In this powerful and heartfelt episode, Alisha explores the idea that motherhood acts as a mirror—reflecting back not only the values and habits we model, but also the parts of ourselves we may still be healing. With tenderness and honesty, she shares personal stories, including a transformative moment during her postpartum journey with twins, and offers practical tools for moving from reactivity to reflection.
Listeners will feel seen, supported, and gently challenged to look at their parenting through a new lens—not as a measure of perfection, but as a sacred opportunity for growth, repair, and love.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
- How kids mirror our behaviors, beliefs, and emotions (even when we’re not aware)
- The connection between our children’s traits and our own unhealed inner child
- The difference between reacting and reflecting as a parent
- A vulnerable story that shifted how Alisha sees grace and repair in motherhood
- Gentle reflection prompts and tangible tools for more conscious parenting
Reflection Questions from the Episode:
- What do I see my child reflecting back to me right now?
- What part of me feels proud? Tender? In need of healing?
- How can I offer myself the same grace I offer my child?
- What do I want my children to remember—not about how perfect I was, but about how I loved them?
Perfect for you if you’re:
- A mom navigating the highs and lows of daily parenting
- Interested in mindful, heart-centered parenting
- Curious about how motherhood is helping you grow and heal
- Needing a reminder that it’s okay to be real, not perfect
Join Alisha each week on Beyond the Beautiful Chaos as she shares soul-led stories, heartfelt insights, and supportive tools for finding peace, purpose, and joy in the wild beauty of motherhood.
Connect
- Connect with Alisha on Instagram: @alishauncanin or email: beyondthebeautifulchaos@gmail.com.
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