July 10, 2023 • 50 mins
Get ready for a sizzling scoop as Brandi teams up with her fabulous friend Gretchen Rossi, the ultimate full-time mom from 'Real Housewives: Ultimate Girls Trip'. Together, they catch up on all the drama and dish out a spicy review of the show's juiciest moments. From the insane paycheck to the unexpected twists caused by cast members' members' exits, and the crazy challenges they faced while shooting. Tune in for an eye-opening and entertaining journey into the wild world of reality TV, where reality is anything but ordinary!
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Straw Media. We were like,noah, it's actually funny from straw Hunt
Media. This is Brandy Glanville funnyfilm. So Ryan, today we have
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my friend GRASSI, we sure do. And why is she here today?
Because she's my friend? Okay?Good? Um. She and I were
talking yesterday and we had a lastminute cancelation on the pod and I'm like,
hey, would you do the pod? And She's like yeah, of
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course, Like that's a friend.Like oh my gosh, I know that's
and saved our butts, saved ourbutts. Yeah yeah, and then um,
yeah, so that was that's whyshe'd here. I wish you would
live closer. I know it wouldbe nice still out, but we got
to get this fixed before we reallyyeah yeah, we got to have mine
in the fridge and beer and thecrack on. Okay, look crack.
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I'm so hungry. Our studio willbe ready. I know. I haven't
had lunch. I'm starving, andI'm not going to say the address at
were on Rose Avenue. Like there'sa lot of cute white like boys walking
by, like this is prime location. When during Pride Week this street was
crazy. I can't well, Ican imagine it's Pride month. Still a
couple of days. Yeah, yeah, but like the first week of Pride,
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Yeah yeah, I was wild here. Yeah, it's it's insane as
well. I ordered an outfit forPride when I was going, and I
still haven't gotten him. Oh nowit's too late. Well, it's so
cute. I'll figure out a way. Where is there any what is is
there any thing in particular you're interestedto ask? Catching? Well, I
think you know, we haven't hadum. You know, we've had conversations
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since all the drama, but wehaven't you know, really were they've been
sure, Like you know, she'slike had you know, five minutes here,
or she had a question for me, or I had a question for
her. Um, but you know, she's a mom, Like she doesn't
have just a general catchups, notlike anything like no, we don't have
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that. Like I talked to heryesterday. Um, it was about the
show, but it was also aboutthis girl's chop. I'm trying to plan
um, but you know, Idon't. I just like she's a real
person. I like her. Soshe's one that you would act. She's
like she's a lady that you wouldActually we're recording no, do you know
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it? Oh you want to hearsomething? Fuck up? Oh my god.
I was at Aubrey's house what twodays ago, shooting for our only
fans, stuffy um, and Ileft all my lights there. So the
next day, bring Jake, myson, and we get the lights because
I don't want to carry all ofthem. You know, Jakes a big
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guy. Whatever we want, Idon't want to carry. But I always
had pigs and shoes and other thingsthere. Um, We're walking out to
my car and there's an old manthat lives next door to her, and
he's spraying his lawn. Then hestarted spraying over the sidewalk onto this little
Patrick grass. It's just right bymy car. Yeah, and Jake's tried
to put the lights in my carand he sprayed Jake's leg, and Jake
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just assumed it was an accident.And then we got the lights in the
car and Jake went to open thefront door and he sprayed Jake's whole side
of him. Yes, I waslike, oh fuck that. I was
like. I started. He's like, mom, Mom, let it go,
let it go. Go fuck that. And I started to get out
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and he's like mom, please,And so then I just started honking my
horn like straight for like four minutes. He was spraying my whole car with
water. Oh my gosh, you'regetting in a fight. I mean was
like eighty Oh I was going toget in a fight though, What the
fuck? You know? Was framedmy kid? I was like, ah,
were your neighbors insane? And she'slike, oh, I can't.
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I'm not gonna be able to haveany parties. I'm like nope. But
then after like a couple of hours, I started to really like him,
because that's crazy. You liked himafter a couple of hours. I liked
the story. I'm like, that'sso crazy story. Yeah, and I
also like when old women say fuck. It makes me happy. I don't
know anyway, were crushing in here. She doesn't curse a lot, but
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I will curse for the best ofus. All right, Hey, guys,
welcome to Brandy Glenville. I'm filtered. I'm here with my good friend
Crutchen Rossie. Hello, baby doll, how are you? I am good.
I We have a new podcast studio, so next time you have to
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come and see it. It's reallycute. We're still getting it together,
but it's I would love to haveyou here in person. Wait, you
have a new podcast? Way No, yeah, we moved because the one,
like during COVID, we lost thelast one. So we were doing
in my house and I just gotto be Yeah, you were there,
you and the baby and Slade.We were at the last one. So
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we have a new one because COVIDwe had to let it go because we
were paying for nothing, you know, no one of course, we couldn't
even do that. So we're new. We're here. Um, how are
you doing. I'm good. I'mjust you know, living my best mom
life right now. I'm folding towelsand doing laundry and every real born stuff.
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But I mean that's the real shit. But recently, you've you've kind
of come back into you know,the housewife circle with we won't talk a
lot about it, but with ourrecent girls trip, I know, how
was that for you? Like comingback in So I'm still deciding if I'm
being Honestum, it was interesting becauseI you know, I I really did
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think I was gonna do something inregards to housewives again, Like I kind
of just thought, Okay, thatdoor's closed, Like that chapter's closed for
me, you know what I mean? Like, I just yeah, I
kind of felt like I moved onfrom it and I just was enjoying a
more quiet life and all of that. And then it was interesting because when
Andy called me back in November,and you know, first of all,
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when your phone rings and it's AndyCohen, You're like, oh, dear,
Like, what's going on? Right? My heart drops into my stomach.
I'm either in trouble or usually I'min trouble. So the oster calls
were good because it was job offers, but I was like, oh my
god, what did I do?Now? Well, it's so funny because
literally that's what I like people thathave interviewed me. I'm like, I
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either was in trouble or it wasgonna be like a good call. So
it was kind of funny because Ipay, I'm like hello, and he's
like hi. And it was justkind of funny because I you know,
we had it talked in several years. I mean we text every now and
again, and you know, ifsomething exciting is going on for him or
like the baby stuff or whatever.Right, so he was like, what
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do you think I'm kind about?And I'm like I have no idea,
like literally no idea, and he'slike, well, if you had to
guess, what would it be.And I was like, please don't tell
me it's about Housewives because this waskind of at the beginning of when they
first started filming, and I waslike, oh, my gosh, if
they're calling like and the thing that'salways hard about a phone call like that
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is at the end of the day, you know they're offering you money,
and it's always hard to turn downmoney. But at the same time,
I kind of already made up inmy head, you know, I'm not
going to go back and do thatunless it was just stupid, stupid money
that they offered right right, Soit was yeah, exactly. So I
go, please don't tell me itwas about it's about Housewives and he's like,
no, but it's about Ultimate GirlsTrip and I was like, oh.
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I was like, okay, I'mlike my ears have perked up.
Talk to me about this. AndI've always said that when they first started
doing the Ultimate Girl Ship, I'mlike, that would actually be fun because
I really do have a lot ofauthentic friendships with a lot of the Girls
and all the other franchises, andI just feel like it would be fun
and something different and fresh. Right, let's not just go and get and
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fight so and yell for the volumeof some people that yell its just makes
me crazy. We won't say who, but it's just like oh my god,
like I no, but but itis nice to think about, like,
Okay, here's all of this moneyfor a week a week a week
with people like for the most hearts, like when you know, I did
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it. I didn't really have anybeefs but a little bit, but it
was just so nice to be towalk into something fresh where you make new
friendships. You have new beefs probablyright, but it's not just fighting about
the same old shiit same old shipexactly. And I think that it was
funny because he Andy knows me sowell. He's like, I know,
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the two questions that you're going toask is who's on the cast and how
much money am I making? AndI'm like, you know me, oh
and so yeah. So that waskind of what happened, was when he
talked to me about you know,um what we were getting paid and then
also who was on the cast.I was like, oh, I was
like wow, okay. I waslike I definitely have interest, so you
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know, and then I wanted totalk with late and you know, I
mean, I took it was thefirst time I've I've traveled away from Skyler
that long, and it was veryfar away, and it was you know,
there was a lot to think aboutthat I had to make sure it
was it made sense for us inour family and what was going on.
And ultimately I ended up talking toyou and I talked to Padre because I'm
friends with a lot of you girls, and you guys were like, no,
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it's actually really a lot of fun, and you know, it's everything
like you're saying. It was justit's kind of it's just different. And
everything that I heard from you girlswas that it was it really was a
fun experience. It wasn't like thisnegative, toxic feeling that you got,
you know, doing this show.And you're together twenty four seven. So
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even if you habit tiff, youyou kind of can resolve it because you're
you can't leave, You're in thesame house. It's exactly like you have
to like face whatever you're dealing withwith that person the next second that you
see them. So yeah, Soanyways, I was I was excited once
I finally made the decision and thenwhen they told us we were going to
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Morocco and just all the stuff,it just you know, it became a
really fun venture for me to youknow, plan for and put everything together
and my outfits and all of thatstuff. So um so that was fun.
You and your outfits, they're socute. You and Phedra are the
biggest fashionistas I know, Like likeyou guys have like our perfectionists. I'm
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like, what do I having herethat will look decent together? I'm like,
I don't know what I'm wearing.First of all, you always look
so cute, no matter why wereally are you just an't really cute?
Okay you really do? You reftogether really well? But I really I
do. Like I It's like it'slike fun for me. I love fashion.
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It's like a way for me tolike express myself. And you know,
and I'm sure, you know,I'm sure people will have plenty to
say about stuff, but I don'tcare. It's it's what I like.
It's how I feel that I lookcute, and that's all that matters,
you know. No, if that'syour passion, that's your passion. Like
the Fader's the same way. Likeit's just like I think because I modeled
for so long and I was justa close hanger for so long, I
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got to the point where like I'mjust gonna wear whatever and not I can't
like I don't know. I'm mygirlfriend, my best one of my best
ones. Christ it's the same asyou guys. She's like she loves her
fashion, and I'm like, whatare you wearing to dinner? I'm like,
who, I'll know five minutes beforeI leave. I have no idea.
