In this episode of Blacktivities, Shannon, Mona Lisa, and KK dive into a conversation that’s long overdue — the fetishization of Black men. From historical roots to what it looks like in dating, porn, and pop culture today, the hosts unpack the ways Black men are turned into objects instead of being seen as full, complex people. They share personal stories, research-backed facts, and a few laughs along the way. Spoiler: it’s not a compliment. It’s a call for respect.
Key Takeaways:
- Fetishization has deep roots in slavery and colonialism.
- It still shows up in media, dating apps, and everyday conversations.
- Black men often get objectified based on myths about their bodies or masculinity.
- Some men might be into it, but many aren’t — and it’s not the same as genuine attraction.
- Even we, as Black folks, sometimes repeat harmful stereotypes without realizing it.
- It’s time to see Black men as more than just a “look” or a “vibe.” They’re thinkers, builders, creators — full human beings.
Call to Action:
Black men — have you experienced fetishization? How did it make you feel? Drop a comment, DM, or email us your story. This convo ain’t over.
Sound Bites:
- “Why are people searching Mandingo porn and finding us?”
- “Live your truth, know your worth, King.”
- “You want a Black baby, but can you protect a Black child?”
Chapters:
- 00:00 – Welcome Back, Blacktivities!
- 02:12 – The Big Facts: Fetishization of Black Men
- 08:47 – Real Talk & Personal Stories
- 14:13 – Do Some Men Like It?
- 22:42 – Do We Reinforce These Stereotypes?
- 26:30 – Private Conversations with Black Men
- 33:00 – Celebs, Media, and Jamie Foxx?!
- 36:26 – Lisa’s Pieces: “Dear Black Man” (Poem)
- 41:53 – Call 2 Action 4 The Culture
Tags: #BlackMen #Fetishization #BlackLove #RespectBlackMen #Blacktivities
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