Big Sexy Chat Podcast

Big Sexy Chat Podcast

Big Sexy Chat: 2 Rad Fatties Unapologetically Sitting Around Chewing the Fat! Current Events, Hot Topics, Viewer Questions, and Vibe of the Week. Fat Politics, TV Shows with fat characters, ditching diet culture, #sexnotdiets, sex, sex toys, relationships, mental wellness, sex toy reviews, cannabis, cbd, medical fatphobia, glorifying fat bodies, movies, current events, hot topics, fashion, lingerie, Black Lives Matter, and pretty much anything under the big fat sun! Email: bigsexychatpod@gmail.com

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July 23, 2025 41 mins

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In this juicy new episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal and Merf are back with updates, laughter, and deep dives into fat pleasure, power exchange, and the ways we signal our sexy truths to the world.

🎙️ Merf shares her exciting new job and consulting biz helping survivors of trauma, plus her upcoming debut as a dominatrix (meet Madam Cyn)!
💬 Chrystal talks about her recent seminar, and the joys of buildin...

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Traveling while fat? Oh, we’re going there — and we’re taking the aisle seat and the window. In this episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal and Merf are joined by the incomparable Jen McLellan: author, speaker, certified childbirth educator, and the force behind Plus Size Birth and the Plus Mommy Podcast.

Together, they dive into the joys and frustrations of navigating the world in a fat body when it comes to planes, cars,...

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In this juicy, gear-loving episode, Chrystal and Merf sit down with Rin Musick—award-winning road warrior, longtime adult retail expert, and current Brand Ambassador for Sportsheets. Together, they dive into fat-positive and accessible design in the world of BDSM and sex gear, including the now-iconic Plus-Size Doggy Style Strap and the groundbreaking Pivot Collection.

This episode is overflowing with laughs, sex-nerd ...

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Chrystal’s out, which means Merf and Asherlee are left unsupervised—and naturally, chaos ensues. But beneath the laughter, we get real. We talk about fat liberation, therapy fails, the touch-deprivation epidemic, and how cuddle therapy can be healing AF. Plus, Asherlee opens up about launching a fat-friendly medical provider directory in the Pacific Northwest, her journey into cuddle therapy, and her newest adventure:...

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Chrystal and Merf welcome the incomparable Marie Denee, founder of The Curvy Fashionista, for a real-talk episode packed with fashion, fire, and fat joy. Marie shares her journey from launching a blog in 2008 to becoming one of the most respected voices in plus-size media. We dive into fashion industry pitfalls, the power of representation (yes, including steamy werewolf smut), and how Marie’s pushing boundaries with ...

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March 23, 2025 48 mins

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Chrystal and Merf are back with a bold and juicy new episode diving into Fat Con 2025, kink exploration, and radical fat liberation.

💥 Merf shares her journey into kink—including rope classes made for fat bodies, becoming a pleasure Dom, and creating a power exchange dynamic with her husband.
 🔥 Chrystal dishes on Fat Con highlights, from powerful rope performances and fat-positive representation to surprise cele...

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Are you really old… or do you just need to stretch? 🤔 In this episode, we chat with Vera from Flexibility with Vera, a flexibility trainer who helps folks—yes, including fat folks—move with more ease, less pain, and maybe even spice things up in the bedroom. 💃🔥

Vera shares her journey from diet-culture burnout to discovering joyful movement, how stretching helped heal her chronic pain, and why everyone (yes, that me...

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💋 *We’re back, baby!* Season 4 kicks off with a bang—literally—as we dive into the world of pleasure products with the fabulous **Kim Card** from **Lovehoney**! This episode is packed with laughs, lube, and next-level orgasms as we put some of Lovehoney’s hottest toys to the test.

🔥 **What’s inside this steamy episode?**  
- The new *Blend* toy (a.k.a. *Finish Her*), why it's a *game-changer* for b...

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This episode reflects on the significant milestones and conversations that shaped the fat community in 2024. From exploring the impact of sexual wellness products to discussing the complexities of dating and health, we take a look back at the triumphs and trials that defined our year.

