Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Everybody talks about how hot the swinging lifestyle is.

Nobody talks about the emotional whiplash.

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we get brutally honest about the parts of swinging that don't show up in fantasies, porn, or Instagram highlight reels — the stuff that quietly hits you after your first party, your first rejection, or your first "why do I feel like this?" moment.

We break down the biggest reality ...

Some swinger rules sound great… until you actually have to live with them.

In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive headfirst into the most common unfair rules in swinging and ethical non-monogamy — the ones couples swear will "protect the relationship" but often do the exact opposite.

From "no feelings allowed" to approval rules, same-room-only forever, no single guys, and the classic double s...

Unfiltered but Not Unkind is one of those episodes that needed to happen.

In this raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation, Adam & Pris pull back the curtain on the lifestyle behaviors we all quietly side-eye… but rarely say out loud. This isn't a call-out episode. There's no rage, no dunking, and definitely no drama farming. Instead, it's thoughtful honesty, humor, and real talk about swinger etiquette, communication breakdowns,...

What happens when the swinger lifestyle starts to feel less like freedom and more like permission?

In this raw and honest Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam and Pris unpack a listener confession that hits closer to home than most people want to admit: one-sided rules in the lifestyle.

The listener describes a dynamic where her husband controls who she can play with, forbids single men, and ultimately restricts her from being with men at...

This episode is a deep, grounded, and powerful conversation.

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with relationship and sexuality professional Martha Kauppi, an AASECT-certified sex therapist, author, educator, and founder of the Institute for Relational Intimacy.

Martha works at the intersection of intimacy, attachment, nervous system regulation, and relationship patterns — helping people understand not...

This Wednesday Quickie goes places.

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive headfirst into a real, unfiltered conversation about how to set up a gang bang — not the porn version, but the actual real-life logistics, planning, communication, and consent that go into making a fantasy like this happen.

Pris opens up about a long-standing bucket-list fantasy and makes one thing crystal clear: this experience is abou...

If you've ever seen photos of adults-only lifestyle cruises or hotel takeovers and thought, "That looks incredible… but also a little intimidating," this episode is for you.

Adam & Pris sit down with Claudia and Pepe Aguirre of LLV Club (Luxury Lifestyle Vacations) to pull back the curtain on what luxury lifestyle travel actually looks like — from cruises and hotel takeovers to immersive, adults-only experiences around the world.

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Welcome to Swinger 101 — the episode we wish every curious couple listened to before jumping into the lifestyle.

In this Wednesday Quickie, Adam & Pris break down the real basics of swinging in a way only Beyond Monogamy can: honest, funny, raw, and actually helpful. If you're brand new, lifestyle-curious, or still Googling questions at 2am, this episode is for you.

We cover what swinging really is (and what it absolutely is not), ...

What happens when non-monogamy stops being about labels and starts being about lived experience?

In this powerful and deeply honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're joined by speaker, author, and relationship coach Evita "Lavitaloca" Sawyers for a conversation that goes far beyond surface-level polyamory talk.

This episode is all about learning how to live non-monogamy on your own terms — not the internet's, not y...

Is lasting longer in bed really the goal—or have we been getting it wrong this whole time?

In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive headfirst into a topic that gets whispered about but rarely discussed honestly: instant gratification in sex.

After a real-life conversation at the club sparked a bigger realization, Adam and Pris unpack why so many people—especially women—actually prefer when sex ...

Polyamory doesn't have to be confusing, chaotic, or emotionally overwhelming.

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with award-winning sex and relationships educator Leanne Yau—the brilliant mind behind Poly Philia Blog—to unpack jealousy, boundaries, emotional security, and why non-monogamy isn't a "phase" or a lack of commitment.

Leanne shares how she discovered non-monogamy at a young age, how being ch...

Compersion Isn't Automatic — And That's Completely Normal

Compersion gets talked about a lot in ethical non-monogamy — sometimes like it's a requirement, sometimes like it's a badge of honor. But what happens when it just… doesn't come naturally?

In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we get real about jealousy, emotional processing, missed conversations, and the pressure people feel to "do ...

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In this powerful and overdue conversation, Adam & Pris are joined by Ashley and Rob from the United Bi Swinging Podcast to talk openly about bisexual men in the swinging lifestyle, the stigma that still exists even in sex-positive spaces, and why honest communication matters more than labels.

Ashley shares how Rob came out early in their relationship and why that honesty laid the foundation for trust instead of fea...

In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're calling out one of the biggest turn-offs in the lifestyle: entitlement disguised as "being ghosted."

Just because someone doesn't reply immediately doesn't mean they disappeared — it usually means they're busy living a real life.

This episode was sparked by a real interaction on Reddit where a lack of instant replies turned into accusations, guilt-tripping...

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In this spicy, hilarious, and brutally honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with lifestyle newcomer and content creator Rae Crush for a conversation that covers everything from cosplaying as anime cats to navigating entitlement, sex work stigma, hypersexuality, and what it's really like being a single bisexual woman (aka a unicorn) in the lifestyle.

Rae shares how she stumbled int...

In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're recapping one of our wildest, sexiest, and most unforgettable nights yet — our official Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet at Club Eden San Antonio.

From arriving early to record a live podcast with content creator Rae, to dancing, pizza breaks, lingerie changes, and multiple unexpected play sessions, this night turned into the ultimate reminder of why we love t...

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Ever wonder what the original sexual revolution really looked like? Before there were swinger apps, lifestyle websites, or even the term "ethical non-monogamy," there were people just living it — raw, real, and unapologetic.

In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Sam L. Feldman — author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances — to talk about what life and love looked like in the...

This Week's QUICKIE: Confessionals

This week's QUICKIE goes deep into the Beyond Monogamy Confessional — the anonymous submission box where listeners spill their wildest lifestyle stories.

Adam & Pris read through real confessions about losing interest in the lifestyle, navigating rejection, and the never-ending battle with "horny brain." From saying no gracefully to balancing trust in BDSM play, it's equal parts sexy, fun...

🎧 This Week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

This week we sit down with the one and only Ms. Nookie — certified love coach, founder of The Love Mastery Institute, and creator of the oh-so-clever Nookie Notes. She's teaching us how to date smarter, flirt with intention, and communicate like grown-ass adults — without killing the vibe.

From turning consent into foreplay to surviving the modern dating apps (spoiler: it's ...