't it Because?
Chrystal Russell (17:21):
you're picking
up on everything.
That's why.
But it was just like I wasgetting to the point where I was
like, come on next person,because he was bloody, telling
people you've got mould in yourshower, you need to take your
tiles off the wall, and I waslike they don't want to know
that.
Tell them something interesting.
Rose Oates (17:39):
It was, I think in
an hour and a half or so, I
think maybe got through fivepeople.
It was like three hours we werethere for three hours.
Chrystal Russell (17:46):
We were there
for three.
Yes, oh shit, what?
Yes, and it was like five orsix people.
He got through and theinformation, yes, whilst it was
like he knew the names, he knewwho it was, he knew how they
passed, he went into like randodetailsando details, that like.
Like if my somebody camethrough and was like, oh hey, um
, you got mold in your bathroom,I'd be like, yeah, cool, um,
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tell me something else.
Jessica Lynne (18:08):
Like yeah, I
totally get that.
Yeah, you know what, especiallyin like that environment, I
really try when I'm in a groupto make it like thick and fast.
Like you're in there, you makethe connection, you validate it,
you fly through the message andbecause when I'm in that
environment I want to getthrough as many people as I
possibly can, so you're in thatmindset of wanting to really hit
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where you need to hit.
Or like, do the burningplatforms like what are they
worried about?
Rose Oates (18:35):
or what are they?
Jessica Lynne (18:35):
observing, or who
do they want to know?
Rose Oates (18:37):
that they're
watching over is so important as
well.
Like and I think sometimes theyweren't hitting those
validation points.
Like there was validation insome people and other people
were just like I don't know whatyou're talking about.
Yeah, like I'm not getting it.
Chrystal Russell (18:50):
Like it might
be for future events and that
girl he was like you're going toJapan, but you're going to come
home early because there'sgoing to be an earthquake.
She was like oh great, I'llleave in two weeks.
Thanks for that.
Rose Oates (19:00):
And I know that
you're a person that doesn't
like to give bad news or, like alot of people, get really
freaked out about ever seeing amedium because they're like,
what if they tell me somethingbad, or will this change the
course of my future?
Chrystal Russell (19:15):
Me.
I'm like am I going to die Likenow?
Rose Oates (19:20):
No, that sounded
very like a no Okay wait you're
fine.
Jessica Lynne (19:27):
No, it is.
I feel like I hear a lot ofhorror stories of people saying,
oh, I saw this medium and shetold me that, like, my friend's
daughter is going to die andshe's going to choke and this is
going to happen.
Oh my god, I would never eatagain all these horrific things
and I'm like, oh my god, thesepeople are now like living in
constant fear of whatpotentially might be.
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Or I've actually heard someonesay when your son turns four,
someone's going to die, and sothe son's now five and they're
still waiting for whoever it isto die.
And it's like that was just nota thing, like wasn't necessary,
like I don't understand why.
Like, as for me personally, Ionly tap into what I feel you
need to know for your highestgood.
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So it's like, if you need toknow that maybe you need to
focus on this side of yourhealth, or maybe you need to be,
you know, going and reconcilingwith this person, or whatever,
you're getting what you need inthat moment to take you to the
next step.
It's not to take you to the inthat moment to take you to the
next step, it's not to take youto the end, it's to take you to
the next step.
Rose Oates (20:26):
It's not taking us
to the edge.
Jessica Lynne (20:28):
It's not right to
the edge.
Oh my God.
Chrystal Russell (20:31):
Well, I just
feel like if you tell like I get
, I've been to one before.
Amazing.
She said to me look, you needto really go to the doctor and
have your liver looked at.
I ended up having a cyst on myliver and I was like, thank you,
I wasn't going to die from it,but like just that, I checked
and I stopped drinking Red Bullfor a little bit.
Rose Oates (20:50):
For a little bit.
There you go, she's back on it.
She's back on it.
Apparently, sugar-free is goingto make all the difference,
guys.
Chrystal Russell (20:56):
Trying
something healthier.
Rose Oates (21:03):
Anyway.
But in saying that, like so,when you get like maybe a
warning, yeah, you're saying youjust want to present in the way
that it would be like for yourhighest good to maybe like help
and not hinder, because, yeah,you don't want to live in fear.
Nobody wants to live in fear.
Chrystal Russell (21:13):
That would
freak me the hell out.
Rose Oates (21:15):
Same.
And, for example, the way thatyou get messages.
