Beats & Battles with Jon Gosselin

Join Brandi and James as they chat with Jon Gosselin, the original reality TV dad from "Jon & Kate Plus 8."  Dive deep into John's journey from TV stardom to his current life as a DJ. Hear about the challenges post-TV life brought, including his take on parenting, media scrutiny, and his return to DJing. John opens up about the invasive nature of reality TV, his legal battles, and protecting his family's privacy. Don't miss his insights into the DJ world, handling fame, and connecting with his audience through music. 

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Straw Hut Media. I haven't drankin three months now. Oh god?
What Wow from straw Hut Media.This is Brandy Glanville on the film.
Okay, everybody welcome. John Goslingwoo woo. Like, oh, we

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didn't even talk about it. DancyOg of reality TV he started Sunset ten.
No way, Well, now youknow if you don't know. And
obviously you're an og as well,because you are Kate plus eight. I'm
the original. Why are you inthe title Kate plus eight? No?
John and Kate plus eight? Ohis it? I started filming in two
thousand and six, that's the original, filmed five seasons with John and Kate,

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and then Kate filmed three more afterthat, right, and then she
changed it from John filmed one hundredand forty four episodes. Wow, that's
crazy. I think you've done moreTV than I have. So she wants
me to say I had fifty twomagazine cover in two thousand and nine.
That's like my claim to fame.But no, I mean you guys were
the talk of the town. Yeah, and it was first of all,
I want to know, why thefuck would you have eight children? Oh?

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We can swear on here yeah,I don't know, Brandy. I
just kind of showed up to theappointment twice and did mine little you guys
did in vitro we did? Areyou? I? Are you with interunion
inssemination? Okay, couldn't afford IVF. So what is that? It's like
the ghetto turkeyser like eighty four kids. No, they do control cycles for

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a follicle release. Do you understandthat? Yeah? And then does anyone
understand? Yeah? I know alot about a woman, a lot of
doctors to talk about eighty parts.Yeah. So I mean back then day
with FERTNX and stuff like that waskind of uncontrolled. So you really had
to watch, like ovarian hyperstimulation puttinghaving too many follicles in your ovaries and

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releasing them. We had monitored cyclesat the tailant technology of the time,
and obviously I had to make mymale deposit. It's very sorry. It
wasn't like wow. It wasn't likered curtains on the chandelier kind of what
do you do? Are you ina room on your arm? They give
you a magazine? Right room?Is it someone else? They help you?

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I was twenty two years old.I could do anything. Four Yeah,
five times. Yeah, like wedidn't need this much. Wait,
you're gonna you're gonna let me dothis all right? I'm married, Remember
I got married, y'ah. Ihad to. I got married at twenty
two. And I was like,that's the problem. Yeah, too young.
You don't even know who you aretwenty two. I've been I've been
divorced long and i've been married.So congratulations. Because I did work with

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Kate and we did not like eachother, that's good. Now we're now
we're friends. Yeah. She Iwas like in the boardroom like, I'm
like, what are you like?Kate? And I looked at Kate and
like, you're annoying as fun?Yeah, and they were like so then
they of course like we just didnot get along. She is annoying his
fuck for me? That was myYeah. I think that's the biggest thing

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is she wanted to continue on TVand I did not, and I didn't
want my children to continue during ourdivorce because I knew there was underlying things
going on in our divorce, butI didn't want to make it public,
so I pretty much stopped off filminguntil our divorce was going to be final.
But she wanted to continue, andso did the network. The network
wanted to film our divorce. Networksthey're going to be right, they want

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to capitalize on that. So Iwas like, I took the stance.
They sued me and they assumed mefor breach of contract, and I didn't
care. I'm like, what areyou going to take for me? You
still want to film my family,so you still need me to sign the
work exactly, So what are youdoing so you can't do anything to me?
You could depose me and everyone elsein the world. I'm not going
to jail. Now. There's likethis study about kids that are on reality.

