Be Real with Lav

As the vibrant heartbeats of our communities, the stories of Black Generations are rich with triumph, resilience, and innovation. Alongside my co-host Shennelle, who brings her passion and insight into our conversation, we peel back layers of history to share a narrative that resonates beyond a single month. This episode is a journey through the struggles, the victories, and the unyielding spirit of a people whose contributions hav...

When the unspoken bonds of trust within a family fray, what's left behind? Join me as I recount a deeply personal tale involving my brothers, where the fragile threads of loyalty were tested by secrecy and misunderstandings. We unravel the complexities of familial trust, revealing how easily it can be shaken and the profound consequences that ensue. As I share my journey of navigating these turbulent emotional waters, you&apos...

Navigating life's tumult can often leave us gasping for air, yet it's in these moments that the true test of our resilience emerges. Join me as I share my journey through recent personal challenges, from the joyous anticipation of family birthdays to the stark reality of a loved one's illness. Life throws a multitude of curveballs, and in this episode, I open up about the ways I've learned to catch them with gra...

When you tuck in for the night, the furthest thought from your mind is the possibility that it could be your last sleep. Yet, this was the grim reality for Melissa Silvira, whose death was shrouded in a web of deceit and violence. In a poignant episode that exposes the darkest corners of the human heart, I, Lav, narrate the chilling tale of betrayal that unfolded in Jamaica, shedding light on the tragic end Melissa met at the hands...

Ever found yourself in a cold sweat at the sight of a spider lurking in the corner? You're not alone. Join me as we unravel the tapestry of our deepest fears, from the eight-legged creatures that make our skin crawl to the daunting prospect of aging and the loss of self-reliance. With candid confessions and a splash of humor, we navigate through the peculiar and profound anxieties that bind us, sharing personal episodes that m...

Navigating the murky waters of midlife dating can feel like a solo voyage in uncharted territory. Chanel and I, with laughter as our compass, chart a course through the often tumultuous sea of romance after 50. Our latest Real With Love episode is a lighthouse for listeners, casting a bright beam on the complexities of seeking companionship during life's second act. We unfurl our own stories, candidly sharing the trials and tr...

Ever felt like no matter the flip of the calendar, you're running the same, exhaustive race against your personal hurdles? Ringing in 2024 on the Be Real With Lav Podcast, we unpack the gritty truth about carrying over last year's challenges and resolve into a fresh 365. With a heart-to-heart about the interminable journey toward our dreams, we confront the reality that progress isn't always a sprint but often a mara...

As winter descends, and sunlight becomes a rare commodity, have you ever wondered why you start to feel unusually tired, low on energy, and anxious? Imagine if you could tackle these seasonal mood changes head-on, using simple yet effective techniques. Through our personal journeys, let Shennelle and I walk you through how to navigate the rough winter terrains of mental health. We delve into everything from exercise to meditation a...