Belonging + Black Masculinity

In this episode, Dr. Mona chats with Licensed Clinical Social Worker and influencer Marvin Toliver to uncover the complexities of Black masculinity and the power of belonging. Marvin is the co-founder of the mental health collective Melanated Social Work. He is a queer, Bi-sexual, Black creator, writer, consultant, public speaker, mentor, wedding officiant, and radical educator. He encourages others to see the power within themselves and use their voices to fight for justice. Marvin discusses the identities he grapples with, from his Black African American background to his Bi-sexuality. He shares his struggles growing up in a community where Black masculinity was narrowly defined, as well as the pressure to conform and the internal conflict it caused. He also opens up about receiving an HIV diagnosis and the impact it had on his life. You'll hear how this experience forced him to confront his truth and ultimately redefine masculinity - and Black masculinity - for himself. Listen now to: - Learn how societal expectations around masculinity can impact mental health - Discover the importance of self belonging and embracing your full identity - Explore a new definition of Black masculinity that celebrates authenticity - Gain insight into nurturing belonging and connections despite societal expectations 1:06 - Dr. Mona introduces today’s guest, Marvin Toliver. 5:12 - Marvin shares his identities that he is most connected to. 7:41 - How did those different parts of yourself come to a collison? 13:24 - What was your definition of masculinity growing up? 15:46 - What specifically made those things Black masculine? 18:19 - Is it an authentic bond or what you’re supposed to bond over? 20:41 - Marvin shares his experience getting the HIV diagnosis. 28:08 - How did the lying create barriers to your own sense of belonging? 30:42 - What does Black, modern masculinity mean to you now? 36:40 - What does belonging mean to you? Learn more about Marvin Toliver: www.marvintoliver.com Follow Marvin on Instagram @mtoliver_lcsw and @dearblackman_yougood Learn more about the Belonging Reimagined Podcast: www.drmonanour.com/podcast Connect with Dr. Mona Nour: www.drmonanour.com