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Now, see, we were thefirst family on TV. Ever,
so now we're the guinea pigs fortoday exactly. So oh, this is
what can happen. But we caseas us, we didn't know what would
happen, right because relatively new,Well yeah, two thousand and six,
there's there's no the only thing onTV is like Deadliest Catch. I'm not

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a fisherman, you know, andthere's no there's not two year olds out
in the fishing boat. So there'sno psychological comparison, right, you don't
mean Look, I'm saying you werelike you were you didn't know what you
were getting yourself into. But Imean I knew what I was signing up
for financially, well, yeah,to afford my family. I mean like,
I'm my ex husband would not allowingme to have the kids on the

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podcast, I mean podcast they canbe on the piast one on the show,
and I was always fighting with himabout it. And then I saw
this article because the kids don't getpaid just you know, just me.
Ours was the Goslin family contract theygot so on my infinite wisdom, which
I was wrong. If I quit, if I quit the show, then
the contract should be no one voidtechnically. But I should have done it.

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I mean legally, I should haveset up an LLC and then if
I quit it, the LLC that'sit. You can't assume me. I'm
quitting my own company, right,So that's like Paul Tuttle Junior did in
Orange County. But what what gaveyou that? You're like, I am
done. I don't want to.It just became so commercialized. The perfect
example I use is like, allright, I like Pampers. The network

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like Huggies, so on TV we'regoing to use Huggies. I don't want
to use. Yeah, my kidgets an allergic reaction to Huggies. That's
why we're using Pampers. So you'regonna you're gonna affect my children's Did they
find you originally? Like did someone? So we filmed to one of our

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documentaries and we were found by aproduction company. And I was originally on
Discovery Health. So that's now theO Network. She bought it for like
one point eight billion years ago.But I was on Discovery Health for two
years and then or two seasons andthen I went to TLC. So our
ratings were like through the roof.My ratings were like our show was rated

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at eleven point four Nielson, Iremember, so like two yeah, wow,
Yeah, you're still on like magazinecovers for ever with their dumb hair.
Well you have to look at theKaren haircut like you said it,
And I was just like, shehas the best. I will give it
to her. She has the besthair. What the fuck are you doing

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with that? She's really thick.Hanna Hannah, my daughter Hannah has really
thick hair. I was. Isaw them and at the times, like,
damn, our hair is long andthick and perfect color. You only
know by living with all these girls, all the hair in the shower,
like I bought my own snake.Well, always the only dude in the
house, so it's like cleaning outthe drain. But how do your kids

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feel now that you're separated and divorced. And I think I think it was
hard on them when it obviously whenit all happened, because they were way
young, man in power, youngand there was I think it was a
shocked bedding and karra. But nowI think, I mean, I don't
really talk to my twins anymore,or the other four there. They live
in Manhattan, they have their homelife, and my other four are in
North Carolina. And I always sayHannah and Colin keep their crap at my

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house, but I never seen it. Hannah comes home when she's at college,
and Colin he works a lot.So I mean, no, I
think it's better obviously, And youknow, there was a lot of abuse
and there's a lot of I cansay that now because I went to court
so many times, and so thatyou think that they think there was a

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lot of alienation. There was siblingalienation, which is still going on now
because the other kids other than Hannahdon't talk to Colin, and there's still
parent alienation because I haven't talked tomy other ones and I have no idea
what their thought process is on meor what they've been told what they but
I don't know what it is.And I have no cell phones and I
have no contact. But Hannah talksto them, so it's but it's weird

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contact them. I don't have theirnumbers, and I did it one point.
I was texting them like for yearsand I would get no response,
nothing, even when I would likego to Manhattan. She probably blocked her
number on their phones. No,yeah, her, she owns their phone.
Yeah, of course she has arelationship with them. Oh no,
Okay, well now she's not talkingto Hannah, but she's not talking to

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Colin either. Lesson learned. Don'tput your kids on reality TV. Make
sure your contracts like ironclad on inyour favor. In your favor, I
mean like half the ship that mykids say, I'm like, fuck,
I'm so cold. That's so youwere not dolls? Yeah, because we
grew up in like the eighties andnineties, and you would you never disrespect

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my mother on television. Oly No, I wouldn't even be sitting here right
now that will happen. I mean, I now thank Eddie for like fighting
me so hard because my kids areso well rounded. They don't like social
media. They are like real spicy. They get it from them mom.
But yeah, no, it's hardbecause you guys are like from here and

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I'm from like Pennsylvania, like ruralPennsylvania. Yeah, so there's like I'm
like the celebrity that the only personon television. Like when I like I
have to go DJ in my localclub that I've been working out, it
works out for you, right,yeah, monetarily it works out for me.
But like it's it's funny when myfriends are like, yeah, what's
wrong with those people? Like there'slike people that coming into our hometown.