This is something that's alwayslike.
Really interested me is can youchange your course messages?
This is something that's alwayslike in, like, like really
interested me is can you changeyour course?
So at the moment, I'm goinglike in this direction Now I get
my reading.
Obviously, like you can say,this is going to happen if you
keep going in the trajectorythat you're going, but say, for
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example, I get my reading andthen I go, you know what?
Then I'm actually going tostart exercising, or I'm going
to get my liver checked, or I'mgoing to stop drinking Red Bulls
.
Now you can change thattrajectory.
Is that correct?
Is that the right way ofthinking about it?
Jessica Lynne (21:51):
Oh for sure, and
I think too, sometimes spirit
are very clever they might saysomething to you because in a
way they want to trigger you alittle bit.
So then maybe you do changesomething.
So I think you hear whateveryou need to hear in that moment,
whether or not you resonatewith it or not, or not it's
going to give you some sort ofyou know, it's going to push you
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in a particular direction thatmaybe you need to go in.
So I always just think comewith an open mind and if not
everything lands, that's fine.
You don't have to takeeverything on, but the stuff
that does take with it, what youwill.
And yeah, you have free will.
We all do.
We can change things everysingle day.
But I think sometimes thesereadings are, you know, to give
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you hope or to give you a pieceof the puzzle you didn't have,
like it's not meant to, let'sjust say, completely change and,
you know, heal your whole life.
It's meant to sort of get youto that next step, whatever that
might be, and help you to feelless scared about it, or to give
you the courage you need toknow that you can like it's,
it's empowering.
That's how I like to thinkabout it.
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Yeah, I feel like it is.
Rose Oates (22:54):
It's empowering.
That's how I like to thinkabout it.
Yeah, I feel like it is.
It's really comforting, like Ilove the way you did my reading
and bringing up people, thatlike you know that someone loved
and that's over on the otherside, there is just nothing more
special than that.
Like how much it can touch you.
Or like bringing up thosevalidation moments and how much
joy it brings me.
Like and how much like becauseyou channeled my non, my nonna,
(23:19):
and I was very, very close toher, and how like there were
certain markers in my life thatit could only be and I was like,
not that, I'm a public figure.
Chrystal Russell (23:31):
Oh honey, she
is.
Rose Oates (23:33):
She is.
But there's things onlineespecially because you have read
for a lot of celebrities aswell, so you've really got to
make those validation likepoints for them To make it feel
like you didn't just Google them.
Jessica Lynne (23:45):
Yeah, yeah, I get
that a lot and, to be fair,
like, for me less is more.
I don't want to know anythingabout people before I read for
them, like, if I know some stuff, fine.
But I actually think it messesyou up, because when you're in
that moment you're going did Ialready know that?
Or is that actually somethingI'm getting from spirit?
So it makes you get in yourhead, especially in the digital
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world.
Rose Oates (24:06):
I prefer to just go
with it.
Yeah, like it's so digital atthe moment.
That's where I find like I feellike people are.
Chrystal Russell (24:17):
You can Google
.
Yeah, that's right, Like youcan literally Google anybody.
But I feel like if you getthose things like the yellow
counter and the pipe hanging outof her mouth like no one's
going to know that stuff, I knowit's incredible.
Jessica Lynne (24:22):
No, I know, and
this is why I always ask Spirit
too, particularly when I'mreading for someone who is a bit
of a public figure, I'm likeyou are going to have to show up
and you're going to have totell me that maybe they've been
thinking or things that they'vebeen feeling, or questions
they've had, or maybeconversations they've had with
people close to them that no onewould know.
Chrystal Russell (24:40):
Like.
Jessica Lynne (24:40):
I'm digging for
that information because that's
what makes it hit and you wantto get that information in, like
the first five minutes, likeyou want something where they're
like whoa, like, that is notanything that anyone would know.
Rose Oates (24:52):
Yeah, because I
think for me you shared the
night she passed.
I was heavily pregnant, mygrandmother and this is
pre-Instagram, nothing I wouldhave ever brought up and I had
preeclampsia so I couldn't go tothe hospital and she was in
palliative care, supposed to bethere for two weeks.
I was able to go see her.
They were like don't come, it'snot safe for you to drive.
Jess is bringing all of this upto drive.
(25:14):
Jess is bringing all of this up.
I haven't even told you this.
So Jess was sort of saying sheknows that.
You know you couldn't come andthat's totally because it's
something that I held with meand that she had all her
daughters surrounding her andlike the circumstances
surrounding, like how and whowas there when she died.
And I was like there's no way,there's just no way.
Nobody knows those likepersonal details.
(25:34):
No one knew that.
And I was like Jess, you got mehook, line and sinker.
I was like tell me more.
Jessica Lynne (25:41):
I was like, I
love that, but she knew, she
knew she had to give yousomething, so you knew it was
her.
Yeah, and that's what I likehow they go.
If I'll say this and thenyou'll know it's me, because you
know, sometimes we think, oh,is it this person, is it that
person?
And then when they say oneparticular thing, you're like,
oh, now I know who it is.
Rose Oates (25:58):
It was amazing.
Chrystal Russell (25:59):
They're clever
.
I feel like, though, can yougive away anything like about us
two, just so we can blow likeour listeners' minds?
Rose Oates (26:09):
I don't know.
Chrystal Russell (26:09):
It doesn't
have to be anything big, but
just so people can, like youknow, contact her and be like
whoa, she's a real deal.
Well, you know what?
Rose Oates (26:16):
I mean, I know you
get really excited about this.
Jessica Lynne (26:20):
Oh my gosh.
Rose Oates (26:21):
How funny.
Chrystal Russell (26:22):
Well, you know
what?
Jessica Lynne (26:27):
I'm not in my
channeling state of mind right
now, but the only thing I sawwhen I was in your energy is
there's references here to like.
Your health and wellness ismassive, like in your life right
now.
There's something to do with um, I feel like you want to like,
you're working out more oryou're trying to be more
physically active.
I just feel like you need towait.
Is this for rose?
(26:47):
No, this is for you.
Yeah, you need to be walkingmore.
I keep seeing like walkingreferences, gym references.
Yes, girl, that's her.
Rose Oates (26:58):
She hates exercise.
I hate it.
And she's been like you need tocome to my gym.
She's been doing dance classes.
She definitely does need towalk more.
She's lost all muscle Carbs.
See, this is something no onewould know, but she showed me
her floppy carbs Literally myleg.
I have like no muscle left,it's just a floppy calf.
See, it is true, like she'sbeen saying I need to do
(27:23):
something.
I used to have a good butt andnow I've got no butt and I hate
the gym and it scares me.
And that's something she's justbeen saying to me personally
and I'm like I'm going to getyou fit.
Jessica Lynne (27:32):
We're going to
get fit.
I think you need to.
This is not a coincidence.
You've had that conversationand now it's like I'm not even
full-blown channeling right now,but it's like screaming at you.
Okay, like we need to get youmoving so you feel like a better
version of you.
Okay.
Chrystal Russell (27:47):
It's time.
It is time.
She's like damn it.
Rose Oates (27:50):
She's like damn it,
that's not.
I don't know what I want to dohere.
Chrystal Russell (27:52):
It just
doesn't fulfil me, I don't go.
Oh my God, I can't wait to getto the gym today.
You know who does.
Jessica Lynne (28:00):
You do.
You might one day I love it.
Chrystal Russell (28:01):
No but she
does.
She's like I can't wait to getthere.
I'm going to feel so muchbetter.
I'm like, fuck me, I'm going tohate every minute of this damn
thing.
Get it, it's so well.
I do like dancing, though, andI've conned her into getting
into dancing and she was likeI'm never gonna do this thing,
(28:21):
and now she's gone and bought usshoes like for dancing it was
making me physically ill like Iwas getting.
Rose Oates (28:26):
I felt sick to be
sexy dancing.
Now I see myself as a goof.
As you know, I don't see myselfas particularly sexy, but
you've got to actually be liketouching yourself up.
Chrystal Russell (28:38):
Well, girl, I
watched your video from last
night's performance and I almostfell off my chair.
Rose Oates (28:43):
Well, except for
when I couldn't get up because
my knee was broken, like I waslike this.
Chrystal Russell (28:46):
I saw a bit no
, you got up, it was good.
Rose Oates (28:51):
I hope no one
noticed.
Jessica Lynne (28:53):
Oh, that's so
good.
I love that.
Look at you both encourage eachother in different ways, that's
right, so good we do push eachother.
Chrystal Russell (29:00):
That's right,
physically and mentally Good and
bad.
Oh my.
Rose Oates (29:06):
God, how funny.
This is so good.
I had a few other questions foryou.
