Beyond Affairs

Dive into the question so many couples face: Is there hope for our marriage? 

Anne, Brian, and Tiffanie explore the emotional phases many betrayed spouses go through after infidelity, the importance of having the right support, the benefit of good guidance, and why timelines can be misleading. Whether you feel stuck or you're just beginning to face the truth, this episode is a reminder that healing is possible, and hope can gro...

When trust is shattered, it’s natural to want answers — all of them, right now. But it can be difficult to have productive conversations with your spouse after betrayal. In this episode, we reveal 9 powerful  secrets that help betrayed spouses create an open and emotionally safe space for their partner to speak candidly.

Learn why how you start the conversation matters, how to use silence as an ally, and what types of questions invi...

In this raw and honest conversation, Anne, Brian, and Tiffanie unpack the complex world of triggers—those unexpected emotional landmines that surface in the aftermath of betrayal. Join them as they explore how triggers manifest in everyday life, what they reveal about the healing process, and how both partners—especially the one who broke trust—can play a powerful role in creating a safe space for recovery. This episode is a must-l...

In this episode, Tiffanie sits down with Anne and Brian for a raw, honest conversation about one of life’s most heart-wrenching crossroads: should you stay and fight for your marriage, or walk away? Together, they unpack the unspoken fears, the gut-wrenching doubts, and the powerful reasons people wrestle with when deciding whether to hold on or let go. Join us for thoughtful insight as we explore what it really takes to make this ...

In this episode, Brian sits down with Jeremy to dive into the aftermath of marital betrayal. What does it truly take to rebuild what’s been broken? Is restoration really possible? Jeremy shares the challenges he faced, the obstacles that held him back, and the unexpected factors that helped him move forward. Listen in for a candid conversation between men. 

Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want.
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In this episode, Tiffanie, our new team member, sits down with Brian to chat about the Man of Honor Retreat — a powerful experience designed to help men reconnect with purpose, integrity, and brotherhood. We dive into the heart behind the retreat, the challenges men face today, and what it truly means to live as a man of honor. Whether you're seeking personal growth, deeper relationships, or are simply curious about the moveme...

Greg is a physician. He had 2 affairs over the course of their 29 year marriage. One was 22 years ago, when they had only been married 7 years and Krista was pregnant. Greg never dealt with it - instead he buried it, hid it and just tried to move on, but the unconfessed affair caused shame and a loss of self-worth. His 2nd affair  happened 13 years later. When Krista found out through a text message from the other woman it was like...

A candid discussion. Five women share their stories of their husband's affairs, and how they recovered. Each of them offers words of wisdom for those who are eating the dust behind them. How did they make the shifts inside themselves to begin to navigate their recovery from a place of strength and power. What were some of the things that caused their husband's to shift their perspectives, and and start changing for the be...

Anne Bercht was asked to give a workshop on the topic of forgiveness at a church women's conference. This workshop focuses on all forgiveness, not just betrayal forgiveness. Since it was delivered to a church group, Anne delivers the workshop from a Biblical perspective on forgiveness, and shares Bible passages as well as personal stories of how God has worked forgiveness in her own life.

Yes, you can move beyond the pain and g...

Brian Bercht speaks with a group of betrayed women, answering questions about the unfaithful. 1) How can we get to where you and Anne are? 2) How do I get reassurance from my husband without him feeling like I am attacking him? 3) Can I help my husband make the switch from feeling shame to helping me? 4) How do I get my husband to open up? 5) Why did he turn to someone else for comfort and not to me? 6) How is it not my fault, if I...

Several women share their stories. Unfortunately not every marriage can be saved after infidelity. And you don't have control over your spouse's choices. In this podcast, one woman in particular shares the painful unexpected journey of divorce after her husband left her for a much younger woman, and how she found healing on the other side.

Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want.
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