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April 21, 2025 48 mins

Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman, a psychology professor at Columbia University, explores self-actualization and the importance of taking responsibility for our lives. He discusses the impact of trauma, the distinction between being a victim and an empowered individual, and how embracing uncomfortable feelings fosters growth. Dr. Kaufman emphasizes emotional regulation, the power of sensitivity combined with kindness, and the significance of gratitude, encouraging us to choose growth over fear.

Episode Overview (timestamps are approximate):
(0:00) Intro/Teaser
(4:00) Empowerment Mindset vs. Victim Mentality
(13:00) Navigating Victim Mindset to Empowerment
(27:00) Embracing Vulnerability and Empathy
(36:00) Harnessing HSP and Emotional Intelligence
(43:00) Exploring Honest Love and Personal Growth
(44:00) The “After Party” with Dr. Stephanie

Resources mentioned in this episode found at https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep413/

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