I was like what is one of themost memorable readings you've
had for yourself personally andlike, have you ever gotten
really emotional doing a readingLike for them?
Like it's just been really likehard even for you to read it
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for somebody else.
Like I just feel like you're ano-bullshit kind of girl and
that you just like feel intoeverything that you do, the way
you show up on Instagram, theway you read, and that's just
like feel into everything thatyou do, the way you show up on
Instagram the way you read andthat's why I love you.
Jessica Lynne (29:46):
I love that.
Yes, I've had multiple readingswhere I've been crying with the
person, like sometimes it justhits and it's around those
really like tragic circumstances, particularly when someone's
like being robbed of their time.
They were like you know what.
You could add so much more timeif this didn't happen to you
and you can physically feel,particularly when you've got
like husband and wife or likepartner and partner when someone
(30:06):
loses their partner.
I just can't.
I'm like, oh my god, that wouldbe like my worst nightmare
please god, don't do that to me.
um, but these mostly women likethat have had their partners
pass and I just can feel intheir souls like that shit, am I
ever going to find that again?
Like am I ever going to findsomebody who was like this
(30:27):
person?
And you just know, they're liketwo peas in a pod and you're
like, oh God, the pain of likejust feeling that love through
me.
I just can't, it's like tap meout.
Yeah god, how are they evenstanding?
Rose Oates (30:40):
these women, but
that hits you in the personal
feels like that is my worstfucking nightmare.
Chrystal Russell (30:45):
Like that me
too my worst nightmare is like
one of my kids yeah, away like Ifeel like I just would be, like
, no, I'm done no see ya like Ifeel like that's it's just yeah,
I know it is, it's horrible.
Jessica Lynne (30:58):
But you know what
, when kids come through, like
when you channel them, they arethe most beautiful energy, like
unlike anything, no matter howold these kids are, like they
are so full of beans andpositive and healed and light
and they just want everyone toknow that they're okay.
So the energy from kids whenthey come in, whether or not
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they've been here physically ornot, like spirit, baby energy
too, it's just like, oh,everything Do they grow over
there in the other like, yeah,because you watch movies and
it's like they passed away aslike stillborns.
Chrystal Russell (31:33):
And then
they're like oh, on the other
side they're still growing, yearby year.
Rose Oates (31:36):
Yeah, Does that
actually happen?
I saw someone, a medium like onTV, and he was doing something,
reading for someone and saidthat she was getting her licence
or at the age of getting herlicence At the age.
And he didn't know her age.
She goes oh, she's telling methat soon she'll be getting her
licence.
Jessica Lynne (32:01):
And then they
worked and actually be turning
18 that year.
Oh, I love that.
Yeah, that's really cool.
Yeah, I feel like sometimesspirit they come through how
they want to be remembered.
So even if you've had, let'sjust say, a newborn like pass
away, most of the time they'llcome through when they feel like
they're like they're little,like five or six or something
like that.
It's sort of like whateverresonates with their soul is
where they'll sort of stay andprobably when that medium was
referencing the 18 year oldperson getting their license, it
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was probably in reference tothat soul letting that person
know how old they would havebeen or what they would be doing
if they were still here, morethan the representation of them
growing to that age.
It's like the souls kind ofstick with how they want to.
And this is why it gets reallytricky when people like how old
was the person, how old werethey when they died?
I'm like, well, I'm going toknow from what they tell me,
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Like you might have an 80 yearold, but they're coming through
feeling like they're 60 or 50because they want to be vibrant
and full of beans.
And I'm like, oh, they feelyoung in spirit and they're like
no, vibrant and full of beans.
And I'm like, oh, they feelyoung in spirit.
And they're like, no, they werelike 80, 90.
I'm like, oh well, to methey're not coming through as
some old person Shit, they'recoming through like I'm going
back to when my boobs wereactually back up there.
Chrystal Russell (33:06):
That's what
I'm doing.
Rose Oates (33:07):
I'm never coming
through as a 90-year-old Never.
Sometimes I have to sometimesbe mature in front of the kids.
Jessica Lynne (33:17):
No, they come
through how they want to be
remembered.
So age is just a human thing.
That's an illusion.
It doesn't matter over there.
I love that.
Chrystal Russell (33:24):
Yes, that's so
exciting.
And have you ever because thisis another thing that I always
think about like, have you everdone a reading for somebody and
them not have a future?
Like, ooh, no, like, and themnot have a future like, ooh, no,
like, you know what I mean.
Like I can't see anything.
