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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What's up, boners?
Alright, we're back.
Okay, so I'll just so.
Brookey had more questions andso we had to, but she's back.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Part two Should I
start with the questions, or
should I start with my storythat I never finished?
Speaker 1 (00:17):
About your divorce.
Yes, so what has been again theonly one Thanks.
So we'll wrap up that and we'llgo into Q&A.
So long story short.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Our marriage started
fading.
We weren't even like talkinganymore.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
It was fucking
falling apart.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
It was done.
It was done.
Everything was ruined.
My life was over, and it was, Iguess, new Year's Eve and I was
so sick of a shit I didn't even.
I was like I'm going to hangout at Johnny's house and I did,
and we hung out all night and Islept there and guess what?
(01:01):
My ex didn't even ask how mynight was.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
That's terrible.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
And that's when I
realized everything's over and
like I didn't even feel guilty.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Did you know that you
even left the house?
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Yes, he even knew I
slept out.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
No, I was going to
say one thing if he didn't even
know, you fucking left.
No, he knew.
Can you imagine?
Speaker 2 (01:20):
He didn't even know
you were.
Well, where'd you go?
It's been four days.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
You've been gone the
whole time.
Oh my god, it's been four years.
Maybe he takes ambient.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
That's exactly what
he does.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Another reason he
just sucks.
He has no leads.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
You know, I look back
now and I'm like, you know, we
just weren't right for eachother.
I was still in the party mode,like I said, learned that from
the last relationship I just gotout of because he was so
fucking abusive and I was like,oh, I didn't really have it that
bad, we just were pieces ofshit to each other.
This guy was the worst.
(01:58):
So, yeah, lesson learned, manylessons learned, but yeah so.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
How long were we
together?
Total.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Total, we were
together for like five years.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
And you were married
for three of them.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
No, we were married
for one of them.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Oh, just one Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
And that was like the
worst of our relationship.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
After you got married
.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Maybe he knew he
could get away with anything at
that point.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I think he also was
like terrified of me because I
was still like partying andhaving a good time.
I didn't want to settle downand just do nothing every night.
And he was in like money savingmode and I was like cool, we
can still have a life.
But we didn't.
And he started like making megive him all of my money because
(02:44):
I was spending it all onpartying but I was making more
money than he was.
And that was when I was like Ifeel like I'm in jail, right you
gotta give him your check Shit.
Dude, I was being paid.
It was during.
When was it?
It was like right before.
Yeah, it was way before COVID.
(03:06):
Right before COVID, actually, Iwas working as like a nanny and
an assistant.
I was getting paid 30 an hourcash like chilling you know it
was great to do basicallynothing.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Right, run your
errands and watch some kids.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Yeah, it was great.
It was like the best setup, butbetter off now.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
But now.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Me too.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Yeah, I think, and
like I don't even know about
your first, are you talkingabout marriage right now?
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Oh, my first marriage
.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
I thought you were
saying like, you're better off
too, like oh yeah, I mean,nothing bad happened.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
It was kind of
similar to yours, like we just
stopped talking and I don't know.
I guess I fell out of love.
Maybe he did too.
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Yeah, it sounds like.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
We don't.
We've never actually discussedit.
It was so transactional in theend that there was not, like
We'd never had that conversationof like this is it, and you
know, do we want to talk aboutwhere it went wrong?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Right.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
And we just, I guess,
decided we never did.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
We, like, we went to
a therapist who's now my
therapist and I just absolutelyadore her.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Tamara Bloom.
If anyone needs one, who?
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Tamara Bloom.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Tamara.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Hmm.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Why are we humming
Tamara?
Speaker 1 (04:42):
No, I just got a new
therapist.
That's great, but when I wasshopping it was hell.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
It is hard to find
good help in all the ways.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
All the ways,
especially therapy, though.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Therapy and cleaning
people.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
You spend weeks
interviewing the same type of
therapist.
Yeah, Fuck yeah when is one ofthem gonna tell me that I'm
perfect?
None of you were helping me.
Just tell me I'm prettyimperfect.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Someone lied to me
for a hundred, whatever dollars
an hour.
Please.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Literally, but no, my
marriage just ended.
I mean honestly, though itcould be worse.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
We went to a therapy
session one time.
We sat there and by the end ofit Tamara didn't even really
talk for real.
He and I just talked by the wayI go, do we both want a divorce
?
He's like, yeah, I was like allright and we stood up, we gave
each other a hug, we walked outof the office, we gave each
other a hug again, we cried andthen I went and got lunch and he
(05:45):
did whatever.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
You could have had
your own little show on HBO.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
How exciting would
that have been.
Drama free.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Stories of a divorce.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Yeah, well, ours is a
little.
