Better Husband

Better Husband

Better Husband, hosted by Men's Marriage and Relationship Coach Angelo Santiago, is the podcast for married men who want to strengthen and transform their marriages. After 12 years of marriage—including a near-divorce that became the catalyst for profound change—Angelo has dedicated himself to helping men learn the skills to be the husband their spouse deserves. With a background in facilitating in-person men’s retreats, online men’s communities, and one-on-one coaching, Angelo brings expertise in relational dynamics, men’s issues, and the essential skills for a thriving marriage. Each week, listeners will gain practical tools, actionable insights, and relatable stories. If you’re ready to communicate better, resolve conflicts effectively, and deepen your intimacy, Better Husband is your guide to answering the question, “How can I be a better husband?”

Episodes

September 23, 2025 21 mins

🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com

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In this episode, we’re talking about Terry Real’s idea of Full Respect Living—a simple, hard standard: no one above you, no one beneath you. Through a story at the gym and practical examples from daily life, you’ll...

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🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.

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In this episode, we are talking about what happens when you have done the work, shown up differently, and your wife still refuses to change. For some men, this means living with a partner who is dismissive, verbally ...

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🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com

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In this episode, we’re breaking down the Stance Stance Dance, the cycle of her push and your withdrawal that keeps you stuck in the same fight over and over. You’ll learn why this pattern is so destructive, how it ...

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🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.

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In this episode, we’re talking about the voice in your head that does the most damage. The one that tells you you’re worthless when you fall short, or flips the blame on your wife when things get tense. That voice is...

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🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com

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In this episode, we’re breaking down what healthy internal boundaries actually are and why being thin-skinned or walled-off keeps your marriage stuck. You’ll learn how to build boundaries that let you be both conne...

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🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.

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When your marriage feels “good enough,” it’s tempting to coast. The tension is lower. The conversations aren’t as hard. Things finally feel steady.

But here’s the danger: coasting is exactly what sets you up to slide ...

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🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com

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In this episode, we’re breaking down the difference between attachment styles, enmeshment, and love avoidance without the therapy jargon. You’ll learn the two main ways men become “love avoidant,” how those pattern...

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🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.

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You were doing better. You’ve been putting in the work. And then you lost it. Snapped. Shut down. Did the one thing you promised yourself you wouldn’t do again.

It’s a familiar moment for a lot of men: the shame hits ...

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🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com

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You’re trying to stay calm. You’re doing your best to show up. But when she says something you disagree with—or finally admits something you’ve been saying for months—something inside you snaps. You want to be righ...

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🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.

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You’ve been doing the work. You’re leading with presence, staying grounded, learning how to communicate.

But what about joy?

In this episode of Better Husband, we’re talking about what happens when marriage becomes all...

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🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com

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You’re physically present—but she still doesn’t feel heard.
You’re responding—but she doesn’t feel understood.
And the harder you try to fix it, the more it backfires.

In this episode of Better Husband, we b...

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🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.

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You’ve tried. You’ve bought the book, made the effort, planned the date, said the right thing. But somehow… it still doesn’t land. You fall back into the same patterns. She still feels hurt or distant. And you’re lef...

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🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com

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She’s distant. Checked out. Maybe she’s even told you she’s done. And you’re stuck wondering if it’s too late or waiting for the right time to bring it up.

In this episode of Better Husband, we’re talking about what...

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🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.

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She’s told you she’s unhappy. She doesn’t feel seen. She’s mentioned divorce—or maybe she’s already started packing emotionally. And now you’re wondering: Is it too late?

In this episode of Better Husband, I’ll walk y...

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🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com

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You’ve built a career. You’ve provided for your family. You’ve done everything you were taught to do.
But if your wife still feels alone, your marriage still feels distant, and you don’t know why—it’s time for ...

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🧭 Feeling Shut Down in Your Marriage? Start Showing Up—in Just 5 Days 🧭 From Shut Down to Show Up is a free 5-day challenge designed to help you reconnect with yourself and your partner—one small, doable practice at a time. Join now at www.shutdowntoshowup.com

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If you’ve ever been told you’re emotionally unavailable—and your first thought was,
“What does that even mean?”
This episode is for you.

In this episode of Better Hu...

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🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com

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Ever notice how you can be calm, patient, and composed with coworkers, clients, or even strangers—
But with your wife… you shut down, snap back, or feel like you’re failing?

You’re not alone.
In fact, the tr...

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🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.

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If you’ve ever wondered:“What do I actually need to do every day to be a better husband?”
This episode is for you.

In this episode of Better Husband, I’m giving you an honest look at the daily habits that have he...

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🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com

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If you’ve been doing the work—
If you’re showing up differently, staying grounded, trying to lead with integrity—
But your marriage still feels tense… your wife hasn’t acknowledged the change… and conflict ...

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If you’ve ever thought: "I know I can be a better husband—I just don’t know what to do next…"

Then what I’m about to share could change everything.

In this special episode of Better Husband, I’m introducing you to the thing I wish I had years ago: a clear, proven path for growth in your marriage—with real support along the way.

Better Husband Academy is now live—and in this episode, I’ll walk you through exactly what it is, ...

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