Well I do that alesso too,like just on my daily stuff like
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I don't really care think about ittoo much, or if I'm doing like
a dinner, like I don't reallylike play on that out, but if
it's like a big trip or especiallystuff for like TV, like you know
you want to especial And also becauseyou don't remember, I haven't been on
Bravo and many many years, andso it's like, you know, people
are gonna be judging, people aregonna have lutch to say, and you
know, I'm sure there's gonna befunniest stuff because I haven't been on the
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show for you know, like asa full time house I put almost ten
years, and it's like people aregonna forget that you age in ten years
and I've never had plastic surgery,so I've aged. Do you know what
I mean? You look great.You just have to realize that there's just
haters out there because they have tosay something. And when someone's yucky enough
to go after your looks, whichI can't imagine that happens that it happens
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to me every day. It usedto bug me and now I'm like,
go fuck yourself. What happened isI got a little chubby, or I
got fat, or I got older, Go suck a day. Sorry,
I'm a little like annoyed with allof these people that feel like they're allowed
to have an opinion about how Ilook. Right, No, I agree,
I agree. I went through fourand a half years of IVF and
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during that time, people were sayingso much and it's like I gained,
you know, fifteen pounds through thatprocess and people had so much to say,
and it was it was definitely hard, you know, but it was
what it was. It was like, yeah, I gained weight because I'm
trying to have a baby. SoI feel you on that. But okay,
so I gotta ask you, though, do you feel like you're happy
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you went and did another season,or after everything that's been going on,
are you just like, oh,like you don't know how you feel yet?
No, I know how I feel. I was really excited. I
thought that cast was great. Ithought like a couple of the people were
like it was a little bit ofan awkward like, I don't I didn't
know how they were going to reallyfit in um. But I was excited
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because even though we had drama lasttime, like Vicky and I did not
get along first season at all.But you know, we at the end,
we came together, all of us, and we were like we left
happy, we left, We're ona group chat. We're all still friends
coming into this because it changed forthe first time ever. This has never
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happened on any show I've were done. They decided to have hr which I
didn't really. I mean, itwas like, Okay, how are they
going to have that when on realitytelevision when we're throwing line and you know,
like, so what's going to happen? So I wasn't prepared. I
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think that was the hardest part.I was just doing what I always do
and and you know, some shitwent down, and for me, it
was just normal, and I didn'tthink it was a big deal, and
now it's a huge deal, andI wish I hadn't gone. Of course,
I wish I hadn't gone now,but it sucks because I didn't act
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any way that I hadn't ever,like every like I got praise from you
know, Francis and Andy for thefirst season where I stuck my tongue down
Taylor's throw and was naked half thetime and Tamara humped everyone running around grabbing
crotches like we got prace for thatand so but we didn't have the HR
and that we didn't have the classyou had to take on that. So
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this is something new that they're doing. I just don't see how you can
go and have a fun reality showwith you know, HR, Like it
just isn't gonna I don't know,but I know it's new. They're working
it out, but honestly don't Idon't. I don't trust anyone anymore,
or not not your girls, Yeah, but I don't trust the process anymore.
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So I don't see myself doing that. I feel like if, like
I was talking Lisa Wrnt about it, like if you do your job and
you're good at it. Someone's gonnaget pissed off. You're gonna say something
where someone raises their hand and goes, I want to call HR. So
you're not gonna have a show,right, So you know, you do
your job and you get punished forit, so it's difficult. But well,
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it's funny you say that because whenwe were doing that um the HR
stuff, and I get I don't, I forget what it was like you
had to talk with somebody after factorbefore the fact, I forget what it
was. But we had to beon the phone with somebody and we were
going through everything and then they werelike, you can ask questions, and
it was so funny because they weregiving you all these roles of like you
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can't have an opinion that could beoffensive and this, and I'm like,
I'm sorry, I'm like I'm reallyconfused, Like do you know what show?
We're all right exactly. Our jobis to have an opinion about anybody,
whether it has to do with anything, like it doesn't matter if it's
race, religion. This that we'regetting paid to have an opinion, to
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be ourselves and to have an opinionabout what you think about what other people
are doing. And so I'm like, I go, this just feels very
contradictory to me to like it's sohypocritical. Yeah, And it was funny
because even the girl in the phonewas like, well, that's a very
good point. I'll have to goback and talk to them about that.
And I'm like yeah, because like, I'm not trying to be difficult here,
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I'm just trying to make sure Iunderstand what it is that you're telling
me here because it's easy. Yeah. And also like you have producers trying
to get you to be controversial,but then if you're controversial, it goes
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against the rules of the sexual confusing. Well, I didn't take the class
because I couldn't get it to work, so then I wasn't supposed to be
able to, like, um,film loft like legally, and they still
let me film and somehow I'm introuble. So I'm like whatever, But
um, well, I guess we'llsee what hands out when the show airs,
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right, I mean, that's that'sthe thing. At the end of
the day. We're gonna find outwhat went on when the show airs.
Yeah. Well, my girlfriend Kristen, like I said, she just finished
it. She goes Brandy never again. I will sit at soccer practice,
pick up every kid in the school. I will do dishes for the rest
of my life. She's like,I will never do that again. But
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she had the same course where Iguess Ramona had said, how the fuck
are we supposed to have a show, because they had like a way more
intense course where they had to likeshow up. And Christen's like, you're
not allowed just to put anything onsocial media about any of the other girls
that you're with. That's I havethe girl to go on Twitter and ruin
the other people, Like that's partof Housewives. You're not allowed to You're
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not allowed to talk about anyone's age. So yeah, exactly, if you're
like pissed off and like okay,old bitch, go link, you know
right, you can't do that.But see, that's my point exactly.
That that's why everything that they weresaying to me, I was like,
I'm not trying to be rude orlike, you know, call up an
issue here, but I'm just kindof confused because they actually like encourage us
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to do this, but there you'retelling me I can't do it. Like
I'm still confused, you know,I think that the producers need to be
taking that class. So they like, if we're being told all right,
turn the part already get wild?Ye Like like then we get wild and
something's too much okay growing or likeokay, Brandy, we don't they come
into our rooms. I don't thinkpeople know this. Producers come into our
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rooms and they talk to us likeright, and generally it's we don't have
a show. We need to dosomething right and right it's like, okay,
where's the where's the line? Likewhat how do you make a good
I told you know, when Italked to Andy, I said, I
went there to make good TV foryou. I've always done my best to
make sure you have a show.And he's like, I know, I
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agree. He's like, this isyou know, this whole HR thing is
new and it's just super frustrating foreveryone involved. And yeah, I'm like,
well me, especially homie. Yeah, And I mean, I mean
the thing is is that you know. I was I was telling you,
I's okay who I was talking tothe other day. Somebody was asking me
something about you, and I waslike, you guys, I was like,
Brandy is actually one of the mostintelligent women I've ever met I goes,
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she is so good your job,and that really is what it is
at the end of the day.It's a job, and you know you're
really good. And I say performor not in the sense that you're being
fake or not doing anything real.I'm what I'm saying is that there's some
people that just are really good atreality TV. And you know how to
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keep the story going, you knowhow to keep it moving, you know
how to call people out and saythings that people at home are probably thinking
like, and you just you justdo your job really really well and so
um and so I think that alot of people forget that, like you
know most and part of the reasonthat you're harded by all of these people
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and you go out and you dowith so many shows is because you bring
not to the table, right AndI'm not I'm not going like I don't
like a lot of people sit aroundand pretend to drink or like I get
lit. I have like like,I'm not gonna sit and produce myself.
I'm gonna be me. I'm gonnahave fun. I like, I will
listen to the producers at times.So at times I'm like, no way,
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fuck you yeah, but I like, just it's it's insane to me.
Um, how they're gonna have theseshows anymore. It's gonna be interesting.
It's gonna be very interesting, especiallyafter I sue everyone for guest eline
dollars. No you're not. Ilove that person, but I do it.
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Girl. I don't have any moneyto say what anyone. But it's
just frustrating because like I have acase and I want to plead it and
I want people to listen. Butwhatever. But when Christine came back,
she's like, never doing it again. Why didn't she say that? Because
so she did the Legacy one.Yeah, and you know with all of
the house lies of New York becauseshe was on New York for a couple
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of years, and she she thoughtthat they were all like just not doing
like no one was doing anything.They wanted to go there, collect their
check and sit around and drink rose. Oh that sucks, right. So
I'm like, I personally think it'sprobably because they didn't get their show and
they're like, fuck, you weregonna take this money and make a bad
show. But that's just me guessing. But Christian's like, pretty this is
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hell. No one's doing anything.Oh, no, so she felt like
she had to like pick it up. Yeah, and she's like, I'm
I'm here with the Golden Girls,but they're not even as funny as the
Cotton Girls. I'm like, youneed to say that, and she's like,
I can't aige shame. Well.I's like, I'm then I'm a
bully and they'll call hr. Hrsays, no, I'm talking about their
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age. Oh my gosh, it'sso funny. She said this someone I'm
not gonna I'm not gonna give awaywho like was fully trying to hump her
in the pool and being crazy andtrying to kiss her. I'm like,
yeah, you're very lucky. Imean they're lucky it was Christian because Christian's
like doesn't care. Yeah, butlike if it was let's say, somebody
that was older and felt awkward aboutbeing in that situation, they would easily
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shut down production. Yeah. Well, I mean it's it's just funny.
But but having now that you've doneit, besides the drama that shouldn't be
going on, do you think youwould ever consider Because this is what I
really want, is you Vicky andTamera back on OC. I want you
guys to hash it out. No, I don't want you guys to fight.
I want you there's like so manyunresolved issues and I really like all
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of you and I feel like youcould and would be friends because the ship
that is stuff. You saw me, you you saw me with Vicky.
How many times did I try?I was cool, I didn't feed into
the stuff. But it's like shewants to just have an issue with me.
She just antagonizes me. And I'malso not a wallflower, so I'm
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not going to just let her stayshit that isn't right or isn't correct,
or is it like here's the thingabout me and this is the thing that
always happened on OC too. Inever start to shit ever. Ever,
if you're gonna start calling me aliar and doing things like that, I'm
going to come back at you exactlythe same exact way. You're reactionary,
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Like you're not gonna just go inthere and be like an asshole. Yeah,
I went in there to have Ihad. As far as I knew,
I there was no issues with Vicky. Her and I had made up.
We were fine, we were cool. I had no issues with her.
When she sits down at a tableand I find out that she's kind
of behind the scenes talking to othergirls and telling them stories that aren't even
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legit. And then when I actuallystay, wait a minute, you didn't
tell the full story here, Andthen Caroline's like, what, I didn't
know this part of the story.I'm like, of course you didn't,
because she's only showing one side ofthe story, or telling the side that
makes her look like for me,and that kind of shit I don't I
don't do well with. It's like, tell the full story. If somebody
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wants to still think I'm a jark, fine, but don't just tell the
parts of the story, or don'tcome out saying that I'm a liar.