He didn't know about all thebad stuff, so oh, that's
probably good.
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
You guys, if you're
not on your second husband yet,
I recommend it.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Well, I'm in the
process of maybe.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Maybe they get better
as the numbers get higher.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
That's what keeps my
dad going.
He's a divorce attorney.
Hey, if you all need divorce.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
I'm not gonna put him
on last year because I'll give
myself away, but he's a good one.
Actually, what's his name?
I'm kidding.
We'll discuss it later.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Well, I had a link at
the end.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
I love a good
litigator.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
He's a mediator.
Oh, he's better, yeah, he's notinto the whole getting people
to hate each other vibe that'swhat he's saying.
He's very much like let'sapproach this as like a
therapeutic situation that weare just.
We're gonna have bettersituation for everybody.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
So he does like both
people.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Yes, but he will
mainly represent one and then
another you know, and then theother person's lawyer comes in
and the mediation begins.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Got it, got it.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Yeah, so it's just
like more peaceful.
Also, it's cheaper for peopleand that's nice because most
lawyers don't do that Right.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
usually it's like all
right, let's dot your assets.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Literally, and then
it's like let's go to court and
I know everyone gets paid forthat you know, and let's have a
million different assistants onthis, and they get billed hourly
too.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
If they get paid too.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Mm-hmm so.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
So annoying.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
But yeah, so everyone
keep getting married and
divorced Makes the bills paid.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
It gets makes the
world go around.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Makes my birthday
presents exciting.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
We don't want her
getting gift cards to Walmart oh
my god, I will literally justthrow it away.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Throw it away, see
myself out.
Throw it away, fuck you.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Garbage.
I'm not even going.
I'm not even going to go totheir website.
Oh fuck, no Free delivery.
Hold on a minute, the box willshow up.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
Never thought about
Shelf-Round Line at Walmart, so
I think you just opened a doorfor me.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
But then like what if
they deliver cockroaches or bed
bugs?
Speaker 2 (08:10):
I feel an insurance
claim coming my way, so I'm okay
with that too.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Please, walmart, mail
your shit.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Walmart, mail me some
used ass shit.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Walmart.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
All the Walmart's.
Any of you guys out there?
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Alright what
questions did you have then To
clarify?
Okay, so, regarding Ms Braddall, she's this is going to be good
if it's taking this long to getit out.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Because I'm trying
not to say things to where legal
You're like.
Excuse me.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Do you want a text to
take?
Speaker 2 (08:53):
me, okay, the guy
that she has an NDA with.
And, if you ask me, are theremultiple yes?
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Everyone's got an NDA
.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Okay, I'm just going
to say this then.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Do you want to text
me the question?
Speaker 2 (09:20):
No, no, no.
This is like my thought on itand it's just like bitchy and I
just have always thought aboutthis and now I get to share it.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
And speak it into
existence.
What would happen if thatperson found out that Braddstall
has broken the NDA?
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Oh, are we talking
about the ones with the PJ, or
are we talking about the privatejet?
Speaker 2 (09:46):
Oh, I believe so he
also practices law, or did?
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Oh, I don't know that
one then.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
That's a good one.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
I think I know who
you're talking about actually,
but who was the PJ person?
They own car dealerships.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Wasn't that the
husband?
Speaker 1 (10:14):
I don't know.
There's so many of them I can'tkeep up.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Do we need to make a
diagram?
It ended up being a knot.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
No, so wait what NDA
did.
What rule did she break?
Speaker 2 (10:26):
First of all, I
shouldn't know about the NDA
considering number one, probablytrue, yes, like number one of
NDAs.
You don't discuss the NDA.
That's not this cool, whicheveryone breaks, obviously.
And then I have specificdetails.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
You know what I mean.
So here's where my brain went.
My intrusive thoughts are justgonna like show they're gonna be
bright right now, we're justgonna accept them and that's
sick.
But like I'm like, what could Iget from that?
You know what I mean.
So she wants to fuck with myreputation or whatever Cause.
Like I do know she said likesome shit about me, but it
(11:11):
wasn't until anyone.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
Has she moved on?
Speaker 2 (11:14):
To other men.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
Yeah, I mean, is she
terrorizing like new people now
these days, you think?
Speaker 2 (11:20):
Oh, I'm sure.
How do you think she's livingthe way she's living?
Speaker 1 (11:23):
Well, no, I'm sure.
But I mean, do you think thatshe still talks about you?
I mean cause I don't know forsure if she's stopped talking
about me.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
I don't think that
there's any reason to talk about
me.
I don't go out, what's what?
Speaker 1 (11:35):
I'm saying Like what
Talk about me either, like I
haven't done shit.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Yeah, the only and
like the only time she talked
about you is to me, because I,like I believe.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
I asked, I asked.