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I'm like, yeah, I know, I don't know, meaning Kate and
the kids. No, he nevercomes back. She lives she lives in
North Carolina. She don't live here. I always say here, but she
doesn't live in Pennsylvania. So whoare you talking about? The people?
Oh, like tourists and like strangersin my community. Okay, They're like,
oh, I didn't know you're fromhere. I'm like, yeah,
I grew up two blocks from here, right, you're not from I get

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that. Get out. So Idid watch your show like for like on
and off because it was always on. Yeah it was. There was a
perfect times, like Monday nights atnine. It was just always on it.
I flipped through and it didn't Imean from the get go, it
really seemed like you guys hated eachother. I mean in my mind.

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I mean, you got to remember, I'm twenty seven years old. I
started filming. You're twenty seven rightnow? No, oh Jesus right,
No, we're talking about the show. That's why I started filming. I
started filming when I was twenty eightand it was new again. Yeah,
I was twenty eight and I hadeight kids. Yeah, under the age
of four. That's fucked though.Who could do I mean I could really
too. I had one at thatage, and I was like, it

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was difficult. When do you sleep? Don't you just don't? You don't
sleep? They did, you haveto do like brain analytics, compare your
brain to like a navy seal,and then you're not sleeping. Yeah,
you never. But that is literallytorture. They used to torture. I

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think what people don't understand is they'reyour children. So you'll do anything so
your mind and your body can gobeyond the capabilities of what you think you
can do. Yeah, wow,look at you. Yeah, it's the
same as you know, like Danand yeah and getting healthy and changing your
lives stuff. We are capable ofhilding our bodies just with our brains,

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I think. But once you justdon't know it. Once you develop a
schedule with that many children, thingsare going to lack though. Affection's gonna
happen. Yeah, you're just tryingto get through the motions so thin,
no way you can. You can't. And then at the end of the
day you're supposed to give your wifeyou're drained. You're supposed to like be
like all your corporation. You're justgetting done good TV. But not you're

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making sixty four ounces of formula DA. Oh my god. I had to
use like new trimaging because my kidcouldn't digest it because he was We had
that. It's like we had asmuch is it like twenty five dollars a
cant. Yeah, we had todo regulin and use like the Similac stuff.
But it was like predigested was sopre progestive. Form Realize that's great.

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It was just crazy. But itwas just so expensive for one kid,
and the other one was like,I'll eat drink anything, lady.
Because I was not getting metic.I must hand it to Hershey Medicals,
Huenter. They really helped with gettingus in tune of what is going to
happen. So we already had Ialready had twins, they were four years
old, so my mother to you'resseparate from Kate. No, oh,

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okay, Alison, do your researchbranding that you were coming on last night.
I had twins first, Maddie andKara. They're four years older than
the sex tuplets, So I hadthem when I was twenty three. At
twenty seven, then I had thesextuplets, three boys, three girls.
So when the six were born,Maddie and Kara pretty much went to live

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with my mother because there's no wayI can maintain right two four year olds.
And then when you know we're inthe nick, you for two and
a half months. So like Hannahand Leah come home first though, the
healthiest, so they go by.There's like a whole checklist of stuff,
like they got to be able tobreathe on their own, they got to
be able to suck goal. Theygot to be you know all these things.

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Well, yeah, because they don'thave the ventilators and all that stuff,
like yeah, that all comes off. But they don't have the muscles
to hold a bottle and tuckle thenipple and stuff like that, so you
have to hold their mouth. Andthere's specialties they'll feed them and stuff,
and they're real small. You misshaving babies, I said to Adrian the
other day. I was like,you know what, I started watching John
and Kate again, just first season, just to see them as little kids.