It's like, if you're gonna startlies about me, I'm gonna start telling
the truth about you. That's justmy role. And I don't and that's
how I play. Like. Ialways say, like, if you go
lower, I go lower. Imean, that's that's just me. Like,
if you want to start there,we're gonna finish in the dirt.
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Yeah. But I think that ultimately, I feel like, because you guys
haven't been together and so long,all of this shit has built up and
people want to see resolution. Andthey want to have answers. I just
feel like I don't know. Ilike all three of you. I but
I understand like if anyone talks tome the way that you know, you
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guys were fighting, I would bein the same boat. I don't take
shit like I can't. I don'tfix it. I don't sit and I'm
not gonna sit there and get beatup and be like okay, because I'm
just gonna let it go. No, I don't do that. So and
again, like I said, Icame into that with no issues with her.
I was planning on being totally cool. But it's like she had amnesia,
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Like she was like, oh,you did this on the show,
and I'm like, actually, no, I didn't. This is I did
the exact opposite of what you're tellingme I did. And so, and
I know that they're gonna do aflashback. They're gonna show it, and
it's gonna be great because it's gonnaprove exactly what you're saying to be true.
So I just my whole thing isAnd even with Tamra, like I
don't whatever, Like you don't thinkabout them in a negative way, like
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you don't you You're like you're pastit. I'm just like whatever obviously for
casting purposes, like it brought thedrama and you know you're you guys.
I wanted to know more because Idon't know, like the whole I mean,
we can't go it right now,but I don't know the whole backstory
of why y'all are not friends,you know what I mean? So,
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and I think that's what everyone wants, Like, look it was, it's
been so long. I want tosee you all back together. I want
to understand what actually happened. Iwant to see flashbacks. I want to
see you guys attempt to move forwardbecause I know you're like me, your
scorpio. We forgive like we can'tlike we're like I get over things really
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quickly unless someone's just a fucking asshole. Um and and pretends to be a
wallflower, even though two hours earliershe had no problem yelling at me about
my parenting and my children and mydrinking whatever. Um sorry, I just
I lost my mind there for asecond. Um No, but I'd like,
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I would would you ever be interested? Or you just like the one
off one week? And by theway, it's been tough for all of
you and it was. It wasn'tlike it was the first time. It
was actually really fun the first time, and you know, yeah, I
mean it was a it was avery different show than I think all of
us thought it was going to turnout to me. So that was hard
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and I was bummed out about that. But uh, were you asking about
if I would ever go back tothose Yeah, So here's the thing I
can't. I've I've always learned inmy life that you never say never because
the second you stay never, andthen they come and make you an offer
you can't refused and you look likean idiot. Right, Yeah, So
I don't want to say never,say never. I really just feel like
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it would it would really just haveto be really stupid money that made it
feel worth it to me, becausethe problem is, and I don't know
if this happened with you on othercasts, but for whatever, already have
to have somebody that I just reallyfelt like was like truly my friend and
have my back, because the thingis is that these girls just they literally
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make up lies about me. Theyjust make up lies, and it's like
it's hard to defend yourself when allthree of them are four of them,
Are you know, the whole casthas gotten together and being like, we're
gonna make gretch and look a certainway, and it's like, to me,
at the end of the day,you know, I don't. I'm
not desperate to be on TV.I'm not desperate to make myself look like
an idiot on TV. And youknow, I do well for myself without
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having to be on the TV show. So I mean, it is a
very stressful stressful people don't understand that. They don't. Like a lot of
people are like, oh, it'sscripted. I'm like, I wish it
was scripted like my life, becauseyou get anxiety and like you I you
know, a couple of the seasons, I felt like I had no friends.
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I was walking into a firing squadevery time I walked into a room,
and that's not fun, Like,like, you have to have one
person that you love and trust andwe can rely on and because otherwise it's
just That's why I was like atone point, I'm like, I'm not
coming to the reunion because it's gonnabe a firing squad anyone to defend me.
And he's like, well, thenyou're not getting paid. I'm like,
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see you there. Yeah, I'mnot gonna I go, I'm not
gonna say. I'm not gonna sayone word, and of course I can't
hold my tongue. But then thatwas the season. I told Lisa Brenna,
bitch, you've had the same hairdue for twenty five years. So
I think she's at least happy thatI showed up because she's killing it now
with her dues, right right,I know that s no. I mean,
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listen, I'm not again, likeyou know, I don't know.
I just it's just hard. It'shard for me because I don't I just
don't know if that's like fun,like I wish I would love to go
do a house so I strip aginwith you know, just fun people,
and I'm all for like there hasto be some sort of drama and some
sort of stuff, but not likelife altering, you know, ruining you
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know, your life, your husband, your work, your reputation like that
kind of stuff that's just like it'stoo much, you know, yeah,
like listen, you can have dramawithout ruining lives. Like it's not it
shouldn't be that serious. And unfortunately, exactly you know, when I don't
know, I mean, I don'tjust even talking about it gives me a
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pit in my stomach. But it'syou know, I hope maybe we'll get
ado over, maybe we'll go somewherebesides Morocco. I love, Don't get
me wrong, I love Morocco.Yeah, but it's I feel like it's
I have bad blood with it now. Yeah, well, how can you
not. I mean, of courseit's going to feel like that. And
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that's you know, that's that sucksbecause it's like, you know, we
all, we all came there tofilm a show, and and we know
what we're getting ourselves into when yousign up for reality TV, and you
know, a lot of us don'tknow each other's pastor or stuff in each
other's lives, and so we're thereto have a good time. And especially
producers are telling you who is theperson that can normally get people to start
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having fun and loosen up and havea good time. I mean, you
know, you were, you were, you were doing your job, and
so it's hard because sometimes things happenor somethings you know, well, yeah,
I mean it's not normal to beworking from nine am to after midnight
drinking all day. Not everyone was, I was, even was, even
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Vicky was like doing that and thennot then to have something, you know,
to be able like you do.Don't get a That's the only thing
I told Carson. I'm like,you don't get a break. So she
was so exhausted. She's like,Brandy, Hey, yeah, we just
finished and now we have to goback. I go, bitch, at
least you're in Saint Bart's right orright, like I want to go to
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the beach. You could go tothe beach and relax, I know.
You know, though, I haveto say that that that was the part
that I think was was wild forme. Yes, they definitely paid us
while so that was great, ButI have to tell you it was probably
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some of the hardest working days I'veever had in the in the level of
how many hours we filmed and howyou had to be on you know,
almost for sixteen hours a day,if not longer, and then you had
to you know, change outfits andit's a new place for going in a
scene and a depth, and it'slike I think, I remember one of
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those nights I had to stay upto wash my hair because I didn't have
enough time to wash it in betweenwhat we were doing. And it was
like day four my hair. Rememberthat, You're like, I need to
wash yeah, And I was untillike, I want to showers are like
four minutes, Like are you readyyet, I'm like, I haven't even
taken a shower. I have dustin my teeth, right, And I
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remember we came in from filming.I want to stay. It was like
one or one thirty in the morning. I stayed up till I want to
stay four o'clock to wash my hair, dry it, curl it, and
tan myself just so that I didn'tlook as white and gross as I am.
And so I didn't get to bed. I want to stay until like
at five o'clock in the morning,and we had to be backed up at
like eight, and I was justlike I was dying and they're knocking out
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your door every trough. Are youready? I'm like no, I'm I'm
actually I'm peeing. But I rememberthis from last time, So I tried
to tell everyone. I'm like,yes, it's fun, it's the hardest,
Like you don't get one break,you don't get one nap, and
like you know, if you havea fun scene and you're drinking and the
next scene is a fun scene andyou're drinking, and then the next scene
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is you don't get to go takeyour afternoon nap. No, you have
nothing, and so things you knowcan like I said, like you know,
if they're gonna have HR and likepolice us, then they have to
have HR police. The amount ofalcohol we're allowed to have, they have
to you know, and the amountof hours that we can work. You
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can't. You shouldn't be able tobe doing that. Yes we're lucky,
don't get me wrong, but youcan't have it like, Okay, we
have these laws, and but youguys are gonna go and work all day
long and drink all day long,and then you're gonna if you break a
law, we're gonna take your home, you know what I mean. Like,
it's just you can't have it bothways. And that's why I'm frustrated.
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And you know, the day aftereverything went down and the fucking demon
camel And was killed, me,Oh yeah, the camel. Yeah,
that's gonna be a that's gonna bea funny scene. Actually that's gonna be
really funny. Well Caroline thought itwas really funny because I saw her laughing
real hard. I guess she wasn'tthat traumatized. But never mind. Um
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no, but honestly, like thenext day, production wouldn't let me drink
because of what happened the night before. I said, well, why didn't
you guys stop me drinking the nightbefore? Oh? Yeah, interesting,
I didn't know that. I didn't. You mean, when we went to
the desert they did a cheery Icouldn't. I didn't know that. Nope,
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They're like, sorry, we can'thave your drinking because I wouldn't have
to get a glass wine. Andthey're like sorry, And so I'm like,
okay, So then why didn't youstop it yesterday? If if things
were getting out of a hand,which clearly they didn't think so, because
they would have stopped it. Interesting. Yeah, I didn't know that.
Wow, So they do have thatpower. And I'm like, I'm just
confused by the whole thing. AndI'm really bummed because it would have been
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so fun, like like the firstthree days we were having a blast.
We were we were and and listen, I mean it was hard on all
of us because you know, weended up losing two key cast members,
well one okay, but I mean, like at the I love you at
the end of the day, youhave to you know, this is what
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I was staying at dinner that night. You weren't there, but when we
were at the camp site, Iwas saying, look, these shows work
because every single person is a keyplayer, and we need every single person
to make this work. The networkcast every single person in that cast specifically
for a reason, and they knowand they they they have thought about who
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works with who, who's going tohave the fights, who's gonna do this,
And it doesn't always work out exactlythe way they think, of course,
because you know, it's reality TVand you never know what way it's
going to go. But it's everysingle person is a key player. So
when you lose you know, twoof your cast members, it's it's difficult.
