Blended Kingdom Families Podcast

Blended Kingdom Families Podcast

Welcome to the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast! If you are in need of resources that deal with remarriage, step-parenting, co-parenting, preparing to blend, or divorce-proofing your marriage, we are here to serve you! Blended Kingdom Families is a step-family ministry that is committed to providing resources for individuals, families, and churches by implementing biblical foundations and practical tips. Our mission is to break the generational cycle of divorce, equip marriages, and unite blended families with the truth of God's word. Hosts, Scott and Vanessa Martindale, living blended their entire lives, they know firsthand both the joys and difficulties that can come along with it. We hope that this podcast will encourage, excite, and equip you in your blended family journey. When you blend your family God's way, you have a 100% chance of success. He will complete the good work He began in your step-family, for nothing is impossible with God (Luke 1:37). To find out more about BKF, visit our website, www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Blended Kingdom Families is a 501c3 nonprofit organization, and this podcast is funded thanks to the generous support of our one-time and monthly donors. To learn more about how to partner with us, click here, Donate - Blended Kingdom Families! For additional resources visit: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Episodes

April 28, 2025 25 mins

In this powerful episode, Pastor Brandon Freeman, lead pastor of IMRSN Church, powerful communicator and character coach, shares his heartfelt testimony of how God transformed his blended family through hard conversations and radical obedience to the Holy Spirit. Pastor Brandon shares personal reflections about his blended family and how what began as disconnection has become a story of redemption—all sparked by attending the Blend...

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In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of continuing to date your spouse—even when life gets busy, budgets are tight, and parenting in a blended family adds extra layers.  

They share practical tips for creating meaningful connection through date nights, staying emotionally close, and how these moments can deepen physical intimacy and reduce conflict. Whether you&a...

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Blending a family is hard—but blending with adult children after loss adds a whole new level of emotional depth. In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with Uncover Marriage founders, Shannen Fields Braswell and Anthony Braswell to hear their inspiring faith-driven journey of building a blended family after grief.  They walk through what it’s like to blend with adult children while keeping Christ at the center of their marriage and...

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Communication can make or break a marriage, especially in a blended family. In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the importance of effective communication in marriage. Learn how healthy conversations can prevent and resolve conflicts, strengthen trust, and create authentic, lasting bonds between spouses. 
 
Join us as we share real-life strategies and faith based wisd...

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Money can be one of the biggest stressors in a blended family, but it doesn’t have to be! In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we dive into faith-based financial wisdom—how to navigate money in marriage, handle financial transparency, and trust God as your provider. 

In this episode Scott and Vanessa discuss:
Should blended families have joint or separate accounts?  
How to prevent financial con...

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Co-parenting in one home is challenging—but what happens when you're coordinating custody across three states? In this insightful episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale sit down with BKF coaches and group leaders, Scott and Lindsay Schmitz, to share their personal journey of co-parenting across multiple states.  

From long-distance custody exchanges and time-sharing struggles to practical ...

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In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we sit down with BKF group leaders and coaches Scott and Lindsay Schmitz to explore the transformative impact of small groups on blended families. They share their personal experiences in leading small groups, how these communities provide support, and practical steps to start one in your own church or home. They also share personal insights about what it is like serving as B...

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Have you ever thought about creating a family bucket list? While material goals can be fun, the most meaningful bucket list items focus on cherishing special moments, building lifelong memories, and celebrating blended family milestones together. In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Blended Family Bucket List: How to Create Meaningful Memories with Godly Vision, Scott and Vanessa Martindale explore how to create...

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Building a blended family comes with unique challenges—some we never saw coming! In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale get real about what they wish they had known before blending their family. From step parenting struggles to managing relationships and expectations, why grace and patience are key in blended families and handling unexpected emotions, this episode is full of practical, honest, and faith-based advice to help ...

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Can you be a Christian without going to church? Many believers struggle with attending church due to their past, skepticism, or discomfort with church culture. In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott Martindale sits down with Pastor Wade Smith to answer your most pressing and difficult church questions. Listen in as they discuss the real reasons people avoid church, how to find authentic community, why your p...

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Are gender roles in marriage outdated—or do they hold the key to a thriving relationship? In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, God's Blueprint for Marriage: The Truth About Gender Roles in Marriage: The Truth About Gender Roles in Marriage: What the Bible Says, Scott and Vanessa Martindale explore the biblical foundation of marriage, debunk misconceptions about submission, and reveal how embracing God’s des...

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In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Rekindling Intimacy: How to Improve Marriages in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the importance of intimacy in marriage—including emotional, physical and spiritual intimacy. They discuss how life’s busyness, especially in blended families, can make it challenging to maintain closeness with your spouse. From the power of date nights to practical ways to ...

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In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Building a Thriving Marriage and Blended Family Through Personal Growth, Scott and Vanessa share insights on personal growth and its transformative impact on marriage and blended families. Discover the power of self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and faith as key ingredients for thriving relationships. Learn practical steps for setting healthy expectations, fostering open...

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As we close out 2024 and step into 2025, Scott and Vanessa Martindale reflect on the past year's lessons, challenges and how God remained a faithful anchor during challenging times. In this episode of the BKF podcast, they share about the power of seeking God for a “word for the year” through prayer and scripture, and how doing so can provide clarity and direction for your blended family.

Tune in as they discuss the i...

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Merry Christmas! Join hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale for this special Christmas episode, Christmas Hope: God's Transformative Power for Blended Families, as we reflect on the hope we find in Jesus, celebrate the moments of growth and transformation from this past year, and look forward to the promises of God’s continued work in blended families. Whether you’re navigating challenges or celebrating victories, this conversati...

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In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Top Tips from 20 Years of Successful Blended Family Marriage, Scott and Vanessa are joined by Ben and Debbie Kohnle, a happily married couple with nearly 20 years of experience navigating the unique challenges of blended family life. They share valuable insights about prioritizing marriage, raising children with intentionality, keeping faith at the center of family dynamics and more. From buildin...

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On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa are joined by Dr. Michael and Tracey Maxwell. Dr. Maxwell is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Tracey is an Independent Health Coach, together they discuss the complexities of blending families, remarriage, parenting, and maintaining a firm foundation centered on Christ. 

Discover practical tips for building and maintaining strong family relatio...

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In this powerful episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale sit down with Pastor Brandon and Susan Thomas, founders of Keystone Church and authors of A Legacy That Lasts. Together, they explore practical strategies for instilling Godly character in children, modeling resets, and embracing humility by owning mistakes.
Discover how these Christ-centered principles can transform your blended fami...

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In this Thanksgiving-inspired episode, we explore how blended families can thrive by embracing gratitude. Discover practical ways to choose thankfulness, reflect Christ's love, and celebrate the blessings God pours out on your blended family. Whether you're navigating challenges or celebrating victories, this episode equips you with encouragement and faith-filled insights to represent Christ in your home. Join us as we un...

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Whether you’re preparing for marriage, are newlyweds, or have been married for decades, this episode of BKF podcast, Marriage God’s Way: The 4 Laws for a Lasting, Thriving Relationship, is packed with wisdom to help you build a lasting marriage that honors God. 

Scott and Vanessa are joined by President and Founder of XO Marriage, Pastor Jimmy Evans, for an inspiring and encouraging conversation about how to do marriage Go...

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