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Oh, it is kind of niceto have that, like you smell
their like when I see babies now, I'm like, oh my god,
and there you're there. You're theirhero daddy's you know that. Now It's
like, could I get some money? And I don't want to hear about
your problems. I went through someproblems. I don't want to hear about

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boyfriend. I don't want to hearabout your girlfriend. That's for my girlfriend,
Stefanie. She does the women's work. She gives better advice because I'm
non EmPATH so I'm like, justdump them, like offay, you know
what I mean. Like, there'splenty of fishing. Try not to do
I talked to your kids about anything. Don't you want a career? You
know, I always try to steerthem towards. So how did you end

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up? Like off the show DJinghow To? So? I started djaying
in nineteen ninety three. I wasa sophomore in high school. That was
the vinyl days. You know,there's a lot of clubs back then.
People they didn't have a cell phone. Yeah, I had like actual entertainment
and communicated with people ie to so. Yeah, I used to go to

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clubs a lot and help DJs pickpick through the vinyl. You know,
we didn't have computers. We playedon the actually played an actual record,
actually had actually went to a recordstore. List record the East Coast and
West Coast, and they and youknow, recording studos would separate out the
distribution and you would get you know, different vinyl, and we trade different

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vinyl and then you'd select it alland then take it to the club.
And then we were like the advertisersof music, right, you know.
And I learned that real young.And then I met Kate in like ninety
nine, and how was her hair? Then? She had long hair and
she had like there you go aboutit real long hair like like my daughter
Handa. If you see it's likereal long and thick. Yeah, maybe

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it was because of all the kids. She just one of the short things
that she didn't have to do muchto it. Although it does look very
well put together. It got shorterand shorter. Also did some styling.
Yeah, yeah, there are somestyling, Like it was crazy, and
I think she went back to aweave and then grew it out. That
was still one good thing I cansay about. Then I went, I
mean, and after my divorce andall that stuff, I started going back

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to dj in like twenty fourteen.But like DJing is like a hierarchy.
You got to earn your keep.So it's like if you look at it
like Electrician, you got to startas like intern journeyman. You have to
you work your way up, andthen you have you have different levels,
like we were looked at like JazzyJeff and all these really high end DJs
who've been djaying for a long time. So it's like a mentoring program.
So I just started in bars.They're like, well, you're famous,

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you can't work commers. I'm likeI'm going to so yeah, that's idea
because you haven't. It's like paidpractice. You're also people into their place.
You know. I was very afterTV. There's a lot of PTSD
and stuff like that because I hadto go back to there's so it's so
traumatic. Yeah. So, Imean I've been a network engineer for twenty
seven years. I mean I didrobotics with Amazon. I've you know,

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worked at hospital schools. I've workedat industry all network engineering and you know,
and that's a very sedentary, introvertedjob. I don't have to talk
to anyone, and you're just sittingall day. It's not when I started
djaying. Now I have a microphone. I have to communicate with people.
I have to. I have tofight my PTSD and just have let myself
know that, yeah, you canbe a normal you can function in society.

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But I was so beaten down bythe network. And yeah, yeah,
and like I get it people writingstories about me like every day,
like I killed their dog or something. I don't know that. I don't
know you. Yeah, you weredefinitely like five friends, like the bad
guy on that And she was likelike, oh, I'm gonna, you
know, continue with all the kids. And I don't know. It was

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just so not genuine to me.Yeah, but yeah, no, it's
interesting to see. Like, soyou've come out of it, you decided
to DJ, pick up your oldyou know habits or what do you not
habits? What am I saying?You're old on weld? Yeah? Yeah,
Like playing music's really enjoyable because it'syou make people happy or you can

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piss them off if it's bad.Well, if you here's what happens.
If you're in a bad mood,it's probably your best DJ set because you
don't care. You're just hammering downand transitioning and it's just going. You're
not thinking as much, right,You're just like letting it flow. It's
called subconscious DJing, So you alreadyknow your transitions and all your songs.
You know, in a four hourset, I play about one hundred and

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sixty three to two hundred songs.So it's not just like I'm open format.
So I don't know why I'm goingto play Thursday night after dance.
Okay, So you have producer DJslike E d M and stuff like that,
Yeah, that they do a prerecorded I don't like. I literally
will go tomorrow Thursday night and beopen for me. I like, because

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you can't. You can't, youcan't, but you also can't be like,
hey, can you play a songbecause they have ready already. Yeah,
I play with you, not likeI like the old days, like
I haven't been to a club ina while, but like you grow up
and ask for a song. Yeah, they hate that. Apparently they they
because they have a pre recorder.Said like, I bring one terar body
of music with me. I don't. I don't play off the Internet or