It's difficult on the rest of thecast. It's it's stressful, Rick,
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because you guys now have to youhave to work twist hard. You
don't get like, not even abathroom break. It's honestly, like,
not right. It's not fair,and I hate it. Yeah, and
I'm and I'm super sad that thishad to happen for everybody. I mean,
I think I don't think anybody,none of us could have expected that
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this would have gone down the wayit went down and it's it's it's really
too bad, and you know,and I'm and I'm also just you know,
I'm I don't know, I'm justsad because because you're funny. It's
so funny, Like you make melaugh the whole time. Like I was
just cracking up just watching You're justfunny, Like you actually really are so
(37:45):
witty and so funny. And Iknow sometimes you get a bad rap about
it, but like because sometimes yousay things and I'm like, oh,
that's bad. But at the sametime, like when you when you because
I've never worked with you, I'veonly watched she right, So like when
I worked with that, it waslike it was kind of fun to watch
from the sidelines and just see youkind of in your element and like do
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your thing. And the other dayI was getting asked for my interview,
They're like, what do you thinkabout Brandy Staying She's like the Nicole Kidman
of reality TV? And I'm like, damn gray Is. I'm like she
is? I go she by theway, it's so fucked up, because
I was said that, like wait, now I have to go back and
look and see if she had ascan a sex scandal anywhere. Oh right,
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God, that's so funny. No, um no, But like I
think you were just referencing the factthat you do a lot of like reality
TV and you're well known in thatspace or whatever, and as I agree
it, I mean, like you'rereally good at You're really good at what
you do, so good for you. Like I, I'm good at what
I do because I'm just super likeblunt and like just I just have a
(38:51):
very um authentic reaction to things.But like I'm not, I don't like
the difference between like you and meis like I actually I get nervous to
say some things because I don't wantto upset somebody. You're just like fuck
you, you just like you knowwhat I mean. It's you're just basically
nicer than me. You're just nicerthan me. I mean, I don't
(39:15):
like to hurt people's feeling It's likeI actually really don't enjoy hurting people's feelings,
and I'm sure you don't either,But like you get to the point
where you're just like I'm still pissedoff at you. You're willing to say
it, where I'm like, oh, well, you're kind of being a
Meani head right now, Like youknow, that's what I would say.
What I say mostly is the truth. I just can't. I'm like,
okay, you're like I just everyone'sthinking it, and I'm like, okay,
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so you're a Debbie downer. You'resuper fun, Like I mean,
you know what I mean, LikeI get it together, but I like
I had beef with someone going inwe squashed that and it was fine and
everything, Like I can get overthings very easily. We can like resolve
just like, let's have a conversation. I need to understand why this went
(39:59):
down the sway and I'm going tobe an asshole to you until we talk
about it. Yeah, yeah,no, And I admire the way that
you do go about things. Iactually to tell you the truth. I
wish I was able to be alittle bit more like that. I wish
I was able to like just justsay things and not be so concerned about,
(40:21):
you know, hurting somebody's feelings orlike I wish I had a little
bit more of that in me.Now, don't get me wrong, Like
if you push me far enough,like it takes about no. I saw
I saw a girl. I mean, you guys will see some drama like,
yeah, Gretchen doesn't take shit,let's be clear. But I feel
like you have a longer They haveto poke you a little bit longer because
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you want it to be like youdon't want to interrupt at lunch. You
don't want to be you know,you don't want to be the bad guy.
But if someone's sitting there poking,poking, poking, yes, eventually
it only takes me one poke.It took you like for but you definitely
speak up and hold your own Yeah. Yeah, no. And that's the
thing, like I'll be cool,I'll give you some grace, I'll let
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it go for a minute, butthen once you keep going, I'm just
like, okay, enough enough.And even it was interesting because as I
was getting interviewed, they were taught, they were going down the list of
like okay, she did this,and she did this, and she did
this, And I was like,well, no, wonder I got kissed
off. I was like, theyput it and yeah that little thing you're
like, oh okay, well yeahyeah yeah. Because she even said to
(41:28):
me, she's like she goes,do you think she came in there like
trying to like stir up stuff withyou or make the other women think stuff
about you, And I was like, wow, I didn't even like think
of it that way, But nowthat you put it in that like perspective,
maybe she was, you know,maybe she was trying to get my
dot. You know. Yeah,I mean I think too that like she
like I knew you and Vader knewyou beforehand. So I feel like it
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took a little bit of time becauseI'm like, she's really nice. Let's
just like you have a clean slate, and like I'll get along and but
you know that's that's doesn't ever work. But we were trying. I got
you, guys, there's gonna benew drama for we're sitting all in a
house together for a week. We'renot gonna need to bring up past ship
old stuff. I know. Well, I was hoping that's what it was
(42:13):
going to be, Honestly, Iwas. I was kind of looking forward
to just you know, new stuffand not having to rehash old stuff.
And the stuff she was talking aboutwas ten years ago and we're inflated already
hashed it out, So it wasjust it felt it felt stale to me,
you know, that we were goingback there. No, I know,
I think that the audience like wantsto I don't know. I don't
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know. As an audience number,I would want to see you guys like
rehash some old ship. But Ialso would want resolution at a point because
this can't go on forever. Likeit can't because we're gonna go in a
girls shop and everyone's coming. Youhave vic here coming, so we're gonna
have to figure this out. We'reat me you yes, no, you
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were. You guys are gonna befriends. I'm gonna make it happen.
You if she's friends with Tama.Tama does not want anybody being friends with
me, so that's probably not goingto happen. But I love you for
triend well. I mean, Idon't know that Tama controls most I mean
like she's in control grown ups.Like I'm like, I'm friends with all
of you, guys, deal withit. I mean, if you're a
strong person, like like, noone can get in my head about someone
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else. I have to make upmy own mind about them. Yeah,
no, I know I agree withyou on that, but we'll see.
I mean, I'm on for it. I'm at a point in my life.
I'm freaking forty five years of age. I'm a mom I don't.
I don't care to like hold onto the crap from the past. Well,
shit me either, you know whatI mean, Like, let's just
move on. Let's let's be adultsabout it. Let's just be done with
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the crap. You know. Ithink it's a scorpio thing though, because
we have to get we have toget our side out, we have to
say it, we have to makeour points, and then we're ready to
move on. Where a lot ofpeople like they hold on to this resentment
and it just builds and builds.And my dad does this by the way,
it builds and builds, and thenthe story in his head changes because
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he's been thinking about it for solong and he never said it, and
then all of a sudden, it'sa whole different blow up fight. And
I have no idea what he's talkingabout. Right, I'm like this instead
of my makeup over this, Like, what happens? What's your dad's sign?
He's a Gemini and so it wasmy ex husband, so it was
my kid. I have a lotof girl Gemini friends, but boy,
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Geminis are a special breed and Imarry I did marry one, but it's
just they do definitely have two sidesto them, all of them, all
of the ones I have, evenmy son. Like there's a sweet side
and then there's the worst temper sideand you're like, who are you?
Yeah, yeah, me too.Most a lot of geminis in my life.
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I think I only know one gymnithat's not like that, but a
lot of the gym niser they havedefinitely multiple personalities two side, Yeah.
Yeah. I also really enjoy virgos, but mostly the women more than virgo
men. Interesting. I don't knowif I if I know a lot of
virgos. I don't think I knowa lot of virgos. What a month
(45:13):
is virgo? I don't even know. It's September. Oh. So it's
like my d like my best friend, my dentist, like a few of
my friends, or virgos, andthey're like just the best humans I know.
So you know, it doesn't applyto everyone, Let's be clear.
I don't know. I'm sure there'ssome shitty virgos out there, but if
you enjoy a virgo, all right, Ryan, Ryan is telling me we
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have to wrap this up, butit was so good talking to you,
and I'm hoping that we're I'm planningthe trip. I'll let you know what
happens with it. Um, I'mhoping we'll see you very soon and we
can get out of our mom lifefor a little while and be you.
You and Vader can do a wholephoto shoot. I'll be at the pool
and find me. I mean,I'll be at the pool with like,
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I've copious amounts of wine, andVadra will come down to have her one
signature cocktail and it'll be great.Oh my god, that's so funny.
I love that you like just don'tplan the whole trip. And one thing,
I you know, I know,Okay, well when are you think?
But you gotta tell me when you'replanning on doing that, because I've
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got a couple of trips planned,so I want to plan it where where
I can actually join you guys.Yeah, well we were thinking. We
were thinking not this weekend obviously,but the following weekend. Yeah, so
that's what like, that's what's onthe books right now. So we're just
trying to get like it all likehooked up and stuff. Still, but
maybe you know, the weekend afterI don't know, but right now we're
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shooting for that. Okay, soundsgood. All right, maybe oh see
you sir. Okay, my love, great to talk to you. You
know, I really do adore Gretchen, and I adore Vicky, and I
adore Tamera. So I am.I just don't see how three grown women
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can't figure it out. Is thisis something thing that happened on this trip
specific? No? No, sothey did have some really crazy I didn't
know what they were talking about becausethis is stuff that happened like ten years
ago and the OC and even thoughI watched it ten years ago, I
don't remember got it and I justscrudges. Yeah. Yeah, some people
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hold on to things. I'm justnot that I have one grudge right now.
I'm just or actually too. Youdo have them, but then somehow
you're able to let go most ofthe time. Yeah, most of the
But I do want to preface theNicole Kidman comment. Okay, so this
is how I came. So Iwas talking. I'm not going to say
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to who because I got offered todo another reality show, right and this
firston was talking shit. They werenot friends like we got. Brandy will
do any reality show that falls intoher fucking lap, like it's ridiculous and
like you, They're like you've enoughalready, Like stop, go get a
life. I'm like, okay,So because Nicole Kidman has done a million
(48:07):
movies and she's really good at it, should she stop because she's done too
many movies and just quit? Greatcomment? Right, great comment, And
I'm like, I'm fucking the noNicole Kidman of reality TV. I'm not
gonna stop. If I like theshow and the idea and I'm getting paid,
I'm going to do it forever.Yeah, so that's where that give
about. It wasn't just like me. But then now I have a scandal,
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so I don't. I don't know. Was that on an interview as
you were being interviewed. No,I did say it on the trip,
but got it. I didn't saywho I was fighting. This person dislikes
to talk shit about me because they'rejealous because they can't get a job.
Oh my gosh. Okay, WellI love Gretchen and when she needs to
come back to the studio too.Yeah, we're gonna get people in here.
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You guys. We have a newstudio where I'm so excited about it.
We're still getting it all set up. I'm gonna get him getting in
my own key. She's gonna gether own key. Yeah, we're gonna
do some photoshoot, some photo shootsin here, yes, um alright,
but no, it was great talkingto her, And it was just like
listening in on a conversation, iswhat it felt like. It was really
because we don't talk, don't talkto anyone on the phone. Like that's
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what it is like, you know, it's we just went through some craziness
together and yeah, I forgot thatshe was even there. Yeah, no,
she was there. Yeah I forgot. Yeah no, And there was
like we had enough drama. Wedidn't need the life canceling shit anyway.
Um, love her. I'm puttingtogether a girl's shop for Eva Favored,
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myself, Vicki, and Gretchen,so we'll see what. Thanks for listening
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(00:23):
my friend GRASSI, we sure do. And why is she here today?
