A Mother's Struggles: Lessons from Hagar's Story

In this episode of Bible Bytes, we delve into the poignant story of Hagar, the Egyptian maidservant of Sarah, as recounted in Genesis 21:8-21. Host Randy Black explores the trials and tribulations of motherhood, both in biblical times and today, through the lens of Hagar's experience. Cast out into the wilderness with her son Ishmael, Hagar's story is a testament to God's unwavering faithfulness amidst rejection and isolation. As we reflect on her journey, we are reminded that God sees, hears, and provides for those who feel forgotten and forsaken.

Through a detailed examination of the scripture, we uncover key takeaways about God's care for the marginalized, His provision in times of despair, and the divine purpose that can emerge from pain. Hagar's resilience in the face of adversity serves as a powerful reminder that God equips those who call upon Him, even when society deems them unworthy. Join us as we draw parallels between Hagar's story and the modern-day struggles of motherhood, finding hope and renewed purpose in God's promises.

Episode Transcript

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gather here today
with open hearts and minds
to grow in faith and truth

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Welcome to Bible Bites, the podcast
where we work to inspire faith one bite at a time.
I'm your host, Randy Black.
Motherhood is often painted as a joyful and fulfilling journey, but for many women,
both in biblical times and today,
it can also be marked by trials,

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heartbreak,
and uncertainty.
Hagar, the Egyptian maidservant of Sarah, found herself thrust into a situation beyond her control,
yet her story is a powerful testament to God's faithfulness
in the midst of rejection and isolation.
In Genesis chapter 21 verses eight through 21,
we witness Hagar struggle to survive in the wilderness with her son Ishmael

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after being cast out.
Her story speaks deeply to mothers who feel forgotten,
forsaken,
or overwhelmed,
reminding us that God sees,
ears, and provides.
Before we dive into the scripture, let's open up with a word of prayer.
Heavenly father,

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we come before you today with open hearts asking for your presence
as we study this section of the life of Hagar.
Help us to to understand the depth of her struggles
and the ways that you intervened with compassion
and provision.
We lift up every mother
who feels abandoned,

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unseen,
or weary.
May this episode
remind us all
that you
are the God who sees
and hears us in our darkest moments.
Fill us with wisdom and empathy
as we reflect
on these truths from your word.
In the name of your son, Jesus, we pray.

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Amen.
Genesis
chapter 21
verses eight through 21.
And the child grew and was weaned, and Abraham held a great feast on the day that Isaac was weaned.

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Now Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian, whom she had born to Abraham,
mocking Isaac.
Therefore, she said to Abraham,
drive out this slave woman and her son, for the son of the slave woman shall not be an heir with my son, Isaac.
The matter distressed Abraham greatly
because of his son, Ishmael.

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But God said to Abraham,
do not be distressed
because of the boy and your slave woman.
Whatever Sarah tells you, listen to her. For through Isaac,
your descendants
shall be named.
And of the son of the slave woman, I will make a nation also because he is your descendant.

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So Abraham got up early in the morning and took bread and a skin of water
and gave them to Hagar,
putting them on her shoulder
and gave her the boy and sent her away.
And she departed and wandered in the wilderness
of Beersheba.
When the water and the skin was used up, she left the boy under one of the bushes.

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Then she went and sat down opposite him, about a bow shot away, where she said,
may I not see the boy die?
And she sat opposite of him and raised her voice and wept.
God heard the boy crying and the angel of God
called to Hagar from heaven and said to her, what is the matter with you, Hagar?

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Do Do not fear, for God has heard the voice of the boy where he is.
Get up,
lift up the boy, and hold him by the hand,
for I will make a great nation of him.
Then God opened her eyes and she saw a well of water,
and she went and filled the skin with water

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and gave the boy a drink.
And God was with the boy as he grew,
and he lived in the wilderness and became an archer.
He lived in the wilderness of Peran,
and his mother took a wife for him from the land of Egypt.
Hagar's story is one of

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heartbreak
and resilience.
After Ishmael was born, the tensions between Sarah and Hagar grew.
When Isaac, Sarah's son, was weaned,
Sarah demanded
that Abraham send Hagar and Ishmael away.
Abraham was deeply distressed,

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but God told him to listen to Sarah because Ishmael
would also become a nation.
Here we see that while Hagar and Ishmael's departure was driven by human conflict,
God had a divine plan
for both mother and child.
As Hagar wandered in the wilderness of Beersheba,

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her water ran out,
and she placed her son
under a bush
unable
to watch him die.
Her despair as a mother was palpable.
She had no resources,
no support,
and no hope,
but God stepped in.

