Black Dad Unfiltered

What if your greatest desire wasn’t just personal—it was placed there by God?

In this powerful episode of The Playbook with Coach Rod, guest Carlos V Spencer reveals how your most authentic dreams are divine signals of your purpose. From breaking down the meaning of “God gives you the desires of your heart” to identifying rhythmic signs that you're on the right path, Carlos delivers spiritual clarity and motivational fuel for an...

In this debut episode of The Playbook with Coach Rod, we sit down with Rycklon Stephens, better known as Ezekiel Jackson, the final ECW Champion and former WWE Intercontinental Champion. But behind the titles is a powerful human story about faith, identity, sacrifice, and success.

Born in Guyana and raised without basic amenities like television, Rycklon’s first glimpse of professional wrestling came through a neighbor’s window. Tha...

In this transparent and powerful episode, Carlos V. Spencer reminds us that not all pain requires immediate answers. Sometimes, sitting with emotional struggles—like sadness, fear, or uncertainty—is the most courageous thing we can do. Through personal reflections and practical wisdom, Carlos unpacks how emotional healing begins when we stop running from discomfort and start listening to what our pain is trying to teach us. Scars m...

What does a successful marriage and relationship actually look like—especially when shaped by faith, emotional maturity, and unspoken expectations? In this bold and deeply vulnerable episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, real couples get real about navigating self-awareness in marriage, redefining roles, and expressing love without losing identity.

This is not just another relationship chat. It’s a masterclass in partnership—from spiritu...

“If being professional means erasing my Blackness — is that really professionalism?”

Welcome to Black Dad Unfiltered, the bold, truth-telling Black Dad Podcast that’s shifting narratives and shaking tables. In this episode, we go deep into the lived reality of Black professionals in corporate America — where identity, race, and workplace culture collide.

From black identity at work to the silent toll of emotional labor for women, we...

What happens when fathers finally sit down, drop the armor, and just talk? 🖤🎙️

In this cross cultural conversation between The Dad Bod Podcast and Black Dad Unfiltered, Coach Rod opens up about discipline, emotional healing, and the evolving legacy of Fatherhood.

From tough love to soft language, from survival to showing up—this episode is a deep dive into the growing pains of becoming a better dad than you had.

🎧 If you’re finding...

How does age reshape a father’s love and leadership?

In this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod explore how fatherhood evolves over time—from strict rules to soft wisdom, from survival mode to intentional legacy.

This raw conversation dives into structure, discipline, emotional growth, and the values we pass on as we grow older.

If you're learning to lead ...

What does it really take to protect your rights as a father? 💼

Join Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod in this eye-opening episode of Black Dad Unfiltered as they sit down with veteran family law attorney Randy Karmel to unpack the truths every father needs to know before stepping into family court.

Too many men walk in unprepared—misunderstood, misrepresented, and missing key information that could prot...

What does it mean to be a man in today’s world? 💭

Join Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod as they sit down with a powerful panel of men to unpack what manhood really looks like in the 21st century—beyond the outdated roles, beyond the pressure to “man up.”

This honest conversation dives into how men are navigating identity, emotional growth, purpose, and pain in a world that’s constantly shifting. From fatherhood and vulnerability to p...

What does it feel like to be a Black man in America today? 🖤

Join Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod as they sit down with Black men from different walks of life to explore the real, unfiltered truth—beyond stereotypes, beyond the headlines. This powerful episode dives deep into identity, community, vulnerability, and survival.

From emotional strength to racial profiling, from redefining fatherhood to finding brotherhood, these men ope...

Who Comes First: Wife or Kids? 🤔

This debate has divided opinions for years. Should a husband prioritize his wife to build a strong marriage, or should children come first because they depend on their parents emotionally and physically?

In this episode, our hosts Carlos V Spencer and Coach Rod explore relationship dynamics, parenting challenges, and lessons real-life experiences. We discuss the importance of balance, the impact of n...

 Join Coach Rod and Carlos V. Spencer as they sit down with attorney Sabine Franco to clear up the biggest misconceptions about prenuptial agreements! 💍💰

This episode dives into what a prenup really is, whether couples should consider one, and how it impacts relationships and financial security. 🤔❤️

Sabine breaks down the myths surrounding prenups, explains their legal purpose, and discusses whether they are a good idea or a bad i...

Are You Choosing the Right Partner? Marriage Advice You Need!

Is your approach to marriage all wrong? In this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod explore emotional maturity, self-awareness, and the real reasons we choose our partners. They break down how emotional wounds shape attraction, why true love is about giving—not just receiving—and the key questions to ask before saying “I do.”

From understanding...

Join us for an insightful discussion on the Media Influence on Kids: Black Father's Perspective. This episode explores how media shapes societal views on fatherhood, the importance of authentic representation, and the impact of storytelling in shifting narratives.

Our guests share personal experiences on breaking stereotypes, navigating fatherhood in the digital age, and the role media plays in defining masculinity and parental ...

Join Dawn Petgrave, Coach Rod, and Carlos V. Spencer in a deep dive into relationships, emotional vulnerability, and personal growth. This episode explores the balance between independence and femininity, how women’s empowerment supports men in expressing emotions, and the importance of creating safe spaces for deeper connections.

Dawn shares her experiences as a wife and mother, highlighting how love, appreciation, and vulnerabilit...

In this bonus episode, Coach Rod and Carlos V. Spencer discuss how marriage can unlock hidden potential, promote personal growth, and bring divine favor. They talk about how important a supportive partner is to success and how spiritually connected partnerships establish the groundwork for long-term fulfillment.

This episode offers valuable insights on building strong, spiritually balanced marriages that lead to s...

Why do men cheat when leaving is an option? This question stirs emotions and sparks heated debates, but today, we’re diving deep to uncover the truth. In this thought-provoking episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, hosts Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod tackle one of the most controversial relationship topics.

Exploring the dynamics of emotional and physical cheating, they break down the "greedy vs. hungry" analogy, examine the fe...

Join this amazing episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, which explores the unconditional bond of a black father for their beloved daughters. This episode highlights how fathers can teach boundaries, self-respect, and emotional intelligence while setting high standards for daughters and how they should be treated in life and relationships. Listen to this insightful podcast on how to raise daughters who are prepared to face life cha...

Host Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod talk about the importance of communication, emotional intelligence, and finding a partner who values health and fitness. How do relationships actually function? In this episode, we uncover various realistic materials and things that are important for healthy relationships. This episode looks at how having the same spiritual beliefs can help both partners in a relationship. Join us as we break do...