Because she's my friend? Okay?Good? Um. She and I were
talking yesterday and we had a lastminute cancelation on the pod and I'm like,
hey, would you do the pod? And She's like yeah, of
(00:44):
course, Like that's a friend.Like oh my gosh, I know that's
and saved our butts, saved ourbutts. Yeah yeah, and then um,
yeah, so that was that's whyshe'd here. I wish you would
live closer. I know it wouldbe nice still out, but we got
to get this fixed before we reallyyeah yeah, we got to have mine
in the fridge and beer and thecrack on. Okay, look crack.
(01:10):
I'm so hungry. Our studio willbe ready. I know. I haven't
had lunch. I'm starving, andI'm not going to say the address at
were on Rose Avenue. Like there'sa lot of cute white like boys walking
by, like this is prime location. When during Pride Week this street was
crazy. I can't well, Ican imagine it's Pride month. Still a
couple of days. Yeah, yeah, but like the first week of Pride,
(01:32):
Yeah yeah, I was wild here. Yeah, it's it's insane as
well. I ordered an outfit forPride when I was going, and I
still haven't gotten him. Oh nowit's too late. Well, it's so
cute. I'll figure out a way. Where is there any what is is
there any thing in particular you're interestedto ask? Catching? Well, I
think you know, we haven't hadum. You know, we've had conversations
(01:56):
since all the drama, but wehaven't you know, really were they've been
sure, Like you know, she'slike had you know, five minutes here,
or she had a question for me, or I had a question for
her. Um, but you know, she's a mom, Like she doesn't
have just a general catchups, notlike anything like no, we don't have
(02:17):
that. Like I talked to heryesterday. Um, it was about the
show, but it was also aboutthis girl's chop. I'm trying to plan
um, but you know, Idon't. I just like she's a real
person. I like her. Soshe's one that you would act. She's
like she's a lady that you wouldActually we're recording no, do you know
(02:46):
it? Oh you want to hearsomething? Fuck up? Oh my god.
I was at Aubrey's house what twodays ago, shooting for our only
fans, stuffy um, and Ileft all my lights there. So the
next day, bring Jake, myson, and we get the lights because
I don't want to carry all ofthem. You know, Jakes a big
(03:06):
guy. Whatever we want, Idon't want to carry. But I always
had pigs and shoes and other thingsthere. Um, We're walking out to
my car and there's an old manthat lives next door to her, and
he's spraying his lawn. Then hestarted spraying over the sidewalk onto this little
Patrick grass. It's just right bymy car. Yeah, and Jake's tried
to put the lights in my carand he sprayed Jake's leg, and Jake
(03:28):
just assumed it was an accident.And then we got the lights in the
car and Jake went to open thefront door and he sprayed Jake's whole side
of him. Yes, I waslike, oh fuck that. I was
like. I started. He's like, mom, Mom, let it go,
let it go. Go fuck that. And I started to get out
(03:49):
and he's like mom, please,And so then I just started honking my
horn like straight for like four minutes. He was spraying my whole car with
water. Oh my gosh, you'regetting in a fight. I mean was
like eighty Oh I was going toget in a fight though, What the
fuck? You know? Was framedmy kid? I was like, ah,
were your neighbors insane? And she'slike, oh, I can't.
(04:10):
I'm not gonna be able to haveany parties. I'm like nope. But
then after like a couple of hours, I started to really like him,
because that's crazy. You liked himafter a couple of hours. I liked
the story. I'm like, that'sso crazy story. Yeah, and I
also like when old women say fuck. It makes me happy. I don't
know anyway, were crushing in here. She doesn't curse a lot, but
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I will curse for the best ofus. All right, Hey, guys,
welcome to Brandy Glenville. I'm filtered. I'm here with my good friend
Crutchen Rossie. Hello, baby doll, how are you? I am good.
I We have a new podcast studio, so next time you have to
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come and see it. It's reallycute. We're still getting it together,
but it's I would love to haveyou here in person. Wait, you
have a new podcast? Way No, yeah, we moved because the one,
like during COVID, we lost thelast one. So we were doing
in my house and I just gotto be Yeah, you were there,
you and the baby and Slade.We were at the last one. So
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we have a new one because COVIDwe had to let it go because we
were paying for nothing, you know, no one of course, we couldn't
even do that. So we're new. We're here. Um, how are
you doing. I'm good. I'mjust you know, living my best mom
life right now. I'm folding towelsand doing laundry and every real born stuff.
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But I mean that's the real shit. But recently, you've you've kind
of come back into you know,the housewife circle with we won't talk a
lot about it, but with ourrecent girls trip, I know, how
was that for you? Like comingback in So I'm still deciding if I'm
being Honestum, it was interesting becauseI you know, I I really did
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think I was gonna do something inregards to housewives again, Like I kind
of just thought, Okay, thatdoor's closed, Like that chapter's closed for
me, you know what I mean? Like, I just yeah, I
kind of felt like I moved onfrom it and I just was enjoying a
more quiet life and all of that. And then it was interesting because when
Andy called me back in November,and you know, first of all,
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when your phone rings and it's AndyCohen, You're like, oh, dear,
Like, what's going on? Right? My heart drops into my stomach.
I'm either in trouble or usually I'min trouble. So the oster calls
were good because it was job offers, but I was like, oh my
god, what did I do?Now? Well, it's so funny because
literally that's what I like people thathave interviewed me. I'm like, I
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either was in trouble or it wasgonna be like a good call. So
it was kind of funny because Ipay, I'm like hello, and he's
like hi. And it was justkind of funny because I you know,
we had it talked in several years. I mean we text every now and
again, and you know, ifsomething exciting is going on for him or
like the baby stuff or whatever.Right, so he was like, what
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do you think I'm kind about?And I'm like I have no idea,
like literally no idea, and he'slike, well, if you had to
guess, what would it be.And I was like, please don't tell
me it's about Housewives because this waskind of at the beginning of when they
first started filming, and I waslike, oh, my gosh, if
they're calling like and the thing that'salways hard about a phone call like that
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is at the end of the day, you know they're offering you money,
and it's always hard to turn downmoney. But at the same time,
I kind of already made up inmy head, you know, I'm not
going to go back and do thatunless it was just stupid, stupid money
that they offered right right, Soit was yeah, exactly. So I
go, please don't tell me itwas about it's about Housewives and he's like,
no, but it's about Ultimate GirlsTrip and I was like, oh.
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I was like, okay, I'mlike my ears have perked up.
Talk to me about this. AndI've always said that when they first started
doing the Ultimate Girl Ship, I'mlike, that would actually be fun because
I really do have a lot ofauthentic friendships with a lot of the Girls
and all the other franchises, andI just feel like it would be fun
and something different and fresh. Right, let's not just go and get and
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fight so and yell for the volumeof some people that yell its just makes
me crazy. We won't say who, but it's just like oh my god,
like I no, but but itis nice to think about, like,
Okay, here's all of this moneyfor a week a week a week
with people like for the most hearts, like when you know, I did
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it. I didn't really have anybeefs but a little bit, but it
was just so nice to be towalk into something fresh where you make new
friendships. You have new beefs probablyright, but it's not just fighting about
the same old shiit same old shipexactly. And I think that it was
funny because he Andy knows me sowell. He's like, I know,
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the two questions that you're going toask is who's on the cast and how
much money am I making? AndI'm like, you know me, oh
and so yeah. So that waskind of what happened, was when he
talked to me about you know,um what we were getting paid and then
also who was on the cast.I was like, oh, I was
like wow, okay. I waslike I definitely have interest, so you
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know, and then I wanted totalk with late and you know, I
mean, I took it was thefirst time I've I've traveled away from Skyler
that long, and it was veryfar away, and it was you know,
there was a lot to think aboutthat I had to make sure it
was it made sense for us inour family and what was going on.
And ultimately I ended up talking toyou and I talked to Padre because I'm
friends with a lot of you girls, and you guys were like, no,
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it's actually really a lot of fun, and you know, it's everything
like you're saying. It was justit's kind of it's just different. And
everything that I heard from you girlswas that it was it really was a
fun experience. It wasn't like thisnegative, toxic feeling that you got,
you know, doing this show.And you're together twenty four seven. So
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even if you habit tiff, youyou kind of can resolve it because you're
you can't leave, You're in thesame house. It's exactly like you have
to like face whatever you're dealing withwith that person the next second that you
see them. So yeah, Soanyways, I was I was excited once
I finally made the decision and thenwhen they told us we were going to
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Morocco and just all the stuff,it just you know, it became a
really fun venture for me to youknow, plan for and put everything together
and my outfits and all of thatstuff. So um so that was fun.
You and your outfits, they're socute. You and Phedra are the
biggest fashionistas I know, Like likeyou guys have like our perfectionists. I'm
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like, what do I having herethat will look decent together? I'm like,
I don't know what I'm wearing.First of all, you always look
so cute, no matter why wereally are you just an't really cute?
Okay you really do? You reftogether really well? But I really I
do. Like I It's like it'slike fun for me. I love fashion.
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It's like a way for me tolike express myself. And you know,
and I'm sure, you know,I'm sure people will have plenty to
say about stuff, but I don'tcare. It's it's what I like.
It's how I feel that I lookcute, and that's all that matters,
you know. No, if that'syour passion, that's your passion. Like
the Fader's the same way. Likeit's just like I think because I modeled
for so long and I was justa close hanger for so long, I
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got to the point where like I'mjust gonna wear whatever and not I can't
like I don't know. I'm mygirlfriend, my best one of my best
ones. Christ it's the same asyou guys. She's like she loves her
fashion, and I'm like, whatare you wearing to dinner? I'm like,
who, I'll know five minutes beforeI leave. I have no idea.
Well I do that alesso too,like just on my daily stuff like
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I don't really care think about ittoo much, or if I'm doing like
a dinner, like I don't reallylike play on that out, but if
it's like a big trip or especiallystuff for like TV, like you know
you want to especial And also becauseyou don't remember, I haven't been on
Bravo and many many years, andso it's like, you know, people
are gonna be judging, people aregonna have lutch to say, and you
know, I'm sure there's gonna befunniest stuff because I haven't been on the
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show for you know, like asa full time house I put almost ten
years, and it's like people aregonna forget that you age in ten years
and I've never had plastic surgery,so I've aged. Do you know what
I mean? You look great.You just have to realize that there's just
haters out there because they have tosay something. And when someone's yucky enough
to go after your looks, whichI can't imagine that happens that it happens
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to me every day. It usedto bug me and now I'm like,
go fuck yourself. What happened isI got a little chubby, or I
got fat, or I got older, Go suck a day. Sorry,
I'm a little like annoyed with allof these people that feel like they're allowed
to have an opinion about how Ilook. Right, No, I agree,
I agree. I went through fourand a half years of IVF and
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during that time, people were sayingso much and it's like I gained,
you know, fifteen pounds through thatprocess and people had so much to say,
and it was it was definitely hard, you know, but it was
what it was. It was like, yeah, I gained weight because I'm
trying to have a baby. SoI feel you on that. But okay,
so I gotta ask you, though, do you feel like you're happy
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you went and did another season,or after everything that's been going on,
are you just like, oh,like you don't know how you feel yet?
