Ep. 108 - Stop Being the Victim

Tired of waiting for perfect conditions before you finally feel engaged at work? We get real about why that moment never comes and how to build momentum anyway. The core theme is simple and demanding: act like an owner, even when you’re an employee. Treat your role like a business with one customer, your manager, and focus on solving problems, not asking for special treatment. That shift isn’t about being exploited; it’s about stacking trust, earning opportunity, and compounding results that lift teams and careers.

We revisit a provocative “I never asked” essay and unpack how fairness and morale ripple through an organization. One-off privileges poison culture, while consistent standards and visible contributions raise the floor for everyone. We talk candidly about side hustles, integrity, and attention: if you’ve mentally checked out of your day job, either recommit long enough to prove your ceiling or exit cleanly and channel your best hours into your own thing. The real enemy is victim thinking. Business doesn’t tolerate passengers, and entrepreneurship exposes that truth fast.

Along the way, we push back on pop culture’s twin traps: fantasy and negativity. Retirement isn’t a bliss switch; purpose comes from work that engages your body and brain. Money won’t eliminate stress; it changes its shape. The goal isn’t comfort, it’s productive pressure that grows capacity. We share stories of leaders who stayed in the game through painful cash crunches and found unexpected tailwinds simply by continuing to solve problems. We also dig into the power of your circle: spend time with builders who leave you more focused than when you arrived.

If you want practical, unglamorous steps to move up, quantify your impact, report value regularly, go above and beyond without being asked, and obsess over customers like Sam Walton preached, this conversation is your playbook. Subscribe, share with a teammate who needs a push, and leave a review with the one behavior you’re changing this week.