“We need to redefine what success and ambition actually look like… how do we make it every day in the sense of what brings me fulfillment, satisfaction, and joy within my title and outside of that title” - Marissa Nelson
On this episode of BLKGirl Ambition, your host Niya Baxter sits down with award-winning relationship & sex therapist Marissa Nelson to flip the script on what success—and pleasure—really look like. We get unapologetically honest about the power dynamics that show up when ambition meets intimacy, why control can derail our closest connections, and how couples can tackle everything from mismatched desire to sexual dysfunction. Along the way, Marissa reminds us that dreaming, play, and self-reflection aren’t luxuries—they’re essential fuel for personal fulfillment. If you’re ready to reclaim pleasure, redefine your ambition, and build relationships that honor your boldest self, this conversation is your blueprint.
Keywords: ambition, vulnerability, success, relationships, intimacy, black women, entrepreneurship, self-worth, personal growth, therapy, relationships, intimacy, vulnerability, sexual fulfillment, couples therapy, dating, emotional support, pleasure, joy, black women
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Ambition and Vulnerability
02:11 The Challenge of Starting Something New
08:31 Redefining Success and Ambition
12:55 Navigating Relationships and Power Dynamics
18:00 Dreaming and Play in Ambition
26:20 The Impact of Control on Relationships
27:24 Navigating Vulnerability and Intimacy
28:45 Understanding Sexual Fulfillment in Long-Term Relationships
30:10 Addressing Sexual Dysfunction and Low Desire
31:20 The Reality of Low Sexual Activity in Relationships
32:41 Defining Connection Beyond Intimacy
34:05 The Importance of Commitment in Relationships
36:29 Red Flags in Dating
38:49 The Role of Support in Healthy Relationships
41:34 Reclaiming Pleasure and Joy
49:41 Empowering Women to Reclaim Their Pleasure
Reach out to Marissa Nelson to connect:
www.IntimacyMoons.com
IG: @xomarissanelson
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