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Spotify or anything like that. Iliterally study all week before I get to
my gigs. I have your ideaand then of what, yeah, I'm
doing. I studied demographics. Ido five colleges a month. I just
got back from Tampa. I flewdirectly here. I'm going to DJ Thursday
night. Yeah you are busy.We just did a charity event together and
it was just like he is everywhereI mean and doing good. Like obviously

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my Philly people proud too. Whenyou're DJing, is it like is there
a lot of that? I don'tlike. I let my music speak.
I mean most of my sets,I have an MC with me, So
I do really big schools in Pennsylvania. You know, I do like a
crowd of a thousand kids, liketwenty two year olds and stuff like that,
and I just let it fly.But I do my research before I

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get that. You know what Iwill go to, like like when I'm
at like at Penn State University orsomething like that, I'll be like Penn
State Playlist. Let me see whatthey're listening to. Now I have I
have censorship, Like I don't playcertain music because I don't think it's conducive
to my age group. And Ikind of keep it in the old school,
your age group or to my agegroup, because I refuse to play

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things that are violent, yeah,or like trap, like trap music,
see and like shit and bitch andall the bad FCC words. You know
what I mean. If it's old, just pussy indic the whole way through,
it loses the impact. It's justtoo much. No, my my
neck, my back. I playedThere's all my dick. Yeah, I

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love that you introduced me to that. Yeah. If I'm forty seven and
I'm djaying for twenty two year oldsat college, I'm getting booked and killing
it and they hear me play somethinglike that, then am I being a
good supporter of that music? Doyou know what I mean? They're looking
to me, so why don't Iredirect them to something that's more appropriate?

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Or since they were thirty? Doyou understand they do drugs? I understand
it, but that doesn't mean it'sappropriate, right, Do you know what
I mean? If I'm djaying formy kids who are now twenty four and
twenty, they know I'm not goingto play it. They'll tell their friends,
do not request any of that musicbecause he's not gonna put no,
I don't play well. What didyou think of that Grimes thing at Coachella

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recently? Did you see she fuckedup a set? Something had happened because
that's not a prepared DJA. You'renot prepared. I don't know rhymes.
Remember I'm Elon Musk's ex girlfriend,as I yeah, coach. She got
up there and all of a sudden, the set started glitching and she didn't
know how to make it all workagain. I can set up all this
audio coming over here, like I'mcapable to set up all this. I'm
capable of setting up a whole system. I'm going to go tomorrow and make

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sure that all works right. I'mdifferent because I grew up in the eighties
and nineties because we work but right, I had to learn it. Yeah,
at the same time, it's likeit falls back on you. If
it sucks it is, then it'slike you're not going to get hired.
Like I don't use record Box,I use Serato because I'm an open format
DJ. I don't know what.It's just two different it's just two different

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standardizations of DJing. So it's justsoftware. So do you make the bulk
of your money djting? Yeah,I'm full time DJ. Oh wow.
Yeah. I just started a staffingfirm for IT people especialies in IT.
I partner with someone, but Imean I've been it for twenty eight years.
He wasn't staffing for thirty so wejust decided to create a company.

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So are you pretty rich? Imean from all this my rich? No?
I mean idc its. My kidsare well, okay, yeah,
what do they do? What arethe I mean, what how old they
go to school? Twenty five?That's my twins work in Manhattan, ones
in banking, ones in uh marketingyou know, to syracusan Fortum, And

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no one felt that they need toget into any of the I mean they're
all TikTok famous, right, liketheir verifications, and they all make so
they will make money. They allmake their money. So there's a trickle
down from the Kate plus eight Johnand Kate. Yeah. Yeah, use
what you got Kate plus eight seven. Now, I ain't talking to you
like that. Yeah, okay,I'm just I mean, I went on.

