In this recap, Lesley and Brad reflect on their powerful conversation with Amber Fuhriman—attorney, NLP trainer, and host of Break Your Bullshit Box. Together they unpack how perfectionism and people-pleasing keep high achievers trapped in fear, and how authenticity, though uncomfortable, is freeing. This episode challenges listeners to take responsibility for their choices and trust that staying authentic is better than constantly seeking approval.
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In this episode you will learn about:
- Why people-pleasing is a hidden form of control, not kindness.
- How perfectionism hides behind fear and the need for validation.
- What authentic affirmations sound like without toxic positivity.
- Why creating an “SOS list” can help you act instead of overthink.
- How taking responsibility for choices leads to personal freedom.
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- Submit your wins or questions - https://beitpod.com/questions
- Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg - https://a.co/d/fNNWEah
- Amber Fuhriman’s Website: https://www.successdevelopmentsolutions.com
- 90 Day Success Jumpstart Training - https://jumpstart.successdevelopmentsolutions.com
- Break Your Bullshit Box Community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/morethancorporate
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