Emily and Ashley get into the "why didn't anyone help her" event in Idaho and the bystander effect. We encourage you to listen to this episode and share it with a friend. We are better together, especially as women.
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TW: Violence, Domestic Violence
https://www.patreon.com/chats/184564adfbce4c188055f0d32897533a
Show notes:
0:00-1:00 Intro
1:00 Ashley’s favorite current tiktok - women empowering women
2:00 Societal pressure for women finding a partner
4:00 Kids and phones
4:00-6:00 WTF with Marc Maron and phones
8:30-20:00 Let's Chat Coeur d’Alene Idaho
20:00 Diffusion of responsibility
23:00 Kitty Genovese murder
26:00 Return to Idaho town hall - Do you raise your hand when no one else does?
28:00 You can change the social norm of a situation
29:00 Seizure disorder and script
31:00 Fear for our own safety
32:00 Fear of being wrong
33:00 How do we get the message to the people who actually matter?
34:00 Ashley fell into exactly what is wrong with the patriarchy
35:00 Netflix Belle Gibson doc
37:00 -40:00 Raising kids in community
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bystander_effect
Tik tok video: UN Unty Tan
https://www.history.com/topics/crime/kitty-genovese
https://academy4sc.org/video/the-smoky-room-experiment-trust-your-instincts/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diffusion_of_responsibility
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Kitty_Genovese
https://www.simplypsychology.org/kitty-genovese.html
https://www.nytimes.com/2025/02/25/us/idaho-woman-removed-town-hall.html
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