How infidelity, alcohol misuse, and family trauma devastate lives—and what real mental health recovery looks like.
A candid talk on betrayal, trauma, suicidal ideation, and practical recovery tools to rebuild without erasing the past.
Content note: infidelity; alcohol misuse; suicidal ideation; explicit language.
If you’re struggling (U.S.): Call/Text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, 24/7).
Episode focus: Josh shares a close friend’s story—betrayal, alcoholism, and the fallout on mental health—with tools for stability, co-parenting, and self-respect, plus accountability, boundaries, and repair where possible.
We cover:
- How betrayal trauma rewires a family’s nervous system
- Recognizing alcohol as a coping trap (and paths out)
- Co-parenting for kids’ stability—without weaponizing them
- Accountability, boundaries, and making room for repair
- Rebuilding trust and identity without rewriting the past
Hosts/Guest: The DEFECTIVE Schizoaffective (Nick) • IndyPocket (Tony) • Guest: Josh Guffey (“Guff”)
Guest links:
• TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@guffey2692
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guffey_kgg
IndyPocket (Tony) links:
- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@indypocket
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/indypocket
- YouTube: https://youtube.com/@absolutezen
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HOST / SOCIALS
The DEFECTIVE Schizoaffective (Nick)
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- YouTube: https://youtube.com/@defectiveschizoaffective
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