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The angel of God called to her and reminded her not to fear, affirming that God had heard the voice of the boy.
This interaction echoes
a previous encounter in Genesis chapter 16,
where Hagar calls God Elroy,
the God who sees.
God then opened Hagar's eyes to see a well of water symbolizing

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his provision
even when it seems invisible.
Not only was Ishmael given water to survive,
but God reaffirmed his promise to make him into a great nation.
God did not forget Hagar.
He did not abandon her or her child,
but instead met them right

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in the
heart of their desperation.
This passage of scripture underscores God's care for the marginalized.
Hagar, a foreign slave woman, might have been dismissed by people,
but she was not dismissed by God.
Her story echoes throughout scripture
in themes of divine intervention,

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provision,
and the lifting up of the lowly.
As Psalms thirty four eighteen declares,
the Lord is near to the brokenhearted
and saves those who
who are crushed in spirit. We have some key takeaways from this passage of scripture.
Our is that God hears the cries of the suffering.

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Just as he heard Ishmael's cry,
God hears us when we are in distress.
Prayer does not go unheard,
and divine help often comes
when we are at our lowest.
Hagar and Ishmael were physically and emotionally broken,
yet God
responded.
His listening ear assures us that even in our loneliness,

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we are not abandoned.
When mothers cry over their children,
over empty cupboards,
or broken homes,
those tears
matter to God.
Our next takeaway is that God provides
even when
all
seems lost.

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The well of water Hagar discovered was always there. She simply could not see it
until God opened her eyes.
His provision
is often closer
than we think.
The whale wasn't dropped from heaven. It was revealed.
So often,
our provision is already within reach,

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but our despair blinds us.
Trusting God allows us to see the resources he has placed around us.
Our next takeaway is that mothers are not forgotten by God.
Even when others turn their backs, God is attentive to the needs and the emotions of mothers who struggle,
reminding them that they are valued.

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Hagar's story reflects God's tenderness toward mothers.
He understands their hearts and honors their sacrifices
just as he did with Mary,
Hannah,
and the widow at Zarephath.
Next takeaway is that divine purpose can emerge
from painful experiences.

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Hagar's suffering was not wasted.
Through her son,
a nation
was formed.
God's plans are not thwarted by human rejection.
Ishmael's destiny
came through
a path of rejection.
Likewise, many of our greatest testimonies are born

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from pain.
God specializes in transforming sorrow
into significance.
Our last takeaway is that faith requires us to rise even
in adversity.
God told Hagar to arise, lift up the boy.

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Even in grief,
there's a call to action,
a call to hope,
and a call to trust in God's promises.
God's command to Hagar was simple but powerful.
We must not give in to despair.
He invites us to stand,
to take action,
and to lead with courage knowing

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that he walks with us.
As we reflect
on Hagar's journey here,
it's important to acknowledge that motherhood today still comes with its wilderness moments.
Financial burdens,
single parenting,
and emotional exhaustion are modern day equivalents
of Hagar's desert.

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Her resilience
reminds us
that God equips those who call
even if society deems them to be unworthy.
Hagar's
initial despair shows us the reality
of being emotionally overwhelmed.
She believed
that she and her son would die,

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but God interrupted that thought with a vision of hope.
Sometimes it takes divine intervention
to help us reframe our situation,
not because it isn't hard,
but because it isn't hopeless.
The well in the wilderness is symbolic for many.

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For some, it's a a community stepping in.
For others, it's renewed faith or an unexpected
opportunity.
Regardless, the message is clear.
God sees you,
hears you, and will not abandon you.
Her story also prompts us to consider how we treat others.

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Do we act like Sarah pushing away those who feel inconvenient,
or do we mirror God's heart
stepping in to help and comfort those who are struggling?
Ultimately,
Hagar's story invites us to trust in the unseen God who works in impossible places.
When we, like Hagar,

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lift our eyes,
we find not just survival,
but the beginning
of a renewed purpose.
Before we talk about our next episode, let's close out our study
with a word of prayer.
Lord god,
we thank you for the powerful reminder that you are the god who sees

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and hears.
We lift up all mothers today who feel weary,
forgotten,
or broken.
May they feel your presence as Hagar did in the wilderness.
Open their eyes to the wells of provision around them.
Remind them that their struggles
do not disqualify them from your purpose, but rather prepare them for it.

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Help us all to walk with compassion,
to extend grace
to the Hagars in our midst,
and to trust you
in our wilderness seasons.
In the name of your son, Jesus, we pray.
Amen.

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On our next episode of Bible Bites, we're gonna focus in specifically on
verses seventeen,
eighteen,
and 19
in chapter 21 of Genesis that we read today.
And what we're looking at is trusting God
amid the rejections and the hardships.
We're taking a more focused look
at what we had from today's

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passage of scripture.
So join us on that episode of Bible Bites,
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