Behaviorally Speaking

Behaviorally Speaking

Board Certified Behavior Analysts Angela Nelson and Kristin Bandi bring together nearly four decades of experience working with children, teens, and their parents. Their knowledge and expertise in implementing Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy has already helped thousands of parents better understand their children and improve everyday behaviors. Behaviorally Speaking focuses on common scenarios most parents face and provides tangible, lighthearted tips and techniques you can use in your own home.

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October 26, 2026 • 49 mins

On this episode, Angela and Kristin read 3 letters from parents, navigating different but oh-so-common aspects of family dynamics. They dive into strategies to support when families feel they're "losing the battles," when older kids act like mini parents, and when teens pull away (and it kind of hurts!).

Angela Nelson, EdD, BCBA, and Kristin Bandi, MA, BCBA, are Board Certified Behavior Analysts with expertise on human behav...

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On this episode, Angela and Kristin talk all about consequences, rewards, and more. They dive into how we think about and use consequences effectively, leading to better parent-child relationships and fewer power struggles at home.

 
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August 21, 2026 • 52 mins

On this episode, Angela and Kristin do a deep dive into the vast topic of friendships. They look at why they are important, how they are formed and maintained, and what parents can do to support their children along the way.

 
Angela Nelson, EdD, BCBA, and Kristin Bandi, MA, BCBA, are Board Certified Behavior Analysts with expertise on human behavior and child development. They spend their days working with parents and careg...

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On this episode, Angela and Kristin are joined again by Adrienne to talk about what else? Uncomfortable things! They discuss why we and our kids avoid uncomfortable situations, the value in allowing (not avoiding) discomfort, and how to do it, even when it doesn’t feel great.

 
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On this episode, Angela and Kristin are joined by a guest, Adrienne, who talks about the ins and outs of family values. They dive into what they are, why they’re important, how to teach them to your kids, and what to do when values change or conflict with one another.

 
Angela Nelson, EdD, BCBA, and Kristin Bandi, MA, BCBA, are Board Certified Behavior Analysts with expertise on human behavior and child development. Th...

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May 22, 2026 • 37 mins

On this episode, Angela and Kristin uncover the sandwich generation concept. They talk about what this generation is, important statistics, the challenges that this group faces, and tips to help make this juggling experience more manageable and feel more balanced.
 
Angela Nelson, EdD, BCBA, and Kristin Bandi, MA, BCBA, are Board Certified Behavior Analysts with expertise on human behavior and child development. They spe...

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April 22, 2026 • 33 mins

On this episode, Angela and Kristin dive into the foundations of sleep and bedtime struggles, not just listing out strategies you can search on the internet. They provide guidance on assessing the real problem parents are trying to solve, setting up an environment conducive to better sleep routines, and truly committing to making the changes that lead to fewer nighttime struggles. They remind parents that as the adults, we have inc...

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On this episode, Angela and Kristin talk about supporting kids when viewing difficult current events in the news. They dive into 5 tips to help parents support their kids’ wellbeing and emotional health, in age-appropriate ways, while still leaning in to being informed about the world.
 
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February 21, 2026 • 49 mins

On this episode, Angela and Kristin are joined by a guest, Jess, to talk all about bilingualism and kids. Jess will answer questions about how to get started nurturing multiple languages, the different approaches to bilingualism, and dispel common myths.
 
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On this episode, Angela and Kristin talk with their colleagues, Brad (senior data scientist at RethinkFirst) and Dusty (head of AI at RethinkFirst). They go over what AI is, the exciting parts, the risky and scary parts, and how parents can help their kids and teens use AI responsibly.
 
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December 18, 2025 • 60 mins

On this episode, Angela and Kristin talk the good, the bad, and the ugly when it comes to modern youth sports. They also discuss how parents can make the best decision for not only their child but whole family when it comes to this hot topic. 
 
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On this episode, Angela and Kristin dive into all things sportsmanship. They talk about what it looks like at various stages of development and how parents can teach the related social and emotional skills that will serve kids well, both on and off the field.

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October 26, 2025 • 50 mins

On this episode, Angela and Kristin are joined by their colleague, Louis, to dive into the topic of selective mutism. They talk about how it differs from shyness and social anxiety, where it comes from, how it shows up, and what parents can do to support their kids. 

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On this episode, Angela and Kristin explore the phenomenon of parental imposter syndrome. They look at where it comes from, how it shows up for parents, and ways to address it with compassion.

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On this episode, Angela and Kristin chat with psychologist Dr. JJ Ferrito about what’s going on today in the world of child and teen mental health. JJ discusses what we’re seeing in research as well as his own practice in schools and with families, from relationships with screens, the benefits of allowing our children to take risks, tips for fostering strong mental health, and much more. 

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On this episode, Angela and Kristin share tips to prepare for what is often referred to as one of the most notorious periods in a person’s life, middle school. They talk about what both tweens and their parents can do to get ready for the many experiences that come with being an 11- to 14-year-old at school.

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June 6, 2025 • 41 mins

On this episode, Angela and Kristin dive into all things summer. They talk about ways to teach skills, boost independence, blast summer boredom, and infuse fun into those hot summer days.

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On this episode, Angela and Kristin bring back our guest, Danielle, for part 2 of the diagnosis discussion. This time, they talk about pursuing a diagnosis for yourself, what that process means as an adult, what comes next, and how it can impact your parenting.

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On this episode, Angela and Kristin are joined by a guest, Danielle, to discuss getting a new diagnosis for a child. They talk about why parents might seek a diagnosis, how they approach sharing this new information with their child and others, what comes next, and managing the many emotions that often come with this experience.

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On this episode, Angela and Kristin talk fairness concepts at home. They discuss how parents can move away from inadvertently promoting sibling score keeping and instead, parenting in a more equitable/individualized way.

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