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In this episode we delve into the often-overlooked aspect of relationships: the mental load. Do you ever find yourself exhausted in your relationship? Studies reveal that women often bear the brunt of additional responsibilities in relationships, leading to stress and resentment. 

We explore the concept of the "mental load," encompassing tasks like meal planning, decision-making, and scheduling. Discover how thes...

Today's episode is all about normalizing not wanting to have sex. There are countless podcasts, blogs, etc. about ways to make your sex life better, but there aren't as many for the ladies that just really aren't in the mood. Or we don't have time. Or our medications are making us not want to be intimate with a partner. All of these reasons are okay and we are here to give a few options on what to do to help. As...

In the spirit of fall and all things spooky season we have some horror stories for you. These aren’t your typical Halloween tales though… these are more… well… sexual. We have pulled together some of the best sexually horrific experiences for your listening pleasure (?). This episode contains the best of your worst sex stories. These stories are sure to entertain, possibly shock you a little, and he - if nothing else these might ma...

A few episodes ago we gave some great relationship advice. Well it looks like our advice helped and you're moving on in your relationships and getting a little more intimate! In today's episode we're talking all about sex. You guys sent in some great questions and we cover some really interesting topics! After that we give some new music recommendations, and last in Dish Bish we play 'Smash or Pass'!

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Today we are talking about the orgasm gap. Studies have shown over and over that heterosexual men consistently have more orgasms than heterosexual women in sex with a partner. In this episode we are going to discuss the orgasm gap, why it exists, what needs to change and some things that men and women can do to increase female pleasure and help decrease this gap in your personal experiences. 

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If you've been listening to us for a while then you might have heard our episode about Dreams. Today we are getting a little more intimate and specific. In this episode we are talking all about sex dreams! Their possible meanings and then going over some really crazy personal stories from some of our listeners and their sex dreams! After that we give a few new music recommendations, and last in Dish Bish we answer some fun ran...

In this episode we walk you through several questions that can help you determine if a relationship is toxic. Are you not 100% sure if someone is your friend or frenemy or do you sometimes just get an off vibe from that one friend? Recognizing toxic behaviors can be hard to do, but this episode will definitely help bring you some clarity. In addition to signs of a toxic relationship, we also walk through signs of a healthy relation...

Last week we had an episode with so many great relationship stories and scenarios that we ran out of time and had to split it into two parts!  Today's episode is continued with more from our last episode!
Relationships can be tough. You have to work at them, no matter how long you’ve been with your partner or partners. Sometimes things happen, feelings change. Even we as people change and grow. In today’s episode we are g...

Relationships can be tough. You have to work at them, no matter how long you’ve been with your partner or partners. Sometimes things happen, feelings change. Even we as people change and grow. In today’s episode we are going over some relationship issues and will be giving our advice. After that we give a few new music recommendations and last in Dish Bish we answer a few random fun questions!

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We asked listeners and are sharing some of your feedback and the top turn offs that give people the ick. We kick things off talking about some of our personal turn offs and then share what y'all said, including some fun stories that were sent in. Per usual we throw our some music in Jo Jam and then wrap things up on a more positive note diving into some turn ONs in Dish Bish at the end. 

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Today's episode is all about the fantasy land we live in when we're really crushing on someone or just can't stop thinking about all the possibilities for the future with them, or the possible meanings behind the small things they do. 9 times out of 10 the reality that we come up with in our heads about relationships is better than the actual reality we're living in, so it's easy to see why so many of us ar...

One of the things we hear SO much from listeners, primarily heterosexual women - is that they struggle to have sex that feels pleasurable and struggle even more to climax with a partner. This is a common issue, and while it does probably mostly affect straight women, it is something that can be a struggle for anyone and today we are going to talk about some things that can affect pleasure in partnered play and how to address them s...

In today's episode we're here to make you feel better about your love life. We've all had at least one or two and, in this episode, we tell a few of our listeners stories, a few we found online and maybe one or two of our own! After telling all the juicy and sometimes kind of gross details we give a few music recommendations, and last in Dish Bish we answer some fun random questions!

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Today we are going to talk about dating and when to take things to the next level… physically. Over the years we have both learned a lot about what we want,  don’t want and what a healthy approach to sex looks like for us. What works for me might sound awful for someone else, but there are some grounding questions that we think are helpful to figure out if you are dating. In this episode we talk about our sexual history and relatio...

We’ve all probably fumbled the bag at least once or twice. We’re seeing someone we’re really into and they’re into you and something happens and it just doesn’t work out. And I get it things happen, but we’re all about accountability here, and instead of wondering why he’s not calling anymore you might need to consider that you fumbled the bag. But keep in mind, nobody’s perfect! Including the dude you’re super bummed about that’s ...

Most women have at some point of another experienced a man (or let’s be honest lots of men) who don’t see women as humans. In this episode we are talking about what it looks like when men don't see women as fully human and breaking some things down from the female perspective. We walk through what women mean when they say that men don't see women as humans and give insight to what it is like to experience this on the rece...

Have you ever had a secret that you were just DYING to get out and tell somebody but you knew you couldn't because they would tell other people or judge you or you were just scared for people that know you to know? Well in today’s episode we are spilling all the tea and telling all your secrets! And maybe one or two of our own? But sorry, we’re not telling names, just the juicy details! After spilling all the details we give a...

This episode is packed with some wild questions and scenarios that we have come across or were sent in  by listeners. What would you do if your partner told you their other sexual partners were better in bed? Do women have it easier in dating? What are our thoughts on a surprise birthday BJ threesome situation? Do women actually love one night stands as much as guys do? Find out our thoughts on these questions and more in this epis...

We’ve all been there. You’re into this guy and he seems into you but then you don’t hear from him for a few days. Or he stopped liking your photos on instagram but then he sends you a selfie on snapchat. And I know it’s easy to say “just pick up the phone and send them a text or call and ask! Are you into me or not?” Yeah it’s easier said than done. So in today’s episode we are gonna find out, does he want me? Or not? We also give ...