No, I know how I feel. I was really excited. I
thought that cast was great. Ithought like a couple of the people were
like it was a little bit ofan awkward like, I don't I didn't
know how they were going to reallyfit in um. But I was excited
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because even though we had drama lasttime, like Vicky and I did not
get along first season at all.But you know, we at the end,
we came together, all of us, and we were like we left
happy, we left, We're ona group chat. We're all still friends
coming into this because it changed forthe first time ever. This has never
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happened on any show I've were done. They decided to have hr which I
didn't really. I mean, itwas like, Okay, how are they
going to have that when on realitytelevision when we're throwing line and you know,
like, so what's going to happen? So I wasn't prepared. I
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think that was the hardest part.I was just doing what I always do
and and you know, some shitwent down, and for me, it
was just normal, and I didn'tthink it was a big deal, and
now it's a huge deal, andI wish I hadn't gone. Of course,
I wish I hadn't gone now,but it sucks because I didn't act
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any way that I hadn't ever,like every like I got praise from you
know, Francis and Andy for thefirst season where I stuck my tongue down
Taylor's throw and was naked half thetime and Tamara humped everyone running around grabbing
crotches like we got prace for thatand so but we didn't have the HR
and that we didn't have the classyou had to take on that. So
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this is something new that they're doing. I just don't see how you can
go and have a fun reality showwith you know, HR, Like it
just isn't gonna I don't know,but I know it's new. They're working
it out, but honestly don't Idon't. I don't trust anyone anymore,
or not not your girls, Yeah, but I don't trust the process anymore.
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So I don't see myself doing that. I feel like if, like
I was talking Lisa Wrnt about it, like if you do your job and
you're good at it. Someone's gonnaget pissed off. You're gonna say something
where someone raises their hand and goes, I want to call HR. So
you're not gonna have a show,right, So you know, you do
your job and you get punished forit, so it's difficult. But well,
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it's funny you say that because whenwe were doing that um the HR
stuff, and I get I don't, I forget what it was like you
had to talk with somebody after factorbefore the fact, I forget what it
was. But we had to beon the phone with somebody and we were
going through everything and then they werelike, you can ask questions, and
it was so funny because they weregiving you all these roles of like you
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can't have an opinion that could beoffensive and this, and I'm like,
I'm sorry, I'm like I'm reallyconfused, Like do you know what show?
We're all right exactly. Our jobis to have an opinion about anybody,
whether it has to do with anything, like it doesn't matter if it's
race, religion. This that we'regetting paid to have an opinion, to
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be ourselves and to have an opinionabout what you think about what other people
are doing. And so I'm like, I go, this just feels very
contradictory to me to like it's sohypocritical. Yeah, And it was funny
because even the girl in the phonewas like, well, that's a very
good point. I'll have to goback and talk to them about that.
And I'm like yeah, because like, I'm not trying to be difficult here,
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I'm just trying to make sure Iunderstand what it is that you're telling
me here because it's easy. Yeah. And also like you have producers trying
to get you to be controversial,but then if you're controversial, it goes
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against the rules of the sexual confusing. Well, I didn't take the class
because I couldn't get it to work, so then I wasn't supposed to be
able to, like, um,film loft like legally, and they still
let me film and somehow I'm introuble. So I'm like whatever, But
um, well, I guess we'llsee what hands out when the show airs,
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right, I mean, that's that'sthe thing. At the end of
the day. We're gonna find outwhat went on when the show airs.
Yeah. Well, my girlfriend Kristen, like I said, she just finished
it. She goes Brandy never again. I will sit at soccer practice,
pick up every kid in the school. I will do dishes for the rest
of my life. She's like,I will never do that again. But
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she had the same course where Iguess Ramona had said, how the fuck
are we supposed to have a show, because they had like a way more
intense course where they had to likeshow up. And Christen's like, you're
not allowed just to put anything onsocial media about any of the other girls
that you're with. That's I havethe girl to go on Twitter and ruin
the other people, Like that's partof Housewives. You're not allowed to You're
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not allowed to talk about anyone's age. So yeah, exactly, if you're
like pissed off and like okay,old bitch, go link, you know
right, you can't do that.But see, that's my point exactly.
That that's why everything that they weresaying to me, I was like,
I'm not trying to be rude orlike, you know, call up an
issue here, but I'm just kindof confused because they actually like encourage us
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to do this, but there you'retelling me I can't do it. Like
I'm still confused, you know,I think that the producers need to be
taking that class. So they like, if we're being told all right,
turn the part already get wild?Ye Like like then we get wild and
something's too much okay growing or likeokay, Brandy, we don't they come
into our rooms. I don't thinkpeople know this. Producers come into our
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rooms and they talk to us likeright, and generally it's we don't have
a show. We need to dosomething right and right it's like, okay,
where's the where's the line? Likewhat how do you make a good
I told you know, when Italked to Andy, I said, I
went there to make good TV foryou. I've always done my best to
make sure you have a show.And he's like, I know, I
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agree. He's like, this isyou know, this whole HR thing is
new and it's just super frustrating foreveryone involved. And yeah, I'm like,
well me, especially homie. Yeah, And I mean, I mean
the thing is is that you know. I was I was telling you,
I's okay who I was talking tothe other day. Somebody was asking me
something about you, and I waslike, you guys, I was like,
Brandy is actually one of the mostintelligent women I've ever met I goes,
(19:57):
she is so good your job,and that really is what it is
at the end of the day.It's a job, and you know you're
really good. And I say performor not in the sense that you're being
fake or not doing anything real.I'm what I'm saying is that there's some
people that just are really good atreality TV. And you know how to
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keep the story going, you knowhow to keep it moving, you know
how to call people out and saythings that people at home are probably thinking
like, and you just you justdo your job really really well and so
um and so I think that alot of people forget that, like you
know most and part of the reasonthat you're harded by all of these people
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and you go out and you dowith so many shows is because you bring
not to the table, right AndI'm not I'm not going like I don't
like a lot of people sit aroundand pretend to drink or like I get
lit. I have like like,I'm not gonna sit and produce myself.
I'm gonna be me. I'm gonnahave fun. I like, I will
listen to the producers at times.So at times I'm like, no way,
(21:02):
fuck you yeah, but I like, just it's it's insane to me.
Um, how they're gonna have theseshows anymore. It's gonna be interesting.
It's gonna be very interesting, especiallyafter I sue everyone for guest eline
dollars. No you're not. Ilove that person, but I do it.
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Girl. I don't have any moneyto say what anyone. But it's
just frustrating because like I have acase and I want to plead it and
I want people to listen. Butwhatever. But when Christine came back,
she's like, never doing it again. Why didn't she say that? Because
so she did the Legacy one.Yeah, and you know with all of
the house lies of New York becauseshe was on New York for a couple
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of years, and she she thoughtthat they were all like just not doing
like no one was doing anything.They wanted to go there, collect their
check and sit around and drink rose. Oh that sucks, right. So
I'm like, I personally think it'sprobably because they didn't get their show and
they're like, fuck, you weregonna take this money and make a bad
show. But that's just me guessing. But Christian's like, pretty this is
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hell. No one's doing anything.Oh, no, so she felt like
she had to like pick it up. Yeah, and she's like, I'm
I'm here with the Golden Girls,but they're not even as funny as the
Cotton Girls. I'm like, youneed to say that, and she's like,
I can't aige shame. Well.I's like, I'm then I'm a
bully and they'll call hr. Hrsays, no, I'm talking about their
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age. Oh my gosh, it'sso funny. She said this someone I'm
not gonna I'm not gonna give awaywho like was fully trying to hump her
in the pool and being crazy andtrying to kiss her. I'm like,
yeah, you're very lucky. Imean they're lucky it was Christian because Christian's
like doesn't care. Yeah, butlike if it was let's say, somebody
that was older and felt awkward aboutbeing in that situation, they would easily
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shut down production. Yeah. Well, I mean it's it's just funny.
But but having now that you've doneit, besides the drama that shouldn't be
going on, do you think youwould ever consider Because this is what I
really want, is you Vicky andTamera back on OC. I want you
guys to hash it out. No, I don't want you guys to fight.
I want you there's like so manyunresolved issues and I really like all
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of you and I feel like youcould and would be friends because the ship
that is stuff. You saw me, you you saw me with Vicky.
How many times did I try?I was cool, I didn't feed into
the stuff. But it's like shewants to just have an issue with me.
She just antagonizes me. And I'malso not a wallflower, so I'm
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not going to just let her stayshit that isn't right or isn't correct,
or is it like here's the thingabout me and this is the thing that
always happened on OC too. Inever start to shit ever. Ever,
if you're gonna start calling me aliar and doing things like that, I'm
going to come back at you exactlythe same exact way. You're reactionary,
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Like you're not gonna just go inthere and be like an asshole. Yeah,
I went in there to have Ihad. As far as I knew,
I there was no issues with Vicky. Her and I had made up.
We were fine, we were cool. I had no issues with her.
When she sits down at a tableand I find out that she's kind
of behind the scenes talking to othergirls and telling them stories that aren't even
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legit. And then when I actuallystay, wait a minute, you didn't
tell the full story here, Andthen Caroline's like, what, I didn't
know this part of the story.I'm like, of course you didn't,
because she's only showing one side ofthe story, or telling the side that
makes her look like for me,and that kind of shit I don't I
don't do well with. It's like, tell the full story. If somebody
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wants to still think I'm a jark, fine, but don't just tell the
parts of the story, or don'tcome out saying that I'm a liar.
It's like, if you're gonna startlies about me, I'm gonna start telling
the truth about you. That's justmy role. And I don't and that's
how I play. Like. Ialways say, like, if you go
lower, I go lower. Imean, that's that's just me. Like,
if you want to start there,we're gonna finish in the dirt.
