Ep. 11 Patrick Kilbane: Why Would You Start With The End First?

About Patrick:

Pat spent the first decade of his career litigating high net worth divorce cases and wrote a book on this very subject. He's taken all of those skills and experiences and helps high net worth women going through the divorce process navigate it as strategically and efficiently as possible.

Summary:

In this episode of the Better Divorce Podcast, Paulette Rigo welcomes Patrick Kilbane, a family law attorney and wealth advisor, to discuss the complexities of divorce. They explore the importance of having a plan, the roles of various professionals in the divorce process, common mistakes people make, and the significance of understanding financial affidavits. Patrick shares insights from his experience in high net worth divorce cases and emphasizes the need for clients to be informed and prepared. The conversation also touches on the emotional aspects of divorce and the legal implications of marriage. Patrick's book, 'Move Forward Confidently,' aims to demystify the divorce process and provide guidance to those navigating this challenging time.

Takeaways:

• Divorce is a complex process that requires careful planning.
• Having a strategic plan can alleviate fear during divorce.
• Many people make the mistake of not understanding their financial situation.
• Clients often procrastinate on necessary paperwork, complicating the process.
• Understanding the legal nature of marriage is crucial for navigating divorce.
• Financial affidavits are essential for disclosing assets and liabilities.
• It's important to work with professionals who understand the divorce process.
• Communication between clients and attorneys is key to a successful outcome.
• The emotional aspect of divorce can lead to avoidance of necessary tasks.
• Patrick's book provides valuable insights and resources for those facing divorce.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Divorce and Mediation

02:16 Understanding the Divorce Process

05:51 The Importance of Planning in Divorce

11:31 Common Mistakes in Divorce Cases

17:34 Navigating Financial Affidavits and Assets

22:15 The Legal Nature of Marriage and Divorce

23:07 Patrick's Book: Move Forward Confidently

28:00 Connecting with Patrick and Resources

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