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It's just it's just like, usewhat you got. Yeah. Oh
my god. This is the firsttime in my life that I feel really
free. I don't have to dealwith my ex wife anymore in court.
I've been going to court for fourteenyears and that just ended. I don't

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have to deal I'm an empty master. I was an empty aster at forty
six, and I'm now following mydream of playing music for people. It's
monetarily building more and more now becausepeople are recognizing me, I get more.
I'm getting recognized as a real DJversus a celebrity DJ. Right,
sounds like you. It's kind oflike how poly De started. I'm friends

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with Polly, so I think hegot you know, he started because the
people who knew he was and thenit turns out he's actually a really good
DJ. Yeah. Well, it'salmost working against yourself because you're like you
have to do so much extra walkto prove yourself. It's not just because
I'm on TV. I'm actually youknow what I mean. I think it's
just part of an open format becauseyou don't know what I'm going to play.
But it also makes you stay.Like my job in a bar or

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is to make you stay, yeah, and make money for the bar.
Yeah you're not, so you're notpaying a cover. I'm just making you
stay. And they're making money onliquor and food. So you make them
two really good songs and then likea decent song so they can go to
the bar and dehide rate and thencome back to good. Those are those
are called in set transitions. OhI made that up in my head.

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I am so smart. You don'twant to people dancing all the time because
the need to make exactly Yeah,so you have to. You'll hear it.
Like so like you can use Rand B or you can you can
go up to like one hundred andtwenty eight p pms, but then you
can transition back to like one ten, one fifteen. Like play You're justin
Timberlakes and your Bruno Mars. Yeah, so people like laxon, go get

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a drink, right, you're forcingpeople. You don't know what's happening,
but you're subconscious. I already knew. I just said it DJ Brandy.
But at the end of the night, like I still play, I still
play R and B. At theend of the night. Do you play
because you just met a girl?You just want to chill? You know?
Yeah? You know you have olderlike music like the like my favorite

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song Ormers, how do yous getstarted? Started by the jealous people and
they get macus up the ned andsomebody else's hold And yeah, I still
play dance hall, I still playmotown, I still play whatever is like
the I can feel and you'll seecoming. Adrian's been to my sets.
She knows. I know, she'syour favorite person. She's like John this

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John that. I'm like, Ithink you're in luck with John. She's
not. She's myster no, Iknow that, but like when she's like
she just loves you and is alwaysraised my sister from a different mista all
right, And apparently she does theairport pickups, which I don't even do
that. So I used to livehere. I I used to live in

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off of where was it Sunset Plazaplace? Like you know what hugs you
go up? So I shipped mycar here right in two thousand and nine.
You said you ship your car mymouth. That's like that old Kmar
commercial ship, the bed ship thebed so uh, No, I shipped
my car here from Pennsylvania. Stillsounds like sh ship. I transferred and

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transported my car here from Pennsylvania.But I never drove in l A.
I just sat there. The onlytime I drove is from Santa Bar her
down here and I parked my carbecause Adrian takes Shiver and her porch.
Well, I didn't really, Ididn't really know we're talking about. And
she's a pure amazing person. Weleft her and she's over there behind.
But I think I do a lotfor Adrian as well too. I never

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said that you didn't. I'm justsaying an airport pickup is. It's cute.
She did it for phadri To.Someone asked me for that this morning
and I was like no, I'mlike I said, I would rather order
you. But it's hard now becauseyou have to get all your luggage,
get on a tram, go around, get your luggage off like I broke
the meal on my luggage. Ifyou order a black Oa, they're allowed.

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Listen. I come here so often. I stand at the exact same
place every single time, and Adrianalways calls me and says, where are
you. I'm like, what pullyou? I'm like for E four for
people are only fly American, Ido too. I always stand at the
orange pole that has the LA Lakerssign on it the airport in New York

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constantly. I'm she's got She's goingto be like driving on the side.
She's like, you want to Californiathree times Santa Barbara to hear, and
then oh, I drove from Utahto hear, and then I drove from

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San Diego to Palm Springs. Nowthat you're going to Palm Springs, we
should collaborate because there's a lot ofgame in there. You're going to drive
me in a p I'm a reallygood driver. I drove him somewhere.
She is I'm aggressive as a driver, but that's fine. I have to
deal with that. Sometimes my kidsget not you'll only get her playlist,
but it's a good one. Itis. But then j I want to

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just play his own songs that hesings, which I don't want to listen
to you all the time. Thatis, there's a Palm Springs road trip
in our future. Yeah, andI think that you could DJ at a
drag Queen night and I could dowhatever Fader's doing. I was waiting for
the fade recall, like, hey, it'll come photo shoot red bathroom.