• Recap of the year and its highlights 
• Exploration of sexual wellness and enjoyment 
• Personal stories about datin...

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In this special roundtable episode, we welcomed an all-star lineup of fat podcasters to discuss the state of fat liberation, the impact of fat-focused media in 2024, and their bold goals for 2025. Featuring Dr. Krista Nabar and Suzy Hooker from Fat and Fucked and Ronald Young Jr. from Weight for It, this episode is a celebration of fat voices in podcasting and a call to action for a more inclusive future.

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Bec, a non-binary and body-inclusive rope artist, shares their compelling journey with Shibari, challenging misconceptions and celebrating its transformative power. Discover how this age-old Japanese practice transcends mere aesthetics, offering a meditative and empowering experience that embraces all body types and identities. Bec's personal stories weave through themes of fat acceptance and gender identity, rev...

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Regan Chastain, a powerhouse advocate for fat liberation, joins us to tackle the insidious nature of medical weight bias and the challenges it presents in everyday scenarios, from healthcare settings to holiday gatherings with family. Discover strategies to combat unwelcome comments about your body, especially during Thanksgiving, and learn witty comebacks and boundary-setting techniques that empower you to manage tho...

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Are societal stereotypes about body image and size finally being dismantled in pop culture? Join us on Big Sexy Chat as we celebrate both the triumphs and setbacks of fat representation in media. We kick off with an enthusiastic spotlight on Michelle Buteau’s "Survival of the Thickest," applauding its clever writing and diverse cast, while lamenting the loss of "Somebody Somewhere," a gem in queer ...

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Discover the secrets and mysteries of female anatomy that will make you question everything you thought you knew. Prepare for a mix of humor and enlightenment as we kick off with a bizarre tale of a book club member with two vaginas, leading us into a fascinating discussion about the clitoris and its complex history. From Matteo Columbo’s supposed "discovery" in 1559 to the ancient understanding of this uniq...

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September 11, 2024 49 mins

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Ever wondered how reclaiming the word "fat" can become a badge of pride and empowerment? Our latest episode of Big Sexy Chat welcomes Grim, a multifaceted powerhouse and celebrated figure in the fat-positive community. Join us as Grim takes us through her eclectic journey from retail management to becoming a spicy model, psychic death doula, and burlesque performer. Discover how she built a significant follo...

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What if your weight didn't define your healthcare? In this eye-opening episode of Big Sexy Chat, we're joined by the empathetic and brilliant Dr. Robert, a board-certified family physician committed to eradicating medical fat phobia. He shares his journey of creating a practice where patients of all sizes feel heard and respected, revealing the profound impact of not attributing every health issue to weight....

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What if the love you sought could be found in multiples? Join Merf and Asherlee, our phenomenal producer and editor, as she unravels the complexities of polyamory. Asherlee, who steps in for Chrystal in this episode, shares her personal journey into polyamory, distinguishing it from swinging and revealing the dynamics of her own relationships, including her unique satellite connections. From the importance of responsi...

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Ever wondered about the hidden secrets of female ejaculation? Join us on Big Sexy Chat as we welcome the passionate and knowledgeable Kim Airs, who takes us on a journey from her mundane marriage to becoming a sex industry veteran. Kim shares her captivating experiences from the late '80s involving public sex, sex toys, and porn, leading to the opening of her own store, Grand Opening. Discover her adventures in C...

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Ever wondered how TV shows like Bridgerton are reshaping our perceptions of body positivity and sexuality? Join us as we uncover Nicola Coughlin's empowering stance on body image and her witty response to the press, all while debating Hollywood's narrow definition of plus size. We also tackle the evolving portrayal of sex scenes in Bridgerton, noting the community's mixed reactions to the shift away fro...

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Ever wondered what it takes to challenge societal norms and gain recognition for advocating fat acceptance? Meet Tigress Osborn, the Executive Director of NAAFA, who has recently made it to Time Magazine's prestigious Health 100 list. Join us for an invigorating conversation as Tigress shares her personal journey in combating size discrimination, the thrill of being spotlighted in Time, and the vital role of fat-...

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