Jessica Lynne (33:40):
No, like, no, no,
not at all God, I would be
worried if I didn't see anything.
Chrystal Russell (33:46):
But no, it's
never happened.
Jessica Lynne (33:47):
I've always seen
something.
Rose Oates (33:49):
Yeah, okay, yeah,
and then Jess wouldn't fucking
tell you that She'd be like.
I'll get back to you guys.
Chrystal Russell (33:55):
Hold a minute,
my Zoom's cutting up.
Jessica Lynne (33:59):
I just thought
surely it would happen Like, say
, they're going to die tomorrowand they're just like, don't
like you know, I don't know, youknow what's interesting though
Even though, like I, because Idon't want to ever see like when
people pass or I don't ask forany of that information but it's
interesting because sometimesI've seen people who I've read
for and I see longer than whatthey actually lived.
(34:29):
It's really interesting.
It's like I'll see, like, forinstance, I, I read for this
woman and she was having a babyand I was like, okay, I feel
like everything's going to befine.
I feel like that you, you knowit's gonna be a girl and she's
gonna be like this, and I justsaw all of this stuff and this
future unfold and she ended uplike passing away the baby, or
them, yes, the baby and beforeshe, like she came into the
world and then she passed away,kind of like I'm stillborn, I
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guess we could say and I waslike that's so interesting, but
they showed me her life and theyshowed me what she would have
been like, but then she passed,but I didn't see that and I was
like maybe in that moment Iwasn't supposed to tell that
pregnant mother that her babywas going to pass.
I was meant to give her hope inknowing that this is what her
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daughter's soul was like, and tohave faith and go through that
journey.
Chrystal Russell (35:16):
It wasn't for
me to tell her it was for me to
let her know that she just needsto relax and everything will
work out the way it's supposedto Well, I mean, if you had have
seen it and had told her, likeimagine, you just wouldn't even,
you'd be beside yourself everyday, but it wouldn't have been
what she needed to hear.
Jessica Lynne (35:31):
And I felt bad
about it when I found that out.
I was like felt bad about itwhen I found that out.
I was like why didn't they showme that I feel so bad?
I gave her so much hope andthen I thought no, because in
that moment that's what sheneeded.
She needed that in that minute.
It wasn't my job to tell herwhat was going to come to
fruition.
It was to give her thereassurance to keep going on the
journey.
Chrystal Russell (35:49):
Yes, whatever
reason I got did she reach out
to you and be like oh, justletting you know like I lost the
baby.
Yeah, I found out.
Yeah.
Yeah, I know, but she's justhad another one, but also, could
it not be that child that youwere seeing?
It could have been, or youdon't think Well, this one's a
(36:11):
boy, oh.
Jessica Lynne (36:13):
But you know what
I actually said to her.
I was like, look, I feel, causeshe was pregnant, and I was
like, oh my God, I feel likeyou're going to have a boy and
she's like, no, I reckon it's agirl.
And everyone says it's a girland I'm like, no, it's going to
be a boy, because we don't wantyou to feel like you're
replacing your daughter, so thisis why they're giving you the
boy.
And she was like, oh, okay.
And then the other day I sawonline she posted like we
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welcome the boy.
And I literally just sat thereand I'm like, yes, I'm like, yes
, like I'm so glad that thatmessage, I hope, stuck in her
mind so that she knew why thiswas the way that it was.
Chrystal Russell (36:47):
That is
actually beautiful, yeah, it's
kind of nice.
Jessica Lynne (36:49):
That's a full
circle moment where it's like
even though that was one of themost horrific things that
probably ever happened to herthat there was obviously this
little girl made room for thisboy to come in, and maybe he
wouldn't have been here if thatdidn't happen.
Rose Oates (37:02):
Oh, it's so nice it
is so beautiful, like you really
do provide so much comfort,like you know, to people all
over the world.
Tell us honestly let's hypethis bish up Like how booked up
are you, girl?
Like what's the wait list likethese days?
Because I remember at one pointyou had, like you were working
(37:24):
at the time and you still had await list of like 800 people.
You were booked up solid for ayear Is that correct.
Jessica Lynne (37:29):
It was crazy.
Yeah, so I've closed my booksfor now.
Thank you.
Oh my God, I was actually justabout to say, like, can you do a
reading?
I know I've closed my books fornow because I started booking
into like June next year.
So I thought I'm just going toclose and then in the new year
I'll start to trickle someappointments so people can book,
because I want to remainsomewhat available.