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That bathroom is sick. So we'retalking to Adrian. Listen, I know
all the buttons in the house sowell, so do you chop toicate it
all? I haven't really, Ihaven't heard Create's voice in like twenty eighteen.
I went to you hadn't written dire. I went to court so much
like my docket looks like a film, but but why did you have to
go to court? Because she kepton suing me for things? She wanted

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to film this, she wanted todo that. She wanted back child supports.
You want to kids, Yeah,she wants to be in the press.
So she was so like a borderlineA borderline personality person will just do
anything they can right because the correctand she got caught up. I mean,
can you imagine being at the topand that have nothing? Someone are

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you dating? Or I was likespeaking right, I mean, like I
to see you personally and like youhave something for so long and then one
day it's just not there. Right, But people don't realize, like it
is drug. It is like almostthe worst drug, and people get addicted
to it and they'll do anything forit. And I just wish I like,
if I have to be famous,I wish it meant I was rich,

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because to be famous and it's hardto bullshit. Yeah, it's way
worse. It's so bad. Idon't even want it because then people like
can't say things about me. Imean, there you have better marketing opportunities,
but like, yeah, but isit mean them to beat you down
as a human being and see theycall you names and say horrible things about

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you to the world. It tookme, what, Adrian what, eleven
years? Eleven years I had agood article. That's only been a year
and a half for me, andI still am waiting. You know,
we can start until we started late, but eleven years until I was like
vindicating the press. It's just toget people to hear hear yeah, because

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no one really reads the retraction.No one reads oh exactly my point.
So all of the articles about mebeing whatever, the sexual miscontact three hundred
articles over a year and three months, and then finally Bravo comes out and
says, oh, no, shedidn't do anything too late, right,
and no one's writing about that.I'm vindicated, and it's like it ruined

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me. It's really hard for y'all to live here because I in Pennsylvania.
I can go farming, I gofishing. I can just and people
in my Ernant don't read that.They don't. I live in like manufacturing
world. Well now it's like blogsand it's all on the computer. No
one even buys. Like. Noone's rolling to me in my hometown say
oh I read that about you forI'm punching in the face right and the

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cops will back me up. Thirdof all the cops in Pennsylvania, I
don't own them. I graduated highschool with them. Oh god, I
gotcha. I have a brother.Is a copy probably are rest. Yeah,
but here it's different. This isyour mainstream, that's your that's the
mainstream industry here. Yeah, youknow what I mean. True, but
it's still difficult. I mean,it was just easier to be back in

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p A. Oh yeah, Ican only I mean I used to that
pts get on a plane coming herein the top used to hang on the
bag. They were always there.They're gone now. I think that they
have all these new rules. AndI mean there was one guy from TD
that was really nice. There's noremember there was splash and I am all
of them and I'm like, everyonerode around their bicycles in New York in

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LA and Instagram. Yeah, Instagramwas already the same, already taken care
technology and their camera phones forty eightmakeup pixels. You can take a picture
of me and sell it or whatever. Who's going to buy a picture of
you or me? I don't thinkanyone wants to buy a picture of us.
We could take a picture, wecould see what we want to know
your value. Yeah, because you'rein Calabasas and you're leaving, leave,

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I'm going to leave. There's toomany box there and white Tesla's that scare
me either way. I just sawa robot delivering food. Yeah, I
thought in Santa Monica for the firsttime. I'm like, was like messing
to the little names showing into eachother and we he stopped and blinks.

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I like people with them. Idon't really like that It's like I would
funk with it, but it's sosweet pick up if I was I needed
food would Yeah, that's the rolling. I mean, I can't believe they
that they would take over my eyes. All right, Ryan wants to st
here. We have to wrap thisup, John, but so good having
you. Yeah, and we're goingto be hanging. We got closer and

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so we kept on doing appearance afterappearance. Yeah, and now look at
you. Look at you. You'vemade it to the pot like filter googling.
Let's just say, Palm Springs trip. We need to do a Palm
Springs trip that I would love.Beautiful house. She's right, apparently I'm

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going at some point. Yeah,it's awesome. Yeah, no, I'm
excited to go. Well, wehave to wrap it up, guys.
Thanks for everyone, Happy birthday toeveryone. Thank you, bye guy bye.
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