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Yeah. But I think that ultimately, I feel like, because you guys
haven't been together and so long,all of this shit has built up and
people want to see resolution. Andthey want to have answers. I just
feel like I don't know. Ilike all three of you. I but
I understand like if anyone talks tome the way that you know, you
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guys were fighting, I would bein the same boat. I don't take
shit like I can't. I don'tfix it. I don't sit and I'm
not gonna sit there and get beatup and be like okay, because I'm
just gonna let it go. No, I don't do that. So and
again, like I said, Icame into that with no issues with her.
I was planning on being totally cool. But it's like she had amnesia,
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Like she was like, oh,you did this on the show,
and I'm like, actually, no, I didn't. This is I did
the exact opposite of what you're tellingme I did. And so, and
I know that they're gonna do aflashback. They're gonna show it, and
it's gonna be great because it's gonnaprove exactly what you're saying to be true.
So I just my whole thing isAnd even with Tamra, like I
don't whatever, Like you don't thinkabout them in a negative way, like
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you don't you You're like you're pastit. I'm just like whatever obviously for
casting purposes, like it brought thedrama and you know you're you guys.
I wanted to know more because Idon't know, like the whole I mean,
we can't go it right now,but I don't know the whole backstory
of why y'all are not friends,you know what I mean? So,
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and I think that's what everyone wants, Like, look it was, it's
been so long. I want tosee you all back together. I want
to understand what actually happened. Iwant to see flashbacks. I want to
see you guys attempt to move forwardbecause I know you're like me, your
scorpio. We forgive like we can'tlike we're like I get over things really
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quickly unless someone's just a fucking asshole. Um and and pretends to be a
wallflower, even though two hours earliershe had no problem yelling at me about
my parenting and my children and mydrinking whatever. Um sorry, I just
I lost my mind there for asecond. Um No, but I'd like,
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I would would you ever be interested? Or you just like the one
off one week? And by theway, it's been tough for all of
you and it was. It wasn'tlike it was the first time. It
was actually really fun the first time, and you know, yeah, I
mean it was a it was avery different show than I think all of
us thought it was going to turnout to me. So that was hard
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and I was bummed out about that. But uh, were you asking about
if I would ever go back tothose Yeah, So here's the thing I
can't. I've I've always learned inmy life that you never say never because
the second you stay never, andthen they come and make you an offer
you can't refused and you look likean idiot. Right, Yeah, So
I don't want to say never,say never. I really just feel like
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it would it would really just haveto be really stupid money that made it
feel worth it to me, becausethe problem is, and I don't know
if this happened with you on othercasts, but for whatever, already have
to have somebody that I just reallyfelt like was like truly my friend and
have my back, because the thingis is that these girls just they literally
(28:30):
make up lies about me. Theyjust make up lies, and it's like
it's hard to defend yourself when allthree of them are four of them,
Are you know, the whole casthas gotten together and being like, we're
gonna make gretch and look a certainway, and it's like, to me,
at the end of the day,you know, I don't. I'm
not desperate to be on TV.I'm not desperate to make myself look like
an idiot on TV. And youknow, I do well for myself without
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having to be on the TV show. So I mean, it is a
very stressful stressful people don't understand that. They don't. Like a lot of
people are like, oh, it'sscripted. I'm like, I wish it
was scripted like my life, becauseyou get anxiety and like you I you
know, a couple of the seasons, I felt like I had no friends.
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I was walking into a firing squadevery time I walked into a room,
and that's not fun, Like,like, you have to have one
person that you love and trust andwe can rely on and because otherwise it's
just That's why I was like atone point, I'm like, I'm not
coming to the reunion because it's gonnabe a firing squad anyone to defend me.
And he's like, well, thenyou're not getting paid. I'm like,
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see you there. Yeah, I'mnot gonna I go, I'm not
gonna say. I'm not gonna sayone word, and of course I can't
hold my tongue. But then thatwas the season. I told Lisa Brenna,
bitch, you've had the same hairdue for twenty five years. So
I think she's at least happy thatI showed up because she's killing it now
with her dues, right right,I know that s no. I mean,
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listen, I'm not again, likeyou know, I don't know.
I just it's just hard. It'shard for me because I don't I just
don't know if that's like fun,like I wish I would love to go
do a house so I strip aginwith you know, just fun people,
and I'm all for like there hasto be some sort of drama and some
sort of stuff, but not likelife altering, you know, ruining you
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know, your life, your husband, your work, your reputation like that
kind of stuff that's just like it'stoo much, you know, yeah,
like listen, you can have dramawithout ruining lives. Like it's not it
shouldn't be that serious. And unfortunately, exactly you know, when I don't
know, I mean, I don'tjust even talking about it gives me a
(30:45):
pit in my stomach. But it'syou know, I hope maybe we'll get
ado over, maybe we'll go somewherebesides Morocco. I love, Don't get
me wrong, I love Morocco.Yeah, but it's I feel like it's
I have bad blood with it now. Yeah, well, how can you
not. I mean, of courseit's going to feel like that. And
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that's you know, that's that sucksbecause it's like, you know, we
all, we all came there tofilm a show, and and we know
what we're getting ourselves into when yousign up for reality TV, and you
know, a lot of us don'tknow each other's pastor or stuff in each
other's lives, and so we're thereto have a good time. And especially
producers are telling you who is theperson that can normally get people to start
(31:30):
having fun and loosen up and havea good time. I mean, you
know, you were, you were, you were doing your job, and
so it's hard because sometimes things happenor somethings you know, well, yeah,
I mean it's not normal to beworking from nine am to after midnight
drinking all day. Not everyone was, I was, even was, even
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Vicky was like doing that and thennot then to have something, you know,
to be able like you do.Don't get a That's the only thing
I told Carson. I'm like,you don't get a break. So she
was so exhausted. She's like,Brandy, Hey, yeah, we just
finished and now we have to goback. I go, bitch, at
least you're in Saint Bart's right orright, like I want to go to
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the beach. You could go tothe beach and relax, I know.
You know, though, I haveto say that that that was the part
that I think was was wild forme. Yes, they definitely paid us
while so that was great, ButI have to tell you it was probably
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some of the hardest working days I'veever had in the in the level of
how many hours we filmed and howyou had to be on you know,
almost for sixteen hours a day,if not longer, and then you had
to you know, change outfits andit's a new place for going in a
scene and a depth, and it'slike I think, I remember one of
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those nights I had to stay upto wash my hair because I didn't have
enough time to wash it in betweenwhat we were doing. And it was
like day four my hair. Rememberthat, You're like, I need to
wash yeah, And I was untillike, I want to showers are like
four minutes, Like are you readyyet, I'm like, I haven't even
taken a shower. I have dustin my teeth, right, And I
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remember we came in from filming.I want to stay. It was like
one or one thirty in the morning. I stayed up till I want to
stay four o'clock to wash my hair, dry it, curl it, and
tan myself just so that I didn'tlook as white and gross as I am.
And so I didn't get to bed. I want to stay until like
at five o'clock in the morning,and we had to be backed up at
like eight, and I was justlike I was dying and they're knocking out
(33:44):
your door every trough. Are youready? I'm like no, I'm I'm
actually I'm peeing. But I rememberthis from last time, So I tried
to tell everyone. I'm like,yes, it's fun, it's the hardest,
Like you don't get one break,you don't get one nap, and
like you know, if you havea fun scene and you're drinking and the
next scene is a fun scene andyou're drinking, and then the next scene
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is you don't get to go takeyour afternoon nap. No, you have
nothing, and so things you knowcan like I said, like you know,
if they're gonna have HR and likepolice us, then they have to
have HR police. The amount ofalcohol we're allowed to have, they have
to you know, and the amountof hours that we can work. You
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can't. You shouldn't be able tobe doing that. Yes we're lucky,
don't get me wrong, but youcan't have it like, Okay, we
have these laws, and but youguys are gonna go and work all day
long and drink all day long,and then you're gonna if you break a
law, we're gonna take your home, you know what I mean. Like,
it's just you can't have it bothways. And that's why I'm frustrated.
(34:50):
And you know, the day aftereverything went down and the fucking demon
camel And was killed, me,Oh yeah, the camel. Yeah,
that's gonna be a that's gonna bea funny scene. Actually that's gonna be
really funny. Well Caroline thought itwas really funny because I saw her laughing
real hard. I guess she wasn'tthat traumatized. But never mind. Um
(35:15):
no, but honestly, like thenext day, production wouldn't let me drink
because of what happened the night before. I said, well, why didn't
you guys stop me drinking the nightbefore? Oh? Yeah, interesting,
I didn't know that. I didn't. You mean, when we went to
the desert they did a cheery Icouldn't. I didn't know that. Nope,
(35:35):
They're like, sorry, we can'thave your drinking because I wouldn't have
to get a glass wine. Andthey're like sorry, And so I'm like,
okay, So then why didn't youstop it yesterday? If if things
were getting out of a hand,which clearly they didn't think so, because
they would have stopped it. Interesting. Yeah, I didn't know that.
Wow, So they do have thatpower. And I'm like, I'm just
confused by the whole thing. AndI'm really bummed because it would have been
(36:00):
so fun, like like the firstthree days we were having a blast.
We were we were and and listen, I mean it was hard on all
of us because you know, weended up losing two key cast members,
well one okay, but I mean, like at the I love you at
the end of the day, youhave to you know, this is what
(36:21):
I was staying at dinner that night. You weren't there, but when we
were at the camp site, Iwas saying, look, these shows work
because every single person is a keyplayer, and we need every single person
to make this work. The networkcast every single person in that cast specifically
for a reason, and they knowand they they they have thought about who
(36:42):
works with who, who's going tohave the fights, who's gonna do this,
And it doesn't always work out exactlythe way they think, of course,
because you know, it's reality TVand you never know what way it's
going to go. But it's everysingle person is a key player. So
when you lose you know, twoof your cast members, it's it's difficult.
