Bi+ Black Men

In this episode of Bi+ Black Men: The Podcast, we unpack one of the most common—and harmful—phrases in our culture: “No Homo.”

We explore why so many of us feel the need to say it, where it came from, and how society’s constant surveillance of masculinity—especially Black masculinity—keeps men defending their sexuality instead of living freely in it. Together, we talk about how that pressure shows up in hip-hop, barbershops, locker ...

In this episode, we pick up for part 2 of Men Seeking Men: A First Time Guide with a raw, judgment-free look at what it’s like to have sex with another man for the first time. We talk about the mental side of stepping into intimacy with a man, the importance of safe sex, sexual hygiene, and after care.

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My Bi Sex with Another Man (Part 1)

In this episode, Khalil kicks off Men Seeking Men: A First Time Guide with a raw, judgment-free look at what it’s like to have sex with another man for the first time. We talk about the mental side of stepping into intimacy with a man, the importance of ongoing consent, and how to handle nerves and curiosity. Khalil breaks down the realities of oral sex, rimming, and anal basics—what it actual...

Bi+ Black Men: Online Dating Culture

Khalil breaks down the world of online dating for men dating men for the first time—from Grindr, Jack’d, Scruff, Tinder, Hinge, and OkCupid to apps like BiCupid, Feeld, and Sniffies. We talk about how to start conversations without assumptions, how to flirt respectfully, common profile slang (NSA, UB2, PnP, “looking for generous”), and the red flags to avoid, like discriminatory language and ...

Khalil breaks down the bi+ spectrum—from sexual vs. romantic attraction to bisexual, pansexual, fluid, omni, ace, aromantic, and more. We also dive into the masc/fem spectrum, showing how these energies aren’t tied to sex or gender. Clear, real, and made for our community.

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Khalil steps in as the new host of Bi+ Black Men: The Podcast—sharing how he and Rob first linked up in Austin and why this platform matters so much for our community.

In this episode, we celebrate Bi Visibility Month, Week, and Day, explore the history of bi+ erasure, and unpack what it’s like to grow up and love openly as a Black bisexual man. From colonial roots of homophobia to the mental health toll of invisibility, Khalil ...

Bicurious is the term used for someone who typically has sexual relations with one gender, but is curious about sexually experiencing someone of a different sex or gender. Often, the term is used for people who identify as heterosexual and are curious about exploring a same-sex relationship or sexual experience.//////About K Smith:K Smith is a successful Restaurant owner, Creative Director, Spoken Word Artist, & Father. You can...

Biphobia is aversion or discrimination toward bisexuality and people who are identified or perceived as being within bisexual spectrum. Biphobia refers to hatred and intolerance specifically against individuals within the bisexual community. It is often expressed in the form of denial that bisexuality is a genuine sexual orientation, or negative stereotypes about people who are bisexual (such as the beliefs that they are hypersexua...