(37:50):
If I kept booking out then itwas just not fair for everyone.
You're never going to get there,yeah, so I've closed them for
now, but I have a wait list, soif people jump on that then they
will be the first to know whenI open appointments and you can
go for your life.
But in saying that, I have onequestion readings every single
week, so I drop them first infirst rest and you can just
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write your question and then Isend you a video response of me
channeling that question for youLove that.
Chrystal Russell (38:18):
I'm going to
be on your Instagram every week
now.
That's exactly right, she lovesit.
Jessica Lynne (38:24):
She's a real
talker.
Rose Oates (38:25):
Oh my God, jess,
thank you so much for fucking
taking the time today.
I could keep going with you,but we are renowned for doing
extremely long podcasts.
And what is it?
Eight o'clock your time it is.
It's 10 past 8.
Oh my God, thank you for beingour very first Zoom potty.
I am going to pop everythingabout Jess in the show notes,
(38:47):
but can you tell us where we canfind you?
Jessica Lynne (38:49):
Yes, so I'm on
Instagram and TikTok at
JessicaLynnMediumship, or nowyou can go to at the lime glow
as well.
Or you can go to my website,jessicalynnemediumshipcom, or I
have a podcast of my own.
Yes, so my podcast is calledTalk Spirit to Me, so you can
get that on Apple or Spotify.
Chrystal Russell (39:10):
I love that
name.
Rose Oates (39:11):
You guys have got
all the good names.
I know how clever was it.
I absolutely love it.
They do also have like you'vegot is it cats and dogs by like
weird names as well.
Jessica Lynne (39:23):
Oh yeah, All our
animals are named after clothing
.
Chrystal Russell (39:26):
After clothing
Okay, please tell me.
Jessica Lynne (39:29):
We've got singlet
cardigan, skirt, apron, t-shirt
.
You do not, they do, we do.
But how did that come about?
That was all jade.
So when we got the cat, we werelike we're just gonna call her
t-shirt.
And then, when we got singlet,we were like we're either gonna
go with the t name, like t-rexor whatever, but he was too cute
, so we're like we're just gonnago with clothing.
(39:49):
And then she's like let's callhim singlet.
And then it just dominoed.
Wait, do you have a dog as well?
What's your dog called?
We have two dogs and we have acat now, and then we just lost a
cat and a dog.
Yeah, so we had three dogs andtwo cats.
Chrystal Russell (40:03):
You must sound
like a nutcase at the park
going April come here Diddy, asinglet Singlet.
Rose Oates (40:08):
I know People are
probably like huh, what are you
talking about?
But that's the beauty of it.
Keep them guessing, Jess.
Keep them guessing.
Yes, exactly.
Chrystal Russell (40:17):
Listen, at
least you didn't call your child
singlet.
Then I'd be like what the heck?
Rose Oates (40:21):
Who knows?
It's all.
Who knows what's going tohappen in our next generation?
I feel old these days, mate.
Chrystal Russell (40:26):
Well, there is
some apples and some pears out
there.
Rose Oates (40:28):
Yes, get in with the
riz you.
Chrystal Russell (40:31):
You're
whizzing it up my son's Levi,
and he thinks I called him afterLevi the jeans.
I thought you did too.
No, oh, I called him Levi aftera hot Australian Idol guy.
Rose Oates (40:44):
Wait, don't tell
Davin that one.
Chrystal Russell (40:46):
Actually I
called Indiana after, like my
mum, yeah, Anna, but IndianaJones I fell in love with her
when I was a kid and I was, likeI'm going to have a kid.
Jessica Lynne (40:53):
That's like
adventurous adventure baby, I
love that I actually feel likethe people's names, like they
become, whatever that she lovestraveling.
Chrystal Russell (41:02):
You know who I
was thinking about.
Then who's your other daughter?
Rose Oates (41:06):
Scarlett, she's
cheeky.
Oh, jess, honestly, we're likeI said, we're gonna put all
Jess's information out.
Remember, look out for heropening her trickles of readings
in June next year.
I love that you've left thatopen so everybody's got an
opportunity.
We love that you are the most.
Be like the no BS of friggingthe spiritual medium world and,
(41:28):
yes, we want to talk to youagain soon.
Yes, I would love that.
Thanks for having me, thank you.
Thank you so much, jess, andalways remember to look after
yourselves, everyone and takecare of each other.
Bye.