It's difficult on the rest of thecast. It's it's stressful, Rick,
(37:02):
because you guys now have to youhave to work twist hard. You
don't get like, not even abathroom break. It's honestly, like,
not right. It's not fair,and I hate it. Yeah, and
I'm and I'm super sad that thishad to happen for everybody. I mean,
I think I don't think anybody,none of us could have expected that
(37:25):
this would have gone down the wayit went down and it's it's it's really
too bad, and you know,and I'm and I'm also just you know,
I'm I don't know, I'm justsad because because you're funny. It's
so funny, Like you make melaugh the whole time. Like I was
just cracking up just watching You're justfunny, Like you actually really are so
(37:45):
witty and so funny. And Iknow sometimes you get a bad rap about
it, but like because sometimes yousay things and I'm like, oh,
that's bad. But at the sametime, like when you when you because
I've never worked with you, I'veonly watched she right, So like when
I worked with that, it waslike it was kind of fun to watch
from the sidelines and just see youkind of in your element and like do
(38:07):
your thing. And the other dayI was getting asked for my interview,
They're like, what do you thinkabout Brandy Staying She's like the Nicole Kidman
of reality TV? And I'm like, damn gray Is. I'm like she
is? I go she by theway, it's so fucked up, because
I was said that, like wait, now I have to go back and
look and see if she had ascan a sex scandal anywhere. Oh right,
(38:30):
God, that's so funny. No, um no, But like I
think you were just referencing the factthat you do a lot of like reality
TV and you're well known in thatspace or whatever, and as I agree
it, I mean, like you'rereally good at You're really good at what
you do, so good for you. Like I, I'm good at what
I do because I'm just super likeblunt and like just I just have a
(38:51):
very um authentic reaction to things.But like I'm not, I don't like
the difference between like you and meis like I actually I get nervous to
say some things because I don't wantto upset somebody. You're just like fuck
you, you just like you knowwhat I mean. It's you're just basically
nicer than me. You're just nicerthan me. I mean, I don't
(39:15):
like to hurt people's feeling It's likeI actually really don't enjoy hurting people's feelings,
and I'm sure you don't either,But like you get to the point
where you're just like I'm still pissedoff at you. You're willing to say
it, where I'm like, oh, well, you're kind of being a
Meani head right now, Like youknow, that's what I would say.
What I say mostly is the truth. I just can't. I'm like,
okay, you're like I just everyone'sthinking it, and I'm like, okay,
(39:37):
so you're a Debbie downer. You'resuper fun, Like I mean,
you know what I mean, LikeI get it together, but I like
I had beef with someone going inwe squashed that and it was fine and
everything, Like I can get overthings very easily. We can like resolve
just like, let's have a conversation. I need to understand why this went
(39:59):
down the sway and I'm going tobe an asshole to you until we talk
about it. Yeah, yeah,no, And I admire the way that
you do go about things. Iactually to tell you the truth. I
wish I was able to be alittle bit more like that. I wish
I was able to like just justsay things and not be so concerned about,
(40:21):
you know, hurting somebody's feelings orlike I wish I had a little
bit more of that in me.Now, don't get me wrong, Like
if you push me far enough,like it takes about no. I saw
I saw a girl. I mean, you guys will see some drama like,
yeah, Gretchen doesn't take shit,let's be clear. But I feel
like you have a longer They haveto poke you a little bit longer because
(40:42):
you want it to be like youdon't want to interrupt at lunch. You
don't want to be you know,you don't want to be the bad guy.
But if someone's sitting there poking,poking, poking, yes, eventually
it only takes me one poke.It took you like for but you definitely
speak up and hold your own Yeah. Yeah, no. And that's the
thing, like I'll be cool,I'll give you some grace, I'll let
(41:05):
it go for a minute, butthen once you keep going, I'm just
like, okay, enough enough.And even it was interesting because as I
was getting interviewed, they were taught, they were going down the list of
like okay, she did this,and she did this, and she did
this, And I was like,well, no, wonder I got kissed
off. I was like, theyput it and yeah that little thing you're
like, oh okay, well yeahyeah yeah. Because she even said to
(41:28):
me, she's like she goes,do you think she came in there like
trying to like stir up stuff withyou or make the other women think stuff
about you, And I was like, wow, I didn't even like think
of it that way, But nowthat you put it in that like perspective,
maybe she was, you know,maybe she was trying to get my
dot. You know. Yeah,I mean I think too that like she
like I knew you and Vader knewyou beforehand. So I feel like it
(41:51):
took a little bit of time becauseI'm like, she's really nice. Let's
just like you have a clean slate, and like I'll get along and but
you know that's that's doesn't ever work. But we were trying. I got
you, guys, there's gonna benew drama for we're sitting all in a
house together for a week. We'renot gonna need to bring up past ship
old stuff. I know. Well, I was hoping that's what it was
(42:13):
going to be, Honestly, Iwas. I was kind of looking forward
to just you know, new stuffand not having to rehash old stuff.
And the stuff she was talking aboutwas ten years ago and we're inflated already
hashed it out, So it wasjust it felt it felt stale to me,
you know, that we were goingback there. No, I know,
I think that the audience like wantsto I don't know. I don't
(42:36):
know. As an audience number,I would want to see you guys like
rehash some old ship. But Ialso would want resolution at a point because
this can't go on forever. Likeit can't because we're gonna go in a
girls shop and everyone's coming. Youhave vic here coming, so we're gonna
have to figure this out. We'reat me you yes, no, you
(42:58):
were. You guys are gonna befriends. I'm gonna make it happen.
You if she's friends with Tama.Tama does not want anybody being friends with
me, so that's probably not goingto happen. But I love you for
triend well. I mean, Idon't know that Tama controls most I mean
like she's in control grown ups.Like I'm like, I'm friends with all
of you, guys, deal withit. I mean, if you're a
strong person, like like, noone can get in my head about someone
(43:22):
else. I have to make upmy own mind about them. Yeah,
no, I know I agree withyou on that, but we'll see.
I mean, I'm on for it. I'm at a point in my life.
I'm freaking forty five years of age. I'm a mom I don't.
I don't care to like hold onto the crap from the past. Well,
shit me either, you know whatI mean, Like, let's just
move on. Let's let's be adultsabout it. Let's just be done with
(43:45):
the crap. You know. Ithink it's a scorpio thing though, because
we have to get we have toget our side out, we have to
say it, we have to makeour points, and then we're ready to
move on. Where a lot ofpeople like they hold on to this resentment
and it just builds and builds.And my dad does this by the way,
it builds and builds, and thenthe story in his head changes because
(44:07):
he's been thinking about it for solong and he never said it, and
then all of a sudden, it'sa whole different blow up fight. And
I have no idea what he's talkingabout. Right, I'm like this instead
of my makeup over this, Like, what happens? What's your dad's sign?
He's a Gemini and so it wasmy ex husband, so it was
my kid. I have a lotof girl Gemini friends, but boy,
(44:30):
Geminis are a special breed and Imarry I did marry one, but it's
just they do definitely have two sidesto them, all of them, all
of the ones I have, evenmy son. Like there's a sweet side
and then there's the worst temper sideand you're like, who are you?
Yeah, yeah, me too.Most a lot of geminis in my life.
(44:52):
I think I only know one gymnithat's not like that, but a
lot of the gym niser they havedefinitely multiple personalities two side, Yeah.
Yeah. I also really enjoy virgos, but mostly the women more than virgo
men. Interesting. I don't knowif I if I know a lot of
virgos. I don't think I knowa lot of virgos. What a month
(45:13):
is virgo? I don't even know. It's September. Oh. So it's
like my d like my best friend, my dentist, like a few of
my friends, or virgos, andthey're like just the best humans I know.
So you know, it doesn't applyto everyone, Let's be clear.
I don't know. I'm sure there'ssome shitty virgos out there, but if
you enjoy a virgo, all right, Ryan, Ryan is telling me we
(45:34):
have to wrap this up, butit was so good talking to you,
and I'm hoping that we're I'm planningthe trip. I'll let you know what
happens with it. Um, I'mhoping we'll see you very soon and we
can get out of our mom lifefor a little while and be you.
You and Vader can do a wholephoto shoot. I'll be at the pool
and find me. I mean,I'll be at the pool with like,
(45:57):
I've copious amounts of wine, andVadra will come down to have her one
signature cocktail and it'll be great.Oh my god, that's so funny.
I love that you like just don'tplan the whole trip. And one thing,
I you know, I know,Okay, well when are you think?
But you gotta tell me when you'replanning on doing that, because I've
(46:17):
got a couple of trips planned,so I want to plan it where where
I can actually join you guys.Yeah, well we were thinking. We
were thinking not this weekend obviously,but the following weekend. Yeah, so
that's what like, that's what's onthe books right now. So we're just
trying to get like it all likehooked up and stuff. Still, but
maybe you know, the weekend afterI don't know, but right now we're
(46:39):
shooting for that. Okay, soundsgood. All right, maybe oh see
you sir. Okay, my love, great to talk to you. You
know, I really do adore Gretchen, and I adore Vicky, and I
adore Tamera. So I am.I just don't see how three grown women
(47:02):
can't figure it out. Is thisis something thing that happened on this trip
specific? No? No, sothey did have some really crazy I didn't
know what they were talking about becausethis is stuff that happened like ten years
ago and the OC and even thoughI watched it ten years ago, I
don't remember got it and I justscrudges. Yeah. Yeah, some people
(47:23):
hold on to things. I'm justnot that I have one grudge right now.
I'm just or actually too. Youdo have them, but then somehow
you're able to let go most ofthe time. Yeah, most of the
But I do want to preface theNicole Kidman comment. Okay, so this
is how I came. So Iwas talking. I'm not going to say
(47:44):
to who because I got offered todo another reality show, right and this
firston was talking shit. They werenot friends like we got. Brandy will
do any reality show that falls intoher fucking lap, like it's ridiculous and
like you, They're like you've enoughalready, Like stop, go get a
life. I'm like, okay,So because Nicole Kidman has done a million
(48:07):
movies and she's really good at it, should she stop because she's done too
many movies and just quit? Greatcomment? Right, great comment, And
I'm like, I'm fucking the noNicole Kidman of reality TV. I'm not
gonna stop. If I like theshow and the idea and I'm getting paid,
I'm going to do it forever.Yeah, so that's where that give
about. It wasn't just like me. But then now I have a scandal,
(48:28):
so I don't. I don't know. Was that on an interview as
you were being interviewed. No,I did say it on the trip,
but got it. I didn't saywho I was fighting. This person dislikes
to talk shit about me because they'rejealous because they can't get a job.
Oh my gosh. Okay, WellI love Gretchen and when she needs to
come back to the studio too.Yeah, we're gonna get people in here.
(48:51):
You guys. We have a newstudio where I'm so excited about it.
We're still getting it all set up. I'm gonna get him getting in
my own key. She's gonna gether own key. Yeah, we're gonna
do some photoshoot, some photo shootsin here, yes, um alright,
but no, it was great talkingto her, And it was just like
listening in on a conversation, iswhat it felt like. It was really
because we don't talk, don't talkto anyone on the phone. Like that's
(49:15):
what it is like, you know, it's we just went through some craziness
together and yeah, I forgot thatshe was even there. Yeah, no,
she was there. Yeah I forgot. Yeah no, And there was
like we had enough drama. Wedidn't need the life canceling shit anyway.
Um, love her. I'm puttingtogether a girl's shop for Eva Favored,
(49:36):
myself, Vicki, and Gretchen,so we'll see what. Thanks for listening
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