Both Sides of The Bed

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss Masturbation, why they do it, what they fantasize about, the value of self pleasure and the positive and negative effects it can have on our sex life. 

Stay tuned to hear about the ways you can switch up you self pleasure “routine”

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In this episode, after receiving many questions on the subject, Ahmir and Basirah finally take a deep dive into open relationship and talk about the different types of open relationships, what their open relationship looks like, and break down the good, the bad and all the sexy things that comes with being in one. 

Stay tuned to hear about the important questions you should ask yourself if you are considering being in one ...

BSOTB IS BACK! In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah bring in the New Year catching us up on where they have been these last few months and some major challenges they faced during that time.

Come along for the ride as they take you back to the loving beginnings of their relationship and the beginning of Both Sides of The Bed. 

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Seduction is an energy, a dance, an intent and an art. 

In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah dive into the 9 different seduction styles, share their personal seductive techniques and discuss how having a seductive game can amplify your chances of getting what you desire…and your prey. 

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Have you wanted to spice things up in the bed room but struggled with how to bring up the topic to your partner? 

In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss “The Sex Blueprint”, a guide to help you get a better understanding of what you want and get a better understanding of your partners needs by, 
Getting clear about your wants, 
Identifying you desires 
and Being vulnerable. 

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What are the right ingredients for great sex?

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah chat with Kiki and Medinah, the lovely ladies of the Cocktails: Dirty Discussions podcast. They discuss how to have great sex, being the beloved unicorn, and uncommon porn interests! Kiki and Medinah are honest, hilarious, and know exactly what great sex means. 

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Do you give your self permission to be sexually free? Do you prioritize fun in your sexual experiences? 

In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss sexual freedom and the true embodiment of your sexual energy with sex enthusiast Majestyyy the self proclaimed “Funsexual”. Majestyyy takes us on a ride as they all discusses the importance of prioritizing fun and play in your sexual experiences. 

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For many of us our sex education journey has been anything but educational! Most of us have been taught about “the birds and the bees” and our schools have showed us many graphic images of all the STDS we were bound to get if we dared to have sex. But what about all the many MANY things they didn’t teach us? 

In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss all the things we wish we learned about sex growing up! From communicatin...

Sexual Confidence sets the tone for any sexual experience, it determines how present we are, how well we connect and how good we f*ck.  

In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss the importance of Sexual Confidence and deep dive into questions like “What kind of things make you feel sexually confident?” and “tell us about a time for you lacked sexual confidence?”. Listen as they share their journey to sexual confidence and...

Are you Vanilla, Freaky, or Kinky? 
How would you define Vanilla, Freaky, and Kinky? 

In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss the different definitions and perspectives surround Vanilla sex, Freaky behaviors and Kinky mindsets. Tune in as they share their personal experiences surrounding the type of sex they indulge in and how no matter the “category” you land in, sex is amazing as long as it’s consensual and you sho...

So, you wanna have a threesome! Has it been a fantasy of yours for a long time? Not sure how to navigate the world of manaja twa at all? Or are you seasoned in the world of threesomes and want to amplify your experience even more? 

 In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss threesomes, foursomes and moresomes and share their personal experiences and offer some tips on what they believe would be helpful to have a successful grou...

What do you REALLY, desire? 
Do you know? Does your partner know?

Acknowledging your own desires and your partners desires is vital if you are seeking an open, connected and fulfilling relationship. Whether it’s the type of relationship style you want, or the kinks you lust after, identifying and communicating your desires is the first step to achieving full satisfaction.

In this episode Ahmir and Basirah disc...

EP: 1 Why do people have sex?

Welcome to the very first of many episodes of Both Sides of The Bed! 

Do you ever wonder why you have sex? What entices your partner(s) to have sex? What your motives are?

In this episode we will dive in to the question “Why do people have sex?” We will learn about what drives Ahmir and Basirah to have sex and their opinions on why other do as well.

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This Podcast is a platform all about sex, love and relationships, join @ahmir_rashad & @Basirah__ every Wednesday as we dive into topics like:

Why do people have sex?
How to go after the sex you desire
The difference between Kinky sex, Vanilla sex and freaky sex
How your boundaries can set you free
Playing with “toys” 
Connecting to your sensual self
Butt stuff and so much more!

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Here is some Foreplay for ya! Get a taste of what we have in store for you!Ahmir Rashad and Basirah Rahim will deep dive into conversations surrounding sex relationships and intimacy!. They will give their honest raw and real opinions on various topics and share their insights on how they have cultivated their relationships and help their listeners explore and become more open-minded to new ways to receive pleasure and support the ...