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June 5, 2025 33 mins

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In the early morning of March 9, 2019, 25-year-old Aubrey Dameron left her home in Grove, Oklahoma, and disappeared. As a transgender, two-spirit woman, Aubrey’s identity placed her at greater risk in a community already grappling with systemic gaps in missing persons cases. Her family launched desperate searches and demanded answers, but for years, the mystery of her disappearance loomed large.

Six years later, her remains were discovered in a wooded area, bringing heartbreaking closure, yet still no accountability. What happened to Aubrey that night? Why did it take so long to find her? And who is responsible?

Join Arlene and Leah as they examine the victim, timeline, evidence, and suspects.

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Show Notes: 

Aubrey Dameron Vanishes 

Aubrey Dameron’s Remains Found

Remains of Aubrey Dameron Found After 6 Years

Family Thanks Community

A Life Worth Finding

Remains of Trans Woman Found

Aubrey Dameron’s Remains Located

 Aubrey Dameron ID’d

LA Times: Aubrey’s Disappearance

Aunt: There’s More to Aubrey’s Case

HubPages: Aubrey Dameron

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