Better Relationships, Better Life with Judy HermanEpisode 035: Beyond Messy Relationships: Divine Invitations to Your Authentic SelfRebecca Greene is back (see episode # 12) now on the other side of the microphonewith Judy. From one therapist to another, Rebecca brings thought-provoking questions after reading Judy’s book, “Beyond Messy Relationships.” Their common professional trainings and careers led them to a “soul-sisterhood” connection. Both have been hosts and guests on each other’s podcasts. Both share common values on marriage, family, and relationships. Rebecca’s Whinypaluza Vlog has over 3.7 million views. On this episode, she is masterful at bringing out Judy’s intense and dramatic story. With 40 years of marital experiences to two different husbands, Judy shares the catalyst for writing her book. Issues addressed include divorce, re-marriage, mental illness, abortion, and resilience. Tune into the conversation behind the curtain of an “uncoupled” relationship therapist. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:How confronting and releasing shameful secrets can become transformational moments in our lives.How to use a resilience formula - AIR: Awareness, Intentionality, Risk of growthThe value of reframing narratives of painful endings. i.e. divorce vs. ‘natural completions.’ Relationship advice for those caring for loved ones with mental illness. The need for support regardless of the shame of secrecy or “imposter syndrome.”Our lives are more than the initials behind our names and more than the roles we play (as spouse, parent, mother, etc.) Connect with Rebecca:Blog https://www.whinypaluza.com/Book https://bit.ly/WhinypaluzaBookFacebook https://www.facebook.com/whinypaluzaparentingInstagram https://www.instagram.com/becgreene5/ @becgreene5TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@whinypaluzamom?lang=en @whinypaluzamomLinks Mentioned:Get your signed copy of Beyond Messy Relationships https://www.judycounselor.com/beyond-messy-relationships/For Judy’s resources and connection:To hire Judy as a speaker – https://www.judyspeaker.comRelationship Stress Quiz - https://www.judycounselor.comComplimentary Clarity Call - https://judykherman.as.me/ComplimentaryCallLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/judykherman/Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices