How friendship and peer support keep people alive when mental illness won’t back off—Schizoaffective storms, awkward misses, and showing up without “fixing.”
A candid mental health episode on empathy, accountability, and practical support moves that actually help.
Content note: explicit language; frank mental health discussion.
If you’re struggling (U.S.): Call/Text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, 24/7).
Episode focus: the quiet ways long-term friendship sustains recovery—presence over problem-solving, humor as glue, and simple habits that make support real.
We cover:
- How friendship survives secrecy and symptoms
- Presence vs. problem-solving—what showing up really looks like
- Humor as glue when things get heavy
- Practical support moves that actually help (and what to avoid)
Hosts/Guest: The DEFECTIVE Schizoaffective (Nick) • Guest: Ryan Manning (show artwork designer)
Guest links:
• TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rylemann
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rylemann
• YouTube: https://youtube.com/@ryanmgolfs
Post one support move you’ll try this week on our Discord "The Struggle Bus"—we’ll help you refine it so it actually lands. (link below)
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We’re a candid mental health podcast with lived experience—schizoaffective disorder, trauma recovery, coping skills, and dark humor that fights stigma!
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HOST / SOCIALS
The DEFECTIVE Schizoaffective (Nick)
- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@defectiveschizoaffective
- YouTube: https://youtube.com/@defectiveschizoaffective
"BTMHOOI" (The Podcast)
- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@btmhooi
- YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BTMHOOI
*Podcast Cover Art By Ryan Manning*
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